thbt101 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do i move past oneitis? About comparing other girls to your ex... sometimes you just have to fake it for a while. Make yourself hang out with other girls anyway even if half your brain is still thinking about your ex. After you do that enough you'll eventually find you're thinking less about your ex and more about other girls for real.	/r/seduction	06/05/12 01:22 AM
42	Dealing with The Cock-Blocking Girlfriend From the title, I thought you meant your girlfriend was cock-blocking you from meeting other girls. I was going to say... dude...	/r/seduction	10/04/12 10:32 PM
4	[xMODx] Recent Spam Targeted at Seduction Members Ah, ok. That at least sounds like a plausible explanation for what this is actually about.	/r/seduction	18/03/12 07:16 PM
2	[xMODx] Recent Spam Targeted at Seduction Members Ok, so just trying to piece this all together... so you do remove all posts that link to that "other" subreddit. And the reason for this is that they are spamming users. But they say they had to private message people because their posts (supposedly legitimate posts) were being censored here. So what was wrong with their original posts that were being deleted? Was it something about the content of their posts or the frequency that they were posting it? What is it about that "other" subreddit tha…	/r/seduction	18/03/12 07:11 PM
4	[xMODx] Recent Spam Targeted at Seduction Members I find all the drama to be just silly, but it's probably worth addressing the issue that they're raising. Are moderators here really "blacking out" comments from anyone that questions their moderating practices? Hopefully that isn't going on, but if so that would be something that I would be at least a little troubled by.	/r/seduction	18/03/12 06:36 PM
1	[LR] Thanks Seddit (and the community in general). 32 year old, lost my virginity last friday It can take some time to get used to being with a girl. It's just so different than porn. Especially at your age, you really have to do a little re-training of your brain to get used to it so you get turned on at the right times. One tip, it's best if you can associate being with an actual girl with having an orgasm, so try to get them to do some oral on you. Or if nothing else at least fap to the memory of what you just did shortly after if possible.	/r/seduction	28/02/12 10:27 PM
7	[FR] Fourth date from OKCupid. Epic fail. Urge to kill rising... rising... falling... rising... About #4 about the drink... a lot of girls feel awkward if they get an alcoholic drink and the guy doesn't. Not a big deal, but I would have ordered a beer or something too. You don't even have to finish it if you don't want to.	/r/seduction	12/12/11 06:59 AM
3	Are you in, or are you out? It's always worth experimenting and you're welcome to do whatever works for you. Here's why I still prefer texting: Texting is this social norm now, especially for girls in their 20s or younger. If you could already be perceived as old, out of touch, or socially uncouth, calling instead of texting may reinforce that impression. Some people now regard an unexpected phone call as intrusive and almost rude (this didn't used to as true before texting became so ubiquitous). Calling takes more effort,…	/r/seduction	01/12/11 03:59 AM
8	Seduction, I have no knowledge of your ways. I'm a poor 27 year old college student, average looks and social skills. I drive a shitty car. I have sex with various women 2 to 4 times a week. One thing I want to add, don't assume that everyone here wants to have that kind of lifestyle with a lot of promiscuity and sex with as many girls as possible. That's a common misconception. Most guys here are more interested in getting better at meeting girls so they can get the quality girl they want for a serious, ongoing relationship.	/r/seduction	17/11/11 06:58 PM
1	Got a date this Thursday. We've kissed already. How do I invite her home without it looking like I wanna have sex? Tell her upfront that she's not going to score with you that night and that you know all about how girls are always trying to get in a guy's pants on the first date but you're just not that kind of guy. What's brilliant about that is if you can get her to play along (with you pretending to thwart her advances), she'll feel free to role play as a sexually aggressive girl just testing your boundaries, and it's pretty much a done deal at that point.	/r/seduction	27/09/11 05:16 AM
1	[FR] - Asked the same girl out and got rejected again. But this time, it was more clear. Coffee is boring if she's a wild or adventurous kind of girl or if you're just looking to get laid quick. But if she's a nice girl and he's looking for a potentially a real relationship, it's a great get-to-know-each-other start. And a note to the OP, everyone who tries gets rejected on a fairly regular basis, especially when you're starting out. Take what you've learned, try a different approach next time, and try try again.	/r/seduction	26/08/11 06:33 PM
21	It's OK to be nervous and shitty in front of her than to not talk with her at all. My first interaction with my last girlfriend was probably my worst ever attempt at getting a girl's phone number... I chatted with this random girl at a retail store and it was sort of going ok but I wasn't sure if I had sparked any real interest but I decided to just go for a # close anyway. But when I started to ask for her number, I suddenly got nervous and just choked... stumbled over my words, started to kind of cough and swallow a lot and could hardly speak correctly... just choked. I even…	/r/seduction	16/08/11 07:34 PM
2	Where do you pick up smart girls? Portland?	/r/seduction	27/06/11 02:53 AM
3	Tips on Dancing for the TRUE beginners http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BdNmogFVJTo&feature=related I used to find it almost impossible to find the beat when I first started playing drums. Now after lots of practice I can hardly listen to music without thinking "1, 2, 3, 4" in my head. It also helps to count 8th notes if the beat is a little slower. For that you say "1 and 2 and 3 and 4 and 1...". You say the "and" on the half beat in between each full beat.	/r/seduction	04/06/11 12:01 AM
1	Seddit... what makes a woman approachable? Huh?	/r/seduction	27/05/11 05:23 PM
2	Seddit... what makes a woman approachable? I've heard the same thing from many attractive girls I've known. They wonder why guys don't seem to hit on them much. That's because they're misinformed about how most guys really are. The reality is the vast majority of guys never walk up to a girl they don't know on the street and just start talking to them out of the blue. The seduction community is actually a tiny tiny percent of men. Yes, there is a somewhat larger group of guys who aren't involved in seduction, but who do hit on random gir…	/r/seduction	27/05/11 07:46 AM
2	"The purpose of this document is to provide you with a complete and unequivocal guide to success." It basically says to set goals and then work to achieve them. How insightful. This is no more useful than the same stuff you hear from every "motivational speaker." This stuff might be useful if you're just slacking off and are unmotivated, but that's pretty much it.	/r/seduction	09/05/11 11:43 PM
23	SimplePickup guys pickup girls off street, kiss, maybe even f-close (video link) It's entertaining to watch, but their technique just makes me cringe. I wouldn't really want to do that in real life, even if it is at least sometimes successful.	/r/seduction	27/04/11 08:15 PM
0	[LR] Two dates on the same day. Ended it in bed with a girl in a cast. I know that's what he meant. I was just making a joke.	/r/seduction	03/04/11 07:23 PM
25	[LR] Two dates on the same day. Ended it in bed with a girl in a cast. The whole story I kept on wondering... sure sure enough about the girl, but how much did the park cost to get in?? Turns out you were saving that juicy detail for the very end. Well played sir.	/r/seduction	03/04/11 12:57 AM
2	First [FR], did everything wrong, worked anyways How do you manage to find parties to go to every weekend? I'm guessing you're in college? Even in my college days there weren't usually enough parties going on to find one to go to every weekend.	/r/seduction	27/03/11 09:57 PM
1	A realization I had today. FB chat does work as a way to lead up to meeting in person. When I meet a girl I will often get her to friend me on FB if we didn't quite manage to reach a point where it felt natural to ask for her phone number but I still want to keep in contact with her (or if she was with a guy at the time I was talking to her, etc.). Then it takes a couple short FB chat sessions to reach a natural level of comfort to where you can easily ask her to hang out.	/r/seduction	25/03/11 06:50 PM
5	How to start with maintaining eye contact Ok ok a word of caution... in the right context eye contact can build attraction, but in the wrong context you're just a creepy guy staring into girls eyeballs for no reason like a deer in caught in the headlights. It's really creepy and weird. Remember that being a little aloof and letting your focus drift around the room shows that you're a guy with options, and that can be the right message depending on the situation. But when she's doing something to earn your attention, intimate eye contact…	/r/seduction	21/03/11 03:30 AM
1	How to start with maintaining eye contact When you say watching porn... are you talking about hours at a time? That's not a good idea, but if you don't release some tension now and then you're just going to be a ball of horny energy, which is no good for meeting girls.	/r/seduction	21/03/11 03:16 AM
3	Quick trick - Do not call girls by their desired nicknames Sorry militant but I think you're really not getting it... the brazen absurdity of a complete stranger asking a girl for a sip of her drink is why it works. I bet the girl usually responds with a bit of a giggle before she says ok... it's laughably absurd for him to even ask, but at the same time it shows great confidence, originality, and completely turns her expectations upside down. It's playful. If he did it in a meathead / pushy sort of way, it wouldn't work. And yes, asking her to comply t…	/r/seduction	15/03/11 07:12 AM
1	[FR] Subway Day-game Is there a reason why guys will have the girl punch in their phone number rather than ask them for the digits and type them in yourself?	/r/seduction	15/02/11 07:57 PM
1	How do I deal with "You're so young"? Out of curiosity, are you just not interested in the 18-22 year-olds for some reason?	/r/seduction	15/02/11 08:25 AM
5	philosoraptor ponders the nature of the AFC I've definitely heard girls say that about guys they've been with. There are girls who sometimes just want a good screw and nothing more.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 08:54 PM
3	When the pain of not-acting becomes greater than the worst possible rejection scenario It's one thing to sit next to a girl at a bar or to ask to share a big table at a coffeeshop, but just plopping yourself down at a stranger's booth may not be a great initial approach. Or at least you would need to initiate a conversation first and then take a seat once you've reached some level of comfort where sitting at someone's booth is socially acceptable. Especially at a coffeeshop. You could probably get away with that at a bar, especially if they've had a couple drinks. No wonder the OP…	/r/seduction	12/01/11 04:14 AM
3	When the pain of not-acting becomes greater than the worst possible rejection scenario I'm kind of curious about what you were planning to do exactly... you were going to go sit down in their booth with them?? I'm not sure if that's what you meant or if I'm just not picturing the situation accurately. Was it a big shared table or something?	/r/seduction	11/01/11 11:46 PM
0	[FR] First night out: about 4 openers and 3 things learned Others may disagree, I'm not sure this kino/open thing is a great idea. It may work for some girls, but a lot of girls don't like to be touched at all until you reach a minimum comfort level with them just so they know you're an ok guy and not a creep. It may not take much, you might be able to convince them you aren't a creep in the first 30 seconds depending on the situation, but for some girls touching them right away evokes an instinctive recoil response. Other than that I think you're on th…	/r/seduction	01/01/11 10:17 PM