thayer_bryan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
55	Went out solo last night, my takeaways	Field Report	thayer_bryan	/r/seduction	02/05/21 11:05 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	when was the secret meeting? I live with 2 good looking dudes in a very populated area and girls will rarely ever approach. We almost always have to approach	/r/seduction	13/10/21 02:34 AM
3	How do I quit wasting my youth? Move into a flat or a house with similar aged roommates. That was the biggest success to my social life when I moved into a new city.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 03:10 PM
1	How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo? If you can break your anxiety with going out solo, you open up a flood gate of opportunity You can literally go to any bar in any town/city and do pickup.	/r/seduction	21/09/21 01:21 AM
9	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? I usually play some piano for them which is in my room while they have a drink. Works every time	/r/seduction	22/08/21 07:15 PM
0	6 years of pick up experience and my take-aways I’ve been doing card magic for a while and I’ll just go around the bar doing card tricks to groups or duos of girls. Other than that, I’ve developed some openers that I use (e.g saw you across the bar and I thought you were cute, what’s your name?)	/r/seduction	16/06/21 10:54 PM
19	6 years of pick up experience and my take-aways I would have made the point of learning to go out by yourself. Once I created the strategies and gathered some experience going solo, I grew astronomically in my social skills.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 04:27 PM
1	Went out solo last night, my takeaways I’d start with Good Looking Loser on YouTube	/r/seduction	04/05/21 09:38 PM
2	Went out solo last night, my takeaways I would say that guys should go out without alcohol as to not become reliant on it if they’re entering a familiar situation. If you’re going out solo for the first few times and you know you’re anxiety will be unmanageable, I would take a few shots if it helps you manage so that you can break past that initial barrier.	/r/seduction	03/05/21 03:04 PM
2	Went out solo last night, my takeaways This thread highlights my frustrations with this subbreddit. There are too many people not treating this like the skill that it’s warrants and they’re too busy psychoanalyzing each other. When posts like mine are trying to help guys with practical examples that they could immediately implement. You and this user are pointing at these tools as making up for insecurities. If I go out and do an average night of pickup with my 5 roommates and I don’t wear height insoles but then the next night I do …	/r/seduction	03/05/21 03:07 AM
3	Went out solo last night, my takeaways Most women do not engage in pickup, they’re not invested in the skill. If I use heel inserts to boost my height as a tool, well that is different than permanently altering your appearance. The tool pushes you past a anxiety plateau, you do not use the inserts on an average night. And because I can see through his argument. He’s making the claim that because he’s 6’3” and has trouble with pickup then that concurs that women do not value height as much as other factors. That’s an anecdotal fallacy…	/r/seduction	03/05/21 02:35 AM
1	Went out solo last night, my takeaways Boot already raises the heel an inch. The inserts add another two. 5’10” to 6’1”. And no this guy is a insecurity-projecting idiot.	/r/seduction	03/05/21 02:15 AM
2	Went out solo last night, my takeaways I’ve definitely noticed that a few of the guys I go out with will make sure to make out with them before they leave. That’s certainly something I will implement at the end of my feeling out phase. There’s also a variant of the card trick I use where you can kiss them and the card reveal will be in their mouth, which I have done a few times in the past	/r/seduction	03/05/21 01:59 AM
14	Went out solo last night, my takeaways The incel/pill movement has acted upon the insecurities and fears of men so much that they believe any “alpha man” can walk into a bar solo and pickup any girl they want. And they’ll say trying to compete with them is futile. That’s spilling into this subreddit. As a young guy who lives with 5 other men and will go out with up to 10 other guys at a time on any given weekend. It becomes clear that pickup is a skill and everyone comes out a beginner. Good-looks certainly increases your starting po…	/r/seduction	03/05/21 01:57 AM
1	Went out solo last night, my takeaways Do any of you understand that pickup is a skill. I don’t care if you’re giga chad, everyone sucks at pickup in the beginning. These items/methods I use provide me with TOOLS that allow me to break through an approach anxiety level plateau. It’s just like squatting with knee wraps. Become too dependent on the knee wraps your knees will weaken, but use them and you will be 30 lbs stronger. I did not advise anyone to use these tools every time because you’ll get dependent on them, but not to use th…	/r/seduction	03/05/21 12:50 AM
15	Went out solo last night, my takeaways Ask yourself why you’re criticizing a guy for lacking self-esteem when I am going out solo to bars and you’re not trying to improve	/r/seduction	02/05/21 11:32 PM
8	Went out solo last night, my takeaways I mean I’m 5’10” lol, fine with my height and I don’t where them everywhere. There’s literally zero reason why you wouldn’t want to give yourself that height boost if it gives you confidence and manages your approach anxiety since women value height so much.	/r/seduction	02/05/21 11:23 PM