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Like I said, I've used it multiple times and had success. I didn't get this from AskReddit, it was an old sales trick I heard years ago. You've used this once and it failed.
/r/seduction05/11/12 09:12 PM
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I'm merely making a suggestion. What she replies could be anything. However, this has a 100% success rate for me. I have yet to hear "You don't know?" as a response.
/r/seduction05/11/12 09:09 PM
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You - "What's your name?" Her - "Huh? Joanne!!" You - "No, I meant your surname" Used this on multiple occasions, yet to fail. Edit: Formatting.
/r/seduction05/11/12 04:08 PM
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Say thank you. Or if you're looking for a cocky come back I often say, "Come on, is that the best line you got? You can do better than that". etc
/r/seduction26/07/12 03:25 PM
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What do you guys think of being in a relationship with a HB9/10 and they talk to you about their "problems". Not like alcoholism or some shit, just about Stephanie in work being such a bitch, or she had a really tough day in work. I want to support her, but I think I've made a mistake in the past of getting sucked into being a "fixer" and I in no uncertain terms want to have a sewing circle relationship with her like she would her friends. "It's ok babe, yeah, Steph sounds like a total bitch" bl…
/r/seduction24/07/12 03:21 PM
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Good!!! It reads like she's into you though man, just play it the way you have been and make sure she knows you are attracted to her. Show intent.
/r/seduction20/07/12 10:13 AM
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Well then.... What are you asking any of us for? I don't want to sound like a dick but you've obviously already made the decision not to do anything about it. I don't know the ins and outs of your social circle - you're looking to external sources to offer you guarantees of a positive response that we just cannot give you.
/r/seduction20/07/12 10:00 AM
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If you go for it... and it turns out she only wants attention... Who gives a shit??????!!!!!!!! You're not getting played, you're getting flirted with. Flirt back, go for a kiss. See what happens. What the hell have you got to lose (as long as your friend is cool with it, don't fuck him over). TL;DR Stop thinking start doing.
/r/seduction20/07/12 09:54 AM
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My rule of thumb is if she uses them. Use them. If not, don't.
/r/seduction12/07/12 04:16 PM
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If it's step 3 you're weary of I would suggest that when you're leaving single out your target and say, "Hey, look I really got go but it was cool chatting with you, [hand her phone] gimme your number and we can do this again".... That's the way I would do it but there's lots of ways. "Hey, look I really got go but it was cool chatting with you, I'd like to see you again, how can we make that happen?". At which point she will (assuming its gone well), offer her number to you. "Hey, look I really…
/r/seduction12/07/12 03:59 PM
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I'd be with MARSpu on this one. Similarly, I tend to mimic the feminine qualities in her text such as the exclamation points and smiley faces (but not x's). I don't think I've ever said "Bye" in a text though, usually "Gotta go! Later skater", "I'm just heading out to lunch, I'll text you Friday/see you at 4 etc :)", "Gotta hit the hay, big meeting tomorrow, Night!"... shit like that.
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:35 PM
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Can be flipped to, "It's always sunny in douchebagville"..
/r/seduction09/07/12 01:52 PM
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It seems as though you never really took any risk with the girls. You were happy to receive the attention and both phone numbers you got were asked for by the girls. Do you think that would be fair to say? What was your train of thought when it came to Bee? P.S.. I'm in Dublin. Send me a message if you want Sarge sometime!
/r/seduction06/07/12 01:07 PM
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Good. Have fun my man. Personally I don't think you should even remotely consider a "relationship yet"... that's got oneitis and neediness written all over it. Stay on game, keep the same attitude and frame you had before... Also... did you ever come clean and tell her you were 19 not 22? misread the sentence..
/r/seduction04/07/12 03:31 PM
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Qualification is basically your way of getting her to prove that shes good enough for you. For example, you might tell her that she's a little to conservative for you. If she replies by explaining to you how she's not conservative then she values you enough to prove you wrong and to seek approval... It seems like its counter intuitive but a lot of pick up really is..... Go through the side bar.
/r/seduction04/07/12 03:24 PM
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Girls can make great wingmen.. Stop joking around and be a good wing for your friends. Oh.. and in my experience girls don't often give good advice about relationships and women.
/r/seduction29/06/12 10:23 AM
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To an extent yes. I mean practice anything and you'll get good at it. I am witty in general, and expressing that wit as a means of attraction has come through building my own confidence. I do use some things that sort of come automatically depending on the context/situation. I've used them before - field tested by accident - and have worked out well so this is often the place I go to when I feel like I'm warming up. Are you witty/good with comebacks with your guy friends?
/r/seduction28/06/12 10:22 PM
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This is true. When I'm on my game my dialogue is excellent, its just that my dialogue is only excellent maybe 20% of the night, the rest of the time feels like a warm up to me. I still get great results, plenty of closes, very very little flaking, but I still want to do better so its like a little switch I can flick.
/r/seduction28/06/12 09:37 AM
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That's one of the best FR I've seen yet. Great how you oozed confidence. Ya gotta love the HBs who play back, it always makes it more fun. Anyway, good job man. It's great when you get yourself in the zone and your dialogue gets tight. BAM!
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:46 AM
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Stick to what you know gaming wise. I almost exclusively go for older women. I'm 25, my ex gf of 4 years is 34 so it's an identical age gap to yours. In my experience the majority of the time age really doesn't matter with women. It's just a little speed bump. I usually make a joke out of it initially along the lines of: Her: "So how old are you?" Me:"[obligatory] Guess" Her: "Ummm, 27?" Me: [I make another little joke] Her: "Ok but really, how old are you" Me: "Old enough not to answer a silly …
/r/seduction27/06/12 03:20 PM
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You don't think so? May I ask what you're basing that on? EDIT: I am a dumbass. Which is my style.
/r/seduction27/06/12 03:04 PM
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Logic.
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:57 PM
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Three wishes.... I like that.
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:56 PM
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Relationships, or more than a handful of dates where I actually find the girl interesting and want to get to know her have come through meeting them at work functions, friends weddings, through friends who have small get togethers (usually summer or Christmas) and night classes. I've never had anything that stuck from a girl I met in a bar or club. Although I do have a date on Saturday from a girl I met in a club at the weekend and she seemed fun. Oh, I also recently took up salsa dancing as a w…
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:54 PM
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You're missing the point. You're still going in with an attitude of expecting an outcome of a # close etc. You're not going to get turned down because all you are doing is talking. No, you don't decide to feel like shit, but you can decide to feel indifferent.
/r/seduction25/06/12 11:22 AM
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Follow this guys advice. Forget about any expected outcome from your chats with people. As far as you're concerned you're just there to have fun and maybe meet someone interesting. That's all. No # close, not setting up dates. Just. Talking. Your confidence will grow, just take baby steps man.
/r/seduction25/06/12 10:37 AM
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You're on vacation, right? Friendzoned or not just go for it. Go in for the kiss. Whats the worst that could happen?... Jealousy could be a good angle to come at her from also, chat up some girls in front of her, get an easy number close (even a fake number close as long as she sees). Sometimes women don't notice attraction until they feel that little twinge of jealousy and realise, "Hey... Why do I feel like this? I must like him."
/r/seduction23/06/12 07:23 PM
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Well done, onwards and upwards.
/r/seduction20/06/12 10:45 AM
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You never approach different women differently? Never? It's not so much that she's hotter than most women I go for, my reasoning behind it is this - I like to F close asap with most women. These being the ones that are attractive in looks, but don't necessarily have enough going on upstairs to interest me more than getting them into bed. On the occasion that I meet a girl that actually intrigues me and I want to get to know better, I game a little differently to remove buyers remorse. Sometimes …
/r/seduction19/06/12 02:13 PM
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Ah, I needed the formatting. If you're already getting a blow job, dude.. you're golden. Build the tension by making 2 or 3 steps forward, then pull back. Push. Push. Pull. Push. Push. Pull. EDIT: Watch a movie that you've both seen already, that will help with a bit of background noise and will allow you two to talk without her wanting to be glued to the TV.
/r/seduction19/06/12 12:52 PM
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What?
/r/seduction19/06/12 12:36 PM
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Sound advice which was my thought process anyway. I was more curious as to whether there are any recommended "plays" when this is the case. The longest I've ever needed to hold out on a date is a week when the attraction level is still high and I don't feel that I need to reestablish that attraction off the bat.
/r/seduction19/06/12 11:40 AM
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