Truth to be told there are a small number of women who do software that I know of. I only worked with six in 20 years. Three are brilliant, better than some of my guys. The other three were terrible, lazy, etc. Its a mix for me. But clearly creative engineering works does not resonate with most. The marketing department tho.... gosh.
It is a common scam. She will tell you to go some other platform. Video chat and then blackmail you saying they will post it on your social media. Block and ignore
Oh now we hear from Russian men. Where were you all in the past 8 month? Why were you not in the streets protesting the war you say is injust. Skin in the game changes the perspective isn't it?