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The post is good and the comments better. My brothers and I fault our father for some stuff and acknowledge he is unparalleled awesome in other regards. Had he not been available, loving, supportive and masculine I wouldn't have the same demeanor I do. Did he prepare me for life? No. Other men have stepped in and continue to. Point is this is painful for some and we do own the good and bad, we need each other (men) so be willing to listen and be supported by good men and do this for others.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 01:08 PM
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Choose to be a man. If you learned how to not be "mediocre" or not "placate to fem-centric society" or settle for "sub-standard behavior" from yourself then choose.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 01:58 PM
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I wrote up front in my original post that my wife has what appeared to be a disorder, I think maybe she is more PTSD from abuse prior to us being married. She projects her behavior onto me, she is unstable, and has been an emotional terrorist. Like she is suffering from being traumatized and blames me. I am going to follow the success story below which is basically lift and read. I do feel that I can better the situation by getting my shit together. I am still skinny, financially weak, and not v…
/r/askMRP22/11/16 09:33 PM
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The story is right. I will do my best, Thanks!
/r/askMRP22/11/16 09:19 PM
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This is the best effort of communicating to me and everyone above has really written their best and I appreciate it. We cancelled the divorce and got some prayer from elders before we signed to dismiss it. I do not have oneitis, nor am I failing to have an abundance mentality. I have been warned by you all but as I said my objective is to stay married. I trust this voice the most, which I believe is Biblical and in the best interest of my kids... I hope.
/r/askMRP22/11/16 09:18 PM
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I am close to having no court. This is what the wife is trying to do today. I am not going to necessarily agree yet but again I never wanted a divorce. I am teetering between getting that girlfriend and just trying to start fresh with my wife.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 06:04 PM
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Last year I stupidly contested my own restraining order. You are right in saying DO JOT GO SEE THE JUDGE, it did not work. I found/ God provided an attorney. An elder at my church bumped into me on Sunday and I told him about the divorce, and he was able to recommend an attorney who happened to be available. This attorney ALSO ACCEPTS A DISCOUNTED FEE THROUGH THE BAR PROGRAM. I have a new restraining order to contend. How a women can turn, I have seen this several times now that I am looking, I …
/r/askMRP31/10/16 07:25 PM
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Just wanted to make sure I thank you for this thoughtful comment. You better believe it gave me decisive course of action. Namely the part of slavery being abolished, not having to be nice to her, no rules, and just the tone was caring. Thank you.
/r/askMRP29/10/16 06:26 PM
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Yea, it resembles a cesspool. That sucks and not in a good way. I am glad I have been working on my self for a while. Last time I enter an LTR while she controls the frame:)
/r/askMRP29/10/16 04:08 AM
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Nailed it men. You should see the lies in HER PETITION FOR A RESTRAINING ORDER WHICH WAS GRANTED. AGAIN! Not worried this time. I tried to inform her that false accusations in a situation like this maketh an unhappy judge. I hope my kids have a good weekend.
/r/askMRP29/10/16 04:06 AM
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Am I blind because I don't feel controlling at this point in my life over her? I am not free to do anything without worrying about her controlling my family, we are unhealthy for her control AND weak leadership from me. I am at the point where I believe her controlling, manipulative, uncooperative behavior is truly unhealthy for my family. It's time to take the control from her.
/r/askMRP27/10/16 02:25 PM
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I think I am numb to it. I want her to act right and I want to love her. She is fucking crazy though. Narcissistic. I have to follow her because she has my kids. They need her. I have 2 consultations of course she does not know about. Since I make shit money she's fucked. My dad always told me I just need a 2x4
/r/askMRP26/10/16 08:50 AM
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LOL yea I dunno. I think she drove me crazy and I did something stupid. No, I mean I tried to endure MEGA-HAMPSTER, she sold my car, and I was a little crazy trying juggle shit. She bosses my skinny hard working ass around, and I tried to roll with the punches. It compounds the problem when a pregnant women goes into anxiety attacks at your presence.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 06:26 AM
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Do not agree to anything, this helped me not agree to signing my van over to her. We talked late into the night, and all day. Sweet but no change, she doesn't' trust me, and doesn't think I have a chance for custody. Things calmed down a bit but she is set on her proposal. I doubt myself that I should just sign it, this forum has helped me to beware. I had coffee with a Navy buddy yesterday whose 'fiancé' locked him out and he pays her $1600 cash a month for their two kids. He came back from a t…
/r/askMRP23/10/16 02:42 AM
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Am staying at the house thanks to your advice, I think she will try the locks, damn she was going off and my recorder stopped.
/r/askMRP23/10/16 02:32 AM
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Yes I will.
/r/askMRP22/10/16 07:08 AM
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All true. Just done with here craziness especially around our kids. Thanks, I actually think this is super clear and helpful.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 11:14 PM
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Goal: get legal help to have kids half the time.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 11:11 PM
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Thank you for saying that this could be saved. She is today threatening me with restraining orders if I don't leave. I am done trying to save it. I want nothing more but it's insane right now. I would save it for my kids. I moved my vehicles away from her because I cannot give transportation to someone threatening to destroy me (on recording) and take my kids. Sherif is on the way and I have to Lawyer Up. I Plan to see a judge about her threats and find a lawyer for custody.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 11:10 PM
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Apparently taking this lying down isn't an option. Seeing her screaming at me and threatening me today is enough. I have to end this, there is no hope for her to come around.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 10:58 PM
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Shits getting real, stand off in my drive way, I called cops she is going berserk threatening restraining orders if I don't pack and sign something that I a abusing her. Yea I think I need a lawyer. Thanks for being there men.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 10:12 PM
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God one! She belittles and may lose her marriage, exactly.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 11:57 AM
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Already had baby but yea, she is breast feeding my baby. The wife is a pain in the neck, it would do me some good to be free from her, but it's my role in life.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 07:19 AM
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Good point that is not a shit-test. This is her goal. She is sick of living where we live and I can't move us.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 07:16 AM
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Yes a failed Captain she sees. An uncooperative desperate person I see.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 07:05 AM
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What if I do nothing, I have jobs that show very little income. She wrote the damn divorce papers to give me mere hours each day with my kids. Wife wants to be independent of me I guess. I am doing fine so long as I can be with my kids each day. No vagina will get sorted out naturally. I have never been raped. Is it bad?
/r/askMRP21/10/16 06:31 AM
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Marriage might be salvageable, I don't make much money Uber Driver, Self Employed Landscape Maintenance, and Navy Reserves. So child support is not terribly frightening. I will treat it as if ready to move on.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 06:17 AM
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That's the thing man, I don't know my goal yet. I am a sucker because I am committed to this women who doesn't want me apparently. I made a commitment and I can't help the divorce... But I am not settled on that yet. I am enthused about the 18-24 yr old YES, but really haven't ended my marriage in my mind. Reality not hitting me or something.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 06:06 AM
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Working on Lawyer for advice. When I do go home she makes, "your not welcome here if" comments. She is dependent on me and still won't ask nicely like an adult like to pay a bill or buy something. I think she will set me up, but it's hard to see her getting another restraining order as she knows how all four of my kids need me, and she appreciates me with them. My biggest problem is another restraining order (not likely but she threatens).My second biggest problem is child support and custody ti…
/r/askMRP21/10/16 05:44 AM
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Sorry this reply was for a post that I clumsily deleted. I was attempting to explain why my wife got the restraining order last summer and it had to do with vehicles. Apparently pregnant women don't like to be without transportation. It was a time I was trying to pass shit-tests and ended up staying away. She acted as though I would put her into pre-labor by my presence. When I found myself without transportation I took my car from my driveway in the night. Restraining order.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 04:39 AM
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Totally, she drops all manner of frivolous crap. I probably will get what I deserve if I take this lying down. Have called lawyer friend. Meanwhile she DEMANDS stuff which I will provide. Viewing wife as adversary not natural for me, even though she plainly is treating me that way. Just trying to get my head together.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 01:57 AM
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She locked me out last night, my kids tried to let me in but and my son came out the back. I decided to leave, possibly thinking the kids crying would make her look the villain to them. I see what you mean about the lawyer, this is for custody and minimizing child support. No assets really.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 04:39 PM
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Thanks mate, I'll check it out.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 04:20 PM
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Yes I see, thank you for making this reference. Amen
/r/askMRP20/10/16 08:18 AM
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Staying in my house, I agree about the time with kids and child support amount. I don't think we are talking about very much money, but I will reach out to a lawyer friend. Thank you for responding.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 08:17 AM
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Life for my kids will be better. That is right.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 08:14 AM
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It is my house.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 08:12 AM
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Thank you, I went home after writing this and she wouldn't let me in. My son came out the back but I decided not to bear her threats at 11:00PM. I will probably stay in my house but it's night and she just served me papers. We rent the house and she drives my vehicle I lease for her.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 08:12 AM
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The restraining order was while she was pregnant. I am giving background of my experience with recognizing and responding to shit-testing. I understand why it is frustrating to read this. There are details of course but I am not a violent type of father or husband. Let me say she sold my car, and gave away my truck. I was without transportation trying to get to work. Why my wife goat a restraining order: I come home, she gets anxiety attack, I try to give her space by staying with a friend. Even…
/r/askMRP20/10/16 08:01 AM
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