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| 1 | How important is it to get experience talking to random girls in public ?But that's what i meant, cold approaching in and of itself doesn't determine your goal or what you do after. Apart from that i think if your goal is just sex it might be more honest to try to have sex early and not spend a long time lying to her and "getting to know her". I know what you mean and it is true, there can be a lot of inner conflict from pretending. So what is the way to get confident/ high value/ good inner game / whatever you want to call it if its not pretending? | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How important is it to get experience talking to random girls in public ?Just some thoughts on that What do you think the deep psychological problems are? Low self esteem, needing validation from outside which they are looking to feed/compensate? Or you mean just in general well adjusted people don't get into it because they have some level of romantic success which never leads them down that road? You mean 4 hours accumulative, like after a first date or something? I mean you could cold approach and not be fake, invite her on a couple dates and have sex with her aft… | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 10:06 AM |
| 1 | How important is it to get experience talking to random girls in public ?Why are you saying daygame only leads to casual sex? Why can't you find a girlfriend through cold approach? | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Possible advice for absolute dating begginers. Do they make sense?It depends, this thinking can be dangerous. Yes, if she's attracted AND invested enough she'll reach out. But there are some scenarios where she might not reach out even though she is: She for some reason expected you to text and since you didn't, she thinks you're not interested and doesn't want to get outright rejected. She realizes you're not texting because you're playing a game to pretend to be hard to get and she doesn't want to lose the game. This kind of advice is good for people who hav… | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Possible advice for absolute dating begginers. Do they make sense?At the end you hit on an important point, about the girls you told things from "behind the scenes". It's definitely good to avoid that. Unlike in math homework, in dating you don't want to show your working. It gives girls the notion that you're overthinking it and that you are needy for a specific outcome or that you had an agenda (bringing her home to your place, kissing, needing to make it work etc). It shows you're really invested and serves no purpose in actually attracting her or moving th… | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Possible advice for absolute dating begginers. Do they make sense?"Maybe you'll end up being ghosted, but well, then she wasn't interested" There's a lot of advice along this vain of "don't text her". This way you're often putting her in control of the speed and frame of the entire interaction. I mean yeah don't be needy but this way you're constantly asking her to invest. (Which is in theory good if you hit the right balance). Especially if you're a beginner the attraction / investment might not be high enough for that on her part. And you're pointlessly kill… | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 4 | Dating German Girls. Do I pay compliments or not? Do I say I love you on Nth date? Blah blah blah...What do you mean? We're writing under your post. | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Dating German Girls. Do I pay compliments or not? Do I say I love you on Nth date? Blah blah blah...I'm German but i don't know if there anything in particular i can tell you about German girls. Where are you from? It's good that you know what you want but i would recommend, regardless of what country in the Western world, to avoid mentioning relationship or especially lifelong relationship explicitly the first couple of dates before you know each other and it's clear that it is going really well. It will put too much pressure on the whole thing even if she's looking for the same thing. | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 09:13 PM |
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