| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 36 | Just stumbled on this sub.. Oh Lord! | MALE DEPRAVITY | thatsmyname12 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 04:29 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | When they lie about their ages on dating apps and think we won't notice 😂23? Disclaimer: At the time the picture was taken (20 years ago) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 07:00 AM |
| 38 | Most men are not dating to marry'Powder sperm' LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 08:13 AM |
| 8 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactGreat idea! I have a doorbell with camera for this exact reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:56 AM |
| 26 | When you have kids with a manchild, you are literally taking away resources from your children. It is child abuse to have kids with a man if you know he is immature, lazy, selfish, needy, and/or insecure.This post really resonates with me. My mother married a man-child (my father) . As a consequence she took out all of her frustrations on me physically and mentally because my father refused to pay for anything; clothing, food etc, he just didn't think it was his responsibility. The treatment I received from my mother still affects me to this day. And all because she chose the wrong man. She divorced him when I was 18 but the damage has been done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 10:21 AM |
| 128 | Why don’t they understand this lolThis reminds me of a time I cooked for a guy I was dating. Him: This is so nice, I usually have to cook and look after myself - sad face Me: 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Can We Tell The Truth About Plastic Surgery?Couldn't have said it better myself. Not all surgeries are done for/ to attract men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:04 AM |
| 0 | Not the pickmeshas getting excited over the bare minimum👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 9 | Can We Tell The Truth About Plastic Surgery?Happy for you! It's the best decision I ever made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:01 PM |
| 47 | Can We Tell The Truth About Plastic Surgery?I think it's down to how society perceives beauty. I had a HUGE nose (no medical issues) and hated it. I took the decision to have rhinoplasty in my mid 30's and I can honestly say it changed my life, people in general were/are nicer to me. Most of these people are people (men and women) that I'd known for years, the change in the dynamic of their friendship with me changed over night. It made me sad because I am the same person but the cold hard facts are that looks matter. The only people that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Let's talk about gaslighting for a secMy boss told me I was too sensitive because I called him out on his bullshit. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 06:00 PM |
| 17 | Ladies, let's learn how to change our own tyres, locks and bulbs. You need not call an LMV to come to your rescue.I've always thought this. Did some courses at night school for plumbing and electrics a few years ago. I'm also a qualified mechanic. The more us ladies know how to do these things the less we need men to do them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:23 PM |
| 26 | Being creeped out is perfectly validI had a date with a family friend a few years ago. I didn't find him attractive but he seemed nice and safe. I was wrong. After the date ended he tried to kiss me and got grabby I said no and pushed him away, he then started to cry pleading with me to let him fuck me. This was shocking enough but when I told my dad (lvm) his exact words were 'he was only playing'. I really wish that men took us seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 06:14 PM |
| 9 | NEVER DO HIS LAUNDRY SISThey miss what their exes did for them. This has been my experience 100%, it's scary. Can't wait for your post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 07:56 AM |
| 7 | One of my favourite things to do. Credit: byefilipeThis had me chuckling, I did this a month ago 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 08:27 PM |
| 11 | What’s a good comeback for “Why buy a cow when the milk is so cheap ?” Or “don’t buy a car without a test drive “ , things they say to try and lower your standards for sex ?Understand what you are saying. But it's just a retort to poke fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 11:55 AM |
| 24 | What’s a good comeback for “Why buy a cow when the milk is so cheap ?” Or “don’t buy a car without a test drive “ , things they say to try and lower your standards for sex ?Why buy the whole pig for a little bit of sausage? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 10:09 AM |
| 10 | First unmarried partner of UK prime minister, 24 years younger, started relationship whilst BJ still married to his previous wife. BJ could be her dad, was reported by neighbour for verbal abuse and questionable response to current health crisis.He's also got a child conceived while he was married to his high flying barrister wife. Definite LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 01:51 PM |
| 9 | First unmarried partner of UK prime minister, 24 years younger, started relationship whilst BJ still married to his previous wife. BJ could be her dad, was reported by neighbour for verbal abuse and questionable response to current health crisis.🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 01:46 PM |
| 5 | Hear hearrareinsults 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:29 AM |
| 4 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.Yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 09:30 PM |
| 22 | Remember, FDS is against BumbleI agree to a certain extent. I had a match that I let lapse which he renewed for another 24 hrs. Turns out he's alright so far... he's planned all our dates and pays for everything. I'm following FDS and it's working he hasn't even had a kiss from me yet and we've been seening each other twice a week since the end of January. Wish me luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 09:29 PM |
| 8 | This is why we cannot have anything “nice”True that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 09:13 AM |
| 5 | How LVM will treat you when you behave like a pickme... Pickmesha gets played, ladies...Yep! That's correct we do use that phrase 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Leveling up through networking100% agree. Also because of these experiences I am now a mentor to any woman that wants or needs help. Let's be the change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 08:12 AM |
| 9 | Leveling up through networkingI'm a Mechanical Engineer. Its almost impossible to network with other women in my field. Some women I've encountered view other women as competition which is quite disheartening. However, approaching women that are in other departments can be beneficial. Most of the ladies I have become friendly with over the years are women I've chatted to while using the locker room and/or on the way to the bathroom! Silly I know but it's worked for me. Good luck for next week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:37 PM |
| 12 | Why won’t he give up his good looking, flirty female friends ??Men cannot have female friends they are not attracted to sexually. Fact. Everyone of us has a guy friend that is attracted to us, if he wasn't he wouldn't be our friend 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:20 AM |
| 17 | Nothing ever screamed LVM like this guy🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 07:23 AM |
| 8 | They really lack self awareness....at my (male dominated) jobAll.the.time! I'm an engineer and all my colleagues are male. My usual reaction when they start critiquing women on their looks is 'Have YOU looked in the mirror?' When most of them look down at themselves they can't see their dicks or their feet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:50 AM |
| 42 | Absolute CRETIN cum-brain husband literally poisons his wife with his own SHIT because of his fetish. Men are literal animals and I have no wordsBy the sounds of it he was a HVM until 2 years ago or was he masquerading for 28 years? I'm shook.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Pick Me and most lvw behaviors come down to what was learned in the family growing up, past trauma, and low self worth. Love starts as an inside job.Thanks Sis, I am levelling up, it's a slow process. Parent, child relationships are so important and getting to the root cause of behaviour is key. Joining FDS has helped me a lot and also made me realise that I have been taking the right steps in regards to relationships of all types, I just needed confirmation. I've said this before but this sub is amazing, just WOW! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 10:26 AM |
| 3 | giorgio looks really young and radiant for 25yo with this gray beard and all those wrinklesRoast-a-scrote has me crying 😂. It should be a sub all by itself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 09:43 AM |
| 5 | Pick Me and most lvw behaviors come down to what was learned in the family growing up, past trauma, and low self worth. Love starts as an inside job.This. This is me 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 09:03 AM |
| 5 | And supposedly we’re the ones that are gold diggers.I would never have told him in the first place. What's mine is mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 08:22 AM |
| 8 | Especially #2. Stop giving people the benefit of the doubt. If they don’t reach out, put forth effort, or make you a priority, don’t keep hurting yourself by making excuses for their behavior.Amen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:25 AM |
| 10 | Humble lil' warning guide about avoiding pick-up tactics (I see red flags from dates here all the time)Brilliant guide, I was enthralled while reading and very disappointed when it came to an end. This information is Gold. I love this sub! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 09:42 AM |
| 12 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!I'm soooooo proud! Congratulations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 12:10 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on your age in your OLD profile?Don't lie. Revel in the glory that you are in your forties and look amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | OLD phenomenon: women asking men outExcellent idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 11:39 AM |
| 79 | "I was blindsided!!!"I work in a male dominated industry and used to travel a lot with my job and I've heard this countless times. Some co-workers regularly would cheat on their wives and when found out they would end up in divorce courts. One guy in particular, never hid his infidelity from his wife and had the audacity to return from one of our trips with a girlfriend in tow, with which he set up home with. He was 'blindsided' by his wife's wish for a divorce and still to this day moans about what happened to him.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | MEN have ruined my body image. Not women’s fashion magazines.Thank you for this! I haven't laughed this hard for ages 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Know your worth. Stop settling for less.It's not, thanks for pointing this out! I get the feeling that most of the women in this community are in their twenties. I joined this community because it has empowered me as a woman but now feel that to feel empowered I need to be younger? It's never too late to turn things around ladies , we all deserve the same respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 02:37 AM |
| 12 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?When I was in my 20's I took my boyfriend out for my birthday and paid for everything, petrol for his car so he could pick me up and gave him a gift... I'm 47 now and joined this sub a couple of weeks ago. I've been a pickmeisha all my life and being part of this community has been a godsend. I've fallen for love bombing, negging and everything in between. No more! Thank you FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:57 PM |
| 19 | So this has been playing out over r/AITA. Cheapskate man fights fiancée over her buying herself a decent wedding dress, tells her to get it from Wish, posts on Reddit about it, gets roasted and found out. Turns out he’s lying, and she’s caught him ankle-deep in it.And she was pregnant with their third. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:57 PM |
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