thatsmisswitchtoyou Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
87	Every man on Reddit This was terrifying 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/22 03:56 PM
13	TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔 Right? There's just.. I can't even believe it. My brain can't seem to conjure up any kind of headspace where this could be real.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 01:26 PM
18	TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔 I literally can't believe what I read.... my brain is not processing that at all, and honestly I don't even want to waste any time trying. That is one of the most disturbing things I've had the misfortune of reading. How could she seriously feed into that?? Does she even realize that her daughters are at an insanely high risk for that predator to actually act on THEM??? This is vile. Absolutely vile. And I'm sorry, the guy with a photo of his daughter in a thong?! Wtf??? Literally wtf?? There is…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 01:20 PM
3	Imagine being this useless I hate how people found this endearing.... seriously?!?! 🤮 Spare me. This is another man who is incapable of performing basic shared household tasks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 04:44 PM
45	Purposefully doing things to drive up his gf’s utility bill…I thought I read it all 🤦🏼‍♀️ (repost!) The jerks who feel this deep desire to "teach her a lesson"! The sad part is that she initially felt bad for him because he would be paying the mortgage which would be way more. She offered to pay part in the beginning too... but no. She sounds like a kind, honest, and trustworthy person, all the while he's being a douche canoe of a human. Their cruelty knows no bounds.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 02:20 PM
31	You might've seen the article on men creating AI girlfriends and verbally abusing them. I was curious after that news came out and decided to download Replika (where these incidents occured). This is the program that they were abusing. This.. is the other half of our species. I can't even begin to understand any of what I just read in both articles posted in this thread. Men are abusive to real live women, and gasp now they are also abusive towards AI. The fact that anyone thinks AI dolls will help men with their problems is beyond me... Somehow it is supposed to reduce sex crimes? Didn't they say this about porn too? Sounds like we are moving the goal posts and just allowing men to abuse even more than they already do.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 02:14 PM
14	Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrate But he got her TWO cheesecakes... that's some serious love right there.... Since when does two cheesecakes amount to anything other than delicious? This whole story just sounds... insane. From her and him, if it's even real.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 08:16 PM
20	Was your dad an HVM? This is difficult in a way because while my father was great in these areas: sacrificing for his family, hard working, and generous. He was/is also sexist, stubborn, refuses to listen to the experiences of his daughters/other women, always "jokes" about mother's weight etc, victim blames, weaponizes religion, and I'm sure there's more. While I've always had a hard time with him and his opinions, he would be the very first person to help in a crisis or even if you just don't know how to/don't fee…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/21 07:46 PM
11	Evidently it’s necessary to confirm upfront if their listed location is where they actually live 🚩 I'm afraid my sister is this way. Instead of just taking men at face value when they show themselves she continues talking to them and explaining things to them. I understand her job requires her to move around a lot and can be lonely for her, but to provide men with excuses to just not be lonely is just not it. I also noticed she tends to always talk about men she's become close with and kept as close friends, but no women. She will tell me the stupid and straight up sexist things they say, but…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/21 02:31 PM
175	Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum! In a world where men respected women that would be the norm. Sadly that is not the world we live in. The fact that men even want to carry out sexual acts that require a safe word is just super disturbing. It is quite literally another way of coercing women into doing things they likely don't want to do in the first place. Otherwise you wouldn't need a safe word. It would just be, oh hey I'm not into this right now. Full stop.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/21 04:54 PM
64	Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum! Yea, that's a no from me. Sex should be safe to start with, so in reality the whole "safe word" is just another form of coercion in my mind. This is the kind of stuff that reinforces the thought that violent and degrading sex towards women is "ok" because "Well we have a safe word!". It allows men to carry out sex acts that, from the start, their partners are not ok with because they provide the illusion of safety through a "safe word". Like, "Hey let me try this painful or uncomfortable thing t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/21 04:49 PM
43	This post will probably be removed. I've lurked here longer than I've had an account and contributed here, but I see your point. I've probably lurked for a good year, and over the year there has been an increase in posts that expose us to men's depraved behaviors vs content to build ourselves and each other up. I've even added comments on those posts, and your post made me do a bit of a double take. Now, I know I'm new here in terms of contributing content, but it would be nice to see things that don't bring more focus and attenti…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 12:24 PM
6	Woman killed by apartment maintenance man, who had a key. We need to push for a Miya Marcano law. I was always scared of this happening. I can't stand how men react to rejection. It isn't always a recent rejection either. It could literally be a rejection from middle or high school, and they still carry anger and resentment over it. I legit had a high school ex who wanted to "brand" himself to remember the pain from the breakup. Sorry, what... One of his friends had actually done this to himself (where my ex got the idea from), and omg... I hope he looks at the scar every day with embarrassment and shame. I can't imagine living l…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 12:00 PM
12	Woman killed by apartment maintenance man, who had a key. We need to push for a Miya Marcano law. I was always scared of this happening. The maintenance crew where I used to live were given keys to everyone's apartments. In the event of emergency, or needed to schedule yearly service, etc. I hated it. One time while I was just lounging around drinking my morning coffee and my door was unlocked and opened about a foot. The door stopped and I went to get up, and then the door immediately shut. I emailed the office and asked if possibly a maintenance person was attempting to enter my apartment. I told her there wasn't even a knock. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 11:45 AM
3	«Men will sexualize us anyway so why cant we earn money off it?» I can't stand this mindset and argument. It aligns with the basic thought that you should just lower your standards because men won't meet then anyway, so why not just settle. That whole mindset is flawed and destructive for not just the women maintain it, but for those of us who don't. It justifies the idea that women are objects that can be bought for sexual gratification across the board. I can't understand that women really think this is empowering. You bring up an excellent point about the …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 12:19 PM
4	Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times. And men are seriously arguing that legalizing prostitution would stop rape and violence towards women..... uhh yea ok. I am so sick of seeing that topic debated on subs all the time, and the claim that it will "save" women. Despite the overwhelming evidence that, no it won't. Then there is the whole underlying tone of "Well if we could just buy women we wouldn't have to rape and abuse the other women!" Huh. Tell me more about how this is good for women... They do things like this because they tr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 02:44 AM
2	Weekly FDS Check-In I hear you. It is so hard when they rear their ugly heads again.. I would say it is upsetting because when these LVX reach out in any way it stirs up all of the negativity, hurt, disappointment, etc. We are human after all, and those things seem to take a while to heal. It can be tough and frustrating, but don't let him live rent free in your brain. He isn't worth it, and he never was clearly. He's a waste of any emotional reaction, and I'm telling you... feeling nothing towards these awful men …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 02:36 AM
4	Weekly FDS Check-In I hear you! The only thing I look forward to is the fall fashion. I feel like my fall and winter wardrobe is much more robust, better tailored, and more enjoyable! There's much more I feel like I can do when it stops being so hot and humid.. and of course layers and scarves!!! But the energy drop is real ☹	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 02:17 AM
28	Queens, how do you maintain being an HVW friend when your friends are being pick-me’s? Sometimes I find this difficult. My sister and I have become such good friends over the past few years, and we both tend to talk about FDS mindsets a lot. The problem is that she still seems to be a pick-me in real life application. For example: we talk about having high standards from all relationships, but she tolerates LVM as friends despite knowing and acknowledging they are LVM. I definitely challenge her and feel I can be honest with her, but at the end of the day she will still make the c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 03:27 PM
34	After all these years he realizes at 57. So all those men realize this when they get old snd deserves appreciation for it? Instead they should have realized at their youth and keep his partner comfortable and loved?! Such a waste Surely they know but just don't care. With the help of weaponized incompetence and shrugging all relationship responsibility and effort onto the woman, surely he has the free time to string together some thoughts and realizations! Right? Right?? 🙃🥴	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 12:22 PM
51	A bit of weaponized incompeDance Ah yes, more evidence that they know exactly what they're doing. My brother did this exact same thing growing up, and got away with it entirely. He would break equipment purposefully so he didn't have to do outside work... and it worked. My father got so tired of spending the time and money on repairs that guess what? Brother was no longer 'allowed' to operate equipment outside. Inside? Broke the vacuum by trying to vaccum up things that shouldn't be, never cleaned dishes properly, always "forgo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 11:57 AM
18	She asked her partner of 6 years out on their first date. He confessed to her that he was unattracted to her for 2 years This was my first thought too.. he clearly doesn't like her let alone love her enough to actually marry her. If he does actually marry her it will likely be because he's 'comfortable' and she is convenient at that point. Maybe it's just me, but the whole drunk and sharing secrets thing seems like a bad game in the first place.. but at least she knows now, and I hope she runs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 11:46 AM