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15	How do you logistically handle Valentine’s Day with three LTR’s/plates?		thaway13579	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 06:41 PM

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2	How do you logistically handle Valentine’s Day with three LTR’s/plates? Awesome advice - thank you for chiming in! I'd thought of something similar to that, but the way you explained makes a lot more sense and makes it sound a lot more viable. Awesome advice. For some reason Christmas has been the easiest one -- the two girls I've had for awhile have a lot of family commitments and I've made it pretty clear that I don't do family and the third one I had just taken on an overseas trip so she was pretty happy. In general I've made it pretty clear I'm not a big holiday…	/r/askTRP	24/01/17 05:31 PM
1	How do you balance moving on vs trying harder? Thanks for the extra info. Based on this info there's either a piece of faulty data here or a breakdown. The piece of faulty data might be "she's clearly into me." Women aren't really all that clear about anything, at least until they get that glazed look in their eye and that mouth half-open dazed look around you. But we'll assume she's into you and move on to: "I flirt back and she will respond, but in a "that's sweet" way.. she is clearly putting some kind of wall here... when I try to progre…	/r/askTRP	24/01/17 02:55 PM
1	How do you balance moving on vs trying harder? "that's when people say I'm shy, too scared, I'm being a pussy for not (CONSTANTLY) putting in work to please her" Well people say all kinds of shit but the only two opinions that matter in this equation are yours and hers. All the other stuff is just noise that people raised on romantic comedies and store-bought flowers sit around and spout all day before they go home to their whipped boyfriend who just did their dishes and took their ugly poodle to the vet. There are lots of ways to skin a cat…	/r/askTRP	24/01/17 02:35 PM
1	How do you logistically handle Valentine’s Day with three LTR’s/plates? You totally get it man, I appreciate the reply. I relate to the "welcome challenge" bit, hell that's half the fun for me. Logistics and strategy. I try to run my life like a well-oiled military operation and when things go the way they're supposed to it's a great high. I read the rest of your post and got some great stuff to think about. Some of it was a little technical for me since I'm not up to speed on all of the "Red Pill" tactics but I definitely believe in true manhood, getting what you w…	/r/askTRP	24/01/17 02:24 PM
1	How do you logistically handle Valentine’s Day with three LTR’s/plates? Good question man, so I work out in the morning with one of the gals either at the gym or at her apartment gym. If for some reason we don't (lately we've just been hitting the shower together) then to get my weights in I hit the gym at work (we have a gym and shower a couple floors down). I'm mainly focused on staying lean and cut so if I need it I do a bit of HITT in the afternoon (treadmill at one girls' place and at the apartment of another, treadmill at my place) or during the day I'll swing…	/r/askTRP	24/01/17 02:17 PM
1	How do you logistically handle Valentine’s Day with three LTR’s/plates? LOL gotcha. That's my go-to excuse in everyday life. Can't spend the weekend with you because I've got a business trip. Makes it easy to rearrange things. V-Day, Thanksgiving, and New Years is tough to do that to though. I've been able to work out the others (and Christmas happens over a few days so that's an easy one) but V-Day is one of those that gives me trouble and traveling for work every year on that date gets pretty suspicious.	/r/askTRP	24/01/17 02:10 PM
1	LTR wants to stick her finger in my ass If you don't want her to do it, then tell her not to do it. If you want to experiment with it, then get a little drunk and go for it. Probably won't change the dominance balance in your relationship unless you cry.	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 08:54 PM
3	there must be a catch with this girl Dude they almost ALWAYS have to act like they're resisting at first or in their mind they're a whore. Make sure you always stop at a firm "no" but stuff like that means "try again later", as you found out. What kind of "catch" are you worried about? Have fun and see where it goes. A couple buddies of mine have a healthy fear of angry husbands but that kind of retribution is pretty rare. EDIT: Make sure you stop at ANY kind of "no" not just a firm one. Spinning plates is no fun in prison unless y…	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 08:42 PM
5	Should I cut off my mother? Yeah keep your distance. She's the adult and you're the offspring, not the other way around. People in your situation usually end up becoming enablers and making things worse anyway. Not sure any "Red Pill" thinking will help you here buddy. Keep in distant contact with her and offer to help her find help but YOU are not the one who should be helping her -- you're not equipped for that kind of heavy lifting and neither am I.	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 08:39 PM
2	How do you logistically handle Valentine’s Day with three LTR’s/plates? Good question man. Not conferences so much but yeah I go out and visit clients all over the country sometimes. Some of it is to drum up new business and some of it is to just put face time in with big accounts. Sometimes just a breakfast or lunch meeting then the rest of the time is ours, or sometimes a golf outing or something else. Usually pretty low-key. I avoid conferences, you run into the same people all the time and if you're seen with one girl one time, another girl another time, and the…	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 08:21 PM
6	How do you logistically handle Valentine’s Day with three LTR’s/plates? LOL pretty much, although it's more like lunch, dinner, midnight snack. In the morning #3 and I just work out mainly but we talk about all the kinky things we're gonna do and that sets a great tone for the day.	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 08:13 PM
1	Ex approached me Depends on what you're trying to do.	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 07:51 PM
1	Why do I self sabotage? We all have feelings and they make us do some pretty bizarre shit. You can sit around with a shrink for a few years and talk about that Grand Canyon trip you took with mommy where she made you feel bad for wetting yourself or you can just do the only thing that works anyway -- discipline. People are way too focused on motivation and purpose and keeping interest up and feeling good. Losing weight doesn't feel good, it sucks. Come up with a plan and do it. I feel for you man and it might sound lik…	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 07:46 PM
1	Dont shit where you eat with classmates? That's a pretty big size, and college has lots of turnover so I don't see anything wrong with it. Go for it man. Not saying you won't get into a pickle or two, just try to be discreet.	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 07:36 PM
11	How do you logistically handle Valentine’s Day with three LTR’s/plates? I kinda stumbled into it, lol. I lived in a different city about 6 years ago, met a great gal, then I moved here for a job. Bought a small house and lived together for awhile, it fizzled a bit and became a dead bedroom situation. Shame because she's a great cook, smart, funny, beautiful gal, etc. Anyway I bought another small place by the office and that's where I moved. I kept the other house and she lived in it. I started dating another girl in a nearby office. Her sister died and she quit wor…	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 07:32 PM
2	Earning my family's [female exclusive] respect You're mom's kinda crazy man. You can still keep her in your life and love her and everything but first you need to realize that her dysfunctions are NOT your problem. She doesn't have an accurate view of you dude so don't let it get you down. The only thing that will fix this situation is self-sufficiency so work on that. You might have to put off any semblance of a life until you graduate but that's just the cards you were dealt so play 'em. You're 20 so work on getting your own transportation…	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 07:21 PM
4	Is it possible to truly transform from beta to alpha? Don't have much advice, just an observation. Sometimes your mind takes awhile to catch up to reality. Ugly-duckling syndrome. In the case of beta vs alpha, your mind IS reality. If you feel beta, you'll act beta. Try to think of situations where you're winning, and try to get into situations where you're winning. Just like a losing NFL team, once you get a few wins behind you, you'll get some confidence and you'll have empirical proof that you're not a loser. That might be enough to convince you…	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 07:08 PM
3	How do you balance moving on vs trying harder? The chase is one of the funnest parts man. When it gets to the point where you're stressing out, back off. If it's not working out it could be for a lot of reasons. Timing can have a lot to do with it. Good work on trying to get a takeaway from the situation but honestly, there IS such thing as "clicking" with a girl and if it's not progressing then back away and try one of the other thousands of girls you probably have all around you. You shouldn't have to try to hard at this, even if you're "t…	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 06:56 PM