| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | So I created a hookup tinder account but I don’t know what to say to matches. | Escalation & Calibration | thatshinobiboiii | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | What do you say to a girl? | Conversation | thatshinobiboiii | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain if I was cold approached? | Field Report | thatshinobiboiii | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Girl keeps snapping me. | Field Report | thatshinobiboiii | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:14 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Would you prefer a relationship or having a bunch of casual sex with tons of women ?I disagree with most of your definition of what a common relationship or a serious relationship is. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?That’s how most forms are. At least in all the colleges I’ve been to. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?How do I host a party when my ra is directly across the hall from me | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?I live in a dorm | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:27 AM |
| 2 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?Nah it’s my floor group chat and a stoner group chat | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:50 AM |
| 0 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?How do you find parties. I’m in gc and stuff but no one’s saying anything about parties | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?That’s my point, I don’t have game or money | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 03:49 AM |
| 0 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?I didn’t say looks don’t play a factor lmao. Yeah we live in a material world, but we think and operate in a psychological one. Your psychological characteristics matter as much as your physical ones and if you’re missing either one your severely decrease your chances unless your a god in either one. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?I’m sure the looks help, but looks aren’t everything. I’m 6’2” and fairly muscular not really built, have good bone structure, and mid hair yet I can’t pull for shit unless I really drop my standards cause I’m poor and have no game. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 10:04 PM |
| 4 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?I’d rather date a professor than a career waitress. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:35 PM |
| -1 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?ItS lItErALlY cAuSe Of LoOkS | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:33 PM |
| 4 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?Depends on the person and the work | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:28 PM |
| 3 | How to find out a girls sexual orientationStart talking about dating and then say “by the way are you lesbian or bi?” | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 05:16 AM |
| -1 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Nah, older financially stable and confident guys tend to do better than young folks. It’s goes I know have a thing for Older men even if only in private and I’m in the USA. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 04:41 AM |
| 4 | dajting apps and some women who enjoy leading desperate guy on for attentionThat’s irrelevant to the fact that women view it as shallow and generally unattractive to have that stated in your bio. Most women also want a rich guy that spends money on them, but you don’t see that in every bio because it’s unattractive and shallow. Just put looking to meet new people and have some fun or something similar in your bio, it gets the same message across without coming across as shallow. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:36 AM |
| 5 | dajting apps and some women who enjoy leading desperate guy on for attentionYes it absolutely is, even though the two things arnt equitable, they are comparable in terms of the shallowness. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:26 AM |
| 12 | dajting apps and some women who enjoy leading desperate guy on for attentionIn this scenario and from the perspective of the woman it is. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Thailand a bad idea?I’m assuming the gender of your gay goldfish | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Thailand a bad idea?I expect your mom in my ass immediately | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Thailand a bad idea?Why are you offended about being offended. It’s pretty stupid. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Thailand a bad idea?Well that’s fucking stupid. Why would you get offended by a stranger correcting you on the internet. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Thailand a bad idea?Because we were talking about Thailand which is specifically known for having a lot of transgender male-to-female, cross dressers, and ladyboys. And we were talking about picking up women and you mentioned the likely hood of the subject in question flirting, touching, etc. we both know what you meant, I was simply providing a correction for you so as not to confuse other readers. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:15 AM |
| -1 | Thailand a bad idea?But like it’s true. Like that’s what they’re called. Whether you agree with it or not isn’t my business but calling them trans men is just needlessly confusing and inaccurate. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless.. Any recommendations?At least in my age group actually unhealthily fat is about 10-20% maybe, even that’s kinda stretching it. Thick or a healthy amount of chubbs about 40-60% based off what I’ve seen. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 08:00 PM |
| -4 | Thailand a bad idea?*trans women | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Thailand a bad idea?Femboy probably, a transgender individual probably not unless they’re early on in their transition. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless.. Any recommendations?90% of women are definitely not fat. They’re a bit thicker than they used to be in general which is good because it means that the extremely unhealthy and unsustainable model aesthetic is slowly being pushed out for the general population. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless.. Any recommendations?Some standards does not equal perfect standards. Of your partner does not equal you (at least in the respective physique) than your standards are too high. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Name is ClintCould always start going by your middle name | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Name is ClintClint Barton, he’s Hawkeye in avengers. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | The penis barrierI don’t take my dick out till after I’ve already been touching her pussy usually and it’s generally a done deal by then. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:23 PM |
| 2 | What does confidence mean to you?Learning to let go of fear, and act despite it. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Why do guy friends stop talking to you after you reject them?Both. Especially as time passes. In the beginning we would just kinda ig softly ignore each other in the freind group and slowly got more comfortable being platonic. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:56 PM |
| 6 | Why do guy friends stop talking to you after you reject them?Well you usually wouldn’t have to do all of that. I’m still freinds with people who rejected me and it’s been fine. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | My gf just won a satisfyer which she really wanted, but our action isn’t that frequent. Will this spice our stuff up or should I be worried?Research how to do it and communicate with her so you know what makes her feel good with it | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 03:52 AM |
| 9 | How to initiate touch?See this is what I’ve needed for ages. Thank you so much. Every time I ask for concrete examples people give abstract theories about it. It’s like no I need a game plan to at least build off of. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | is your goal one woman or multiple?Both. Multiple until I find one I like enough to wanna stay with | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 03:47 PM |
| 7 | How am I supposed to get more experience with sex and relationships when nobody will give me a chance?As a fellow shy dude, that is how it works. It just takes a fucking long time and a lot of exposure therapy. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:25 AM |
| 4 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”You must hang around some pretty good dudes. I’d say 95% of the men I’ve met bash women who they find unattractive, most of them it seems to be because they are insecure about a part of themselves. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:49 AM |
| 2 | She wants to hang out in the morningYeah, an ego balanced with a healthy dose of humility is what most people should strive for. As that’s part of what creates a sense of authentic confidence. If you find a partner who wants you to be in full control and make every decision than that’s great, most of my relationships have been better with communication and stating boundaries/being straight forward about what you want and how. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | She wants to hang out in the morningNah not really. Especially for a first date if you’re not trynna pull right away, coffee dates are fantastic. There’s so much you can do on morning dates to create a connection. I work night shifts so I don’t exactly have any other option. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:45 AM |
| 3 | She wants to hang out in the morningI mean I say no to woman all the time, although not cause it’s a morning date that’s stupid, nor if they call the shots cause irdgaf and it doesn’t really affect me or my life in a negative way. And morning dates can absolutely be romantic. I personally have no option besides morning and afternoon dates cause of my work schedule so morning dates are fine by me. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:39 PM |
| 7 | She wants to hang out in the morningHow the fuck is that pussy scraps lol. She’s just saying when she’s free, which he asked, and they’re going on a date. I fail to see the problem here. If you can explain any legitimate reason why a woman stating her availability is a reason not to go on a date with her I’ll give you a high five. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | She wants to hang out in the morningBecause? Morning dates are awesome. Especially for someone like me who works night shift, most girls are still open to sex in the morning. Morning dates are just such a fantastic way to start the day. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:28 PM |
| 5 | She wants to hang out in the morningOr she already has plans in the evening and can only meet in the morning. She’s hardly in full control, there’s barely an interaction to control, she’s just stating when she’s available, which she’s done twice. If he tries to push her to meet a different time it would likely be a turn off for her after she clearly set a time she’s free. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:26 PM |
| 33 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”Yeah the majority of men bash women they don’t find attractive, usually in a subtle way but sometimes it’s outright like this dude I know who audible gags everytime he sees a girl with roles at the beach, meanwhile this bitch looks like slender man. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 11:41 AM |
| 2 | it's called the game for a reason, and you are the playerThis is generally been my experience with women, and definitely the experience the people who pull a lot in my life have had | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 11:39 AM |
| 16 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?I don’t get hundreds but I do get enough that I just don’t have the patience time or energy to continue respond to all of them | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:42 AM |
| 9 | This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why?See it’s the other way around for me. All my long term relationships were built around us communicating healthily me setting boundaries and me setting it up in a romantic way. It’s more that girls like decisiveness and someone who is strong and stable, toxic men tend to be those things, at least at first. You might be being nice in a polite way but not in a strong, decisive, confident way | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:54 AM |
| 7 | Online dating is deadSocial media is terrible for news. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:34 AM |
| 25 | What is good sex?Depends on my mood. Sometimes I want rough animalistic carnage, sometimes I want to be softly ridden while she kisses my neck and face. I’d say variety and initiative are the two most important things for me with sex (and enthusiasm ofc) | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How can I talk to this girl I’ve never spoken to beforeI swear this is just a paid ad at this point | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I really just want a LTR and family with a high value woman, what can I do over the next few years to make myself into a high value man?To be fair I’d rather do this than pay 10000 to her dad so I can maybe marry her. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Comic-ConI can’t go to bars so I can’t say if I would pull more there, but nerdy/geeky girls are my bread and butter, and I’ve known loads of people who met their SO or hooked up at a con. I mean it’s a building full of mostly young adult horny nerds dressed in provocative costumes with alcohol involved, but you just have to understand that everyone is there to geek out first, hookup/date second. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:38 PM |
| 10 | Comic-ConNo no no. Comic-Con is a great place to pick girls up, I’ve been there many times, I’ve known lots of people who meet others at cons. As long as your not weird about it shouldn’t too hard. Just, don’t go only for the women, go to actually have fun and geek out while talking to women throughout your time. Women have nose for finding men who are only looking for sex. You seem like a nice chill dude, and such so you shouldn’t have a problem. I’m mostly giving these warnings as a general bit of pers… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Comic-ConMeh. It’s fairly easy to pickup girls there, even as a creep. My uncle comes off quite creepy cause of this weird whisper thing he does that he thinks is sexy, yet he’s pulled tons of bitties from comic con (as in like four) but still! He doesn’t even really try that much, he only goes for the ones that are his type and that he can have a convo with. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:31 PM |
| 7 | Comic-ConBe aware that most women who are in costume there are getting hit on almost non stop. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:29 PM |
| 9 | “I bet that you can’t fuck that girl.”This sounds toxic and shallow as fuck. I never see me or the other person as a prize, when people do that they get a warped perspective with inflated views on one or the other. I just treat em like a person that I’m interested in getting to know and ask questions/talk like that. Girls can tell when you’re trying to hard, and they can tell when you’re casually feeling things out and just having a normal human interaction. They usually respond more positively to the latter. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 09:11 AM |
| 1 | When telling stories what kind of emotions are you trying to evoke in your dating partner?I didn’t realize people planned out conversations. I always just wing it | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:21 AM |
| -2 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.Because she’s insecure about the fact that she’s with someone. Some might actually want to show off their food but aside from that you’re fucked. I personally don’t like when people make a point out of excluding people they deem unacceptable to society and will refuse to be a part of their lives in the future. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)See I get that, but it only gives extremes, I have trouble with the in between parts. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)I know what the words mean but not how it can be applied to escalation. What does escalation being a linear function even imply. What qualifies as the next “point” of escalation. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:02 AM |
| 2 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)Yeah your explanation for escalation was incredibly confusing | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagIdk, almost every girl I gave flowers to within the first month of dating ended up being a long term girlfriend, one just ended up being a fuck buddy. And yeah it’s simply a nice gesture nothing more nothing less, how she takes it and interprets the action doesn’t matter to me and doesn’t change the actual meaning of the gesture. I give flowers to women in my life constantly, whether it’s to celebrate a freinds achievement, as a gift for a family member, or as a nice romantic gesture for a poten… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagIt’s not simp behavior, because I just wanted to do something nice for someone I thought would appreciate it. Simp implies I’m doing it because I expect something of her, or in an effort to make her my girlfriend or fuck her. It’s not it’s simply a nice gesture nothing more nothing less. I forgot that you passed a law that giving flowers is reserved for girlfreinds. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagI mean I don’t really post in general aside from comments and have been called a simp very few times in general. I’m mostly speaking from observational standpoint. And if people consistently had a skewed view of what being bitch meant and consistently used to to put others down in a sub like this than I would say that it’s perfectly fine to call it out then too. I’m confused why you care so much that this man called out a toxic and unjustified frequent behavior. I personally think that communiti… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagExcept it’s particularly a problem in this community and others like it that whenever someone posts about an interaction with a women that involved them doing something nice/kind/romantic to a girl they’re called a simp. That’s what this dude is talking about. I don’t see a problem with him calling out douche bag behavior in the community that is relatively common. I’ve had freinds jokingly call me a simp before, but aside from that every time I hear the word simp it’s on social media and usuall… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagBeing a simp does make it harder. Calling someone a simp because you don’t agree with a singular action they made is fucking idiotic and makes you a douchebag. For example if I like a girl enough and her personality calls for it I would bring her flowers on our third date. Now a lot of men if I just told them I was bringing flowers on a third date would call that simp behavior, imo it’s not. He’s not saying it’s okay to be a simp, he’s saying it’s not okay to call someone a simp just because the… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Meaningless in getting girlsOp didn’t say that’s the type of girl he wants to date. I know most men I’m close with certainly don’t want to date someone like that, it sounds boring as fuck. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:05 PM |
| 4 | QuestionThat is the most brain dead and uneducated take over ever heard on eating pussy in my entire life. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | What is the appeal of bad boysHe doesn’t mean kind individuals when he says nice guys, he means a specific type of man that feels entitled to women because they’re “nice” to them. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:31 AM |
| 8 | Why do you guys want to make out on the first dateIdk what men you talk to but most I know definitely want their dates to want them for personality unless they’re explicitly looking for hookups. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | The clubThat’s sounds like you need to know people which I do not, nor do people want to know me. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Replying to Instagram stories does it even give you a change?I would say if you don’t have another legitimate reason for commenting on her post. Like making a pun or relating to what’s being posted about, then don’t even bother. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 10:34 AM |
| 5 | Best places to meet girls while still living at home?Yeah I wouldn’t recommend hitting on a girl at the gym or in grocery stores unless a conversation happens naturally. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Why are women such in the moment creatures?I’ve ghosted loads of girl, mostly on accident but ye. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:02 AM |
| -1 | Next move?Jesus Christ my guy, there’s this place as far north as north goes, I think you need to go there and chill for a bit. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:53 AM |
| 16 | Next move?That’s a bit evasive. Kinda like you and that phone call. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules?If you wanna play the game, you have to follow the rules. Or you could try cheating but you’ll likely get caught called out and no one will want to play with you again. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | how to escalate to casual hookup without being sleazy?Yes we’ve been over this before. It’s okay I know you need things repeated before, I’ll emphasize it for you this time, “I HAVE NO LIFE.” Consequently, since I have no life, I like to spend my time wasting assholes time like yours and dragging on your bitter self hatred induced rants. And nah I really don’t, I just have fun wasting assholes’ time. Like I’ll literally keep replying until you’re either dead or give up. And she definitely wasn’t asking a stupid question, it’s very valid for someone… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:50 AM |
| 1 | how to escalate to casual hookup without being sleazy?Yes I’ve admitted many times before on Reddit that I have no life lol. Although surfing Reddit isn’t Indicative of that, although insulting random people on random posts for no reason whatsoever is. Idgaf a fuck if you insult me cause most of your insults are valid and not really insults just observations lol, I’m arguing with you being a douche bag toward the girl in the post for no reason other than you feel your little wee wee tingle. I don’t need to have comebacks nor do I care if they’re go… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | how to escalate to casual hookup without being sleazy?It wasn’t a stupid question or answer. It was an innocent genuine request for advice, and you gave a douche bag answer cause you have no life, it was fairly well constructed, it just was bitter and full of projection. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | how to escalate to casual hookup without being sleazy?I don’t have a go to insult cause I’m not a dick the regularly goes around insulting people who ask innocent questions. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:24 AM |
| 2 | how to escalate to casual hookup without being sleazy?Nah, you’re just a bitter prick who’ll die angry and with regret. Edit: I am a pussy though you’re right about that, hence why I’m on this sub with you | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:22 AM |
| 4 | how to escalate to casual hookup without being sleazy?Naw, it doesn’t. You just went on a bitter pointless rant that didn’t contribute to this post or community. The whole point of this sub is to help people slide, and finish it off because most of us don’t know how ourselves. I could literally have a girl on the couch next to me with her arms around my torso and I won’t know how to finish. That’s why I’m here, I’ve been in that position and I don’t want to be anymore, I want to learn how to escalate in an attractive way and not come off as a creep… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:19 AM |
| 3 | how to escalate to casual hookup without being sleazy?No no he meant your reading comprehension and I agree with him. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Going to Amsterdam soon what can I expect?Me my brother, dad, and uncles got really stoned and walked up and down the red district like 20 times and did a few tours that’s about it. Oh we also got robbed. My uncle and dad tried to flirt but mostly got ignored and they’re usually able to pull something. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:05 AM |
| 5 | Do you call woman cute?Nah the key is to find a slight insecurity that no one notices and compliment that. They go ducking crazy for it. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Does it mean anything if a girl asks you why you get nervous and if you have a gf?You’re gonna get hurt if you don’t say anything and she starts dating someone so might as well risk it now. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?Because they’re afraid of being labeled a creep or a predator. That’s why so many bi guys just stick with guys, it’s far easier to just hookup and talk to guys than girls. The risk to reward is too great. My one friend asked a girl for her number and she laughed in his face and shouted I don’t know you. Granted he did ask in a uncomfortable way, but the only reason she reacted like that is cause he’s a tall, awkward, gangly, childish, nerdy dude who’s a bit off. The dude literally has no concept… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | To the low value menThese people are lame. I appreciate your message bro | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman?Yes. Absolutely. If I could have a sit down with a woman and explain my issues regarding then it would help tremendously | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likePlus I literally said you’re right about that comment and proceeded to say I’m talking about a different comment. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeAnd I’m gonna link the one I’m talking about since this is my comment thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vzd1i4/guy_at_work_i_like/iga5tzp/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeYou right but in your initial teply to my first comment you said smiling and eye contact is a flirting tactic. You didn’t mention complimenting there, and it’s not flirting. In no universe is smiling and looking flirting unless you wink at them or something but then it’s just weird. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeCompliment is written no where in that comment. It’s only talking about smoking and staring. Smiling is not a compliment | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeOh the compliment bit wasn’t stated in this comment thread which was made about eye contact. Compliments from a girl is obviously flirting. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeI mean I didn’t don’t vote up or down so idk what you’re talking about, what you said is possible it just seems like the least likely case. I know if I was in his place I would be oblivious. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeBoth combined = someone being friendly. I smile at everyone who I make eye contact with pretty much as a gesture of kindness. I see girls smile at me all the time to if we make eye contact. Never once had it crossed my mind that they’re flirting. They either do that or look away super quick, especially in a setting that isn’t conducive to flirting I’ve never heard of a guy considering that flirting. Although I also feel flirting standards and practices are different now compared to before. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:21 PM |
| 8 | Guy at work i likeNah he’s definitely either oblivious or anxious | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:09 AM |
| 39 | Guy at work i likeI’ve never under stand why girls think staring gets guys attention. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman?Depends on the girl. Some are willing to travel, usually with an added fee though. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:52 AM |
| 6 | How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman?There’s a huge difference between prostitutes who are professional and then prostitutes who have no other choice. Quality verified ones have lower Sti rates than the general population and run it very much like any other professional service. If they do offer bareback but don’t require you to provide a recent sti test then they are not if good quality and should be avoided. Any that ask you to pay more than ~60$ deposit before meeting or multiple payments are scams. Most quality ones also requir… | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:48 AM |
| 2 | How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman?Yessir | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:43 AM |
| 8 | How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman?I just looked up “how to find a safe and quality prostitute Reddit” on safari and clicked on a bunch till I found a prostitute subreddit that had a guide. Be warned, most quality prostitutes are ~400 an hour. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Is a woman staring at you a tease or not?Depends on the type of state but usually it gives me butterflies cause it feels like she genuinely likes me and wants to listen to me. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 05:17 AM |
| 4 | How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman?It’s pretty easy. There’s a couple guides on Reddit. I did it cause I have social anxiety and can’t escalate at all. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 05:16 AM |
| 2 | My close friend removed me from his close friends story and I asked him why, he said it’s for girls and I said he got his homeboys in there and he said yea, I asked how come I ain’t and I told him I’m not a snitch and he said no offense but “can’t be too sure”. I want to distance myself now.Well you’d have better luck getting advice for this on the appropriate sub | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Question with the girl I like,You gotta kinda just say those things in passing and move along at first. You can’t make it seem like it’s a big deal to you. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 10:24 AM |
| -3 | Question with the girl I like,Nah that’s cap. From my experience being surrounded by the incredibly shy and socially anxious girls they absolutely would. We don’t have enough context in this scenario to make a decision though. Even if she wasn’t interested that still a really unusual thing to say. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 10:23 AM |
| 22 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?Yeah if it’s the first date, unless it’s explicit hookup, then that’s kinda of a dick move to make her wait while you get ready. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Are my jokes really that bad?Yeah none of that was humble bragging | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | I have 3 date with at beach and after we have a dinner and she reply short. she is not interessed?Ah fair enough. I figured from your somewhat broken English. Idk if you’ve tried this but there are websites and apps that help you practice texting and verbiage, should help with your texting game a bit too. If you have any friends who are good at texting in English see if they can help you practice with some fake convos and ask them for how you can improve certain sentences. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | I have 3 date with at beach and after we have a dinner and she reply short. she is not interessed?Is english not your first language? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | I have 3 date with at beach and after we have a dinner and she reply short. she is not interessed?Yeah man. I don’t know what the hell you’re talking about she’s clearly interested, and there’s not much else for her to say to you regarding the date. Overthinking murders relationships. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Hey I was wondering how much success cold approaching you’ve had since you’ve been working on yourself and changed? I’m social anxious and stuff but I want to change I just feel like even if I try to my energy will stay the same. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Met a cutie who flirts with me, but she’s married…Been doing it for months can confirm | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 02:02 PM |
| 29 | ThoughtsWhen a hot guy does it, it comes across as insecure too you just don’t care cause you want his dick. Just ignore the ugly ones and sleep with who you want like the majority of women. I don’t understand the purpose of this post. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:22 AM |
| 0 | How do you go to clubs for night game?Well you’re shit out of luck then. There should be some relatively normal/middle class ones that arnt dangerous if you have common sense. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you go to clubs for night game?Where the fuck are you going to nightclubs that you can’t find a shitty underground one? | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 06:22 AM |
| 7 | Is America the greatest country in the world for dating?People are entitled and shallow. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:58 AM |
| 3 | I can't fake it til I make it. Everyone is boring to me.I recommend trying cognitive behavioral therapy if you haven’t yet. It’s a lot more effective at managing symptoms of disorders like bpd, adhd, and depression because it restructures the way your mind approaches things and the way you think. It’s difficult to find a therapist who’s good in that though. Psychiatrists are great for mental health but they tend to be more clinical than your typical therapist. And if you don’t have a therapist you connect with well or like than your SOL | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:25 AM |
| 3 | I can't fake it til I make it. Everyone is boring to me.What type of therapy are you doing? Have you specified your issues? Did you get a therapists you click well with? Do you understand how therapy is supposed to work and how it helps people? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:08 AM |
| 5 | I can't fake it til I make it. Everyone is boring to me.These are a bunch of dudes of all ages dealing with similar but vastly differing experiences. You need therapy bro, not this circle jerk. It won’t help with what you described. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:52 AM |
| 5 | Why is flirting with girls so hard?There’s so much wrong with these paragraphs. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you say to a girl?They usually get bored before that. I have no problem having mundane conversations with girls, mundane convos doesn’t get them attracted to me though. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps snapping me.Yes I also understand that like I said I considered her a lost cause and was saying goodbye to her and thanking her for her kindness I never plan or planned to talk to her again since I was already done with her. I don’t know how to do anything you listed in the last sentence. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps snapping me.I know, I said that cause it was already a lost cause and I was telling her that I’m sorry for wasting her time since I’m not gonna take it anywhere. Yeah but I can’t do humorous fun and playful. Like idk how at all. Like I just psychological can’t make or understand jokes, unexpected humor I laugh at but actual jokes that people tell I have to guess if it’s a joke or not and pretend to laugh. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps snapping me.Basically what I did lmao | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps snapping me.See I get that but that doesn’t tell me what exactly to say and do. I appreciate the effort though | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps snapping me.Yeah I figured but it’s not just simplistic like she gets really into our convos and based off her snap score I don’t understand how she could do that with everyone. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:21 AM |
| 1 | How far in advanced to set date is too far?At least an hour. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | 4 dates with this woman who rejected. I'm now very confused.How though? How do you flirt? Like what exactly do you say and do to flirt and escalate. I know people say to tough her and make slight sexual comments and jokes etc and do it like that, but what exactly do you say and do to escalate. I sorta used to know what to say and do but now I have no idea. I wish there was a cashe of all the things successful guys said and did so I could read and learn from it. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Just As I Thought It Would HappenNo one should be a priority unless it’s your kid or a loved one who’s dealing with something. That doesn’t mean ignore them but find a happy balanced. No one likes a clingy sap who just butters you up. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How much money do I need to get a gfBeing whit what’s little to do with attracting girls unless your already a seven or above. 2. Yes you need money but you also need an attractive personality, focus on that more than anything else. 3.I have hired a prostitute, all I can say is make sure you use a reliable website and go to the sexworkers subreddits here if your serious about it, anything under 400 is either a scam or you’ll get stds/robbed, if it’s over that amount it’s still likely a scam, don’t give any money, unless it’s a ver… | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:12 AM |
| 1 | What do guys mean by : I never had trouble getting women ?I said likely and probably because I understand there are definitely outliers like yourself, and by rejected I don’t just mean you ask them out and the say no but also showing romantic interesting/flirting with someone who doesn’t reciprocate | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 02:35 AM |
| 5 | What do guys mean by : I never had trouble getting women ?Yeah and the guy you responded to didn’t say anything about those guys and was responding to your statement about dropping standards. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Attractive girls I’m see don’t seem to know how to have a conversationMost people’s favorite person and topic is themselves and they either don’t care or don’t feel comfortable inquiring about others. It’s particularly bad with certain attractive people who feed off attention | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 12:03 AM |
| 10 | What do guys mean by : I never had trouble getting women ?That’s not how it works. Even the most attractive guy on the planet likely has gotten rejected. Just like the most attractive woman has probably gotten rejected. Beauty is subjective to an extent and some people arnt attracted to looks at all, a lot of women are willing to pursue a less attractive man if it’s someone they get along with better or who isn’t boring. A lot of the really attractive people are like talking to rocks since they haven’t had to struggle socially as much, and as result th… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 11:53 PM |
| 6 | What do guys mean by : I never had trouble getting women ?You make zero sense bro | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you say to a girl?That was an incredibly unhelpful read. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Day gaming at grocery store?Yurp. I can’t even talk to people on online games :) | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:35 AM |
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