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Theory to anything women is background reading at best. It's good to know dynamics and what makes girls tick but you can't trump experience. Any experience, no matter how bad, is still experience. With social media and OLD, the dynamics are shifting with incredible pace. Women as a rule tend to be quite shallow and go for good looking men, with OLD and SM this effect is even more pronounced. Don't give up, sooner or later you'll meet someone who's genuinely interested whether it's through OLD or…
/r/seduction01/03/21 03:10 PM
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When did she flake the second time? Messaging her and she's busy doesn't constitute as a flake. It's not a power play it means she either has low interest or you're plan B, it's no more complicated than that. If she offers again and she's only flaked once go for it. If she's flaked more than once her number's already gone bro. Who dis?
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:21 PM
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Girls view attention from HVMs the same way guys view sex. You've got it right by having other options instead of this girl, she seems disinterested. To be honest, I'd soft next her for a couple weeks then pop her up to gauge her interest. If nothing's changed or she didnt text in the meantime, move on. You're the prize remember? Whose frame are you in thinking that withdrawing attention is childish? It is your #1 weapon against time wasting bitches.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:11 PM
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Thanks for the expansion, that really put a few things in perspective.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 06:32 PM
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Interesting, I suppose your way would be to silently drop exclusivity and just do whatever you wanted. I suppose obvious perks are that you keep tapping it while getting whatever strange on the side. Not my preferred approach but definitely worth considering
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:25 PM
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I have asked her before, I'll ask her again not to mention it and gauge the response. It is a learned responsibility I agree but it isn't my job to teach her or pick up the slack when she can't pay for things. It's a bad indicator of things to come.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:20 PM
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So she's going to meet a random guy from the subway one-on-one and you think that's okay in an exclusive relationship? Yes she told him she has you as a boyfriend but what she isn't telling you is that she is going to fuck him anyway. My advice - like everyone else has said, hard next this bitch. It's a major red flag and not to mention that during the current pandemic it's inexcusably reckless. It's a good thing you didn't seriously emotionally invest in this one - perhaps you have good instinc…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:45 PM
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I know where you're coming from but the thing with oneitis is it can persist. If he gets a no it's closure to move on, like ripping off a band aid. He can't really continue to justify thinking about her with a healthy mind. If he bangs her then more power to him
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:31 AM
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Start being more selfish and saying no to these fuckers. It'll be hard at first but the more you do it, the easier it gets
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:06 PM
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Sling her a message. If she's still interested you'll get a yes but if she strings you along, slow short replies or other generally shitty behavior it's a no and that's your signal to move on and leave this one in the dust. Oneitis is a killer but get over it enough times it'll never fuck you up again
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:04 PM
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You can talk to girls in the gym if you want but I wouldn't go there to score. Like someone already said, most have an inflated ego and SMV because of the attention from guys at the gym or on Instagram. Personally I prefer girls outside the gym, they tend to be more down to earth and approachable. The gym is for lifting and shooting the shit with your bros and Maybe getting laid that one rare time when the girl makes it obvious that she's into you for more than just talk.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:52 PM
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Soft next bro this one's got her own problems and baggage, not your problem
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:21 PM
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Mindset. Regardless of where you started, your brain is 'neuro plastic'. This means that you can form new thinking/reward pathways. You can learn how to be alpha, but don't forget how to be beta. That can be useful in the right situations.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:42 PM
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150 is on the smaller range.. i'd aim for at least 165-170 at 10-12% bodyfat Bulking can be scary but if you do a lean bulk eating nothing but clean food the way the olympias do you got nothing to be afraid of. Keep cardio up as well if you feel like you're starting to retain water. 30-60m daily is enough for me
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:42 PM
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It depends situation to situation but it can be done. If your mate was insecure or jealous of you I wouldn't even bother. The dude might be all happy to see you and cool at first but soon the other side will come out where he'll play mental gymnastics with you, try to cockblock you or generally put you down to make himself feel better. Honestly dude it's a much better bet to make new friends.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:07 AM
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Arnold Schwarzenegger. Sylvester stallone. Dwayne 'the rock' Johnson
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:34 AM
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A few things. You've clearly got one itis for this girl She has probably had more than 2 sexual partners, don't kid yourself Why are you getting so fucked up about her having one casual fling? You'd be incredibly hard pressed to find a girl who's had none of those in her life lol I wouldn't have dumped her, dude you should have kept her as a plate and not pressed her for the relationship. She needs to try and lock you down remember? Like other repliers have mentioned, she's a bit young for kids …
/r/askTRP17/03/20 04:33 PM
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Pretty common terminology around here, but it gets the point across well. I'm glad you've found the sub, it is a good first step to taking back control in relationships and life in general. I've had my fair share of Oneitis and it all sucks. Good luck on your journey mate.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 06:55 PM
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Accept what happened and move on. It may take a few days, weeks or months but you eventually get over it. Think of it as a 'denial' phase. Give yourself time and make sure you don't make the same mistakes again. You know better now. Knowledge is power.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:54 PM
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Yeah this is it. They're looking for a chink in the armor.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:50 PM
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I used to have this. It's because I had trouble accepting cheating as common behaviour for most girls. Think dualistic dating strategy. It is more common than you'd expect and I know what you're thinking - if it does happen to me (and it might) it make me low value? Undateable? Uncommittable? I was still pedestalising a perfect relationship where i wanted to be able to totally trust a girl not to cheat. Unfortunately that is a fever dream, so forget all that. Most girls are not relationship mate…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:44 PM
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Stay in school. Running the ranch isn't exclusively your job. It sounds like you're picking up the slack for lazier family members who need to pull their own weight. Finish your degree and it will bring other opportunities you wouldn't otherwise get. Don't sacrifice your future for the sake of the present. Work on yourself and don't neglect your training or schooling. It sounds like someone else needs to pick up responsibility you've been shouldered with here.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:51 PM
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Porn and easy gratification is a huge problem for men today. The red pill has mixed views on Nofap so you'll get mixed answers about that. Personally, I'd suggest quit Porn altogether, quit weed if you smoke and drugs like xanax. Bad for your head, trust me. Benzo's like that are ADDICTIVE. Practice Semen Retention (see the subreddit). I only jack it once or twice a week max. Benefits? A lot of the nofap lot talk about super powers. I don't buy into that or the community, to be honest. Too blue …
/r/askTRP12/02/20 06:12 PM
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Don't compare yourself to other people. It is exactly what is happening here. You're comparing your success to your friends' success and beating yourself up about it. It's a toxic habit I struggled with for a while so I can relate. Try and work on yourself and don't worry about your needy friends with their girls. It may work out for them, it may not. It's not for you to judge. Try and become your best version, even if it means going through some hard times. Hard times create strong men. Women a…
/r/seduction16/01/20 12:23 AM
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I think you already know what you want to do, from what I've read - you'd be perfectly justified, and the only person you need to justify it to is yourself, really. There's a bit of banter in male groups but the constant AMOGging and shit talk leads me to believe his attitude towards you is anything but kosher. Ditch that MF, unless you can find some utility in repeated interaction with him. Just look out for him trying to come at you through your mutual friends if he gets salty.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:33 AM
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Jesus man, I feel for you. This is a wake-up call for me. I've been moseying around letting myself feel shit for leaving a shit job with decent pay and losing pretty much all my social groups in the last 6 months... But all that bullshit pales in comparison to what you've been through. Keep going man, guys like you toughing it out through the very worst in life give us all hope! Keep us posted, I want to know how things improve.. whether it's in two weeks or a year.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 09:23 PM
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Sounds like LTR is making power plays to try and lock you down, and your brain is telling you that you do not want that. Good girls are hard to come by but there are many out there. Stop thinking she's the ONE for you because she's not the only one that could have your kids. You're in a good place in life. Good earning power, strong position. Many girls would compete for someone with that kind of material. I say trust your gut. Stay away from drugs, take some alone time and reflect on what every…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:44 PM
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It's not 'how do I get a group of friends' it's more like 'how do I get a group that won't fuck me over'. You could make friends anywhere mate, but if you're desparate you'll stop analysing who they are and just be thankful they're there. That can lead to you ending up in bad situations (Bullying guised as "Banter"). Talking from experience there. You've got to be careful with people and not give your trust out too easily. Make people earn it. You say that loneliness is getting to you but I'm go…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:08 PM
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Fancy that, the very same alarm bells that rang in my head. I don't want to take the hardline just yet but it's sobering in that i was naive enough to trust these people. Maybe I am just too trusting, hence the problem.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:43 AM
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If you want a solid answer about genuine paternity of a child - be it yours or maybe someone you know.. get a DNA test. Everyone has doubts about everything and anything. Quell yours with something that can't lie to you
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:25 AM
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Thank you for this post. I've been here and there for a while now and I feel like I needed to read this to get back on track. Falling into bad habits is a bitch not easily gotten rid of.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 11:58 AM
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Seconded. This should be sidebar material
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:22 PM
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I second this 1000%. Most girls that have moved to my country from outside the western hemisphere are much more submissive and flirty... I would even say forward if you're hot and she likes you. They're much more overt with the IOIs and do not put up much resistance if they believe you are high value. Conversely, you'll get a usually 4 acting like a 200 if she was born here. Small IOIs if you're hot but no effort made on her part - just the same bitchiness and entitlement that plagues western wo…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 09:03 PM
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Is there going to be an app for trp.red? For people like me that mainly browse on mobile
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 04:47 PM
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Exactly how it should be. Stop shacking up with low quality bitches. Stop rewarding them. They got nothing going for them except that wet thing between their legs and even then they're easily replaceable. Some guys reek of desperation and the guy in this example is one of them.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 04:11 PM
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Yep. It's here and has been for a while. Start saving and get out ASAP. With Brexit looming it's what I'm doing
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 07:37 PM
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Awful man, really preying on the batchelors there that are smart enough to see marriage ain't worth doing. I wouldn't consider living there.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 07:33 PM
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Yeah it's not much better here and seems to be getting worse slowly. Medical system is failing because for some reason we're funding idiotic shit like gender change yet someone that needs a heart transplant is waiting for God knows how long to get it done. The courts are terrible. Especially family court - everything is tilted in the favour of the woman's side of the story, no matter how much evidence to the contrary there may be. The same principle American red pillers apply can be applied here…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 07:32 PM
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Since they had 2 kids together I'd assume we're talking at least 2 years. I think it's treated the same here in the UK - they were treated as partners although no marriage ever happened. She wasn't on the mortgage and the guy got away with the house and most of his stuff luckily for him. He still got fucked by the court though, 17k worth of debt. Ugh.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 11:22 AM
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Their kids, but the guy would've had ample chance to see the red flags in this girl before knocking her up. He's responsible for the situation he got himself into, the girl just used and abused by the sounds of it.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 09:51 PM
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My God, it's astounding how many blue ass men put their livelihoods on the line just for some pussy. Future red pills in the making perhaps? Some guys need to wise the fuck up. This shit's not gonna get any better
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 09:48 PM
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Talk about enjoying the decline and making a few bucks off it, lmao
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 09:45 PM
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My thinking too, but AFC's gonna AFC right?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 09:45 PM
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The credit cards were in her name. The judge ruled that he had to pay them off 'because they were cohabiting at the time and had kids. She has no means of paying this card off.'
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 04:45 PM
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If you want to raise a family you'll likely have to co-habitate. Ideally you want a girl that's financially stable enough not to be a complete fuck-up like this girl ended up being - and then fucked the guy up too! UK Gov't for ya. And I agree, we may well end up seeing shit like a 'batchelor tax' come in to fund all these single mommas that are "strong" and "dont need no man". Like you said, enjoy the decline... until you can't. Always look for greener grass. I don't see myself living here when…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 04:26 PM
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Bigger clubs like pryzm and shoosh are probably your best bet. There are a few drum n bass clubs like the arch but if it's anything like I remember I wouldn't bother, much less opportunity.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 12:32 PM
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Depends on your style of game. How do you normally pick up girls?
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:06 PM
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Stay away from the gay clubs. Bigger clubs like pryzm attract a mostly student customer base - adjust your game accordingly. There's lots of small bars and pubs on the way to the seafront which can be good for pickup. Brighton's like any big city - just be smart and play to your strengths, be it club game or pub game.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:05 PM
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Check the sidebar
/r/askTRP21/04/19 04:18 PM
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Okay, you could wait. That may work. If you wanted to be a bit more proactive, here's an idea.. you could go in and ask her for some advice on buying something for a friend or sibling. When she asks what kinda makeup your 'friend' uses or what they're like, literally describe the girl you're talking to. Let her take you somewhere a bit more isolated in the shop and shoot your shot mate
/r/seduction07/04/19 04:21 PM
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Man if she looked at you that long you should approach her. Go up to her, say hi and ask her to show you something in the shop (isolate). Chat to her about something. Anything. Keep good eye contact, tease abit.. whatever you feel you can do. Then close, say something like 'it was great meeting you, but I've gotta go back to work and do x...' maybe go for a number or snapchat close depending on your preference
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:01 PM
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If it gets more passionate maybe it's because she feels guilty about cheating and feels like she need to "make it up" to you. Seen girls do stuff like this all the time, girl cheats on her guy then bam, hour later an Instagram appreciation post about him or some shit - " I love my boy so much I'd never change him blablabla "
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:26 PM
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Yes! I was wondering if anyone would bring this up. I think that if your SMV is high enough and you've got clear abundance with other girls, it could work out, sure. Think top 10% of guys - ya think she'd turn down a hot enough guy just cause he said he likes her? Nope. I think it's a form of beta-game to do stuff like this
/r/askTRP09/03/19 08:40 PM
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I like to read seddit, there are some good bits here and there. I'm kinda just experimenting atm, figuring out what works best for me and what doesnt. Acting cocky and aloof is fun and I enjoy being the vain asshole that makes a joke out of everything. It gets tiresome eventually though, especially with girls that are relentless shit testers. Kinda just exploring my other options for now. I figured admitting you like girls is a trash idea though.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 04:57 PM
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She probably is trying to get with you but mate it's her job to gain your exclusivity by fucking you well and treating you like the alpha you always wanted to be. You incrementally reward her with your exclusivity if you believe she's worthy of it (Dinner date etc) but ultimately it is up to you on whether you want it to progress. It's about what you want out of it. Do you want a relationship or do you wanna spin some more plates? Honestly, to me it's not a case of worrying about N-count at all.…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:29 PM
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Buy better fitting and better quality condoms. Happened to me earlier
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:17 PM
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OP needs to consider this! If she doesn't seem crazy this could be why. Not to say she isn't cray though he needs to gauge it well
/r/askTRP19/01/19 06:29 PM
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I kinda have a couple reasons for not wanting to go to her place. It's a shithole, and she still lives with her parents.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 10:07 PM
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Wrap it before you tap it, best thing you can do with a new girl. I try not to overthink it and gauge it well when I bring someone home. If you get her clothes off and her pussy stinks to high hell something's wrong. If her pussy looks discoloured something's probably wrong. If she's got cold sores on her mouth don't go there. Just be careful man.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 09:56 PM
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Fucking her is your job. Gaining your exclusivity is hers. Don't do her job for her, but reward her when she's earned it.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 04:38 PM
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Sounds like she's trying to bring you into her orbit. I wouldn't chase her but just make her aware that you're leaving for uni soon, then she can chase you for her stuff if she cares that much because really it's her responsibility to take care of her shit not yours. If you wanted to bed her mate you probably should've found a way the other night. Most girls use the period excuse as a form of LMR, but to be fair some girls just aren't into it. Game other girls man she's just one out of 3.5 billi…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:23 PM
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Vagina size is definitely a thing. It sounds like christine may have been insecure about even the idea that it could be a thing, it definitely is. Ask anyone who's been with a taller girl, or a fat girl, or a girl that's been used as the village bicycle. Sure, Christine will say that dick size matters or that it doesn't (depending on whether the guy railing her is close enough to her ideal embodiment of Chad thundercock) because that directs attention away from the differences between her pussy …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 02:05 AM
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I read your post bro, good pointers there. You've given me a lot to think about on the subject. If I had to be honest I don't think it's time for me to start a cycle yet, if ever. I've still got much more work and research to do first before I make a decision, that much is clear. It's not something I'm taking lightly. I haven't seen the Coleman doc but I'll give it a watch. The guy did win Mr.olympia like 6 times. Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP29/11/18 12:52 PM
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I disagree, since there's monetary gain involved. A wolf can disguise himself as a sheep for personal gain, in this case being cash and still remain a wolf. Just a richer one. Sometimes you have to be selfish in this world and you can't deny there's an opportunity here to enjoy the decline and get a little richer while doing it
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 01:26 PM
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I agree, it's been a good move getting a job here. Having a lot more exposure to people has helped me become a bit more confident so far. I'm going to stick with it for a while, feel like I could learn alot here. Thanks.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:49 PM
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This is ambiguous behaviour. If she wants to take pole dancing classes, it could imply that she wants to start stripping and stuff. That'll get her attention from many men, possibly some rich, possibly some learned in the ways of game. For me, this is deal breaking behaviour for an LTR and I think the best course of action is to demote her to a plate.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 02:11 PM
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Was Ugly and Obese throughout 'highschool' facing constant rejections from anyone I liked and bullying from anyone else. Got my heart broken by two different girls, one I crushed on for 4 years and one I crushed on for a year. Finally got slimmer and found a HB4 to mess around with but I was too BP with her and it eventually failed, I hit rock bottom there. I found TRP and all of it's wisdom soon after.. And 8 months later I still have much to learn, but am doing much better than I was.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 06:48 PM
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I wouldn't have even apologised, you were taking stuff back that was rightly yours. She cheated, you take no prisoners bud. Ghost that bitch.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 09:49 AM
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I'd stop texting her until she texts you again. Then when she does, give her a couple of flirty texts as if nothing happened and hit her with "let's meet at 'x place' for drinks/etc tomorrow night after work". If she flakes mid text or mid organisation, hit her with something like "am i wasting my time with you here?" If she doesn't reply, ghost her. If she does, use your judgment. The aim of texting is to set up a meet, not to build rapport or escalate. That shit all happens in person. She coul…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 05:38 PM
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Do you jack off? Watch porn? Don't do that shit, period.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 10:34 PM
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I have done stuff in the interim - doesn't the gym and going out for drinks with mates count? Ugh yeah she's the first girl i've done stuff with for a while so maybe I am getting in the feels. Messaged her and she's being distant and giving me attitude So I left her on "seen" and I probably won't bother with her for a while.. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 02:45 PM
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Maybe it's time to next this girl and spin some more plates to get your confidence back up. It sounds like she's still playing games with you to gauge your reaction, possibly even trying to make you into an orbiter, which trust me - at that level of emotional investment from you... You really don't want that. Save yourself and your emotions by nexting this girl. Also, take a look at the sidebar - "this one girl..." I think it'll help you out alot Sorry you're going thru this shit man, I've been …
/r/askTRP13/07/17 10:45 AM
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Damn straight. She made her choice by fucking 15 other guys and "fell in love at least 5 times" with other dudes
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 02:37 PM
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My father is an example of the man you just stated. He has never had a serious job outside of courier work and my mother is the breadwinner of the house. They are still together after 20 Years, but it was definitely not all hunky dory.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 03:08 PM
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This is so true, I literally just experienced this while chatting with an old friend. Making people laugh can go a long way.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 12:44 AM
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Oh man, you are so right. Women in positions of power like that can wreak havoc on guys everywhere. Also, nice username.. "I am going my own way"
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 08:49 PM
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Well yeah, actually. My friends in relationships are against the idea of marriage, but that isn't saying much because nobody has been put in that position by their plates yet. Most of my mates share the sentiment that you can be happy without marriage, yet still drool over any half-decent looking girl on the street. I think we're getting there, slowly, but there is a long way to go yet. I know guys in relationships with single mothers at 20 yo. The kids aren't even theirs. There are definite exa…
/r/MGTOW02/06/17 09:14 PM
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Hmm yeah I think i'm just stressing too much, thanks for the advice. I'll just focus on improving me and not focus on them.
/r/MGTOW19/05/17 05:04 PM
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Thanks for the reality check, I keep forgetting what they're actually like. AWALT.
/r/MGTOW19/05/17 05:00 PM
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Ain't that the truth
/r/MGTOW12/05/17 11:07 AM
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I used to be in your situation. I was 17+ stone (stopped weighing myself after a while, didn't want to see higher numbers.) At 17 yo about 3 years ago. I regularly contemplated suicide and I smoked lots of weed back then too. Now I'm 12 Stone and go to the gym at least twice a week. I get a bit of attention here and there, so that's nice. I remember when I was so big that nobody was really there to help me or tell me what to do. No good friends, Parents were drunks so they couldn't support me an…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 09:46 AM
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I see this sub become more MGTOW every day
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 12:58 AM
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It's not, and I don't personally use it very often apart from to message friends. Feminist Posts like this are aimed at falsely informing the some 1 Billion daily users [1] who browse on a daily basis and this is bad because it gives the masses a false pretense about women, generating more feminist empowerment and hatred towards men. [1] Source: https://zephoria.com/top-15-valuable-facebook-statistics/
/r/MGTOW09/03/17 11:26 PM
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All of this is arguably Feminist Indoctrination to the masses. You are right, it appeals to their 'victim' complexes and gives them a false sense of empowerment through hate.
/r/MGTOW09/03/17 11:04 PM
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The video just shows how far Feminism is going in order to promote unwarranted hatred. One man argues against the video's points in the comments section and is trampled by politically-correct women and SJWs in an effort to silence him. Apologies for the Facebook link, I know FB is cancer.
/r/MGTOW09/03/17 10:56 PM
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This isn't surprising; since the third wave, feminism is practically a female supremacy group
/r/MGTOW05/03/17 05:12 PM
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