the-who Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Advancing a relationship You are probably in the friendzone mate, sorry to tell you...	/r/seduction	18/12/19 12:21 AM
2	What are you supposed to do as a guy if you're 28 and no girl in person has ever liked you or been attracted to you? Are you very different on dates then you are normally? You could try improving your wardrobe for everyday life for example to get more attention. Flirt more when not on dates etc.	/r/seduction	21/01/19 10:55 PM
1	[deleted by user] You are probably acting different with the girls you approach in comparison to the ones you are approached by. Stop putting them on a pedestral. Your uninterest in the girls that approach you makes them more attracted to you ironically	/r/seduction	21/12/16 10:04 PM
7	How can I over come the self improvement vs self acceptance paradox? Accept what you can't change. Improve where you can.	/r/seduction	18/06/16 03:42 AM
1	What to do after eye contact? Search this subreddit for "Opener"	/r/seduction	20/12/15 03:44 PM
2	Do you experience any increased hostility from women in response to your high level of confidence? Polarizing is not really negativ. Maybe you appear a bit fake to others, this happens when you are not congruent. But nothing is wrong if you still get girls.	/r/seduction	02/09/15 11:15 PM
5	I'm lost, angry, and I want revenge. Please help. First choose the nuclear option (delete everything and block her). take all the stuff that remembers you of her, put it in a box and away. Next hit the gym (or do a sport of your choice). Go out with your buddies and don't really think about game. Then start again gradually. You will get your confidence back, trust me. Your anger must become your motivation to push yourself to be a better man that you were before you even started this relationship	/r/seduction	01/09/15 09:50 PM
8	I'm lost, angry, and I want revenge. Please help. Get your revenge by not giving a shit. Anger is natural but ask yourself, is it really worth it? Don't waste your time with planning revenge . You are a man. Show your confidence and move on. It will not be easy, I know, but if she thinks you don't care she will be even more pissed. So this is win-win. Abundance is key.	/r/seduction	01/09/15 09:36 PM
7	Talking to girls- i feel like im doing all the work. Jugglers 90-10 rule (some oldschool stuff): "be prepared to provide 90% of the conversation till the woman is warmed up. Most of the time she will only provide 10%. If you go in with 50% you will get 60% and the boring standart conversation"	/r/seduction	20/05/15 07:26 PM
0	Takes me too much time to come up with witty things to say. Try to be more emotional and less analytical. Try to have fun and come of as natural. You don't have to be witty all the time. Another solution: canned material. c&f routines etc.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 02:01 AM
2	I realize the need to stand out. However what about when you really care about the girl more in a relationship-y way? Don't put her on a pedestral. I know a lot of people in the community say this, but it is true. Often a relationship just happens before you really know you are in it. Also there is this problem: The small line between cute and creepy. But you are the one who knows best, those things tend to be very situational. Wish you the best of luck!	/r/seduction	08/05/14 06:47 PM
1	I realize the need to stand out. However what about when you really care about the girl more in a relationship-y way? An investment in a relationship should never be too one-sided. If you buy her stuff, it can be needy (and flowers a obviouly very clichee), but does not have to be. A better idea may be a special date, something she hasn't done before. This will create a strong emotional connection. A flower cannot do that	/r/seduction	08/05/14 03:16 PM