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OYS #15 38y, 5'6'', 196lbs, 17% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #14 Sidebar NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Pook, TWOTSM, SGM, The Natural, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves, Day Bang (50%), Sidebar posts Reading: NMMNG 2nd time. Currently on Activity 39. How To Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?" The Rational Male Mindset Every now and then I get reminded of the lesson to STFU. So last week, wife was complaining about feeling bloated and tired and in r…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 03:12 AM
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I agree, respect is earned and butthurt feelings of disrespect is a poor way to determine boundaries, however I'm thinking along the lines of people will treat you as well as you let them. If I allow certain bad behaviors then I'm encouraging people to treat me poorly. If I were to say, "Stop, I will not be treated this way" and then remove myself if the person continues, then I'm setting a precedence for how I expect people to treat me. However, if I don't say anything then I'm encouraging them…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 02:29 AM
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OYS #14 38y, 5'6'', 196lbs, 17% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #13 Sidebar NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Pook, TWOTSM, SGM, The Natural, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves, Day Bang (50%), Sidebar posts Reading: NMMNG 2nd time. Currently on Activity 39. How To Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?" The Rational Male Fitness Doing IF and lowering my calorie intake and working out 4-5 times a week, I'm seeing more definition in my abs. The rest of my body …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 03:05 AM
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OYS #13 38y, 5'6'', 196lbs, 17% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #12 Sidebar NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Pook, TWOTSM, SGM, The Natural, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves, Day Bang (50%), Sidebar posts Reading: NMMNG 2nd time. Currently on Activity 37. How To Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?" The Rational Male Fitness Got in 5 days of workouts last week. Doing strength training 3 times a week and HIIT 2 times a week. Diet during the week is 5 days …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 06:47 PM
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Ixnay on the Hombre was my go to album in High School. Been a long time since I've listened to it also. You've inspired me to revisit their albums. Good job on the PRs and understanding your mental models. What are the ZMA supplements for?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/20 01:55 PM
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Thanks. I appreciate your guidance. It's really helped me change my mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/20 03:12 AM
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OYS #12 38y, 5'6'', 197lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #11 Sidebar NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Pook, TWOTSM, SGM, The Natural, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves, Day Bang (50%), various MRP posts Reading: NMMNG 2nd time. Currently on Activity 36. How To Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?" The Rational Male Fitness No longer going to list my lifts. Don’t' have barbell weights yet and pre-covid lifts were months ago. When I get a barbell and …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/20 03:59 AM
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OYS #11 38y, 5'6'', 199lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #10 Sidebar NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Pook, TWOTSM, SGM, The Natural, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves, Day Bang (50%), various MRP posts Reading: NMMNG 2nd time. Currently on Activity 36. How To Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?" By Athol Kay the companion book to MMSLP 80% The Rational Male 25% MRP Posts: InChargeMan's Story Fitness SQ 305x8, OHP 165x6, DL 275x11, BP 265x8 before …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 02:36 AM
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I appreciate your advice and I will be careful to define what my needs are and wants are. I'm assuming my list of needs will change as I build my frame and realize what is necessary to realizing my mission. Did your list change significantly as you built your frame and mission? My thinking is to start with a few needs that are non-negotiable and work from there, then add to it when I discover another that is non-negotiable. When you put it in the way of some retarted 3D game of chess, that's wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/20 07:06 PM
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OYS #10 38y, 5'6'', 200lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #9 Sidebar NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Pook, TWOTSM, SGM, The Natural, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves, Day Bang (50%), various MRP posts Reading: NMMNG 2nd time. Currently on Activity 31. How To Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?" By Athol Kay the companion book to MMSLP 80% The Rational Male 15% MRP Posts: Validation needs that can poison your sex life Frame for Dummies. What it is …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 02:47 PM
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Saturday. Did what I wanted. Fucked her hard and talked dirtier than I've ever talked and she followed my lead talking dirtier than I've heard her speak. It felt amazing like I was free, because normally I'd be in my head thinking I shouldn't say this and it'd fuck with the moment. It's amazing how not holding back is so freeing.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 03:22 AM
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OYS #9 38y, 5'6'', 201lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #8 Sidebar NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Pook, TWOTSM, SGM, The Natural, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves, Day Bang (50%), various MRP posts Reading: NMMNG 2nd time. Currently on Activity 31. How To Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?" By Athol Kay 80% The Rational Male 15% MRP Posts: Validation needs that can poison your sex life Frame for Dummies. What it is and ways to build (and keep) …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 02:39 AM
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You're right, making it a game is still dependent on outcomes and would be a detriment to becoming OI. I'm working towards building better frame. There are several posts on frame I have saved, I'll review these and apply what I learn from them with each read through. I know I can do this and become the man I envision myself being. I have to put in the hard work and learn to be OK living at my edge, killing BP mindsets and ego investments.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 08:52 PM
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OYS #8 38y, 5'6'', 202lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #7 #60DOD Sidebar NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Pook, TWOTSM, SGM, The Natural, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves, Day Bang (half), various MRP posts Reading: Still working through NMMNG second time now doing the activities. Currently on Activity 28. How To Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?" By Athol Kay the companion book to MMSLP 80% The Rational Male MRP Posts: Validation needs that ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 03:25 AM
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This is why I'm here, to learn from those who walked the path before me and to have my bullshit pointed out to me. I'm sure I won't be the last snowflake to be told. There are so many of us out here.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 08:51 PM
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After rereading your linked post, I can see I do a lot of these validation seeking behaviors. Running through the diagnostic scenario in my head, I can see that I need to overcome the need for good/giving lover, respectful, and attraction validation. And just like you say at the end, I've got some real comfort issues with my own sexuality and am hung up on validation needs. I think this stems from feeling shame for my wants and sexual nature. I will be more mindful and ask myself whether I'm see…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 08:38 PM
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OYS #7 38y, 5'6'', 202lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #6 #60DOD Sidebar NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Pook, TWOTSM, SGM, The Natural, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves, Day Bang (half), various MRP posts Reading: Still working through NMMNG second time now doing the activities. Currently on Activity 24. How To Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?" By Athol Kay the companion book to MMSLP 75% MRP Posts: Why You Must Be Willing to Nuke Your Nucle…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 03:09 AM
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OYS #6 38y, 5'6'', 204lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #5 #60DOD Week 5 Game Using old PUA tactics of treating my wife like a bratty sister and being more playful, flirty and assertive. We’ve had an enjoyable week. Week 6 Finances I manage my finances with spreadsheets and automated bills. I take care of a majority of the bills, while she takes care of her cards and a few of her bills. This has worked for us since the beginning of our relationship. I have …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 06:59 PM
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I've had to process your questions and figure out why I was disagreeing and not fogging initially and when I really dug deep it comes down to ego. I'm letting my ego get in the way. I've got to shed my ego and needing to be right. So I've got to be work on being more aware of when my ego is getting in the way, don't let my ego react, and FOG. Looks like I need another read of WISNIFG. As to why I'm not following through with things and "forgetting", initially I thought these things I'm agreeing …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/20 06:18 PM
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Yeah, I'm still reading through that series of posts. I've got them saved so I can re-read them as I go along my MRP journey. I imagine I'll gain some new knowledge with each read through as my understanding of myself and the nature of women progresses. I look forward to reading your upcoming posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 03:16 PM
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This explains why when my wife is anxious she cleans the fuck out of everything (goal oriented dopamine hit) and once completed she relaxes and is pleasant again. So I've got to learn to steer that anxious energy and give it direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 02:49 AM
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OYS #5 38y, 5'6'', 204lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #4 #60DoD Week 5: My game is mediocre at best these days. I've forgotten and been out of practice since the mid to late 00's when I studied and practiced game, which is how I seduced my wife back then. I'm going through the previous DOD week 5 posts and studying up. I forgot that being a bit cocky and turning things around as she wants me and has to work for me as a successful gaming strategy. I'm taki…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 07:46 PM
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OYS #4 38y, 5'6'', 204lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #3 #60DoD Week 1: Still at my home workouts with the dumbells, bands and body weights 4 times a week. Increased my lifts with dumbells and bands to 5 sets of 15-20 because what I have to work with is not very challenging. Only was able to do 1 day of sprints since it rained most of the week. Week 2: Diet is still good, prepping meats and veggies on Sunday morning for the rest of the week. Although this…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 02:13 PM
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I don't say anything to her when I do it, I just withdrawal. The butthurt part is what bothers me and I have to get past that feeling if I'm going to be OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/20 03:22 AM
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OYS #3 38y, 5'6'', 204lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #2 Sidebar NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Pook, TWOTSM, SGM, The Natural, The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves, Day Bang (half), various MRP posts Continuing to reread NMMNG and do all the activities. Reading various MRP posts. Fitness SQ 305x8, OHP 165x6, DL 275x11, BP 265x8 These were my last best lifts in Feb, before gyms closed and I didn't have access to barbells and weights. Plan to buy some for h…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 08:34 PM
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You're right on the nose about me tip toeing. Sex early on was effortless. I'd flirt, tease, sexually escalate without much care. Over the years, especially after marriage, I allowed those little comments here and there to whittle away my confidence and I got conditioned to be afraid to initiate. I didn't realize that what I am doing now with the verbal feelers was looking for consent to initiate. Fuck, just writing that out sounds like such beta bullshit. I just have to push myself to be more b…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 03:10 AM
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OYS 2 part 2 Family I want to be this great patriarchal/masculine authority, but with some recent things with being quarantined I'm not that person and maybe it's because deep down I don't believe it so I allow things to affect me as a parent. My problem especially before finding MRP when parenting/disciplining my youngest son and my stepson when he was younger has been relying/allowing my wife to step in, when I should be the one to handle these situations as a parent. I've been much better abo…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/20 09:31 PM
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OYS #2 38y, 5'6'', 204lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son OYS #1 I hadn't done my second OYS for several weeks. I was lazy and didn't want to take the time to write everything out. I make excuses that I have other things to do, but it's really because I'm afraid what I may discover from myself on reflection and from what any rando on MRP says and I'm really just protecting my ego. I know from reading sidebar and MRP posts that I have to shed each layer of ego, so…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/20 09:20 PM
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OYS #1 38y, 5'6'', 204lbs, 18% BF (calipers) Married 8y, Together 12y. 18y stepson, 6y son Found this in late 2017, lurked, half-assed things and rambod. Stopped for over a year and same patterns emerged and came back. Even though I knew I needed to take this more seriously, and actually participate and OYS, I avoided it; lying to myself that I was just lazy, but really I am afraid of the being vulnerable and judged. Rather than deal with things head on I kept lurking and hiding. NMMNG says to g…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/20 03:32 AM
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