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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Q4M: if a husband cheats, does that mean he doesn't love his wife? Yes, it’s a betrayal of her trust and loyalty. It only wouldn’t be cheating if she knew and had approved the behaviour for whatever reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 05:50 PM
10	CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental. I don’t have any data to hand but anecdotally, I barely ever get compliments from girls that allude to attraction, including from my girlfriend, and all my male friends would say the same. The most common compliment we get is work related - “well done” “good job” and the like. Other than that, I’ve been told that my clothes are nice a few times but this is incredibly rare from anyone other than my girlfriend. Personally o don’t mind since she shows her love for me in other ways - being comfortab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 10:21 AM
2	I don’t think the amount of money a man makes actually matters I’m seeing the way you’re replying to all these comments OP and I think the best bet is to take some of that income and invest it in some therapy. You are in serious need of some self confidence and happiness	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 05:42 AM
2	Q4W: How important is monogamy to you, really? Good bot Edit: Oh shit didn’t realise you were real pls don’t ban me	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 06:20 PM
1	Female attractiveness You’re using the word objective wrong. For something to objective it has to be indisputable, based on observable facts and logic. Attractiveness is entirely subjective and is a social construct that has changed over time. Makeup and plastic surgery is a whole completely different issue that has nothing to do with objectivity or subjectivity. That’s the comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 09:14 AM
4	Do men lose attraction to their partners over time? I’ve got testosterone levels significantly higher than average. All I have to show for it is thick back and shoulder hair, a permanent 5 o clock shadow and an increased likelihood of going bald by the time I’m 30	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 09:08 AM
3	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? Because in this day and age, fitness has nothing to do with survival. As a society we’ve progressed beyond natural selection. You don’t have to be the strongest or the fastest to be desirable, you need to be rich and educated and preferably smart. If you’re born into a working class family, destined to work minimum wage for the rest of your life, it doesn’t matter if you have superior genetics, it’s going to be harder to breed than if you were born into a rich family	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 10:11 PM
2	Why don't more people use dating agencies? I’d never heard of a dating agency before so I just looked it up and Jesus Christ, what a scam! I guess if burning your money seems like too much effort you could always pay for a dating agency lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 09:58 PM
1	One of the biggest signs you’ll fail at dating is if you have to put in a lot of effort Then you’re probably gonna find someone soon enough. For All the guys who say ‘it just happened,’ I can guarantee they also did all those things as well. It’s about making yourself desirable enough so that when a girl comes along who is ready for a relationship, you’re in a good place in life for it to ‘just happen’ with her, if that makes sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 10:22 AM
2	One of the biggest signs you’ll fail at dating is if you have to put in a lot of effort Depends on what you mean by hard work. I go to the gym to make my body look better and be more healthy. When I was single I’d regularly go out with friends, talk to girls at the pub or dance with them at the club. I keep my house clean to ensure it’s a comfortable place for guests to stay round. Now I have a girlfriend, I buy her gifts and organise dates, or I ask her friends to help me organise a surprise for her. These things all require work and effort, and will absolutely make it easier to g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 10:10 AM
8	When it comes to women choosing men, look is way more important than Personality or Intelligence. just ask any college dude in this sub As a college dude, I’m far from the best looking guy. I’m skinny, I’m 5’8 and I can’t grow a full beard at 21. My girlfriend has told me repeatedly that my most attractive qualities are my confidence, sense of humour and empathy. Everyone’s attracted to different things and it’s clear that monkey man has something that she likes. It’s not a universal thing. the brilliant Asian dude gets no pussy while the white Chad is bombarded by pussy You’re mixing up rel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 10:01 AM
2	Shut down by an 11 year old. Absolute Chad right there	/r/PussyPassDenied	09/03/21 10:52 PM