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You don't understand the word discrimination. You don't know what that word means. If you have perfect vision and someone else doesn't and they get a pair of glasses, you are not being discriminated against.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:50 AM
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Why is a woman choosing to be alone instead of settling for a man who doesn't really like her and can't make her happy a bad thing? A lot of men here complain about their idea that women will date their ideal type when they're young and then settle for a guy they don't like in their 30s. But then you say things like this which seem to imply that you want women to settle for less than what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:42 AM
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Just asking for sex never works unless you're famous. This is just ludicrously untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:57 AM
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what patriarchy is is the same as what racism is, which is that? It is a system of oppression that all people, regardless of their gender can engage in voluntarily or involuntarily it doesn’t go away just because some people make strides within that system. There isn’t just not a patriarchy because your girlfriend was able to become a doctor. She became a doctor in spite of a patriarchal system and it’s entirely possible that she did not personally or knowingly experience any discrimination that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:31 AM
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nothing here is even remotely preventing friendships between straight men and women. Every single thing is just “platonic acts could be misinterpreted inside or outside the friendship”. Just communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:25 AM
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Paying for porn or sex is not being manipulated, and you can do OF without ever having dated or had a sexual partner. Masturbation is not a male exclusive act, and even having sex with someone on camera is not the same thing as relationship experience. It’s DEFINITELY not the same as real sexual experience (don’t learn sex from porn!).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:19 AM
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Well put
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:08 AM
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Wanting and seeking sex has never been acceptable, that’s why laws, cultural norms, and entire religions were created to control and repress sexuality. It becomes incredibly subjugating, to this very day there is a female genitalia mutilation CRISIS occurring in African nations because they don’t want women to enjoy and seek sex of their own accord.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:04 AM
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Raise your hand if you have ever fallen in love with a broke loser with no prospects. 🙋🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:44 AM
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because we live in a patriarchal culture and contrary to what men on this subreddit want people to believe, being a woman does not automatically make you a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:12 PM
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I don't think about men when i get dressed, no matter how sexy i look. Just because you see cleavage and get aroused doesn't mean someone was trying to arouse you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:20 AM
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it's about a partner who is going to prioritize your sexual satisfication and happiness to some degree If your libido is low and that makes you(the person with the low libido) unhappy in your relationship, it's fine to work to change that. However, it should be because you are unhappy with the amount of sex that is happening in the relationship, not because you feel that you're not prioritizing your partner with enough sex. If a woman is happy having less sex with her husband, she has a right to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:03 AM
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It is so terrifying the way you view sex as some necessary thing. Men cannot helpfully exist without. If men treated emotions the same way women treat sex then I can just bounce whenever you have a difficult day and get the sniffles and are feeling blue to hang out with the boys but that's generally not treated as or valued the same as sexual intimacy is. What does this mean? Because to me, this reads as you saying that a woman should have sex with a man, even when she doesn't want to, that she …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:15 PM
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Are the men here sure they want women to raise their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:02 PM
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the first one IS a part of sex ed, or it's supposed to be. the second becomes an issue-because saying yes doesn't mean never saying no. consent can be withdrawn at absolutely any time no matter how many yes's you got before. You could be in the middle of sex and if "yes, yes, yes" turns into "no, no, no" you need to stop. That's why "no means no" was needed in the first place. Clear communication is a great thing to teach but that's not a good way to market. this tax credits system seems very fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:27 AM
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There are men who want sex right away in a relationship, and there are women who want sex right away in a relationship. Just be upfront about the fact that you don't want to be in a relationship if you won't immediately get sex- that's al you can do. You can choose to pursue or not but either way you need to make sure that aspect is mutually known and respected. You can't control others, you may end up with women who want a relationship with sex after a longer time, and try to start or keep a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:16 AM
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hate speech??? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:31 AM
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They often complain about being stuck with only us as options. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill23/09/24 12:38 AM
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You need to get out of the mindset of ranking people, yourself included on a point scale. All people, regardless of whether you're thinking of dating them or not. you have to actively choose to disengage with that mindset, with those standards which are not universal, not concrete, and not real.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 07:03 PM
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Women get offended if we’re honest and say we just want sex, so men are damned if we do or don’t "I had to lie because if I didn't lie, I wouldn't get what I want." Some women will get offended and not want to have sex with you, So you'd rather lie in n attempt to have sex with women who don't want to have sex with you than tell the truth and exclusively have access to women who think the way that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:09 AM
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No woman on Earth wants to be an ugly person in the eyes of their partner.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 12:53 PM
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​ one did help me improve, and told me about moving my hips, starting slow, and increasing the speed. Play with her nipples, and rub on her gently. Whisper in her ear, kiss and lick on her neck. All you've done is learn to have sex with one woman. Why wouldn't you do that with a partner? Her personal tastes won't prepare you for sex with a different partner. Men will do anything but be vulnerable. 😞
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 08:36 PM
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so you made her feel pressured into sex and think that's win? I can't stop replying to this post it's so fucking disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:43 AM
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how in hell would you know anything about how she has been intimate with others? and why do you think she has to have sex with you in a certain amount of time, just because she had sex with someone else? it absolutely does not mean she doesn't like you, it literally can just mean not feeling like having sex. that's a real thing, it's not some scheme or joke or trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:41 AM
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But a lot of these women will want to suddenly withhold sex, then start not doing certain simple sex acts, This is such a bizarre and terrifying way to discuss consent. This whole post is just disturbing, equating wanting a man who expresses emotion, looks decent, and has a job and ideally somewhere to live (which is literally almost everything involved in finding a partner) to wanting sex however and whenever. You claim sex isn't everything but then compare it to all of the things most people, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:39 AM
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fyi thin women: disliking fat people is a red flag you should take heed of. it's like being mean to customer service employees
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:35 AM
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Yeah, I don't think trying to reason with them is doing me any good so I'm going to take your lead and bounce. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill09/06/24 08:08 PM
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Except all Barbies looked at the same because Barbie was viewed as exactly what every single girl wanted to be. Again, the reason that changed is because women were so vocal about Barbie not being representative of what they all wanted. Ken doesn't exist because of the fantasies of little girls Ken is a marketing tool, he's. meant to be a fantasy. but he's not a fantasy of what little girls want. It's a fantasy of what corporations think little girls want or think little girls should want. I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:33 AM
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the only reason there are a variety of barbie types is because people who don't feel represented fight day and night for decades to get representation. If men were to fight for representation in the barbie line (and actually buy them, profit comes before any good deed) they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:20 AM
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But you said you personally know 5 guys like this, so it obviously doesn't disgust you enough to not befriend them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:58 PM
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Their hobbies are crime and manipulating women into sex. I can't believe men who manipulate women to get what they want have been successful at manipulation. Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:57 PM
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This comment is insane. This post is literally acknowledging that choice to have sex or not have sex exists if you can lie to a woman in order to circumvent that discernment. She's trying to get transparency. She's trying to investigate the person. She's trying to have a sex filter. She has standards and this guy doesn't meet them. She has a filter and this guy has been filtered out and he is saying I would like to deceive her so that she cannot do that. I would like to rob her of informed conse…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:09 AM
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yes it's wrong why do you think you have a right to have sex via deception? Why do you think a woman doesn't have the right to say no to having sex with you, regardless of the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:37 PM
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Women are the workers. Therefore, women owning the means of re: reproduction is socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:09 AM
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I think I myself as childless as opposed to child free. I think it's unlikely my life would be better or more stable, and I could never be happy as a struggling mother. I also would prefer to be a single mother by choice and I have no interest in getting married with or without kids. I'm just unwilling to trade my freedom and moderate comfort for struggle and instability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:46 AM
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why would we want to date a person with such a skewed view of reality, and such a low opinion of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:30 AM
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Nope. Men are definitely not hypergamous in looks. Just go outside and observe young couples, the male is usually more attractive than the female. It would be so interesting to learn what version of reality you're living in
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:27 AM
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leave women alone you human cabbage fart *I genuinely feel like the reason men are so hung up on this top 20% thing is because that is how they operate. Yes, they may spend time with date to have sex with and even marry ugly women, women they don't even like, but that's only because they don't have access to the women that they feel are at the top of this social hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:22 AM
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and they often have bad experiences with men being overeager while they can't really relate to it. Why do men choose to do this? Why do men choose to downplay and outright ignore every single thing that women say about why they have negative feelings? What we say we have negative experiences and then you choose to downplay it and say, oh well, that was just because he was too eager or too lacking confidence or whatever. No, it was because he started yelling at me and insulting me because I said …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:02 PM
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Your chances are severely reduced if you do express that side of yourself in the dating process. chances of what? why do you want to increase your chances with those who reject your authentic self?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:13 AM
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Even accounting for inherent risk (which is minimal) *sigh*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:44 AM
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I just don't think it works this way for most of us. I feel like most men could have a woman described to them like this and decide to be with her or not, but I at least don't know anything about the actual person being described, about what it's like to actually be with them. It's the personal charm, the desire they spark in you through their attitude and behavior, it's not about things like height, weight, income. Yes, if you ask a woman what she's looking for she might say those things, but y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:00 PM
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Dating a cop aka hopping on the domestic violence express
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:21 PM
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nothing here about women's rights, not surprising but conservatism can't change this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:34 PM
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Why do people not believe in local news as a concept? “People get murdered in Mexico” DO YOU KNOW WHAT AMERICA IS??????? Like would you suffer some ill fate if you read daily news? Multiple murders every day in every state in America what ARE you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:33 PM
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multiple women in most if not every country will be killed by an intimate partner today, tomorrow, the next day....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:31 AM
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r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:47 PM
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this is insane, how was "date people with similar values" NOT part of your strategy? And you're alone??? SHOCKING! Also " Being with a woman is risky (risk of false allegations, losing control of your emotions, etc), we prefer to minimize risk" 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:34 PM
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Is this purely a financial thing? or a multiple factors such as dating apps, feminism, career women and the bear crap? why is there such a lack of emphasis on the importance of family in the west? we are going in the wrong direction” This mindset is the problem, no one wants to be with men who think like this
/r/MensRights05/05/24 05:16 AM
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So a woman who worked in proximity to bears tells you she would rather that than a man and you decide she must be bad at her job instead of believing she might have information and experience that you do not? 🥴
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:11 PM
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wow I can't believe people think this men's right thing is a hate movement...
/r/MensRights29/04/24 11:41 PM
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Men will never take responsibility for their choice to have unprotected sex whereas women either terminate, adopt out, or go it alone. That is what taking responsibility looks like. Your pouring water on the ground and complaining about the floor being wet. 🥴 Roe v Wade was overturned do you even know if abortions are currently legal in your state? Men will do anything except make better choices, including demanding others take responsibility for their poor choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:10 PM
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this is completely backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:50 AM
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sorry but I'm anti war because I'm a feminist. you could always start an anti war/anti military/anti conscription movement but you'd have to learn things and then apply them to the outside world instead of inventing mind games on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:33 PM
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This isn't some new problem where all of a sudden women are raping boys. The only thing that's different now compared to 10, 20, 30+ years ago is boys feel like they will be listened to and considered victims. It wasn't men's rights that did that.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 03:16 PM
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Biphobia is a flaw, fatphobia is a flaw, slut/sex shaming is a flaw. Morality isn't dictated by gender, majority opinion doesn't dictate morality, and disagreement isn't a sign of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:38 PM
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there will always be problems, we don't get away from them by reverting. It's ludicrous to believe you can have any social system without problems, the goal is to have a system capable of addressing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:57 AM
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how is a man who only values you for your youth and virginity (things that will decrease with the continued relationship) a high quality option?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:56 AM
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I love how you turned not being able to make porn of a stranger into something that harms you, somehow.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 04:30 AM
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please learn anything about divorce
/r/MensRights16/04/24 03:31 AM
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boobs are sexualized*
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:29 PM
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like....sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:57 PM
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The idea that men don't celebrity worship is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:57 PM
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it's not just in business it also happens in politics.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 06:17 AM
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OR OR OR We spend most of our time having to mask and decrypt women's hints as soon as we start socializing because women exist entirely outside of your desire to date them, so we spend more time than autistic men learning how to be around neurotypical women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:11 PM
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Funny because just yesterday I came across A, B, and C
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:57 AM
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I'm positive the number of boys who have been sexually assaulted is much higher due to underreporting from men who don't view what happened to them as abuse.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 12:34 AM
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You can scroll through this subreddit and read from men's own mouths how much they hate the idea of women having a lot of sex, let alone the reality. It has never been an option for women to embrace sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:49 PM
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you started emotionally abusing your girlfriends and they became insecure and latched onto you? Shocking. There is truly nothing in the world that will ever convince men that even when many people engaging in something doesn't make it healthy, is there? For as long as there have been couples there have been unhealthy relationships. Generation after generation sees and experiences so much instability, unhealthy, even abusive relationships in the home, in media, in music, these aren't things peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:19 AM
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How about only give birth if you're capable of raising the kid with or without the father? This is such an insane thing to say when even getting the right to have an abortion is something women, not men had to fight for and literally just lost. Historically, as when as currently, it has not been an option. Condoms were not supplied, all sex ed was abstinence only, birth control was not supplied to minors and wasn't free, and of course abortion bans have been in place all over the U.S. since Roe …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:41 AM
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Is that really someone you would be able to trust? I’d ask the same thing to her about you. If a relationship starts with cheating there’s no reason it can’t end with cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:13 PM
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So, I write this with the knowledge that it is factually true that some men are tricked or coerced into impregnating women against their will or stated consent. That a person can lie about being on contraception, and a person could trust that. I say this not because I think it's the norm, but because it has to be acknowledged as a form of abuse and/or coercive control in order to establish what the most egalitarian way forward would be. In my opinion, everyone alive has the right not to live in …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:08 PM
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Do any of you do any activism re: circumcision? Because if you aren't doing the work I don't see how you plan to get these results. I wasn't aware most men had an issue with being circumcised, the first step in any movement is awareness. I'd really recommend at least starting there. I really do wish you the best.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 06:08 PM
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racist overpopulation myth. most north american households have a higher annual co2 emissions than people in "third worlds" will in a lifetime. It's an absolute disgrace of international resource management, overconsumption, and corporate greed, not poor people using coal and wood burning stoves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:13 PM
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no it's not join r/MensLib choose happiness
/r/MensRights06/04/24 11:40 PM
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I'm the fat friend and I've never stopped anything a friend didn't want me to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:45 PM
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so anyway- Don't approach women just minding their own business in public, instead reserve cold approaches for social gatherings like parties, local hobby/interest groups, bars and clubs. That sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:04 AM
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how did feminism do any of what you claim?
/r/MensRights06/04/24 05:22 AM
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The fact that your concern is having as many options as possible is the problem. You aren't compatible with most people, no one is. Your many personality traits and idiosyncrasies aren't going to work for everyone and everyone's won't work for you. Your casting a wide net just means having to incur more failed relationships, if you even get that far. Just have your own personal identity, and find someone who both appreciates it AND whose personal identity you find desirable. It's not easier for …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:05 AM
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I really need to try and explain why most of the time this isn't wanted. When you see a woman sitting by themselves in public, we're not just waiting for someone to ask us out. Yes that woman may have an interest in dating, but that interest doesn't typically mean we're willing to give personal information to complete strangers when they approach us in public. Bars, clubs, social gatherings where the goal is meeting new people, that's one thing. But what reason other than either thinking she's b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:00 AM
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Women aren't insecure? Neurodivergent? Bad at socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:09 PM
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completely untrue - also "minor misstep" is doing a lot of heavy lifting here. just because I like a man doesn't mean i have to be with him, if I notice a red flag I'm not ignoring it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:53 PM
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Sparing women and children is not misandry, it's about viewing them as less than men, as weak and unequal, as well as viewing them as tools- case in point keeping women as sex slaves, which is a horrifyingly real part of actual wars. The reason men are thrown into war like pennies into a fountain is because the people making the decisions to go to war, devalue human life, you have to in order to send people to fight to the death as well as kill. You have to believe that death is worth the price …
/r/MensRights05/04/24 05:28 AM
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Whereas if a woman were to abandon her family, abort her child or think of her and her future alone, she's a girlboss and deserves all the love. Literally only one of those things, abandonment, is even remotely bad. You absolutely can get a vasectomy, and think only of your future alone. Many many people will call you, and any woman, selfish for it, you'd just have to go where you're supported.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 04:31 AM
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I'd like to know why your views on women are so affected by porn. Why do you have so much shame regarding watching porn? Do you think less of men in porn? Maybe ask: How can you work to dismantle harmful ideas about women, and relationships but i wouldn't begin to know what you need to do to make that happen
/r/ExRedPill07/03/24 09:10 AM
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Maybe a social group with a healthier outlook would help your father? Unfortunately, you would likely have to be proactive in creating that space. Elsewise I think explaining yourself and going no or low contact are the only real choices.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 02:41 PM
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So you think you're not dating because you aren't 6 feet tall, square jawed millionaires instead of accepting that it's your terrible personalities that will always be a problem for us? The fact that you guys went "I'm struggling to date, let me by pass everything women are saying no matter how far it pushes me from my goal of actually being with one" is so telling. You already weren't great people, and you decided to blame women and become even worse. You can't find dates because you're undatea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:11 PM
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it means "believe until given reason not to" also this post idiotic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:23 AM
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nuclear families were a 50s psyop forced down americas throat to control a rapidly expanding population, and not how we have historically lived.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 06:18 AM
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the female population isn't just...around to be dated? A 50:50 ratio doesn't mean there's "one for everybody" because no one exists for anyone. Also, I'm not sure that the ratio matters because that's a global account, but it's not like everyone is the same age, that every country has an equal ratio(what up, China?) or that every man wants and woman, and every woman wants a man. People have varying identities including being asexual and aromantic, some people simply aren't interested. And again,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:07 PM
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sexual preferences based on harmful beliefs are not something that can remain isolated to sexual relationships . You finding women who have casual sex “ick” has consequences for women outside of that fact. If you can’t interrogate the source and motivation behind your preferences you can’t identify the harm they cause
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 02:44 PM
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Sounds like great justification for keeping a population politically insecure, like the current system of destroying countries for their resources including their workers, and bringing them here to allow their lower positions make them vulnerable to exploitation. This is why here in Canada we refuse to give migrant workers permanent residency. It keeps them in a position where they only earn as much as we’re willing to give them, no matter how much they provide, because they lack the protections…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:50 AM
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“Women of quality” Kill me 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:20 PM
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except it does work? be yourself and the people attracted to people like you will want to date you. you want to make people who don't like you want to be with you and that is your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:18 PM
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I think it more so speaks to the type of person who is likely to still be engaging in HP fanfiction despite J.K. Rowling being gleefully transphobic to the point of supporting white supremacists. She has said that anyone who supports her work supports her which is what caused the final nail in the coffin for anyone trying to separate art from the artist, the people who remained either didn't care about the transphobia or believe in death of the author to the point of engaging with media that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:19 PM
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It doesn't matter
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 06:16 PM
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I am once again here to say most women are not feminists, do not engage with feminist works, and have the same patriarchal beliefs as men. It's a choice to unlearn them, and not everyone, man or woman, chooses to. Also, I haven't seen a single video like this on my TikTok, every one I've seen has been a direct reflection of the content I engage with. Women talking about misogyny, racism, and other unacceptable behaviors. I'm glad the website explains that those views are bad, but it doesn't do a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:50 PM
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you're missing the part where women sending signals that they are uncomfortable then get to react to a person's failure or refusal to pick up on them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:50 PM
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Post like this are why it would be so useful for you people to engage in feminist education because then you'd know how high the rates of rape, abuse, and discrimination are in the bi community. Also, how on Earth does bisexuality erase any of the things you mentioned? ​ SA / Rape or false SA / rape claims, loneliness, jealousy, men neglecting housework (or was it really just about cleanliness), paternity fraud, custody battles, having to date ai girlfriends / buying sex-dolls, etc. How does het…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:49 PM
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I want to correct the original post and remind that it's not statistics tat create racial profiling it's racial profiling that creates statistics. If you pull over every single Black driver and do a DUI check, you're going to charge a lot more Black people with DUI. Crime statistics for solved cases are grossly inflated both due to direct manipulation of data and the fact that most crimes go unreported and uninvestigated. ​ On to this post: You're making wide sweeping assumptions about feminist …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:39 PM
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And if it's not to entice arousal, why show off your sexual parts? You cut our bodies into parts, declare them sexual because you like them, and then get mad at us because you believe you're entitled to those pieces. You're a fool, and a misogynist. I don't know how to explain the concept of fashion, and the concept of liking the way your body looks and feeling pretty and sexy for yourself. You declare parts "sexual" but they're just body parts. When I put on a shirt that shows cleavage it's bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:24 PM
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1.Shut up Leave children alone get a job
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:21 AM
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The thing men don't seem to understand about men with multiple children by multiple women is the men themselves. You assume they must be acting out this player fantasy, because all you see is the way he treats her now that he has her where he wants her. You refuse to acknowledge how much work they put into getting women on their hook. Making women feel safe, and secure, and in love. That all happens before any of the bad behavior, or at least before you're meant to recognize this as a pattern. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:37 PM
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Well no, wealth doesn’t change outcomes much once controlled for race, gender and disability. Eg wealthy Black women in America have equally poor mortality rates during childbirth than poor Black women. Whereas white women of all income levels have equally low mortality rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:53 AM
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Society is patriarchal, everyone regardless of gender has to choose to unlearn misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 02:31 AM
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male anuses have the prostate though, so while not self lubricating they do at least have that going for anal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:31 AM
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You don't know anything about anyone's hormones just by looking at them. That is my response to that. You don't know that they are male, or female, or intersex (the chromosomal difference, I'm not referring to trans people). You don't know if the male you're seeing has high, low or average testosterone, and you don't know any woman's estrogen levels either. Both men and women have both hormones and require both to function. ​ Also, I'm curious for anyone who knows how to look up studies; Has the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:23 AM
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Yes, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:45 PM
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What exactly did I say that wasn't factual?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:55 AM
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I'm choosing to be celibate specifically because this is all I will ever be to men. You men on here always talk about how women can get anything we want but this post is reality. All the men you claim to be after us are just after someone because they're settling for anyone. None of you want to date overweight women, but most of us are, but even if we were thin we wouldn't be enough. It seems completely amoral to me to marry someone you barely like just because you think you deserve a human sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:41 AM
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Just to be clear: you're literally just...against statistical minorities? Like redheads, left handedness, owning pet rabbits instead of a cat or a dog, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:33 PM
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This post is so embarrassing, like when a 12 year old in your family says something stupid, you kind of want to record it and bring it out if they ever get married and go "look how naive and stupid you were"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:31 PM
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It’s despicable that your partner talks about his exact that way, if he has that much to say about his last relationship he should talk to a professional, not you. The fact you think he can’t change and you’re simply left with no choice but to embrace bad behaviour is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:52 AM
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go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:25 AM
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18 is not the most fertile time in a womans life dummy. Based on literally nothing but egg count which is the barest of bones on the human body tapestry that is fertility; you are born with the number of eggs you have. That means you only lose them with each menstruation. Based on this, and nothing else, which again is a nonsense way to look at anything, women are technically most "fertile" the first time we get our periods as we have the most eggs. Do you think that's true? Do you think that a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:21 AM
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You know what group would be great at organizing for men’s liberation in feminist spaces? Men. Stop waiting for feminism to save you from patriarchy and become the men’s liberation force in the movement you seek. Do you have any idea how many subcategories of women there are? Every race, weight, height, hair texture, physical disability, mental and developmental disability has had to force our way into the space of feminism, and we’re still ignored and disregarded all the time. It’s not a functi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:57 AM
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You want a formula that makes every woman you want, want you back and I'm trying to explain you can't have that. That isn't a thing. There isn't some guy out there fucking every girl he wants, no matter how much money he has. I would do anything to get men here to understand that there is nothing on the face of the Earth you can do to guarantee that a woman you want to date, will want to date you. I genuinely would do anything to etch that into the minds of men. You need to learn to accept rejec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:34 PM
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you're describing a bunch of different women doing entirely different things and calling it a trend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:38 PM
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You'd think this would make men realize that superficial isn't what we need but nope. Also, "charm"? No. Your personality is grating even in text.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:23 AM
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Dating advice is just people advice, there's nothing you shouldn't do for a partner you wouldn't do for a friend. Seek out the positive friendships in your life and work on emulating the work that goes into them. Openness, vulnerability, trust, confrontation, growth, these are all things that are required in romantic relationships. I don't have any recommendations on who you should watch because you shouldn't be watching videos to learn those skills. You have to do the work yourself, and that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:37 PM
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Plan B is for immediate use in the event of obvious physical failure of a prophylactic. If the comdom/diaphragm failure isn’t obvious or the failure is some form of hormonal birth control like pills, shots,an implant or vasectomy you won’t know until you’ve become pregnant. Plan B cannot terminate a pregnancy, it can only prevent fertilization. If the egg has been fertilized it has no effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:48 PM
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Is it correct to say that the majority of women are actually attracted to "players" and "fuck boys" hence why they are "fuck boys" because they are highly promiscuous? How can a women say that they are not attracted to such men, yet these same men are sleeping with the majority of women? It does not make sense to me. Oh wow....you think? Oh wow.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:37 AM
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decades of underpaid work outside the home, undervalued work inside the home, and the dissolution of social programs meant to ease those burdens like daycare, sports, and arts programs for children. everyone is tired, and women and girls are tired in a special way basically we were told we could "have it all" and then anything that would have allowed us to actually achieve that was destroyed. plenty of people would prefer to stay home, men and women alike, but we would need to tax entire wealth …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:55 AM
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i would rather be locked in a bomb collar with only a toddler to save me than jog for any reason but a gym rat might enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:20 AM
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I support decrim and the end of the nordic model but you're 100% wrong in that it's the answer to any fears about male violence. All that will do is turn sex workers into punching bags for angry frustrated men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:55 PM
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acting single by telling guys who ask her out she has a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:24 AM
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you're insecure , controlling, and you think she'll meet someone she likes better, and she may and I truly hope she does because this is the type of relationship that women come out of saying "I feel like I lost myself"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:19 AM
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sex, especially kinky sex, has to be had with someone I trust. I don't understand the issue here. She trusts you, she literally just fucking met this guy? Also, did you even ask her if she's told him about you? Because most of the women I know who are dating while also hooking up are open about it. Consider how you, even as a friend, are being so judgmental and even thinking lowly of your so called friend. You've known each other for how long but you aren't trustworthy, not that she knows that, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:48 AM
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it's misogynistic. it's a condemnation on "manhood", a "real man" would never turn down sex. there's no implication by the woman that she's superior, which is what misandry is, it's suggesting he isn't living up to the societal ideal of manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:42 AM
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I mean this post comes pretty close to acknowledging that we don't turn down guys just because they aren't 6ft tall and rich, and that being nice just for sex is just as terrible. Facts which men here don't seem to want to acknowledge or accept. But it drops the ball by implying guys after sex are the only ones who exist, and women who are after money are the only ones who exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:27 PM
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male bodies aren't as sexualized due to biological and sociological reasons Just social, it has nothing to do with biology
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:31 AM
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Why is this an issue? If a woman wants to make herself available to be asked out she can. Why do you feel entitled to a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:23 PM
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Stop embarrassing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:22 PM
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women do fight to have those jobs, the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:36 PM
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Poly folks would beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:06 AM
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I'm always so annoyed by the way men project their flat beliefs on beauty and desire onto us. Women don't work that way. We don't believe in the whole alpha/chad shit you've internalized. Hypergamy isn't how the real world works, women tend to earn less than men which is why so many end up marrying men who make more than them. Most men don't make significantly more than their wives, so I don't why this is such a thing with men. Also, the guidelines men have for attractiveness and the ones women …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:03 AM
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no, that's the dumbest shit i've ever heard. Plenty of women, myself included, aren't over a guy and it has nothing to do with where he ranked in good sex, as in he wasn't the first good sex partner I had. Yes obviously dealing with pathetic awful sex from your partners means when you do find someone who isn't terrible, and god if it's actually good or great it's wonderful, but good or great sex doesn't make a great partner. Even when it does meet up with a great partner in other aspects that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:56 AM
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I mean they do, just because a person is flippant or cruel doesn't mean they have a mental illness.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 06:15 PM
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I haven't had sex in years, and don't plan to anytime soon so this is all 2018 and before stuff: For me hookups were about deep feelings of arousal, and I don't choose when I feel that. I didn't sleep with every guy I wanted to, in terms of my own safety and well being I knew that being turned on or curious wasn't a good enough reason to do anything more than dance or kiss. Some guys are dangerous, I want to say most but that's probably not true, I think it's that the type of guy who doesn't res…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:12 PM
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I've never been in my life been a "friends first" type of dater how do you date or even want to date a person you aren't friends with? seriously, i can't imagine caring enough about a stranger to go through everything it takes to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:39 AM
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Make friends at work Hang out, as friends, outside of work Escalate through flirting, etc Then, enter a relationship you're upset because to you this seems like women are forcing every man on earth who wants to stick their dick in them to be nice to them instead of walking up, asking them out, and them ignoring their existence when they say no as you would prefer. but this is literally just normal friendship and then if you reciprocate feelings you can go further, if you don't you won't, I'm sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:36 AM
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A lot of the discourse on this assumes it as being patriarchy led- however I actually think women wield more power in this arena. They can opt for either option and it will be socially acceptable, while men are expected to work. buddy, that's patriarchy. the idea that men are strong and being home is the soft choice, and thus unmanly and unacceptable, it's not misandry when women do patriarchy. Men in general are much more ambivalent about there partner having a job or not, indeed most men do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:58 AM
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Falling birthrates aren't a real issue, there's isn't some risk of societal collapse. It's a racist and capitalist conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:42 AM
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And should woman have 100% of the say on bringing a child into the world. yes, if bringing the child into the world requires her to carry the child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:36 AM
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Taxation should cover all people living in the taxed area, and in that case I think either or both parents should have full ability to dissolve parental rights freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:35 AM
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sfdakfhcaskjdcasi as a canadian bastard of two teenagers, with a step dad who didn't marry my mom until their 10th anniversary (she wasn't into it) I can tell you clearly that the difference in Canada is non existence SPECIFICALLY because of common law marriage, you twit. No one cares about anyone being a "bastard" or if their parents are married, you live in a fantasy world please transport yourself to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:52 AM
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Neurodivergent men don't do this you'll die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:41 AM
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the replies are insane because it's men saying they're only with mid women because they can't get any better, and any time they pretend to care about a woman it's because he views her as a sex object and trophy. literally confirming the view of women who trade on their beauty for financial support: that the only thing any man values is looks, and her status as a "respectable" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:01 PM
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Those views of men are conservative, not progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:44 PM
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You're an idiot, first and foremost. Let's start there. Culturally, there are different social freedoms women have access to. The more freedom, the more options a woman has. It's that simple. We have sex because we can do so, many women live under strict patriarchies where sex not only outside of marriage, but outside of patriarchal approval is punished, sometimes with violence and death.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:12 PM
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-Men do find most women attractive wrong, men refuse to acknowledge how they treat women they don't find attractive, so this sub is exclusively about the ones they do think are attractive -An unattractive man can only dream of being with an attractive woman, and if it happens, it’s rare. i have never met a woman who didn't have to brace her friends to show a picture of her boyfriend, culturally we have much lower standards for men than women in terms of what is deemed attractive. -Women highly v…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:27 PM
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This post is incredibly frustrating, because it's not as though we keep rosters and historical records of every time a man failed to provide for his family or abandoned them. It's an absurd thing to require but I'm certain it could be proven by someone who actually studies these things or a librarian or any essayist. I'm not that person, I'm not a scholar I'm entirely anecdotal except when it comes to lived experiences of those around me. I can explain and hopefully you'll understand because it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:22 PM
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Guys in their 20s fucking suck, what is so hard to grasp about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:15 AM
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status doesn't mean anything it's about finances as well as access, many men withhold opportunities from women who don't sleep with them or provide them for those that do. Women want help with bills, and don't want to be screwed over. Hot plumber is a good fuck, but after a while our shame based society would question a woman having sex for pleasure and nothing else, there also may be the worry of feeling cheap because you got nothing but sex out of it, and people will hold sex against you but y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:58 PM
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there is no way to prove rape, it's not possible, even if you're recording every second, of every day of your life. i'm assuming you believe there is only one type of rape, the one where a crying, resisting, screaming person is set upon by someone, or they're unconcious, or a minor. but there are way too many times where coercion, grooming, and other forms of non violent assault would and have been seen and people won't care. this is ignoring the fact that right now, this very second, people ign…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:45 AM
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As I've said before, this is only possible in a version of reality where we provide everyone with a social safety net and financial support.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:00 AM
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In your version, can the spouse leave as soon as the relationship stops being that? I mean if you become disabled, sick, are demoted or let go from your job, why shouldn't your spouse leave if they don't love you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:42 AM
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Heart eyes are literally nothing, especially if her own boyfriend has no issues. Please be normal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:08 AM
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what if i told you humans are more complex than animals in our reasoning, would you cry?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:19 AM
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The reasons for this are simple. Attractive modern women in their prime, female adults under 35/40, often have nearly endless male options and endless attention. The nature of women is to be hypergamous: You have a bad heart and women can tell. It has nothing to do with this bs system you believe, it's the fact you believe it that makes you so intolerable. You don't deserve to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:55 PM
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fatness shows a lot of negative traits, like a lack of composure, self control and it’s also glutinous, not even remotely true but this IS the reason you shouldn't date people who hate fat people. They have such a flawed worldview you can literally have every red flag pop up if you just care about fat people and how your partner thinks about and treats them. Good litmus test.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:55 PM
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why are incels so obsessed with bad science? why can't you just talk to people or go to therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:56 PM
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that's not even remotely true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:16 AM
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sociology, psychology, anthropology, authors, essayists, poets, feminists, trans people like people BEEN thinking everyone just hates to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:19 PM
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I wish men a very media literacy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:04 AM
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Okay so first of all, herpes isn't the end of the world. Tons of people have it, and they still have sex. It's not illegal unless you fail to inform someone you have herpes, and you can and should be asking your casual sex partners for test result anyhow. You should personally get regularly tested too. Being honest with what you want is always better than trying to conform in a way that won't satisfy you, especially if it involves others. People with herpes know when they're having flares and ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:38 PM
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I’m not talking about non consensual sex. Whatever reason a person has for not wanting sex is not good enough to deny their partner a basic human need. You don't need sex. If you never had sex again you wouldn't die. I could starve you to death. I could dehydrate you, I could suffocate you, I could not "sex deprive" you to death. You on the other hand could absolutely rape someone to death, which you don't seem to have an issue with. Either if you required sex to live you would masturbate, you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:09 PM
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I disagree, I think it has more to do with the type of violence and the long term effects. An intimate partner assault might leave a person with more anxiety and fear than a bar fight. A sexual assault via drugging or intoxication and the related reporting process (if engaged in) might make a person more traumatized than a street robbery, where most would not victim blame. I think incidents like men being lured into robberies by friends or romantic or sexual partners are the violent crimes which…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:24 PM
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Many many many many MANY men have been coerced or outright raped and either don't know it, or have been conditioned to believe it was consensual. I know far too many men who "lost their virginity" to an adult woman as minors. It happens in relationships, it happens with hookups, but I think it mostly happens with children and teen boys being preyed on but thinking it's cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:52 AM
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26F How they make you feel Positive Personality/ mindset(actually just not pessimistic) Homemaking Skills(don't need to be a chef, just enjoy a clean home and body) Willingness to please you sexually Education(doesn't need to be school taught, but should be worldly, socially engaged, and thoughtful) the rest are pretty irrelevant other than how it affects me, they aren't things I want or need.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:35 PM
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I have never met a woman who chose not to have kids who was unhappy. I know two women who have told me they are unhappy but they wanted children and were unable to have them for different reasons. Both are currently single, and while one is fine with being single and the other not, both hate not having kids. That just isn't how any of my friends, family, or friends of my family members who are childfree by choice feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:23 PM
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Men pretending to be stupid when you could just ask yourself or your friends why they abuse their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:33 AM
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Most people have till 40 to meet someone where are you people getting this information from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:53 AM
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wtf is smv and why do you believe in it? what the fuck is a 5 6 7? That literally means nothing. You not wanting the same people as anyone or everyone else isn't actually indicative of anything. Neither is a person being desired by many.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:26 PM
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We literally avoid them like the plague, they lie, they hide. Most don't want conservative women. They both desire more sexual freedom, and want the pleasure of 'taming' an independent woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:54 PM
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reminding women: avoid🚩 avoid 🚩avoid🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:23 PM
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I'd rather be dead than married
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:16 PM
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majority of women don’t play sports Where the fuck are you getting your information? Trades being a male dominated field not indicative inability, it's about women being actively discouraged from trades and men being funneled into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:33 AM
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Please melt away with the dirty slush on the side of the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:52 AM
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But many women once they get that attention never really develop that mindset. Her life becomes a series of reaction videos. Just consume entertainment and content. Clapping like a child playing Peekaboo. She goes through her 20s with the mental state of a child. Who on Earth told you women don't play sports, learn instruments, build things, or any of the other bullshit you listed. There is so much wrong with this post but I don't think anyone needs to read past this line to know that with certa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:49 AM
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Oooh it's a game, that's why it's stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:51 PM
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It's your horrible personality, guy. That's why you can't find anyone, no one wants to be around someone who thinks like this. I'm not saying you should pretend to be someone else, I think it's best if you stay alone and leave women in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:34 PM
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There's a huge difference in dating someone monogamously and dating polyamorously. I'm not at all sure where the overlap is here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:02 AM
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But every other post on this damn sub is "why do women date asshole and not me </3" BECAUSE THEY FUCKING LIE
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:27 AM
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there are billions of women on Earth there are so few things "most" of us are please just think of us as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:17 AM
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I can't imagine many women are going to want to spend time with someone who is pressuring them for sex. You may think that you aren't because you aren't forcing it, but if you say you won't give anyone the time of day if they haven't put out by date 3, you are putting any woman who goes out with you in a position where they may feel they have to say yes in order to continue seeing you. 3 dates is nowhere near enough time for me to feel comfortable sleeping with a stranger. In my younger years? S…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:11 PM
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please learn media literacy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:28 PM
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Be fit, be attractive, except people who are unhealthy or not conventionally attractive date all the time, relationships are not exclusively for models and athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:54 AM
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I have no clue wtf this says but everyone on this sub wants to shove everyone else into easy to understand categories that act in very specific linear ways that's the actual problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:53 PM
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Younger women and girls are often less experienced and may also have fewer supports outside family and close friends. Fewer people to notice and object to poor behavior. Some deeply value virginity as a concept and believe the younger someone is, the more likely they are to be a virgin. or they view them as more pure because they rationalize that they've had less time to 'debase' themselves. Other men are extremely worried they won't find a woman to marry them, or have their children, so they tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:30 PM
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Why don't men get their needs filled from their platonic relationships? You're all very sad and lonely, and want more intimacy, I don't understand why you wouldn't want to be that for one another. I receive so much love from my female friends, and always try to return it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:29 PM
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This is also why so many women are happy to be single. I personally read comments like this and think "wow, even though they say they're lonely, they really just want the ego boost of a body count" and know that all the hassle I'd have to go through to be desirable wouldn't be worth it. So being single is just fun and zero pressure, compared to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:07 PM
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"if women are horny, how do you explain consent?" Sweet mercy 🤦🏾‍♀️...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:35 AM
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r/TrueCrimeDiscussion come look at this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:24 AM
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Nothing good whatsoever can come from teaching anyone, especially children, to bend to the whims of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:05 PM
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Women can only experiment by feeling and that means essentially doing it. How and where do you people develop these ideas about what women do or don't do? There was a post years ago, either on twitter or tumblr about a girl who, in elementary school, was told by a boy in class that girls don't fart, so she just pushed him down and farted on him. I wish there was some sort of digital equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:17 PM
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I can't decide how to feel about this. On the one hand, I feel a bit more relaxed knowing few of you are actually ruining a woman's life right now. On the other hand, you have all developed maladaptive world views and will be or already are in positions of power and authority over others, and there's no way that isn't going to cause problems for society going forward. So it's best if you aren't like that, but I'm struggling to find the push to really help when the people who need it are so convi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:29 PM
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Not having children and not having sex aren't mutually exclusive. Not having sex or children isn't a fundamental human failure, either. People who do not want children do not have an in-built self destruct button, people who try and fail to find a partner haven't failed as humans. I'm literally begging you to put value into yourselves and others enough to see you have purpose outside of sex and reproduction, and that they have value beyond helping or hindering your access to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:20 PM
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You could learn to let go of stupid ass standards that don't even make you happy, and meet a woman who does the same. People do it every day my guy. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:30 AM
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they should be able to void any financial responsibilities towards the child. I’m curious as to what this would actually look like because I imagine a lot of men would take advantage of this. Hard to say what the outcome would be but if the mother doesn’t get child support from the father she will have to get it from the government/aka taxes. Needless to say this will never happen irl but I’m interested in peoples thought process behind it. This is actually talked about as necessary in radical f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:41 PM
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This is SO bizarre because as you keep telling everyone, your wife is a SAHM whose kids are in school, and you asked her and have her answer. Why not just tell her to get a job if you're so mad, and see what doesn't get done? I imagine she spends her time between pick up and drop off organizing everything and prepping and carrying things out. The house isn't just clean it is cleaned. The laundry isn't just done she has to collect, sort, wash, dry, fold, and store it presumably for everyone in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:12 PM
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As long as they're willing to take no for an answer, and don't give off bad vibes I'm fine. I know 'bad vibes' is a very nebulous term, but to me personally it often means basic social awareness i.e.: not interrupting a conversation, not leering or hovering because you want to talk to me, and again being able to take no for an answer. That means just smile, maybe throw out a "no problem" and back away. I really don't know that looking down on guys who ask out women is common, unwanted is typical…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:28 PM
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Lol I'm glad you can't find a woman desperate enough to breed your spawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:48 PM
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You personally can feel however you want about being looked at, but no one looking at you has any idea or cares at all if you're okay with it. You can show your fine with it by just individually being fine with it, but you don't get to make sweeping statements like " I’m also aware that if I’m wearing my gym attire after a workout to then go get groceries I’m going to be looked at. It’s just reality." in regards to people, yourself included, making the decision to objectify another person in pub…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:02 PM
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Are you admitting to intentionally not being fulfilling to them? Because I highly doubt if you asked them, they'd say they felt you weren't doing enough, in fact I'm sure you go out of your way to make sure they each feel like they're getting enough from you so they don't leave your rotation. You should be asking why you work so hard to trick them into thinking they're in a fulfilling casual relationship? Do you treat these women well? Do they enjoy being with you? Because that's why they stay. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:30 PM
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A supermodel could grab these guys by the shoulders and shake them while yelling this and it wouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:44 PM
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Filing for divorce doesn't mean lack of loyalty, it means the marriage in unsalvageable. The rates of domestic violence may not actually be higher in lesbian marriages, it might be higher reported though of course higher numbers are possible. Maybe a lack of knowledge on how to resolve conflicts in same sex relationships? Again, I find it so odd and divorce is considered the issue, not the relationship before the divorce. There is nothing wrong with no longer being happy and knowing that it cann…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:22 PM
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Now one comment was only 1 percent of men in the whole world at virgins at 30 which is nothing. 1% of 1,000,000,000 is 10,000,000. That's the amount of men who haven't been loved their whole lives. The she took a U-turn saying it's only from the US so 1% of 339 mil. Do that math, is that a small number? No woman is virgin at least at 25 let alone 30. For those who are, maybe you know what it's like to not be loved even though not even close to what a guy experiences and you say your experiences …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:13 PM
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I hate this so very much, because you're just wrong about women. Thinking like this literally proves that yes, it is in fact YOU who is the problem. dating apps are bad for men because it overwhelms women with an abundance of options, for fuck sake, how does this even make sense? are you saying that if you were the only option that you'd have an easier time of finding a girlfriend? no shit, if the only option is fish for dinner, you eat fish for dinner ​ If you simply dislike social media, or do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:39 PM
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if you watch manosphere podcasts, you get manosphere opinions. Don't like it? Choose different content.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:15 AM
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Men have the agency of brute force , strength , intelligence , the ability modify and extrapolate their environment etc. Women have the agency of sexuality, reproduction , child rearing and to assist the male under his given leadership. Uggggggggggggggggggggggggggh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:39 PM
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If you are a man with custody of 10 kids with 10 mothers you also can get the same assistance. Which isn't enough to live on specifically to prevent women from leaving their partners. Also where are the 10 fathers? You seem to believe that programs for women pop up as some sort of devine gift for women, but they exist because women worked together to make their needs known. They still aren't even close to actually providing enough support. Have you ever messaged men here to start mutual aid proj…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:45 AM
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Most women who have bothered to properly look into it know that decrim is for the safety of sex workers, not you. Sex workers are not your personal toys and just because you have the option to pay for sex doesn't mean they are obligated to accept you as a customer. The purpose of decriminalization is to stop the systemic oppression that results when workers (of any gender) are forced into the margins, unable to do checks, or keep records, having to trust others to store money, and if you do in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:34 AM
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it has nothing to do with supposedly bitter "nice guys" lacking progressive views or having problem with a woman’s autonomy -proceeds to be bitter about women's autonomy-
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:47 PM
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one day men will have to acknowledge the existence of ugly men with sex lives...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:20 AM
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same, pop pro athlete in there, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:58 PM
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It's absolutely controlling, and how is it a standard. Presumably, this woman existed before she was dating and dressed and posted these things. Women aren't doing those things as advertisements, though yes we sometimes find hook ups, sugar daddies, boyfriends, girlfriends, and modelling work through them. Again, just because that can happen, does not under and circumstance mean that when a woman is doing those things she's trying to do anything other than feel sexy and confident. A partner is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:57 PM
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there was a post I just saw asking if men "really are that bad" and I was typing out something about how most men do not understand consent at all, like the concept only exists in terms of a violent rape by a stranger. But I didn't want to get into, couldn't find the right words either, and then you show up just doing it for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:40 PM
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she literally frames him for her murder, you think it's because she was a boss babe?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:10 AM
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why would a woman want a man who isn't "a catch"?????
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:35 AM
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But I'm literally saying that all types of people were having sex and dating. I met these people in person multiple times a year for like 5 years, their weights fluctuated, styles changed, skin issues flared up or just always existed, and no one got taller than they were when we met. Still, they had relationships romantic, sexual, and platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:06 AM
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I have to wonder if most men actually play video games, because back when I was really deep into youtube and twitch gaming and had a whole community of friends through there, it was like untangling the worlds sweatiest sex pile. Of course there are gorgeous people, and average people, and everyone on the spectrum, and you see all combinations so I just wonder how much exposure to it some men have really had.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:01 AM
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"women have endless options because all men are acceptable" "why would you say men have endless options? you think all women are acceptable?" galaxy brain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:30 PM
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if you dress like a whore and act like one, youre not going to attract men that respect your consent Right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:53 AM
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New-old flavor of rape apologia just dropped No seriously "you weren't raped you just regret the sex" is such a classic victim blaming phrase I'm embarrassed you actually posted it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:25 AM
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and if everything goes well, you end up married and two years in he stops, then what? that's how it works, btw. People don't just bulldoze in as shit people, they play a part just for you until they get to a point emotionally, legally, or both where leaving is difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:22 AM
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I don't think you fully grasp that unclear water kills you? Like if you drank ocean water, or from some random desert pond you'd probably get dysentery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:15 AM
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but women have reported orgasms during childbirth? Also, fewer nerves endings isn't none, and people have completely different desires. Liking or not liking penetrative sex, not being able to orgasm from it, and the sex acts you see in porn are not a blanket statement of female desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:04 AM
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Maybe they aren’t interested in sex with men they aren’t attracted to, it's that fact right there, how can you say you care about more than sex if you're willing if not eager to have it with anyone, even if you aren't attracted to them, and don't like them. And how is it considered having options, as a woman, if your choices are at best men who "tolerate" you solely because of their desire for sex, and not any organic desire for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:01 AM
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You asked a group what they liked about you personally, why would that apply to anyone else? Liking qualities in one person doesn't mean you'll like them in another, and just because these women like that quality doesn't mean all women do. Faking a personality is a terrible way to start a relationship, and I feel like it has to do with refusing to just like who you like, instead of who you're told to. Your friend needs to be himself, not all of his qualities will be positive, and not all qualiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:27 AM
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Those things exist because of a societal LACK, because women are not getting the support, do you not get that? Seriously, the reason a charity exists is because of a missing structural support, and it doesn't just poof up out of nowhere. People effected fight tooth and nail at every single level of politics to create these groups, long before they ever reach official channels. There are male breast cancer organizations, male domestic violence organizations, male sex abuse organizations, and ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:04 PM
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Posts like these are so funny because by using the term "eligible women" you're acknowledging there are women who you deem "ineligible". They aren't even an option to you, you don't consider them at all, but your post isn't saying anything about them. It completely accepts the idea that you can choose not to be with them because you don't want to, and then completely rejects that idea for men. Women have to settle for men who aren't eligible, but men get to just pretend they don't exist (at best…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:54 PM
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Women with US citizenship have less need for such agreeableness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:26 AM
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exactly, any time someone asks me a question about what type of guy I like, or how he'd have to make, or body count or anything else stupid I just respond with whatever seems to most annoy him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:03 AM
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I mean, the worst that happens is they make things awkward and you don't hook up with them. Not the end of the world. Not sure someone who would judge me based on the actions of a drunken friend is the one for me, at least in that particular circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:54 PM
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aren't you guys always complaining about how liberals raise their kids, and how you need to separate your kids from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:39 PM
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Why would I want to date or be stuck with a conservative man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:38 PM
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How would anyone liking his pics or profile or what have you know anything about his habits and how he lives? Women are complaining about the men they date, so if you believe they only date the stereotypical tall, muscular guy, no matter how he lives, then that's the only type of man they could be referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:09 PM
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This creates an enormous disparity whereby even the most average women have the ability to sleep with practically any guy they want, any time they want. it is absolutely BAFFLING how most guys in this subreddit think this, but also would never sleep with most women, certainly not the "most average women"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:04 AM
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A woman breaking up with you doesn't mean you're "getting bumped", I will never understand why men think women keep some rolodex. There's just so much entitlement, why does it matter that you've "invested" (which... what?) or that you are emotionally attached if she isn't? If she was emotionally attached and you weren't, would you stay together? I don't understand why you want just anyone, instead of someone you truly, deeply are passionate about. So many women watched our female relatives waste…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:59 PM
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Opening line of this post was intriguing because I thought you were going to make the opposite point that immediately followed 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:28 AM
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Plenty of men and boys engage in sex acts with other men and boys, and plenty of women sexualize malexmale sex. Social acceptance is the massive gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:51 PM
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The problem is not just the refusal the problem is that she doesn't offer back another time. She just says she is not in the mood right then which possibley means neve A terrifying amount of entitlement here, kind of indicates why a woman might lie about pain. She has a way to avoid "having" to do anything. Sex drives don't align sometimes, and if you plan to be married, sometimes is going to be possibly every week or month or year. There's no "Well you weren't in the mood at all last month, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:17 PM
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You think fat ugly women are worthless but have an issue with women thinking the same of men? What sense does that make?
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