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I'd have to agree with your thought that he might be trying to hard. If I won a few million dollars in Powerball, I'd go to the flashiest club in town and look at the girls, dismiss the ones not hot enough, and go to the hottest one with full confidence. "Hey. I just became a millionaire and I'm going to have the wildest night of my life. You want to join?". Obviously she'd probably be into me for my money, but if I get a lay out of it, why not. Interestingly, Millionaire Me is like a hot girl i…
/r/seduction29/09/16 08:09 PM
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Cheapest thing would be "I'll walk you home." and when you get to her door: "Well, good night. Could I use the bathroom real quick?", and then just not leave. Talk about pics, etc, look at her CD collection. But read her too and see if she's eager to kick you out or eager to have you stay..
/r/seduction03/03/16 03:57 PM
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So, you're no longer afraid of how the girl will judge you, but you're afraid of how other people will judge you. Chances are, whatever they think, they won't say anything anyway, right? If they start white-knighting, it'd be a great opportunity to wait for her to defend you and make it both you against this person. Tada, instant connection. Of course it might be up to you to defend yourself, and you have to remain heroic in front of the girl and make the other person the asshole...
/r/seduction24/02/16 03:16 PM
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Worst case scenario, she invited you to coffee at a later time so she can end the conversation.
/r/seduction22/02/16 11:47 PM
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so i was wondering if he is just a poor pick up artist or what? Probably... maybe he read some books on how to connect with people, maybe he did read pick-up materials. I'd like to think one can't call himself an artist if he's not good, but then again a crappy painter is still an artist, they just need to keep working on it. I think your post shows how not having inner game (self-belief) can creep/freak a girl out.
/r/seduction19/02/16 10:06 AM
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IMO, go for it. The worst outcome is she says no to a date. If you don't write her, you already have this outcome anyway. You could write "Hey (name), (roommate) told me you're her roommate. We work together. I haven't seen you since graduation, I thought I'd say hi!". If it's been a while since you know the fact, you can also say "I was just thinking about high school times, and you came up in my mind.". If you really have nothing to talk about after that, you'd have to go for broke and admit y…
/r/seduction16/02/16 04:24 PM
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I second what /u/DigitalAndClueless said. Ask Ash if she wants to get take-out and watch a movie at your place, just lose your V-card already, don't need to make it a special event.
/r/seduction15/02/16 10:55 AM
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Is it that hard... tell her you want to show her something crazy on YouTube, and you know you have it open on your computer in your room. Or a memorabilia or t-shirt. Or a particular photo from childhood/photos from some holiday/something you have on your laptop. Or a funny and short computer game. Then ask her, "Do you know how to be classy in 3 steps?". Get her a whisky (optional, if she thinks both of you are going to drink, she won't think you're about to "attack" her with some lovin'), tell…
/r/seduction08/02/16 11:25 PM
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Without knowing you at all, it sounds like they can smell the clinginess, they're afraid if they gave you a positive response you'll latch on to it and then bug them constantly and make life awkward for them. You can approach someone with 2 mindsets, one is you see them having value and you want to leech that value from them (if it's a hot girl, you're approaching them because you think she'd make a girlfriend you can be proud to be seen with, but what do you have to offer them?); and the other …
/r/seduction08/02/16 04:42 PM
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Just let the lunch be a friendly thing to see if you have chemistry, ideally you'd ask her out at the end of it and get her phone number. "Well, I had a nice lunch, I think you did too. Want to upgrade it to dinner some time in the future?" Warning, might be too cheesy or formal. Or you could say you're going to see some band this weekend, "you should come along.".
/r/seduction08/02/16 02:59 PM
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Geez... continually touching her hands would creep her out. Yes, I would just touch her over her clothes rather than not touch or touching her hands/face too much. Your last sentence may be true, but if the circumstances aren't there, you have to work with what you're given.
/r/seduction08/02/16 11:09 AM
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"Models" say you could start by asking simple questions like the time or the way to somewhere, and end the interaction there. I realize my AA comes from thinking about what ifs, if I had the guts to just say "Hello" without worrying how they react/what to say after that, I'd be golden. I've also read/watched a video about a made-up scenario, what if there's a girl in a room of girls that has 50000 dollars for you, and all you have to do is ask her if she has it? Would you have AA then? You'd jus…
/r/seduction28/01/16 04:53 PM
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There's a daygamer who says, just start with "I know this is weird, but...". Or "Don't worry, I'm not crazy, but...".
/r/seduction21/01/16 03:15 PM
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7.125 billion according to Google. Or did someone hide 3 USAs load of people somewhere...
/r/seduction21/01/16 03:00 PM
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The hole is lower than you think it is, and there's also the urethra above the vagina, don't get them confused. Although if you say you've done everything, in my book that's fingering too, but maybe we have different books. Look up Nina Hartley's guide to oral sex on your favorite porntube-site...
/r/seduction20/01/16 05:06 PM
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Be the man, when you see her, go for a warm hug and the kiss, if she's shy and avoids it then make a joke, something like "is my breath that bad." with a teasing smile and change the topic, for example "let's go" (if you're walking somewhere) while you hold your hand out for hers. Is it normal where you are to be bf-gf before sex? In the American culture it's called "going exclusive" (so that she's not going on dates with other men, and you don't go out on dates with other girls), but somehow I …
/r/seduction18/01/16 10:24 PM
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I think you're whole game of "I'm going to pick you up and take you somewhere but I'm not going to tell you where" scared her, you think you're being cute, she thinks you're being rape-murder-and-hide-the-body-ey. Go to the party, don't be clingy, and maybe you can get some alone make-out time or you can build more interest as well as comfort, that she won't be scared of going on a date with you.
/r/seduction15/01/16 04:35 PM
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A few weeks ago I read about giving off vibes. If you give off the "relationship material" vibe, then the girl will judge whether you're relationship-worthy. If you give off "I'm a great lay"-vibe, the girl will judge whether she'll have sex with you, and that's obviously less commitment than a relationship, so your chances are better.
/r/seduction15/01/16 12:51 PM
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After the conversation, say "I always get so hungry after these runs. I'm getting pancakes [or whatever] after this, you want to join me?".
/r/seduction15/01/16 12:42 PM
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Just sit next to her in the sofa or in bed, optionally turn the heater down and get some blankets (assuming it's winter and cold where you are), and any time during the movie just act like you're already in a relationship move your arm behind her and put her head on your shoulders.. rub her upper arm like you're not even realizing you're doing it, the side of her torso, and then quietly say "Hey". She'll look up, then you can go for a kiss (use your free hand to lift her chin). I think that shou…
/r/seduction14/01/16 02:12 PM
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"I need to check if I'm gay.". Ok maybe not. OP, just tell her the truth. But make it fun. If you say something weak, she'll see that you don't have the balls to tell her that you're attracted to her, and women don't want to fuck guys with no balls.
/r/seduction14/01/16 02:07 PM
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It seems you're lacking status. If your friends/girls/people in general don't think you're an awesome person, then you can come off needy. Models talks about this, you need to develop yourself and be an awesome guy first. If you say "Hey, you're really hot.", and have a puppy dog look expecting a positive response, girls can see that. If you're just saying it and genuinely (or seemingly, I guess) not care how she takes it, then it's intriguing and attractive. Another thought I've found really in…
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:01 PM
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God damn, OP. Can I be you..? I wouldn't know how to act, as the only guy everything you do will not go unnoticed. If you disappear with a girl to your room, they will know. The girl will also know her friends will know, and depending on her comfort level/your status, she might resist because she knows her friends will judge her. If you manage to convey high status, then she might go willingly, thinking "hah, I just beat all my friends in bagging the guy.". If you're really good, maybe you could…
/r/seduction18/12/15 12:37 PM
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Most PUAs use their skills to seduce hot women, until 1 day they seduce the perfect girl, the one who is hot and mentally clicks with the PUA. It's at that point they'd think "maybe she's the one I want to be long term with...", and either they try to make it work, or it doesn't work, and he continues to seduce women.. I don't think it matters much where you meet the girl, if it clicks, and you're compatible, and you both want to make it work and there are no obstacles...
/r/seduction15/12/15 05:19 PM
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It sounds like she didn't want to feel guilty for cheating, so she was leaving it to OP to seduce her, so she could wake up next to him the next morning and say "I'm innocent!".
/r/seduction15/12/15 09:56 AM
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Download and read "Six Pillars of Self-Esteem". It has a interesting way the author says can fix your self esteem; since your self esteem is mostly your unconscious, you can only fix it by trying to influence your unconscious, and to do that he says you need to do a sentence-completion exercise every day. Unfortunately there are several versions of what sentences you should do, even in the book. Here's an example: http://www.esteemedself.com/exercises/ Or here's the instruction and a complete li…
/r/seduction15/12/15 09:38 AM
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Skimmed through the article. RSD Tyler loves the publicity, he says some girls actually want to bang because you're famous. But I guess you'd have to be into hos. He did a video talking about the driver of the "Rape Van" that pissed off some Gawker reporter-lady, but he was loving the notoriety he was getting..
/r/seduction14/12/15 10:06 AM
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I guess she didn't want to feel like you rejected her. She's probably trying to fool herself by saying that. "Well I'm sorry if I was behaving badly at the party, can I treat you to some after-work beer as an apology?".
/r/seduction05/12/15 11:22 PM
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Ah, the 36 questions that went viral a few months ago earlier this year. Careful though, if she's a sappy romantic type, she might have read these questions.
/r/seduction04/12/15 01:55 PM
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I feel like now I've become handsome and if I become confident and have a job then I will have the ability to be with a lot of woman, date around, and have interesting experienced with time to settle down on the future. Geez, this is the first time I've read someone about to give up on guaranteed sex, to chase for sex he thinks he can get. "If I become confident and have a job". Big fucking ifs, man. And if you don't? Or if you do get these things, and you still get no girls?
/r/seduction03/12/15 07:43 PM
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I wonder if Alfred Nobel ever thought "Damn, Olaf is such a good wingman, I'm going to give him the Nobel Prize for Wingmanry."
/r/seduction03/12/15 03:54 PM
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It seems OP only read "Let go of her", and you seem to think OP can only change and improve by leaving the girl. Why can't these changes happen with her alongside him? /u/Nsnbd, read the book "Six Pillars of Self-Esteem". Honestly if you break up with her you'll probably be crying about not being able to bang her or enjoy your time with her, just like you're crying about not being able to bang other "hot chicks" because you're with her at the moment. Also, this (loooong) documentary is an intere…
/r/seduction03/12/15 03:48 PM
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IMO you already are overthinking it. If they have to go, they have to go. If you had been talking for a while maybe you can ask for their/her number. Or say "I'm going to x tomorrow/on Thursday/whenever. You should join me.". If she/they look interested, "Cool, give me your number and I'll give you the details."
/r/seduction30/11/15 01:32 PM
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It's always what you don't see which is the hardest... maybe if you can get a friend to see what you could be doing wrong? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Johari_window
/r/seduction30/11/15 01:02 PM
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I think asking to talk about it won't help your cause. I skimmed through the answers, maybe someone's said this, but to me it feels like she's saying you're shy because she gave you clear hints ("touch my thigh"? Come on, man!) and you didn't act on them. She's probably saying that because in her mind she probably knows you're attracted to her but she's wondering why you didn't have the balls to touch her and seduce her. Here's the thing (I think): she wants you to seduce her. But girls don't wa…
/r/seduction25/11/15 02:22 PM
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Maybe the girls could smell the fake confidence? IMO you have to be congruent with yourself, if you fake it and they can see little hints of desperation.. that's what they'll take away from the interaction. But then again people's perceptions of themselves, and what the world perceives of them, can be very different: http://www.heidigranthalvorson.com/books/no-one-understands-you-and-what-to-do-about-it
/r/seduction24/11/15 01:55 PM
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I can smell the desperation from all the way over here. I imagine the girl right in front of you can see it too. Be congruent, be yourself, if you think "if I do X, then this will get her", and you do X like a bad actor, she will see right through it/think you're a weird guy who just did an unpredictable X. (But ok, maybe don't listen to me, because I'm not an expert...) "Models" say, show vulnerability, but don't say it in plain words. Make sure it's between the lines. I believe it's "show, don…
/r/seduction23/11/15 12:01 PM
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Also, if you manage to make her squirm and cum, you'll feel like a god, and won't have the awkward "will I be able to satisfy her?" thoughts... you just did!
/r/seduction20/11/15 08:43 PM
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Well.. the girl(s) might have the same reservations when she sees the equipment. But if you blow her mind beforehand, she won't care, she'll be hooked on you.
/r/seduction20/11/15 08:29 PM
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IMO the trick is, she has to want the same... if she doesn't, she'll probably ignore your texts, or if you call her, she'll say she's busy, etc, or if you arrange a date, she'll flake...
/r/seduction20/11/15 12:52 PM
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There's a news article a few months ago about a guy who lost his penis as a kid, but could still get so many girls. OP, learn oral! There's a video by Nina Hartley that teaches how to perform oral on girls, findable on your nearest red-hub site.
/r/seduction20/11/15 11:12 AM
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It seems a lot of PUA success stories happen by them seducing hot girls, until one day they meet the one: the one they desire physically as well as intellectually. I guess you have to tough it out with all the shallow girls until you find that one. Yeah, such a struggle, banging all those hot chicks, eh? (I wish my game is that far, but just talking about it won't get me anywhere.) To be honest, I feel like going out clubbing and being rejected is so tiring (I guess I have learned helplessness, …
/r/seduction19/11/15 02:54 PM
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We're all chasing status, and girls want to date the guy with the highest status (yeah sometimes this mean the alpha guy). It's from the tribal ages where the tribal leader gets the woman/women he wants. These guys probably think "Damn, that guy's a furriner, and he's got that smoking hot girl. He's Indian, I'm white, in this society I have better status than him, I bet I can make her 'upgrade'.". So I guess.. act so that the girl doesn't lose her respect of you? Losing your cool is never cool, …
/r/seduction19/11/15 12:06 PM
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Are you white, and you're trying to get the local girls? They will chase you instead. I think you even have to show an aura of caution and niceness to get the high-level girls, if they think you're acting like a sleazy playboy because you're white, they won't want you because they don't want to feel cheap.
/r/seduction18/11/15 01:39 PM
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If she's agreed to watch a movie at your place, she already knows you're going to bang, and she's already said yes in her mind. Keep the room slightly cold, share a blanket, say "Come here" so she's cuddling you, run your finger(s) up and down her arm, and just say "hey", and wait for her to look up (if she just says "what" without looking up, just keep quiet and she'll look up), and go for the kiss.
/r/seduction17/11/15 03:56 PM
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Girls can feel awkward too, maybe she's had the longest crush on you, but never had the guts to talk to you. I'd bring up the "you remember how we almost kissed during that dance?", but putting her on the spot might make her feel awkward. They say, always assume attraction, it seems she does want something. If you really never talked or did anything together, "catching up" is just a bullshit excuse for her to see you. Be flirty and see if she responds? Escalation ladder (google it) and see if sh…
/r/seduction17/11/15 01:19 PM
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There's no question that both parties understand what is happening. I had a Tinder date. She invited me to her place as our first meeting. I took it to mean she wanted some. She was a bit chubby, but eh, I was inexperienced, so why not. So we're there, sitting awkwardly, on an L-shaped couch, each person on one side of the L, having awkward conversation. I just told her, why don't you sit over here? Gesturing to the spot next to me. She moved there, with my arm around her. More awkward conversat…
/r/seduction16/11/15 02:48 PM
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A joke response would be, to pull out your phone, and text/call her, "Hey, I'm free right now, want to meet and have a date? I can meet you in about 10 seconds." Then hang up, look at her, and say "Well, well, you scored a 2nd date with me.". You can't ask her "You want to come back to my place" though, that implies sex. You can say any other bullshit line like "Come take a look of my aquarium, it has space fish.", but if the girl is playing along, it's going to your place for sex, with a preten…
/r/seduction14/11/15 06:02 PM
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Read this from a week ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3ri2h9/today_i_hit_rock_bottom_seduction_will_not_save/ If you become just a "sucker" that only draws your happiness from her, she won't hang around for long. You can't leech happiness, you have to be the one that offers her the gift of excitement in her life. Or ideally, you both give each other it. I guess, get a hobby. I've been thinking about it recently as well, I was thinking maybe I should pick up a musical instrument.…
/r/seduction11/11/15 01:11 PM
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Sex is always more fun if the girl is into it too. Most of the times prostitutes just act like they're having a good time, and want you just to nut, and fuck off. With a real girl at least you get to do it as much as you want until one or both of you are tired/don't want it any more.
/r/seduction11/11/15 12:38 PM
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Afaik in Thailand the female girls can be aggressive with white men too, they want that western life. (Not being racist, a lot of them do want to move to a western country)
/r/seduction11/11/15 12:28 PM
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If you could befriend the people who went there without paying the entry fee, I think having a wingman can be very beneficial. I guess they don't really announce where the boot camp will be, for fear that tumblr-feminazis will crash the event/tell the venue to cancel on them, but if you actually know where it is you could tail them (heh, creepy idea) to see which club they're going into during the evening.
/r/seduction05/11/15 05:49 PM
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Heh, and what dreams to have? I feel like I'm just Mr. Average Nerd, I go to work and then I go home and reddit too much. Yeah I need a freaking hobby/life goal...
/r/seduction05/11/15 01:07 PM
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Are you sure? Then you/he would be asking for permission. No girl would appreciate that. I don't know, I would say "When I smoke too much I usually get handsy. So I won't smoke too much tonight", and if she looks at me, add a smirk to make her wonder what my actual goal is.
/r/seduction13/10/15 03:04 PM
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Here's an excerpt: http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/jun/08/aziz-ansari-modern-dating-extract-guide It all sounds very sensible... And a review: http://www.theguardian.com/books/2015/jun/04/modern-romance-aziz-ansari-review
/r/seduction16/06/15 04:02 PM
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Gah this "be yourself, and pray that your find your niche market" bullshit. If you can't change it, for example your skin color, then accept it. As for the accent, OP could invest money and go to an accent training school. I would do it, since it would improve, by however little percentage, his chances of scoring with women.
/r/seduction15/06/15 01:29 PM
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I think one thing the experts have learned is that the rejection doesn't matter. I haven't, you probably haven't... if I went home with a girl every night, would you think I was an expert? You'd probably say yes. So if I try with 20 girls each night, and 19 said no and 1 lets me fuck her, is my 5% success rate bad?
/r/seduction10/06/15 12:20 PM
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The repliers are missing the "next two months"... I'd say if she offers, bang her. If shit goes crazy, you're out of there in 2 months anyway right?
/r/seduction01/06/15 01:18 PM
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Make male friends. You can hang out with them and show to girls that you're a normal guy. Friends = social proof. Maybe they can wingman too, say you want to meet a girl, get a guy friend to invite the girl to your circle, say you go to the bathroom, and he can tell her something like "yeah, he's a cool guy, he has Asperger's but he doesn't let that get him down."
/r/seduction01/06/15 01:11 PM
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Why show her undeserved respect by continuing to talk to her after she's insulted you?
/r/seduction29/05/15 01:40 PM
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VIP slinky?
/r/seduction29/05/15 11:52 AM
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Of course permission-seeking is a bad thing, something I realized the other day: it's better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission. If she were really in love with the other guy she might have stopped you after 1 kiss anyway and said all that stuff. Feminists please don't read this paragraph ;-) , but I wonder if seducing her even after she's said all that would've worked. I would've said, "There's space and there's time. At the moment he's far away. Maybe some time in the future you…
/r/seduction29/05/15 11:50 AM
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There's a Sasha Daygame video where he quickly responds with "What's his name?", wait a 2 seconds, and "Ah, he doesn't exist, you liar!". Or if she says a name but took a long time, also "You had to make up a name, you liar!". But that's if you're giving out a fun, crazy guy type.
/r/seduction28/05/15 05:09 PM
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You opened strong with "You're really pretty" but chickened out here: Me: "Nice to meet you, where are you from?" Her: "Kansas" Me: "Nice, you in college?" I said this shyly Should've said, "Oh yeah, which area?" She says where she's from, then you say, "Tell me, are all girls from (the area) as pretty as you?". Your first sentence already declared your interest, I think retreating to a question about college just made you come off weird to her. And could dis-engage with "Listen I don't think yo…
/r/seduction28/05/15 05:04 PM
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The relevant bit starts at 1:41, before that it's just bla bla. From your nickname you're the guy on the video. So your goal is to get a phone number. How many of those turn to dates?
/r/seduction11/05/15 03:20 PM
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Fuck, what passes as "humor" on German TV is the dumbest stupidest shit slapstick...
/r/seduction04/05/15 12:20 PM
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It's a very short book, the examples are helpful but if you speed-read through them (they are quite repetitive and don't need careful reading), you can finish it very quickly. http://sameffect.com/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people-summary/ .. OK without the examples it all sounds very technical.
/r/seduction20/04/15 12:28 PM
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I've seen a video from an Asian PUA, who said, people have stereotypes in their minds of what other classes of people are like (Asians, southerners, red/blue staters, home-schooled, whatever way you want to classify people). And the mission of the PUA is to break free from stereotypes. A hot girl sees most guys as "nice guys" who'll buy her a drink to win her attention (with the end goal of getting into her panties), so a PUA should refuse to buy her a drink and ask her "why do you deserve my at…
/r/seduction06/03/15 03:22 PM
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Did OP mean L-plates as in driving license, or L-plates as in figure of speech (still zero experience with guys)?
/r/seduction17/02/15 01:12 PM
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I have the same problem trying to daygame, I'm already thinking about the "what if's" that could happen a few seconds after I talk to her, before I even said "hi". Maybe if you say to yourself "Say hi to her, and then walk away." you'd dare to do it. Mark Manson says you can take it slow, at first just ask for the time, say "thanks" and walk away. You'll notice it wasn't so bad, no monster showed up and tried to kill you. After you're confident at that you could expand it by saying thanks and th…
/r/seduction15/01/15 04:38 PM
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I skimmed it and it seems to me the message/TL;DR is: "Shyness is bad! Don't be shy! How to not be shy? Step 1: Don't be shy." (Yeah I'm not doing it justice, it's more like "You, go out there and be brave! Take that chance! Do it!")...
/r/seduction15/01/15 04:29 PM
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Reading the accompanying story, it seems it'd be solid 2nd day (first date) material. If you google the author, you'd find in her blog that they're still together. Now everyone, be nice, nobody use this to get into girls' pants and then never calling them again!
/r/seduction13/01/15 04:34 PM
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BTW, what is TUNSSSS?
/r/seduction04/01/15 01:01 AM
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The book "In 59 Seconds" says, get your date's heart racing. Her brain will subconsciously think it's because it (the brain) is attracted to you. So, not a bad idea. Think of some games beforehand though, otherwise in my mind you both are just going up and down being awkward...
/r/seduction19/12/14 02:37 PM
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I wonder if the RSD folks are walking around going "Streisand effect! Streisand effect!", and their registration numbers go high up. I wonder why there's never been an "investigative journalist" that's joined a pick-up seminar so they can publish an article, probably something with the sensationalist headline of "Journalist goes into the seedy underground world of sexual exploiters".
/r/seduction05/11/14 01:33 PM
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"And every time I see you you're with no girl.". "I don't know man, I don't know why all the old ladies want me to help them cross the street.".
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:13 PM
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Seems like they wanted to have the excuse of "I told him I had a boyfriend, but he still kissed me! I'm innocent, I didn't cheat!".
/r/seduction16/09/14 02:40 PM
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I listened to a salesman giving a presentation once, he said, in sales, what you're selling is the next step. You want them to meet you on a date? You have to sell to them that it'll be fun for them to do that...
/r/seduction16/09/14 12:30 PM
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Be wary of girls approaching you in the street, they may be trying to rob you. Well it's just a second hand story, friend was in Budapest, 2 girls approached him saying they were Dutch tourists, some spiel, and asking if he wanted to go have a drink with them, he said no. A few minutes and a few streets later (he was walking), 2 more "Dutch" girls asking if he wanted to have a drink... Don't let your PUA brain fool you into thinking "Look at this, zero game and the girls are throwing themselves …
/r/seduction22/07/14 01:28 PM
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High-fives. Ask her to put suncream on your back. Too creepy? You could lead to it, put suncream on your self, then play "ah I can't reach!" while trying to put some on your back. She might offer to help by herself.
/r/seduction17/07/14 07:48 AM
1

(´･ω･`)
/r/seduction01/07/14 12:59 PM
1

WTF, his first interaction (at around 5:30) is with a 5 at best, and she was creeped out as shit. I was going to refrain from commenting until I saw the whole interaction, but I just saw that weird-ass girl run away like a manatee, probably after saying a cheap excuse to be able to do that.
/r/seduction01/07/14 10:46 AM
0

Holy crap, after 4 minutes he's just like, uhm, like rambling...
/r/seduction24/06/14 11:39 AM
4

she casually implied that "anyway I'm heading home" in a non-dismissive manner. I asked if she wanted to follow me up to my apartment, to which she said "not tonight" The problem with this is you put the decision to say yes in her hands. She probably did not want to feel slutty, so she didn't say yes. If you had just made up an excuse to get her to your place, it could've worked. Of course if she says no, then that's that. "OK, before we end the night, let me show you (something)." And take her …
/r/seduction11/06/14 11:21 AM
1

Preselection is straight-forward, say you want to buy a car, and the seller says "if you want it don't hesitate, I've got other people interested in buying the car too.".
/r/seduction03/06/14 04:11 PM
10

I don't know if it's Mark Manson, but say "you're cute, so I decided to talk to you to see if you are interesting as well.". You complimented her, and now she wants to validate herself to you..
/r/seduction03/06/14 02:19 PM
5

Mark Manson's tip is, start by asking "do you have the time?" or "do you know how to get to...", and after they tell you, say "thanks" and walk away. After a while you can escalate by asking "how's your day so far?", etc. The idea is to first get rid of the AA, and then gradually increase the interaction.
/r/seduction21/05/14 08:21 AM
1

There's a great RSDTyler video about "I'm too short, too fat, too poor, etc.", he said he had a friend who was earning 80K. He compared himself to guys earning 100K, and felt he wasn't earning enough. Then he was earning 100K, he started comparing himself to guys earning 250K, and so on. The key is to accept yourself the way you are.
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:51 PM
1

You could just say "I work for company X, we do a lot of things, for example (some exciting technology)."
/r/seduction14/05/14 12:24 PM
0

You could give it a fancier name... e.g. "technology consultant". Or just lie. Are you in IT support, or some specific field? If you're in support you could mix it up. "Ever seen the movie Michael Clayton? It stars George Clooney as a guy who fixes things for the rich and powerful when something goes wrong. Well, I travel a lot, and I fix things for people.". Technically, you're not lying, the 2 sentences are not quite related, but the imagery you just made in their mind is... of something diffe…
/r/seduction14/05/14 11:00 AM
3

You live in Kuala Lumpur and said you're Asian, is that even a disadvantaging factor? AFAIK most of the Asians in the PUA community want to overcome the disadvantage of the Asian lack of appeal in white/western societies.
/r/seduction02/05/14 07:24 PM
5

I'm no expert, but I think you have to fuck each other first before you define the relationship?
/r/seduction17/04/14 12:43 PM
4

If you can pick a seat, pick one close to where the galley where they would be sitting on their break, so it wouldn't be awkward for them to be standing around next to a passenger. Preferably the back row too, not in view of the whole plane. There was a reddit thread about how you should, as you board, give the head stewardess a big bag of chocolates to share to show you appreciate their hard work, that might impress your target too.
/r/seduction15/04/14 03:59 PM
1

There was a great video on how to contact numbers you maybe got a month ago: saying "hey it's X, how's it going" or calling rarely works, since she won't remember you. So the guy said, do this: Send the message "What are you doing this weekend?" to all the girls' numbers. If they reply positive, good. If they reply "Who's this?": reply, "Brad". They'll usually reply "Brad who?". Reply to that with "Slut.". Usually the response would be "What!?" or "WTF?". Then you can call them! They'll pick up …
/r/seduction10/04/14 12:08 PM
8

My first day at the ski slopes was spent mostly on my ass...
/r/seduction04/04/14 11:42 AM
8

Also, you need to create sexual tension and hold it there. If you make a sexual joke where the girl is wondering "is he hitting on me?", don't go "hahaha, funny, right!?" a second later, that diffuses the tension. Keep her mind wondering instead.
/r/seduction03/04/14 02:52 PM
2

And if she seems keen but doesn't have the time, you can say "Fine, give me your number and we'll do it another time.".
/r/seduction01/04/14 03:12 PM
2

Mark Manson's Models say, some PUAs force you to go out and ask 100 girls for their numbers. You get 100 rejections and you'd feel free of AA. But he compares this to telling a couch-potato to do a marathon. He'd feel great, but after a while he'll fall back to his old ways. So he suggests starting slow, e.g. by asking for the time or directions, and that's it. When you're comfortable with that, ask how her day's been going. And keep "pushing it", just like you'd train for a marathon by doing a …
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:45 PM
2

I think Gambler (look up his videos) say, hot girls are used to getting stared at, the secret to attract her attention would be to not notice her. Then she'd be intrigued "Wait, I'm hot shit, why doesn't this guy care?". Then at the last moment stop and talk to her (Here's where my plan would blow up: I forget what he said you should do at the last moment).
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:40 PM
3

It's in one of these Stealth Seduction vidoes (not this one, but in the series). He told the girl to act as if she were telling a story, she started talking, he stared at her with a smirk and just moved closer and closer, maintaining eye contact, all the while saying "oh yeah?" after each statement. I think it shows to the girl you're not really listening to her story, but are just having a "I want to do bad things to you" look.
/r/seduction27/03/14 12:57 PM
2

Easier for me to write than do, but one way it could be done is a "balls on the chopping block" move: carry a piece of paper and pen, when you see her walk in say to her "Listen, this is unusual, and I can't talk too long or I'll get into trouble, but do you want to get coffee sometimes?". If she responds very positively, get her number. If she's defensive because e.g. she's with coworkers, say "I'll let you think about it. Let me give you my number.", and write down your name and number and giv…
/r/seduction24/03/14 12:18 AM
2

hitting on as many drunk girls as you can. Don't even ask what her name is. Go direct, don't waste time. For OP, yeah, look-up youtube, e.g. "instant makeout" (assuming they're genuine and aren't roleplayed for marketing): if she's drunk and you're decent looking, she'd probably go for it.
/r/seduction14/03/14 04:43 PM
4

Or she might think she texted the right number and got ignored by OP... "Is there a chance you got my number wrong, I haven't gotten any texts from you." Or... "did I by any chance give you my old number, because I got a new number a few days before I met you.". It's a lie, but so what. Then she can check, and if it is the right number, then... it's going to be awkward for her. Oops. Solution: get a new phone with a new number. :P That way she can pretend she tried contacting you but it went to …
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:09 PM
1

The Mark Manson "Models" model: Let the girl know from the 1st interaction that you are attracted to her. Other PUA methods involve creating attraction by making the girl wonder if you're into her or not. Basically, step 1: make the girl like you/be interested in you as a sexual/relationship partner.
/r/seduction05/03/14 04:27 PM
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Eh. As I said, she was a virgin. Later on during the night she said "Where did you learn this!!?!" and "I can get addicted to this".
/r/seduction19/02/14 08:12 PM
0

I wonder what would happen if you just start playing with her pussy over her panties. With fingers, and later on, kisses. After heavy making-out and hands rubbing her butt (under panties) action, I tried to slip a hand down the front side. (Side note, she was a virgin and was hesitant about having sex). She grabbed my hand and flung it aside. I tried again, rubbing her pussy through the panties. A few minutes later, fingers down the front met no resistance.
/r/seduction19/02/14 01:27 PM
1

Watch daygame videos... 2 concepts I've read/seen are: - tell her you're just about to leave (so she doesn't feel like she'll be stuck with you) - acknowledge that what you're doing is not normal. Something like "Excuse me, I was just on my way out, I have to get back to work/class... I know this is unusual, but I saw you, I found you cute and I just had to say hi." Or "I have to go in 5 minutes...". If you end up chatting with them for the rest of the day, so what.. Of course you'd have to go i…
/r/seduction17/02/14 03:51 PM
1

Another PUA says, just agree with her, e.g. say "Yeah, we should stop", but keep going. This makes it her problem to actually be the first to stop doing anything physical... Or you could probably say, in an "I agree" tone, "no sex." and keep making out...
/r/seduction10/02/14 01:39 PM
2

If she's around, "Do spankings count as hurting?"... if she laughs at that he's toast. I think.
/r/seduction04/02/14 01:12 PM
2

Decide to drive drunk, get into accident, regret that decision after that: you're still responsible because you made that decision, even though you were drunk. Decide to have sex while drunk, regret that decision after that: Rape! You weren't responsible because you were drunk when you made that decision!
/r/seduction03/02/14 03:26 PM
1

I would find a date where she shows me the most luxurious house in her "inventory" fascinating, but it might be boring/feel like work to her. I think I would've put in a joke after her pajamas comment, but I don't know what. "I'm a doctor, I tried going to work in my pjs once, the patients thought I was a mental patient pretending to be one!". Call her!
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:55 PM
11

Fascinating tidbit about her tenth-of-a-second face.. I would've taken that and went with "Oh my god, you just had a 'Oh God, not this again, why does this always happen to me?!' look there. Don't tell me this happens to you all the time?". The subtext is you're offering to be her "friend" against the rest of the world.
/r/seduction16/01/14 03:30 PM
1

Could it be that you turned so suddenly, the movement catches the person's eyes, and they look at you? Then you think your feeling "she's staring at me!" is always correct.
/r/seduction15/01/14 12:06 PM
1

If I can compare it to the finance industry, you have legitimate finance experts, and then you have the bullshit videos that tell you "buy my book and be a rich investor!". A lot of resources are available for free on YouTube, I'm not sure if coaching sessions will bring you so much that they're worth the money... if you're considering paying, then I'd look for someone who has a proven record.. or all they all shit, according to that hater site? Maybe it's the guys who are chronically unable to …
/r/seduction14/01/14 01:48 PM
2

IMO you'd look like an asshole doing that though, if the girl doesn't know you/if she didn't consider the guy a threat, she will think exactly this. It's very AMOG.
/r/seduction14/01/14 01:11 PM
6

Although, not according to Mark Manson. According to him, go in, say you find her attractive, and you don't care if she says yes or no. No pretending to be someone friendly and not conveying your true intentions...
/r/seduction10/12/13 11:07 AM
2

I'd go for the waist. Somewhere else I read, slip half an inch of 1 finger between her skin and her pants and trace a line - for example from the back to her side.. and just to get her mind crazy, move it slowly to the front. Otherwise, hands on waist or back, slip it under her t-shirt/waist so your hands are touching her bare skin on her sides/back if she's really into it, then go down and squeeze her butt-cheeks, later on you can even slip your hand down the back of her pants; first panties an…
/r/seduction09/12/13 05:29 PM
9

For all the neckbeards wanting to copy this, make sure they notice you before you open their door, and they are not having a "AUGHH GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE!" face...
/r/seduction09/12/13 03:26 PM
1

Heh, a female friend of mine got into a relationship with a guy she told me was creepy, because he was constantly texting her after meeting her, asking her to go see a movie, she declined, he replied with the neediest shit of "I don't care what we do as long as I get to spend time with you." and she was infuriated/creeped out. 1 month later, Facebook official. From what I can gather he declared his love for her and she found it sweet and so now they're together, although she moved to another cit…
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:40 PM
1

Good points, but he has the fucking idiot's intonation.
/r/seduction15/11/13 02:25 PM
1

I read somewhere, if she says "We should stop", agree with her and say something along the lines of "Yeah, this is bad. We should stop.", but keep going physically. When she said those words she's expecting you to agree to her request and stop. When you say it/repeat it, it puts the ball in her court to break off the action. As long as she doesn't do that, keep going. If she does stop/push you off, stop!
/r/seduction14/11/13 04:56 PM
1

Mystery's response when she says no is "I didn't say you could, it just looked like you really wanted to!"
/r/seduction10/11/13 04:10 AM
2

Do you do the "whats your name" to write it down on their cup thing? If you do, make their coffee, call out their name ("one latte for the lovely Sarah!"), and when handing the coffee out say "I forgot one thing." "Whats that?". "I got your name, but I also need your number.". And do the James Bond stare. If you dont ask for names, just start doing it I guess?
/r/seduction10/11/13 04:06 AM
1

Geez, she said she was lonely, she said she liked sucking dick, she agreed to come to your place... You could've gone caveman and she would not have resisted. Or you could've just said "So you mentioned you like sucking dick?". The middle ground would've been to order her to "Come here" while you're leaning back in bed. She probably would've stood up while asking "Why?". "Just come here.". She'd sit down next to you, you go for a kiss. Boom. But I know, easy for me to comment after a fact, I pro…
/r/seduction24/09/13 02:17 PM
1

Read Mark Manson's "Models". He writes (I may quote incorrectly), approach anxiety is when you put more emotional investment to what she thinks of you than to what you think of yourself. Some PUAs say to get rid of AA (approach anxiety), go to somewhere crowded, and ask any cute-looking girl "Can I have your phone number?". Expect to be looked at strangely, and get shot down. After a while you'll see rejection is no big deal. But Manson's written, that success may get you feeling high for a few …
/r/seduction24/09/13 01:38 PM
1

So the period was a lie?
/r/seduction10/09/13 11:29 AM
1

Honestly, I was surprised that you sat through the movie. I thought the rule was escalate and initiate sex during the movie... She probably spent half the movie watching it and the other half thinking how to react if you initiated...
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:00 PM
6

Read Vin Di Carlo Escalation ladder (google it)... EDIT: Of course read this beforehand, not while you have your arm around her.
/r/seduction22/05/13 09:02 AM
1

Not sure if my advice is good, but play the "pass the ice-cube" game. Put an ice cube between your top and bottom rows of teeth, so that half of it is showing. Tell one of them they have to get the ice cube using their teeth, and pass it to the next person.
/r/seduction21/05/13 12:12 PM
1

You say get to know everyone, how to be friends with jocks I can't stand but who's always around when the girls are there and is also the life of the party?
/r/seduction10/05/13 03:51 PM
1

Sasha Daygame (look him up on YouTube) would sometime say "Don't worry I'm not a creep.". Give that line a try and see how it works? The delivery has to be convincing though. Psychologically I think even though that line might be full of crap and the girl knows that too, part of her brain will still be influenced and think "oh he's an okay guy."...
/r/seduction08/05/13 03:06 PM
2

Reply but be aloof? If you ignore it you will 100% not get to bang her, if you reply, that percentage might get slightly lower.
/r/seduction08/05/13 03:03 PM
4

There's a book called "The Sex God Method" which I found made sense. In it he talks about DEVI - Dominance, Emotion, Variety and Immersion...
/r/seduction07/05/13 09:20 PM
2

Anecdote from a girl: she's about to do it with a guy, he tells her it's his first time. She paused, and as she told a group of girls (and me) this story, she said (I paraphrase) "I thought, if I bail out now, it will really crush his self esteem. OK then, full speed ahead!"
/r/seduction07/05/13 04:01 PM
0

Reminds me of tips from the book "In 59 Seconds" (someone else summarized the key points: http://www.davidcharles.info/2011/01/how-to-attract-opposite-sex-in-59.html ) Speed Dating Tips: Think of questions that get the people talking in creative, fun, interesting ways. Even if it didn't make sense. Mimic the way they sit, hands, speech patterns, facial expressions. Only select the few people you had genuine chemistry with -- this one I remember reading in the book, for some reason if you tick "y…
/r/seduction03/05/13 01:20 PM
3

Read "Models"! I finally read it 2 weeks ago and before it, reading pick-up books I was thinking "No way I can be someone who'll have the guts to do that.", but Models made me believe it's possible.
/r/seduction30/04/13 04:12 PM
2

Reading Models by Mark Manson, one lesson I got out of it was, what do you want to be more invested in, what you think she will think of you when you try to talk her (you think she will think that you are a creep), or what you think of yourself, that you are an awesome guy that has the guts to say hi? If the girl snubs you, well great, she's filtered herself from the pool of girls worthy of your attention. Better than a girl that's nice in the beginning but ends up not worthy of it. They select …
/r/seduction29/04/13 03:42 PM
1

OP, you didn't ask her for her number? "Give me your number, maybe tomorrow we do something.". OK problem with that is she might have cooled down by then.
/r/seduction29/04/13 03:35 PM
2

for me, after learning PUA stuff for a few months, I walk around a party looking at guys and thinking they're dorks or they try too hard, and I feel good about myself. But sadly at the last party I went to (knew no one there) the only girls I dared approach weren't that hot and didn't seem interested in me, meanwhile the hot ones I pussied out of talking to..
/r/seduction28/04/13 01:44 AM
2

Apparently starting with an outrageous lie gets people laughing and maybe curious for more. If that happened to me I might say "Well do you know redtube.com?" and say "I'm ashamed of it, but yes, it was overeager self pleasure.". Or you can say you're a stuntman and you fell off a motorbike that was 30 feet in the air..
/r/seduction28/04/13 01:34 AM
11

Geez! I too am no expert, but if a girl showed up like that, I'd grab her, give her a hug and hold her and say calmly "You must be freezing!". Keep hugging and rubbing her back and try to see if she seems to be wanting it, if yes, kiss her on the cheek, see her reaction, kiss her but be first the pull, and then say "Let's get you under some warm blankets." 15 minutes of watching some TV show? What the hell???
/r/seduction27/04/13 11:35 PM
9

Came here to say this. OP, you wrote this 6 hours ago, assuming that's straight after the date, it's now early morning where you are. Text her sometime around 12 or 1 PM. And correct, if she responds, try to plan another date. Movie/dinner at your place and it'll probably be BAMx5. (Carefult though, I have no guarantee that I know what I'm talking about). I liked the text about you talking to the guy at the counter about tea, I think it made you sound like a very social guy. DHV (Demonstration o…
/r/seduction27/04/13 01:51 PM
8

Come back, "hey did I leave my wallet/phone here?". Oh, here it is! *unzips pants*
/r/seduction25/04/13 12:07 PM
3

Just started reading "Models". It's great! Basically he says "You can't attract women by being fake, so you need to feel good about yourself.". Also about investment, are you more invested about what the girl thinks about you, or should you be more invested about your opinion of yourself? About approaching girls, he said don't jump in and say "You're hot!" like everyone else says, if you're afraid, start with asking for directions or the time. I actually ended up doing this yesterday, seeing a c…
/r/seduction19/04/13 02:23 PM
1

Google Vin De Carlo's Escalation Ladder PDF, and read it. EDIT: Geez, really? While making out, just move your hands around her back and sides, slip it under her shirt and start rubbing her belly, sides and back, not too firm but not too weak. You may not know what you're doing but it will feel good to her. Start going further up her back, unhook her bra, take shirt off.. play with boobies like they do in porn...
/r/seduction19/04/13 01:54 PM
6

Would texting "hey it was great meeting you earlier.", with me still standing there, work as a joke?
/r/seduction17/04/13 01:02 PM
-3

I remember watching this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddjZf7Nqbo0 ; he just goes "Oh cool, then I can be your secret lover.". Or "passionate affair.".
/r/seduction28/01/13 02:22 PM
1

Was it really a #-close, you didn't even have to ask. But maybe it was all the work you did before that. When she was returning the phone, I would've tried the line "Oh there's something wrong with my phone." (While pressing a few buttons to get to the "Add Contact" screen.) "What is it?" "It doesn't have your number on it." But don't listen to me, I don't know what I'm talking about.
/r/seduction25/01/13 11:07 AM
5

Congrats, can I assume you look like Brad Pitt? For everyone else... your text didn't help them.
/r/seduction25/01/13 10:35 AM
4

Her brain is saying no but her emotions want you. Coming to hang-out just together, underwear hot-tub session, cuddling under blankets, all the signs were there.
/r/seduction21/01/13 02:58 PM
3

Last Minute Resistance
/r/seduction21/01/13 02:38 PM
2

Hah, why is my only question reading this, "what R&B music did you play?"
/r/seduction10/01/13 02:26 PM
1

Read this, it looks shit but it has some useful info: The Ultimate Texting Guide
/r/seduction09/01/13 12:32 PM
7

Fast & easy? Nope! So do it carefully. Notes, pictures: Either copy it into a USB flash drive, or get TrueCrypt (www.truecrypt.org), create an encrypted container, and put everything in there. If you're not sure about using TrueCrypt, having the backup on USB flash drive would be advisable. Porn: depending on her, just leave it there, or also put it in USB/TrueCrypt. Browser histories/bookmarks can be exported into files, also save that on USB/TC, and then clean your browser.
/r/seduction08/01/13 01:10 PM
3

Hah, no wonder you end up banging! I was under the impression a girl would be turned off if I told her we'll have to sit on the bed and watch the movie on the computer, but hey, if she's already agreed to come to my place, she probably is expecting sex as well! Thanks for making me realize this!
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:36 AM
1

I was in a conversation with a lot of girls once (yeah I think I was in all of their friendzones), and 1 girl mentioned that a guy she was about to sleep with said he was a virgin. She thought about backing out, but decided it would be such a blow to that guy's ego, that she did it anyway. Well, I hope to the gods your first time will be with a girl as kind as her. Or kinder, that she wouldn't care...
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:23 AM
1

I'm too lazy to delete old numbers, even numbers that have been deactivated are still in my phone. Maybe it's the same with her?
/r/seduction30/12/12 05:05 PM
1

Yeah, nowadays I feel totally comfortable putting my hands on a girl's waist when taking photos (in fact I feel it's the only natural pose if they want a pic with me) and afterwards letting my hand linger on their back. I think if you do it with authority it doesn't even register to them that I am a relative stranger, maybe that I'm a bit touchy-feely.
/r/seduction17/12/12 04:19 PM
3

As a lot of people here say, read the sidebar -> I read Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder and I think it's really helpful... start with simple things like having your shoulders rub each other when sitting next to her and high-fives.
/r/seduction17/12/12 02:39 PM
1

Read the first few pages of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover, see if it applies to him, and get him to read it. As in movies and TV series, the internet has illegal copies of it..
/r/seduction11/12/12 11:59 AM
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