thatpotatogirl9 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Am I the only one who is weirder out by this? Yeah that kind of shit pisses me off but I really like how they address it in How I Met Your Mother because they call it like it is. Barney does it a lot and they never paint it as anything but blatant douchebaggery. They even go so far as to put Ted in that situation in the last season and show the right thing to do bring to just comfort and keep the dick put away. There are a lot of problems with that show but the way it attacks the toxic areas of masculinity is really great.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/20 05:37 PM
47	Woman finds video of husband having sex with her while she’s asleep. LVM in comments says she’s overreacting Don't forget the little quip discouraging even just getting away because then her son will be from a broken home. God I hate people like this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 02:34 AM
2	Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blown Wow. I get what you're trying to say but you're so far from understanding what that means that it's just hurtful to people like me. We don't get to have the experience that most "normal" people get, so when you say things like that it's like when people tell a gay person that they just haven't met the right opposite sex person yet. The asexual spectrum (which includes demisexuality) has absolutely nothing to do with the choice of who to get physical with and everything to do with the body's reac…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/20 12:39 AM
1	Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blown Part of it is that I'm demisexual which means I need an emotional connection to feel attracted to someone. That helps a lot with being able to evaluate the qualities someone has without as much pressure of wanting sex. But because sexuality isn't something you can change about yourself I'd recommend just having a set period of time before you're willing to get physical so that you can feel comfortable taking the time you need to evaluate a guy's qualities. The other thing for me was that I've al…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/20 10:06 PM
59	Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blown If it makes you feel any better I've dated exactly one man. All the guys before that just felt too wrong to go past the first date with so I held out and now I'm getting married next year.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/20 01:09 AM
150	I've decided to just stop dating completely. Do y'all ever wonder if they know its a rape threat and say shit like that anyway or if they're just dumb af?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/20 06:44 PM
12	But you were sleeping and eating just fine when you cheated though... THIS. This got at my entire point so much better than I did. I'm cautious with all men, but I downright don't trust a man without any female friends. As I get to know them I can figure out a lot about how they view their female friends based on how they treat me, but if they don't have any I'm waaaaaaay more likely to never end up trusting them. It's way too much of a risk if I can't see how they treat women outside of a romantic or sexual context.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 02:56 AM
114	But you were sleeping and eating just fine when you cheated though... I'm gonna slightly disagree with you. Lv men may not be able to have female friends without wanting to fuck them, but a high value man doesn't see women as a walking fuck doll. It's what makes them high value especially in a relationship. In the same way that they see you as a whole ass human being, they do the same for their female friends. That respect and value of you as a person that hvm have is also contributing to their not trying to cheat with female friends. They are loyal to you because…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 11:32 PM
23	Here's a little something for the Pickmeishas giving us a lurk. I couldn't agree more. I'm generally considered pretty undesirable because I refuse to perform the aspects of feminity that don't feel natural to me. I choose to be confident, strong, proud of my intelligence, and only do the appearance parts on my terms. I look and act very masculine as a result and it amazes me how so many "masculine" traits are really human traits and women just aren't allowed to have them. It turned out OK for me though because I learned to define myself by my successes inst…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/20 02:09 AM
100	Here's a little something for the Pickmeishas giving us a lurk. To add to the dialogue. Catty behavior is not natural to us. Being competetive over LVMs is something taught to us from a young age as a social role. That shit can be unlearned! It's just like any other gender associated behavior in that we do it because we think that's how women are supposed to act. It goes the same way for men. LVMs act the way that thay do because it's what they were taught is appropriate. In both cases it's wrong af and learning to live outside those roles is what makes peop…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/20 10:00 PM
14	No excuses for low-effort behavior this V-day! On my way home a random male STRANGER gave me this bouquets of roses. If your man puts in less effort than this stranger did for me, you two might as well be strangers. Nice things like this never happened to me when I was a Pickme. My fiance and I don't valentines day because neither of us really likes it and he still gave me a "happy valentines day" this morning. And before yall call me a pickmeisha I'm not. I waited forever for a man that met my standards and he exceeds them. I don't want a gift because due to past emotional abuse I'm already uncomfortable with the fact that he buys me things all the time and specifically gifts me video games I can't afford every few weeks. He just goes along with what I'm comfortable wi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 12:18 AM
53	Why does the majority of reddit hate women? Not too mention the fact that it's becoming common to call this sub the female mgtow because we dare to talk about our right to chose and be picky with who we date.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/20 11:00 PM
7	Fixed something I found on insta I feel this so hard. Everyone I know keeps telling me that every relationship has lots of fights but I'm 2 years in with my fiancé and the closest we've had to an argument or fight was a small disagreement last week about a video game we were playing. I cried but it was bc I forgot my antidepressant that day and I always cry over every little thing when that happens. We both respect each other too much to argue or fight.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/20 09:52 PM
36	Enough said Meanwhile my fiance refuses to weigh in on any decisions I make about my appearance because he doesn't want me to feel like I have to do something for him. He's such a HVM	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 06:58 PM