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Trp isn’t rude Maybe you being rude is rude Walking alone isn’t an answer to this. There is no such thing as a lone wolf alpha.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:25 PM
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With a spin. There are lots of different strategies to get rich. Like I said, send me a DM and i'm happy to give you the blueprint i'm following. Just saving isn't one of them, and they all require honing a skill that is rare. It's rare to be rich.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:02 PM
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+1 for the book though really the concepts are similar across dozens of others. It's whatever resonates with you. Executing on what you learn is the biggest part. I'm fairly certain everyone here knows or has an idea of how to become a millionaire at a young age. They just don't want to really, or can't
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:49 PM
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You need to ultimately build multiple passive streams of income to get into the millions before you're old. Most people who retire have > a million. But it takes them their lives to acquire so it's sad and not really useful. I care more about money as a 40 yr old me than an 80 yr old me
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:46 PM
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Gotcha. So the reason I said you can't save to be a millionaire is because you can't, or at least not in a way you'd want to. I think like you or someone else mentioned, cutting costs too much just decreases quality of life. And if you run the numbers you're right, it would take you around 40-50 years. So from here you ideally find a way to achieve a high level of mastery in some skill that is both rare and valuable. If you only want to acquire skills that are valuable but maybe not that rare yo…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:45 PM
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That's 12 x 3440€ : 2 = 20640€ I have left each year. It would take me around 48 years (40 years if you save 60%) to reach millionaire status. Possible? Sure. But what does it matter when you are a millionaire at 70? You do need to cut costs, but you can't save to be a millionaire. You're thinking about it wrong.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:16 PM
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Tbh i do, and more than happy to share how if you'd like. Shoot me a pm. I love talking about the stuff
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:15 PM
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It depends on how old he is. If he's 20 he has a decent shot. If he's 25 he's basically just starting
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:14 PM
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Hustle to increase your main stream of income. You need money to make money. ​ From there House hack. Accumulate money in a 401k and give hard money loans. Invest in stocks. Build multiple passive streams of income etc etc. Investopedia is your friend. You don't have to invent something incredible, just choose a traditional tried and true way of getting rich and you'll get there. ​ 3 years ago I made $7 an hour. Now I make $80 an hour with 25% of my income coming from investments and on the path…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:11 PM
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"observations of someone who had a past boyfriend that would micromanage her interactions to the point that shes now traumatized into always explaining this stuff?" No one here knows. If i were you and bothered by it i'd ask her If you're really worried google the guy to see if he is gay If she wants to cheat she'll cheat. Whether that's with a guy on vacation, or in her car with a dude she met at the library downtown.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:08 PM
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Anywhere. I used to think it was only at career oriented groups and clubs. But great girls like to go to clubs or bars as well. They'll generally just be with a group of their close friends
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:03 PM
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option 1 is valid. it just means that the "huge sum of money" gets to take into consideration the difference in currency if he gives her the money and she decides to keep it, personally i'd say that's on her then
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:59 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/barker_beauty/
/r/askTRP28/08/19 03:42 PM
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You can ask for emotional maturity in a woman. But if you’re comparing genders and want the same maturity as a man as always you’ll find differences. There’s a limit. Imo it sounds like you have yourself two girls to soft next if you’re looking for an LTR or wife material
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:13 PM
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“I depend on external value” Well there’s your issue with respecting yourself It’s going to be very difficult (not possible) to take the right calculated risks if you don’t trust yourself, and if you’re deriving value externally.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:50 AM
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Small and big things. Make promises to yourself and keep them Do things you’re proud of Push towards being that person you’d respect
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:48 AM
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“I don't know man, The Red Pill to me isn't about being amoral and fucking people over. Each person decides what to do with the information that's given to them. Your morality decides what you do with the RP.” Well said mate.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:46 AM
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I agree with all your points. At the same time, the money does still keep the servers up. I’m not saying donate to Reddit, but I wouldn’t tell someone not to. I don’t agree with the decrees of the Reddit god but I definitely am thankful for the existence of this subreddit Which wouldn’t be possible if not for Reddit income
/r/askTRP06/08/19 04:03 AM
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1) don’t become a 40 year old with a beer gut and a bald head. Be a jacked 40 year old with his head on straight and plenty of money in the bank, working 0-40 hours a week because fuck, you retired 5 years ago technically. 2) yes a family is important. Don’t get married easily. Vet and choose properly. Women 2 points below your own smv, good family etc etc 3) longevity and satisfaction? Like how long you live? Having a family isn’t red or blue really. Red just tells you to make informed decision…
/r/askTRP06/08/19 04:00 AM
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They do still keep the servers up though
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:15 PM
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At the op, even successful relationships shouldn’t be defined by how long they last. But rather the effects. Successful relationships can also look great.... from the outside Personally I’d find them boring. Also nothing stopping you from dating a 23 year old when you’re 30. If your life went in the right direction according to trp you’re going to be able to do this np
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:11 AM
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watch a movie or read a good book. Others' stories usually put my in correct scope and approach things differently
/r/askTRP04/08/19 03:13 PM
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Similar younger years. Similar background. ​ "I don't know how to make friends. When I'm around others I just don't have anything to say. I don't go out often and when I do, I just can't have fun. I've never been able to make friends or fit in a group." ​ First don't define having fun by being with others. Be able to have fun on your own. You may not always be able to. But for now with no social skills it's what your stuck with until you can learn to interact. ​ Which leads to -> start learning …
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:52 PM
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mistake in the LTR. pick better next time
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:08 PM
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report back next week
/r/askTRP13/07/19 05:36 AM
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read your own post, does anything say "NO" to you? Your 35 pounds you should lose. But it's not going to stop you from fucking an 8.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 05:35 AM
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I've found this too as I get older in a way. if i listen to my intuition I have a huge disdain initially for guys I actually have a lot in common with. And those commonalities generally lead to friendships
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:49 PM
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Depending on the depth of your feelings it may make sense to break it off entirely and just find another FWB. Is it a shame to lose a perfectly good FWB? Sure. Is it better than developing feelings for the wrong individual? immensely.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:38 PM
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a more emphatic +1
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:37 PM
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this
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:35 PM
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for the same reason you get " i don't usually do this on the first date "
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:45 PM
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yup
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:45 PM
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try it
/r/askTRP08/07/19 03:38 AM
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Let's take your friends' mental frame and say that being a player / slut is bad. It's perfectly fine to want a chick who has a history that increases her odds of being loyal to you, whilst not having that same history. Also women pair bond, men don't. As other's mentioned being a slut vs player is different. ​ And this is one dynamic of your and her person.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:38 PM
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“Indifference is an alpha quality”
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:25 PM
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Women are more attractive on instagram (due to nature of edits). Meeting the same woman in real life you'd have a better shot. ​ They already get plenty of messages. Unless you have something in common with the woman your messages aren't going to be interesting. ​ They know they're attractive and get messages from loads of dudes
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:13 AM
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A big thing is re-adjust your schedule so you can get more sleep. Limit work, switch jobs, whatever you have to do. It doesn't have to be immediate but 3-4 months in the future is probably long enough to go on little sleep. It will fuck with your head emotions and cause more stress. And ya. It never really goes away. There are ups and downs and sometimes there isn't much in your life that lights your soul on fire. Try traveling, watching emotional movies, reading books that take you out of your …
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:09 AM
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top tier comment
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:06 AM
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pretty common occurrence until you figure it out ​ treat all women the same. Plates, LTR's, old women you meet in a grocery store, moms, co-eds.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:51 PM
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I hope so
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:10 PM
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Agreed, you did and you are. To make sure you don't do this again, 1) read the rational male and the trilogy of books (rollo / father of TRP) you'll understand the intergender relations AND why you need to maintain trp mental frame 2) re-read sidebar 3) date more women, keep learning, and don't get down on yourself. You're being honest with yourself which is great. Keep in mind that your goal isn't this woman or any woman really. It's a person YOU will become, a lifestyle YOU will have. You don'…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 02:47 PM
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1) "she didn't mind me hitting it raw 4 times (she had objected at times before)." -> Fucking mistake. You wear protection. Always. NO exceptions. You want a fuckin kid out of wedlock or what? Jesus christ. 2) "Come Friday, I call like 1 am (I went out too) and she was in bed getting ready to sleep and said she wasn't coming. I said ok bye." -> needy behavior. Especially after her testing you regarding fucking. You send a text or punish her behavior. ​ 3) "I was with friends, what's up" -> borin…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:43 AM
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She uses to fill emotional voids, shoulder to cry on, and as a mental backup plan to further her own mental frame
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:29 AM
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yup
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:21 PM
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Yuck. 1) she didn't mention you 2) she's flirting with this dude 3) she deleted convo ​ peace tf out
/r/askTRP24/05/19 05:39 PM
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"What to fucking do" ensuing - blah blah blah ​ It's really simple. It's not that complicated to become successful. Lift, stay fit, read, try new things, find something that fits the criteria of what you want OR would give you what you want. Do that. Fail a lot. Keep doing it. You won't be able to do this over night. Make a small change. Tiny change. Like keeping your place tidy. Going to the gym for 15 mins a day. Researching new shit you'd like to try for 20 mins a day. Then increase the times…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 03:21 PM
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It's disqualifying those men from the SMP. Women do the same thing to women for different reasons. "She's a slut" Read rational male
/r/askTRP09/05/19 05:05 PM
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Not really. It was kind of a big thing as i've since (over the weekend) begun looking into the other topics further. I'm thinking I actually identify much more with the other aspects you / I mentioned above.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:54 PM
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Hey, where did you learn this stuff?
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:21 PM
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Your girl is supposed to handle male attention. But some chicks are passive, and some chicks don't know what to do. You are going to have to AMOG him. The proper way to AMOG, in my opinion, is to turn the guy's strengths into liabilities. Call dude out with his strengths in mind. "Are you trying to hit on my girl right in front of me? Seriously dog?" (This is the call out - most guys are afraid of being seen as sexual. So call it out) Before he gets a chance to defend himself, cut him off, and t…
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:17 PM
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Perfect dissection of what is going on.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:16 PM
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"So this seems to be the root of your perceived confusion. He covers more than just TRP ideology; like positive masculinity, the feminine imperative, plate theory, operative social conventions, etc. So maybe you're thinking that since Rollo covers more than just sexual strategy in his book that TRP isn't about sexual strategy. So even though TRP is sexual strategy, that isn't the only thing discussed in the book. Is that the reason you've mistakenly concluded that "TRP isn't about attracting wom…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 02:09 PM
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I will definitely read through the book. Thanks for the recommendation. For sure. And same. The suburban dad with the nike tshirt on, beer belly, oof. That's the shit that's really terrifying.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:25 PM
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Check out this video too, for the previous comment https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Irxo67AVeQ I've seen the one you posted already. Tangent, which is why i edited. ​ "I also have taken on pastoral responsibilities where I live, I look to lead any relationship I’m in and any group activity or sports team I’m in." -> also same. ​ Glad you're doing so well :)
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:07 PM
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If leaving some kind of mark in the world or some kind of legacy means something to you, that's fine. That's great, actually. But that's no better or worse than getting laid, making money, and getting swole. It's just a different hobby you happen to have. "If leaving some kind of mark in the world or some kind of legacy means something to you, that's fine. That's great, actually. But that's no better or worse than getting laid, making money, and getting swole. It's just a different hobby you hap…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:55 PM
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+1
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:31 PM
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Cool beans. What responsibilities do you purposely take on? that's what i'm asking.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:42 PM
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Just edited the post. though bit tired, and didn't proofread
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:41 PM
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I have one. In another thread someone brought up not believing that many here have them. I'm curious what others here are interested in. Further even if I was interested in copying someone's, if it was a good purpose, I don't think they'd mind. TRP exists to provide positive community. Not whatever this comment is aimed at.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:34 PM
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And let me adjust that above a bit. "For me, TRP is not about attracting women" And elaborate. It's not about attracting women. It's learning why and how women tick. It's learning to vet women. It's learning how to interact with women that gives the most desirable outcome. It's enlightened self-interest. It's a realization that there is merit and purpose beyond having kids / cowtowing to a woman throughout life. And after you get your dick wet enough, to another realization. I like women. But I …
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:28 PM
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First define TRP. Because as I stated above. The subreddit isn't the definition i'm talking about. TRP is about intergender dynamics. The feminine imperative. And touches on the social conditioning that happens specifically to men, which detracts from the pursuit of a purpose. "The Rational Male is a rational and pragmatic approach to intergender dynamics and the social and psychological underpinnings of intergender relations. The book is the compiled, ten-year core writing of author/blogger Rol…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:25 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P8-fYbcCpuU ​ Check this out.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:09 PM
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Well, I very strongly disagree. I think the very core of TRP is about manipulation. People pretend like TRP isn't about women and that it's more about self improvement but it's not. Everything is in the interest of attracting women. Sure, self improvement is great, but here it's all within the context of sex. Definitively, TRP is sexual strategy and that strategy involves manipulation. Have you read rational male? The subreddit isn't always a direct reflection of what TRP is. ​ TRP is not about …
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:01 PM
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True. A lot of modern thought doesn't like that women and men are the same. Really all AWALT is is the acknowledgement that we're different, and we have different reproductive strategies. Some people like to twist that and think that AWALT means women are lesser, or stupid etc. Not the case. Just different. And it biologically makes sense. dread is the only thing that really goes against my moralities.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:45 PM
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siq. that's some enlightened self-interest right there.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:28 PM
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I mean, is it really though? Dissect your motive for the statement -> "I'm not even half a Chad and I can already see so much weakness it's sad"
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:22 PM
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Laugh. Ignore. Don't acknowledge. Stop touching her to the point it's making her uncomfortable. Continue escalating when she becomes comfortable. Two steps forward one step back.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:19 PM
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Most people aren't strong. ​ That's the way it is.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:17 PM
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pulation. If I truly value my time and myself as a person, people have to earn their place in my life. With that in mind dread becomes a side effect and not a tool. Bingo
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:17 PM
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Dude, come on. Be honest with yourself. We advocate the manipulation of women. People don't like the idea of manipulation. There are parts of TRP that advocate manipulating women. (looking @you dread game) But honestly the main parts have nothing to do with it. ​ You're also free to only use parts of TRP you find useful or ethical. ​ TRP breaks down into these useful points for me ​ find and pursue your purpose. don't choose a purpose based on someone else lift, get money, be attractive. it's be…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:16 PM
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This is one of the first things addressed in the Rational Male. Really, check out the book. The subreddit does a good job of supplementing, but if you want the whole idea, read the book. (It's what TRP is based off of) ​ The thing is, the feminine imperative is the reigning imperative at the moment. Anything that goes against that imperative and that conditioning is rejected. And that makes sense. For a ton of different reasons. ​ Men who perpetuate ideas fed by the feminine imperative, are rewa…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:13 PM
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Two things. And this isn’t an entirely red-pilled response. I also think red pill doesn’t cover intimacy and relationships well. 1) look up and study how to essentially train people to do things you like. An EC mentioned it here, but in relationships to teach someone how to be the best for you, you reward good behavior and you ignore bad behavior. Punishing doesn’t actually work as well as just rewarding or doting on her the times she does things RIGHT. Don’t take it from me, look it up. There a…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 11:01 AM
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Ya don’t understand the amount of time it can take to be successful
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:54 AM
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You’re mate guarding a plate Why Re read sidebar Get shit back on track
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:33 AM
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😂
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:02 PM
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Oof. Thinking, hard work, reflection, math has gotten me six figs at 24 with 30% increase over last year. Considerable alteration in behavior. Plenty of plates. Also. can you think of another word besides “autistic” sweety?
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:53 PM
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Overthinking isn’t what I was recommending. Again. I said being in prison doesn’t matter either way. Pua isn’t trp. They actually conflict. My example is still relevant. Thinking isn’t overthinking. Fairly certain I recognize your username from some other post where you were giving shitty advice. Focus on yourself first. Change your voice and posture for example (in another post you said people often think you’re gay). Make actual progress. Then give practical advice from experience.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:48 PM
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Establishing a dominance hierarchy. Insecurity - distaste for traits they see in themselves.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:32 PM
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I didn’t say overthink. I didn’t say don’t act. I said break down the problems and act. See the forest and the trees. Look at PUAs if you want an example, specifically for game. They have guys who are dumb, who will be “approach machines” and just do it. They make up for skill by not having the brain cells for shame. They approach a ton. They get better quickly. They eventually hit a wall. Being in prison has no contradiction with being a ladies man. Lol. Serial killers in jail get love letters …
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:31 PM
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I agree with the just do it, but you need to do a few things before you can “just do it” It’s kind of like building a bridge. You need to understand material science, physics, how to hire the right people, and a million other things. These are all pieces of a result that you need to understand in order to get that result. You need to break down building the bridge into actionable items, practice equations for physics, read, so on. It’s the same way with building yourself. You’re every bit as com…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 04:22 PM
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“Easy just do it” is a shit answer Start with small steps. Identify if you’re scared of rejection or scared ps something in your childhood Use tinder to practice talking then just practice talking to women then practice asking them out and getting rejected. Each of those things can be broken into smaller steps. Don’t punish yourself and become outcome dependent base success on the pre req of doing those things and following through
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:49 PM
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More than the frequent, relatively lame questions about LTRs and Plates, these are the types of Q and As I love seeing
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:14 PM
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+1
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:08 PM
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LTRs have boundaries One of those should be no bars or nightlife without you If that conflicts you walk Or you wait around until it becomes a problem. And then next time you’ll create boundaries and walk from this very learning experience
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:07 PM
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Month, and cool. That’s what I was thinking.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:47 PM
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^
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:53 PM
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My advice here is 1) this shouldn't be a big deal with an LTR. If it is you picked wrong. Next 2) see number 1
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:46 PM
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you don't ever plate an ltr
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:45 PM
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+1
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:42 PM
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The most selfish thing you can do, is to help others.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:42 PM
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Women have a reproductive strategy Men have a reproductive strategy They conflict It’s not evil or purposeful it’s beneficial to humanity Getting you dick wet isn’t a “kingdom of heaven” Getting your dick wet is just the start of trp. Purpose is more important. Sex is just sex.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:28 AM
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Fr tho, good luck dude. Hopefully not so angry in the future. Keep on doing the right things and we’ll all get there.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:13 AM
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Double chocolate chip plz mawthafawka :)
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:13 AM
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Well, duh. I wouldn’t be here otherwise. And I’ll never really be satisfied with where I’m at Also It’s “affected” you incompetent fuck
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:03 AM
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Down 5 up 7 on the next I don’t really care about the popular opinion anyways. just ones that are insightful or make sense I readily admit when I see a good point or I think I’m wrong. I’m here to discuss and am open to changing my frame and worldview when I see a better way. Part of how and why I’ve taken to trp so readily. That plus a lot of pain I was going thru ATrp has alphas that frequent here but they come in the form of ECs mostly. A lot of the guys here aren’t there yet. You definitely …
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:53 AM
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I SAID G’DAY
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:47 AM
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What are you so mad about? If you’re red you’ll realize that if you do the right shit, you can plate women, have your pick of women, do what you want to do etc
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:35 AM
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You could have just said “Blah blah blah I’m not listening to you and am projecting what I experienced” Much shorter
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:34 AM
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As time goes on you'll see it... it's hard as fuck to describe. It's like the allegory of the cave or something. You can't see it until you see it, once you do you can't unsee it. Reading and listening to Patrice and then witnessing that shit irl starts fucking with the reality you've constructed. I'm not saying you are BP, but you sound like me before I really started digging deeper. It's one thing to read something it's another entirely to understand and EXPERIENCE. There is a buffer too, if y…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:54 PM
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I dunno. Maybe maybe not, we'll see as time goes on. I've read the sidebar / rational male a couple times now, and am rounding the next go through of the rational male. ​ I also look a lot at jordan peterson's stuff. And a variety of other philosophical / self-improvement authors. TRP has given me nothing but huge returns since I've started using it. Mentally, emotionally, with women, in my career, in my friendships. I'm more calm. The anxieties that were present before are gone. I've heard this…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:39 PM
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I've never gone through this rage phase. And I don't think I will honestly. Red pill has just opened my eyes to the way things are. And the way things are honestly isn't so bad. You follow three rules: 1) lift 2) learn game /develop yourself 3) acquire money And not only do you have your choice of women, you also live a fulfilling life. The latter part being the MOST important part of TRP imho. Don't be a bitch. Overcome your fears. Do the shit you need to do. Enjoy life.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:23 PM
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think of them as essentially children I've personally never seen the value in this. Women definitely are not children and operate off of a much more complex reward structure / system. It's just different than ours. But not anymore childlike than ours.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:21 PM
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😂
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:35 PM
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"I am really confused about how girls work. And disappointed." that's why we're all here man :)
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:51 AM
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What the fuck do i look like, google? ​ read rational male / sidebar. it touches on this directly. game matters more than looks however maintaining a good physique and looks still matter ​ idk why the fuck you're on here wasting time asking this question when you could just look and read appropriate material
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:50 AM
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I wasn’t talking literally. There was no “perfect” alpha ever. Humans arent. Really don’t understand what you mean in the second paragraph or where you were going with it.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:03 PM
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yup. also spin plates read sidebar, read book, acquire abundance
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:54 PM
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this is serious. She's accusing you of rape, and from what i understand you have no evidence to protect yourself. In cases like this her word vs. yours.... they don't go well enough of the time to be worried. accusations like this could land you in jail or on your record collect evidence if possible. ask her to stop. if she doesn't go to school authorities. if still doesn't stop you could talk to your parents / look at a lawyer
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:53 PM
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This isn't instigating. Voice recording is protecting yourself. Don't get it twisted, this is serious. accusations like this could land you in jail or on your record
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:52 PM
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If you want to be a cop, because it's something you want to do, go for it. I think fundamentally the best career according to redpill is ​ 1) something YOU want to do. Not anyone else. You. 2) something that affords you "power" as according to TRP definition of power. Which is mobility, free-time, and ability to shape your life in the way you want it to be whenever you want to.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:34 PM
3

next
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:32 PM
2

Get your dick wet in your teens / early twenties enough to understand that it's not that big of a deal. And then take that energy and do what you want. It's a fundamental part of TRP. Red pill isn't solely about women.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:31 PM
2

"I stole a girl from a very objectively good looking guy that was socially dominant, just by getting her to chase my validation (I am a 5 or 6 in looks)." ​ -> this doesn't mean that if you both met at the same time, she'd fuck you. It means she got bored and moved on. OR it means that his game was shitty. OR it means that he was picking his nose when she was looking the other way only to have her look back and see it Looks matter. It matters how good looking you are. IE a guy who is a 5/6 vs a …
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:30 PM
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Acting like a woman is more than increasing emotion it’s allowing yourself to be navigated by emotion. That’s not what I’m talking about. I do show genuine interest. And a similar level of interest. But curtail my emotional response. I’d like to be somewhere between my blue pulled self (being navigated by emotion) and my red pulled self, which is genuine interest (I like their careers and hobbies and fucking) but less of an emotional - not - quite - sappy emotional response
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:22 PM
2

This ^ You can choose to lead an average life, just don’t be surprised when it’s avg.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:35 AM
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Who actually cares. I wouldn't. This isn't shitting where you eat. If it ends poorly you just pretend she doesn't exist. You don't get fired or sued.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 11:01 PM
2

That’s because when 9s take shits they shit rainbows. are you saying females shit?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:39 PM
2

yup
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:38 PM
1

not having a feeling towards someone who owes you money is fine, but you're still out the money, and if it's family that means you're not taking them to court when you should
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:15 PM
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I’d agree. But that doesn't make it any less valuable when you happen up on the natural bi product of spinning plates, an LTR. Also, redpill is a guide. There is no set path that you should follow 100%.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 02:02 AM
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No, spreading blatantly wrong info is “It’s also not to say marriage is never worth it” He doesn’t advise against marriage. He says to take it seriously as saving your own life, there are not necessarily any appreciable benefits for the man etc etc He doesn’t advise against it
/r/askTRP07/04/19 06:37 PM
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“Dopamine” Read the rational male. Read the sidebar. I’m not repeating information you could readily find yourself now that you know exactly where it’s at
/r/askTRP07/04/19 06:31 PM
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Read the book Stop disseminating false information or gtfo. Actions like this are what bring this subreddit down https://www.google.com/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2012/07/30/16-years-on/amp/ He brings it up several times in the book
/r/askTRP07/04/19 03:43 PM
4

Just “It dampens your ability to think” Is sufficient
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:28 AM
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Or did she? “You should lick the stain to see, because you're obviously aware of what cum tastes like. Massive beta pathetic needy behavior. Treating her like she's the special one. Makes me want to go suck off a guy in Starbucks. Fix yourself. Why would she want to ignore a guy as awesome as you? Unless you're not awesome at all. Maybe that's the underlying issue?” Go build yourself. Stop wasting your fucking time thinking about shit like this.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:24 AM
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AWALT There are other “special” women Understand a “special” woman is merely a type of woman you like. You think she is special because you think you are special. And the girl you’re choosing is also special because it’s who you’d choose to be with. Sidebar. Read rational male. Swallow the pill. Or don’t. No one really cares about making you Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:22 AM
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Wrong. Trp comes from rational male.... the author of which is married. LTRs are valuable. However he suggests waiting until 30+ when your smv has been maxed, you understand how to vet women, have the knowledge to choose correctly and you can then find an equally young smv woman
/r/askTRP07/04/19 06:48 AM
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“Are you armed and he isn’t?” -> I kind of picture you being one of these guys that has decals of guns on the back of his truck and blows money at the range that he doesn’t have on the weekends Also what the fuck are you talking about
/r/askTRP06/04/19 05:39 PM
2

Lol
/r/askTRP05/04/19 05:52 AM
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Lemme spell it out for u Trp is the way to go, being an incel is generally shoving responsibility for your place in life
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:34 PM
1

Wut
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:33 PM
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It makes sense You’re asking trp which was essentially developed to combat this phenomenon Hypergamy doesn’t care
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:25 PM
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Eh, he's overseas and ended the relationship with her. "I would distance yourself from the idea of an LTR with this girl completely" -> but agree. I'm going to focus on fucking her brains out and practice maintaining a fwb / plate i legitimately enjoy as a person but don't want oneitis for
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:52 PM
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Do not consider LTR. Wise words to help frame. Ty
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:18 PM
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"Tread lightly, you’re in oneitis territory." -> I identified this, and I would be if not for TRP. I'm still relatively new to it (5 months). However I'd rather use this opportunity to add a plate / fwb (i'm not seeing just her atm) and grow my ability to NOT do bluepill things ​ ​
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:12 PM
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Way to lay it out. I tried to write a couple responses about her intonations and couldn't come up with anything to detract from "She's telling you she doesn't want to be exclusive." This also helps. Thanks
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:08 PM
1

I agree to a point, but can you go a bit further here as to what you mean?
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:06 PM
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Unicorn's don't exist. She's prone to hypergamy if found a better chad would peace etc etc. The question i was more asking was opinions on my frame at the moment, plate, fwb, possiblity of LTR ever etc
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:06 PM
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Agreed. It is just a small nugget of information that is something that deviates slightly from the norm, coupled with her low ncount, and made me mull it further. "That doesn't change anything." -> is what i needed to hear ​ Thanks dude
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:00 PM
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sidebar / read rational male ​
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:59 PM
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A detail i didn't add into the post was her saying something along the lines of "this could turn into something great". And wanting to just "date" with no expectations, however opening to it turning into something more. This conflicts with her talking about her past LTR where she said sex wasn't ideal, and she had wanted to be with more people before settling down. I wasn't drawing a distinction between FWB and plate, but she's more of a FWB at the moment if there is one. ​ ​
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:56 PM
1

Agreed. So keeping as plate is the correct move
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:51 PM
3

please stop trolling trp
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:49 PM
17

“You didn’t marry THIS asshole.” Nah man. AWALT
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:31 PM
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It’s awful. At the same time shit like this is why TRP exists. So you have a strategy and network to discuss with. It sounds like you did most things right. Maybe could just do them a bit better which I’m sure you’ll do with time. I’m so sorry dude. Hope the pain passes quickly and you can get back to your purpose
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:29 PM
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^
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:27 PM
1

I moved to a big place where I know almost no one
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:31 PM
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Hard disagree. People change. Because she didn’t like the club when you met her doesn’t mean she won’t. However a boundary here would be hanging out at a club wouldn’t be acceptable. Imo it’s important to set clear boundaries. AND be prepared to walk if they aren’t met. Everyone changes and grows. If you don’t discuss and set exact expectations for what success will look like in the relationship you’re not going to land there
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:44 PM
2

Same ^
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:45 AM
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The difference between you and OP tho unfortunately is that you’re bound to this woman through your kids for the next double digit amount of years
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:31 AM
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Yup. 100% there are
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:10 PM
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Tbh I’ve had way better luck after college. can still get with college girls by going to college towns. Except now have money/older/game is better
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:10 PM
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Also in LTRs you need to set boundaries and adamantly stick to them. This is a great opportunity for a lesson. When she said back the patriarchy needs more male friends than you etc. it should have crossed boundaries you set and you should have been prepared to next her. Do this next time. Set the boundaries in the first place and stick to them.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:57 PM
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This dude. Especially given that you were dating for 2.5 years. That’s a serious relationship, maybe leading into marriage etc. if that’s what your aim is. I feel like if you really want hell, marry someone like this, then have kids, THEN find out. It should 100% bring a grin to your face seeing them/her after your hurt fades
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:55 PM
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This is a pretty high quality observation . Nice way to put it
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:52 PM
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Good luck dude :)
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:43 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. ​ I lift. run long distances. A lot of work that I enjoy bringing me to 6 figs at 24. I read philosophy, social,…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:43 PM
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^
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:41 PM
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this sounds blue pill as fuck. You say next and move forward. Also stop the video games and weed.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:37 PM
1

There may have been something off. In a relationship i had, with a girl who was LTR material, it took me a while post relationship to dissect what happened. At times I'd get cold towards her, not quite emotionally abusive, but not always supportive. I had built up some resentment towards her. ​ she was probably a 7/10 with a great personality, but I didn't like that she wasn't as attractive as i'd have wanted she was a very soft person, and i'm a hard person. She grew up cushy, hasn't really had…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:35 PM
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Word. There is no real recovery here. Just a next imo or a very low plate status
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:58 PM
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Fuckin love this.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:29 AM
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instant gratification culture needs to die. ^ love this
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:22 PM
1

I was thinking same
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:05 AM
1

But honestly i still need a woman that i love and trust and can have children with. Right now it doesnt seem possible because i only see two options: Gotcha, you're referring to this "But honestly i still need a woman that i love and trust and can have children with. Right now it doesnt seem possible because i only see two options:" I think he primarily wants a woman he can love and trust. And then in addition have children with. Children seem to be his secondary concern. ​
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:01 AM
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​ off topic and a bit weird
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:52 AM
1

meetup.com will have some decent things you can do. for me, i went to social events but just didn't drink when i had cut alcohol. ​ Also plenty of other ones to meet new friends. ​
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:50 AM
3

Social media -> FOMO
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:49 AM
1

Did you read the post?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:27 PM
1

Fair enough. I appreciate your effort chiming in, even if I didn’t find much use. Sometimes things hit home sometimes they don’t. Lol, my mistake. Peace to you as well.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:19 AM
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Trp teaches us that women are emotional creatures and their reality is dictated by their state and their emotion. This in no way discounts the fact that women can’t or shouldn’t fulfill their word. I’d have zero intention of spending any shred of my time with someone who stood me up etc. there is some trust in all relations that happen. I’m not sure where you’re going with that. I appreciate you trying to help, but I don’t see much use to anything you commented. You parroted back what others wro…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:46 AM
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Not sure what you mean about the first part. Sex is the mans fault but has nothing to do with any of the above context. For the p.s. duh. I’ll have to think about it more. I’m not that attracted to her. I’ve had plenty of intercourse that leaves a woman shaking in a mess of her own fluid, but this girl doesn’t hit me in the spot to do that with her She came quick but we didn’t go all night I’m also lukewarm at her. Like i said above and in the post it’s just easy sex. She’s attractive enough but…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:20 AM
1

Good rebuttal point. I like that strat.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:32 AM
1

Agree. Which is why it’s easier to plan ahead. If her scheduled conflicted with mine we wouldn’t meet up. I think it’s easier to ask for open times in her schedule. Have to think on how to handle this. If someone asked me to come over the day of I wouldn’t be free hardly ever.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:27 AM
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+1
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:24 AM
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No, I’ll edit post. I asked what day she was free, she said Sunday but she wasn’t sure of a time. She’d get back to me. She never ended up getting back to me I don’t and haven’t had her come up with plans
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:23 AM
1

Right and I agree. I’ve read the rational male in entirety and am re-reading. I’ve read the sidebar. I’ve watched a lot of YouTube videos from red pill guys / life coaches / red pill minded individuals I think you putting it this way helps Maybe in a past life I feel like I should feel disrespected if I was trying to date this chick I’m not Just sex Made the answer to my question clear with the prodding Ty
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:19 AM
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I wrote out an explanation for this. Deleted it all. Gonna give what you suggested a try
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:16 AM
1

Just to clarify because i think you got carried away a bit. theory isn't bad. but you NEED both ACTION and theory.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 05:34 PM
1

I also have several buddies living out in Cali. One of them is looking for what you are and is specifically moving back to the Midwest to find a more wholesome girl. They exist in Cali but are harder to find. Maybe do a stint in the south when you truly feel like that’s why you want Also 23 is young to do this imo
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:26 PM
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Hi. I'm starting to think another commenter above had it right "I thought I recognized your user name. You've been dicking around on ASKTRP for at least the last seven months. You've had all the time in the world to test some of this shit out for yourself. Instead, you've been pulling your pud, sniffing your finger, and jerking around with stupid questions. At some point in your life, son, you're going to have to throw your balls over your shoulder, and charge. No more of this dicking around and…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:23 PM
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and you don't need anything else. Ask the same question 100 times like it's the first time until you're comfortable. ​ ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 06:37 PM
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https://www.conversationstarters.com/100.htm
/r/askTRP26/02/19 06:37 PM
1

That works
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:05 PM
1

No. It is not easy to do. it is hard to do. I'd recommend not just going up to women and asking them out if it terrifies you. That doesn't mean you don't make efforts to make small changes in your life. Or become familiar with rejection. This is a great tedx talk: 100 days of rejection. https://www.ted.com/talks/jia_jiang_what_i_learned_from_100_days_of_rejection?language=en The dude intentionally does shit to try to have people turn him down every day, for 100 days. He gets comfortable with "no…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:58 AM
1

I'd advise learning about the red pill through the book it is based from; rational male. By swallowing the pill / reading the stuff, you'll see that it's true. Once you know something is true / see it in your day to day / have that knowledge you can't unlearn it. I didn't find it particularly upsetting. It touches mostly on how men and women communicate differently, what you need to do to be successful in life and with women, etc. For some it is upsetting. You begin to understand that fairy tale…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:53 AM
1

Keep in mind that "alpha" is a state of being. Not necessarily a complete personality. You can be alpha in business, at school, on a sports field, and still be no good with women. Or you can be an alpha with women and work as a janitor. ​ Everyone here, like everyone in real life is missing something. ​ The difference is that here we have the personality that is research-centric. Everyone reads books, wants to discuss. It's one avenue of improvement. I'm sure there are some people here who are g…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:47 PM
1

no. no we arent' really.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:55 PM
0

Real talk I don’t play d and d but I know several beautiful women that do
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:16 PM
1

Stop your oneitis. Particularly in college. This is the time to play the field.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 04:01 PM
1

Siq
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:57 PM
3

is it the testosterone that makes you this grumpy?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:48 PM
1

disagree. also look at this guys comment history ^ . he's either an unhappy bitch, or a troll. ​ I think what you said was fine OP. ​ However this (UEMGill)'s comment may have been better with variable phrasing depending on her ​ "Why listen to a woman's words? She was looking for validation. Instead, flip it on her. "Big girls make big girl decisions. I suspect you're capable of those? Are you?" Make her validate herself."
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:44 PM
7

in whatever box that also contains your previously failed marriage that you're still dragging around learn
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:28 AM
1

You killed this interaction. Nice job, mad respect, fantastic emotional control.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:26 AM
2

wtf are you basing that on
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:47 PM
2

gottem.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:30 AM
1

well, ya, otherwise he'd be going for the higher tier women.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:27 AM
3

there are levels of autism. what you're talking about is more severe than what OPS case sounds like, considering he works as a cashier, and had a past relationship
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:23 AM
2

no no, it will DEFINITELY get you laid. Even lacking social skills. Just not with an HB8. HB4's, HB5's, HB6's definitely.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:14 AM
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hb8s don't hookup based solely on a dude with just a decent face *usually*
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:54 AM
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