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Do you want friends? If so, ignoring that need for friendship wont do you any good. No amount of hobbies are going to make someone happy if they crave some sort of companionship.
/r/MGTOW201/11/20 10:52 PM
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Ya. I fit all that criteria but they wouldn't take me because I've gone through depression and anxiety before. I can't imagine most men would fit their criteria.
/r/MGTOW219/10/20 09:37 PM
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I gotta remember to use this line if I ever decide to date again.
/r/MGTOW213/10/20 08:39 PM
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Being that we live in the age of equality, I see finances as a "None of your damn business " type of answer. Woman want money, they are free to go work like the rest of us. The time of trad questions/answers are a thing of the past.
/r/MGTOW213/10/20 03:03 AM
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I had a girl ask me about my finances on the first date. I got up, shook her hand and said "Happy hunting". Anyone asking about finances that early on is a big no in my book. Usually means they are fishing for a rich guy.
/r/MGTOW213/10/20 02:59 AM
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Confidence worked once upon a time. That stuff is dead now though. I had a few long term relationships when I was young. All with fairly attractive woman. I wasn't nearly as confident as I am now when I had those relationships.. Took a break for 8 years for my career and I tried the whole dating scene recently for shits and giggles. What I found is a whole lot of woman only interested in what I make salary wise or woman who didn't care for themselves physically (I'm not at all attracted to them)…
/r/MGTOW207/10/20 05:47 PM
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I've seen way uglier people. To me you look like your average dude. Problem is, even the fat chick's are chasing the men that are an 8 and above. Its only a matter of time until 80 percent of men become incels through little to no fault of their own. Just keep focusing on yourself. You're in a really good position in life for your age.
/r/MGTOW207/10/20 05:35 PM
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Thats a bit different. Going out of business is one thing but I was leaning more towards lay offs. Companies will lay off lower tier jobs first. Itll give you time to find something else when you see it happening. Another company to work for. Less likely to be out of work for all that long.
/r/MGTOW204/10/20 01:51 AM
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Sure but how many do you know that have decades of experience? That was my point. Pick a technical field and put in the time. You will become an asset thats not easy to replace. Whether you are a diesel mechanic or a Industrial Hygienist like myself you aint going to get shit canned like most people do during hard times.
/r/MGTOW204/10/20 01:44 AM
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Well if you have a skill, let's say diesel mechanic, and you've been at it for say 15 years, you sure as shit are not replaceable. Problem is most people have soft jobs that are easy to teach and replace.
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 11:27 PM
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You won't find friends like you at your age. Hell even at my age its rare. Hopefully you find something to keep you going and you learn to accept the reality so many men face now.
/r/MGTOW225/09/20 10:20 PM
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I've had all the same experience. Im well put together and in good shape. A lot of fat chick's still think that ain't good enough. Blows my mind. Theres no point to it now.
/r/MGTOW222/09/20 04:43 AM
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Also known as delayed gratification. One of the problems when you are a well off bachelor is that you can do whatever you want whenever you want. That ends in Dopamine overload and it doesn't feel the same as it did before unless you delay your gratification.
/r/MGTOW222/09/20 02:38 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that. So now your stuck with losing most your shit, alimony and child support all so your ex wife can go around and be a whore? The world really is cruel.
/r/MGTOW217/09/20 07:38 PM
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Was it a female therapist that told you looks don't matter? If so, find a good male therapist that can talk to you man to man. In respect to your flaws, keep trying to get the surgery. Just know though that unless you can accept some of your flaws, you'll never be happy. Im tall and in good shape but my nose looks like it belongs on the face of a goose instead of a human. I accepted it. Its not as bad as you but its still something everyone notices.
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 11:26 PM
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Unless you work from home or can come home to walk it then I wouldn't suggest getting a dog. Its only going get lonely.
/r/MGTOW229/08/20 12:26 AM
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The question you should be asking yourself is "why does it make you angry"? People ask me the same as well and I'll usually respond "Haven't found the right one" if I dont care to explain my position, or if I do care to explain I say "I dont care for relationships".
/r/MGTOW226/08/20 07:37 PM
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We all slip up. No biggie. You only betrayed yourself since MGTOW is merely an idea.
/r/MGTOW222/08/20 04:48 AM
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Too much work in my opinion but good on you for doing what works for you.
/r/MGTOW222/08/20 03:11 AM
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I'd recommend buying two books. Ones called "Bachelor Pad Economics" and the other is "Worthless". Both are by Aaron Clarey. One teaches you how to save money and the other tells you which degrees are worth investing in.
/r/MGTOW222/08/20 01:33 AM
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Motivation is not something you will always have. You just have to do it knowing full well it'll reap rewards later. That goes for life in general. As far as exercise, you need zero equipment to be fit. Aside from my mtn bike, I only do calisthenics and am in good shape. You could do the same. Looks into calisthenics movement on YouTube. They have plenty of beginner to expert material.
/r/MGTOW213/08/20 02:51 AM
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What you said hahaha. This no fap thing seems silly to me.
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 06:46 PM
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Man you played it smart prior to the marriage. Good on you for saving that much money.
/r/MGTOW220/07/20 08:41 PM
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Not really. Of course my circle of friends is tiny. A few of my female friends occasionally say that kind of stuff but I just say thanks and move on with my day.
/r/MGTOW217/07/20 08:00 PM
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My ex used that excuse on me. Come to find out from her step sister that she was juggling men when she was with me. She was pissed when I said I dont want to be friends with here and even tried to convince her parents that I wanted to hurt her. Her Dad called me and asked if I wanted to hurt her and I said no. He said he figured but wanted to make sure. If you ever hear this excuse gentlemen, assume she is with someone else.
/r/MGTOW217/07/20 07:53 PM
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I think this is called self improvement and caring about yourself. Sounds like you are winning to me.
/r/MGTOW203/07/20 03:51 PM
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He's likely fighting the demons in his head. Its a vicious cycle of depression and then validating why its okay to be the thing that depresses you.
/r/MGTOW203/07/20 07:45 AM
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I think as long as you aren't yanking it 7 times a day I would say its fine. Most people in general watch porn at least a few times a week.
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 07:49 PM
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That's what Im saying lol. Im average so it made zero difference.
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 07:46 PM
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Get what works for you. Ive owned trucks, sedans and hatchbacks. I like my hatchbacks the most. Great gas mileage, little to no maintenance, cheap parts and plenty of space for how small they are. I can also mount a trailer hitch and put a bike platform on em and go mtn biking where I want.
/r/MGTOW225/06/20 11:48 PM
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I don't doubt that. I have friends in the medical field that tell me how raunchy the female nurses are and how they try to manipulate you into marriage or whatever by using scare tactics. Probably best to stay away from those if you are looking for casual fun. The question is does it bother you that you don't have sex regularly? If it does, I don't think being a MGTOW monk is going to helo you. That sexual urge will turn to resentment eventually which would really turn you into an incel. You can…
/r/MGTOW225/06/20 11:37 PM
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I find it insane that as a doc you aren't having woman throw themselves at you. Especially if you aren't ugly. That might just be the nature of the dating game now though. Hard to say.
/r/MGTOW225/06/20 11:22 PM
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Sounds like your meds are off and you need a different dose or medication. Id start there if you haven't. I have a friend who is schizophrenic and he has the same issues but seems to be reluctant to try a new med or dose. Instead he complains about how miserable he is. Don't let that happen to you. Gotta find something that makes you feel the most normal.
/r/MGTOW225/06/20 11:11 PM
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Honestly.... Mgtow is merely a phase in life for most men. Rarely do men do it long term. No reason to feel ashamed. Especially since you've never experienced being with a woman. Mgtow is usually for men who have gone through one shitty relationship after another or men who have been divorced. Its definitely not for guys such as yourself.
/r/MGTOW222/06/20 10:45 PM
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How'd you manage that money wise? Im guessing you had a good jib and invested/saved wisely?
/r/MGTOW222/06/20 10:41 PM
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That's pretty unique 😂
/r/MGTOW222/06/20 09:01 PM
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The same as you. Mtn biking is a blast. I like playing my guitar to.
/r/MGTOW222/06/20 08:58 PM
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Agreed. Be cautious and careful how you share your views. Its too easy to be called an incel/loser if you try to justify things like being a monk etc. My own brother said I sounded like an incel just because I told him Im not attracted to most woman in the US because so many are land whales.
/r/MGTOW222/06/20 08:56 PM
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You dont even have to explain going your own way. Just tell people its a great opportunity to make some good cash in a relatively short amount of time. That it would set you up for the future and help you be more well off than most your peers.
/r/MGTOW209/06/20 07:29 PM
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