the-old-guard90 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
160	My secret to good conversations	Outer Game	the-old-guard90	/r/seduction	12/04/26 02:20 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	My secret to good conversations Confidence, atomic attraction Christopher Canfield	/r/seduction	12/04/26 03:36 PM
1	20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] I’ve found the secret to second dates is: Physical attraction + resonance Either they don’t find you attractive when you meet which I doubt if you’re polished and fit.,, Or you don’t take the time in the date to establish things you share in common and value. Example, I told my girlfriend on our first date I live one week at a time because idk if we’ll be alive next month in our current political situation. — we both felt the same way I told her about my plans to save heavily and enjoy my youth.…	/r/seduction	28/12/25 03:26 PM
2	How to keep her off the pedestal I’ve found when I think about a girl when she’s not around it’s like raising her up on a jack lift. To let her down, focus on other women or even better your work. You can’t obsess if you’re distracted. Additionally I’ve found when you have a scarcity mindset you get focused on one good thing— because you never get them. If you start talking to more women and get used to dating good women you’ll drop them all off the pedistal and realize they’re just people. I did a 6 month hoe phase and slept w…	/r/seduction	26/12/25 05:59 PM
1	The emptiness of sleeping with unattractive women When you have low self esteem you sleep with women to feel worthy. Once you feel worthy you sleep with women because you genuinely desire them. You have low self esteem because you do things contrary to what you value. When you stop eating trash, stop skipping the gym, stop scrolling and start doing things people who love themselves do: I.e. self respecting activities like working out, meal prepping, socializing, exploring, reading, and basically any delayed gratification activity… You’ll get th…	/r/seduction	26/12/25 05:50 PM
3	Would you rather visit Vancouver, Canada or Miami to get laid? I’ve found Seattle, Vancouver, Toronto, SF to be the hardest cities imo I landed 4 dates in 3hrs in Portland tho— went on all 4 from 11am to 11pm and one was one of the baddest I’d ever met in my life. It’s easy to be a top tier man in chiller cities, hard to stick out in finance/tech cities. If you want some more international recs dm me	/r/seduction	24/12/25 02:44 PM
3	How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird? In general I just text her like we’ve already slept together. “Girl I thought I told you to stop running through my mind all night 😏” Ideally tho you flirt briefly then communicate clearly you want to see her “Hey fr tho I can’t text much, come grab a bite w me tonight at 7” Then if she’s actually into you she’ll oblige if she says no without offering an alternative I move to the next girl Texting is primarily to meet up Meet up is to flirt and escalate	/r/seduction	23/12/25 05:12 PM
1	Hinge response help Act like you’ve got 100 women waiting for you to respond- It will reduce the pressure you feel and allow you to flirt naturally. When I do this I get the wildest responses and they usually bite “Hey I think someone photoshopped you in a bills jersey, you meant INSERT YOUR TEAM right?” First rule of flirting is stop caring so damn much Send me a chat if you want more guidelines	/r/seduction	23/12/25 04:56 PM
1	Showing emotional intelligence on profile Act like you’re on a dating show when you answer prompts for example: When I met my girlfriend she said what caught her eyes were when I said a life goal of mine that was ambitious + also fun. I said, a life goal of mine: “learn to dance without embarrassing myself 😅 and get my masters in insert field I’m in” It actually got me so many matches my account got paused	/r/seduction	23/12/25 04:55 PM
2	Is it weird to hook up with your ex? Ive slept with my exes several times but in general if you wouldn’t want to have a child with them I wouldn’t risk the possibility. As always, it’s easier to get a brand new plate than it is to try and fix one broken once.	/r/seduction	23/12/25 04:51 PM
10	I am sick of not being able attract women Man’s spot on. Ironically the more interested in traveling I became the more women became interested in me	/r/seduction	22/12/25 06:14 PM
6	I am sick of not being able attract women To solve this I asked myself what type of wife do o want? Okay now imagine her day to day life what does she do? Yoga? Shop? Travel? What’s her career? If you want an active girl, she’s probably at the gym or on a hike or doing yoga so go join those. If you want a scholar she’s probably at a college library. I’d skip the club entirely if you want a relationship they’re found in daylight hours at places where people are growing themselves or taking care of their health. But in general the more yo…	/r/seduction	22/12/25 06:09 PM
4	I am sick of not being able attract women Not one have I ever landed a relationship in a club. Usually airports, hostels, coffee shops, and grocery stores also crosswalks were my go to. I got a choice of the women I wanted once I became the man I wanted to be. If you want a gym bunny, become a gym rat. You want a girly girl, become a stoic man. List 5 things you want in a partner, become the 5 male equivalents, then when you become a man you’re proud to be you’ll get a woman you’re proud to have. Low quality women is an indication you y…	/r/seduction	22/12/25 05:51 PM
22	I am sick of not being able attract women This was me at 23 and honestly I never thought it would end but let me tell you brother. If you do the work you can literally become so smooth you can pull strangers in 2 hours. To do this i recommend the following: The solitary most effective thing I did was raise my body weight from 160 to 185 by doing to the gym and raising my protein intake (took about 36 months). Women started using me for sex after this shamelessly. After that I started stying style magazines and YouTubers until women woul…	/r/seduction	22/12/25 04:06 PM