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Interesting faceoff... Ryan Phillipe (cruel intentions), jude law (whatever she's seen him in), johnny depp (pirates), Brad Pitt (everything) vs Eric Bana, Clive Owen, Gerald Butler (Sparta), Hugh Jackman .... I think you may be onto something there :)
/r/seduction22/04/10 12:47 AM
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tenebrism is right, that's sound advice. The simplest two are 1) food 2) drinks. Rock band and other stuff like that are good to get an insta party back at your place. But for a night club here's the thing - even if her friends are leaving, you can get her to stay. She might say "oh but I am getting a ride", say "you'll drop her off in a cab - your treat, it's not everyday you meet someone new and interesting". n.b. Offering a girl a cab ride when you are actually going to end up sleeping with h…
/r/seduction21/04/10 09:32 PM
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Right, fair enough, but we all watch movies don't we? And seeing as some guys here may have actually met a PUA (or shock, horror, be one themselves!) and be in a position to recognize a bit of game when depicted, I think there is little harm in something like this. Anyhow, when the zombies attack I am falling back on what Dawn of the Dead taught me :)
/r/seduction21/04/10 08:54 PM
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Ah, but it's Jude Law, the most handsome fucker God put on Earth. At least Caine was a bit craggy. Clive Owen in Closer is disqualified for the same reason :0
/r/seduction21/04/10 08:49 PM
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Consider the logistics: She wants to be brought home. So bring her home. To yours. Now imagine that instead of bringing her straight home, you brought her back to yours for some food or to have a drink or whatever. Then the little kiss with the closed eyes can be expanded upon without her daddy coming at you with a knife/baseball bat.
/r/seduction21/04/10 08:50 AM
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n.b. Do all the sappy things that puas tell you not to do. Going on a prom date is a perfect excuse to get flowers or whatever you yanks do. But get good ones - something that will stand out. If you do not, you are going to be fighting against her frame "this is my perfect date and i want it to be perfect", instead of clicking with it. Your frame could be "perfect dates get better when two cool people start to realise that they are attracted to each other". Sounds like you are on top of this. Ac…
/r/seduction21/04/10 08:49 AM
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how do you know the other person won't ditch you when your relationship becomes weak Because if I am in a genuinely "weak relationship", I'll end it myself, as I have in the past.
/r/seduction20/04/10 01:58 PM
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http://itsomusiccompany.com/dBs%20text%20game%20primer%202nd%20ed.pdf direct link, skipping all the crud on the crappy website
/r/seduction19/04/10 12:34 AM
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If you can pull it off, fantastic. In my (limited experience) there are surely girls just as cute as the BM, who don't have two tons of wood as a dividing obstacle between you, right there in the same venue. Maybe I am a sap for going for the low hanging fruit, but guys we are not out there to make things difficult for ourselves are we? I can see the whole social proof bit point to it, but all in all I would say we are better off going after the hottie with the cute curls on the right side of th…
/r/seduction19/04/10 12:29 AM
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Does he drink?
/r/seduction18/04/10 10:36 PM
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I do wonder though, at some stage are acts like that deliberate, or has he so internalised such behaviours that it just comes out naturally... Style strikes me as what guys who game should strive towards - I see similarities with what AFC Adam is trying to get people to do.
/r/seduction18/04/10 10:36 PM
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I still love the anecdote about Georgey Best sticking one in the back of the net at half time. The auld divil.
/r/seduction16/04/10 07:21 PM
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Awesome. He probably just needed the push downhill though - as you say he knew how to get chicks before. Also "negging the shit" out of Natalie Portman might work, but on most of our acquaintances it will just send them home in tears. The kino + previous social proof/friendship got him the girl, not the negging.
/r/seduction16/04/10 12:19 AM
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How much did it cost? Was he nice to you? Is p=np?
/r/seduction16/04/10 12:04 AM
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Enjoy, make sure the armor is in place...
/r/seduction16/04/10 12:02 AM
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She was a balls hot Russian girl and she did NOT look "a month till her 18th birthday."
/r/seduction15/04/10 05:52 PM
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ahem. 17 year old. Depending on location that can be a bit sticky. Ain't worth it bro.
/r/seduction15/04/10 12:00 PM
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Oh the classic actually works - talk to them slightly over your shoulder, and keep you feet pointed a bit away. Don't lean in, lean back. Speak louder (you'll have to as you'll be leaning back). Careful with the kino, light brief touches are the order of the day. I'm the least intimidating person in the world (short and round like a little beachball) so I guess I don't really have any deep answers for you.
/r/seduction15/04/10 12:24 AM
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Yeah but in a bar they are up for it, and you can always get someone to give you a recommendation for a drink, or where to go next (you're new in town) or tell a girl she dances kinda sexy (very cool if she's only tapping her foot or something like that). There are literally 1000 little pieces of game you can use as an ice breaker. I'm going to go out a limb and guess you need to calibrate your body language better if you have much better success with friends of friends. With friends of friends …
/r/seduction14/04/10 11:31 PM
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There is no point in that. Reddit is too small, too niche. And fuckit, the ratio of girls to guys is going to suck. Big time. PoF and OkC have this shit covered.
/r/seduction11/04/10 02:16 AM
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A girl to fall in love with you? Be her boyfriend for a while, and just be fucking excellent. Simple as. Massive, massive distinction between being a fuck buddy/boyfriend/the one. I dont know if I have preselection but a lot of girls want to hangout with me. If you do hang out with them where there are other girls, then you have preselection. Dude, you have to pick one, turn the burning flame on her, and either it sparks or it doesn't. If it doesn't move on to the next and so on. Given girls ran…
/r/seduction11/04/10 02:09 AM
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EDIT NBB Get your bed made, and your room tidied. Condoms by the bedside table, and a few in your jacket pocket. Poor logisitics kills more romance than herpes. If she wants to go back to yours (she doesn't want to look like a slut in front of her roomate or whatever) things have to go smoothly n.b. There will be other chicks. Hundreds of them over your life. One of them will be the one you settle with. This one is probably not the one... That said, very simple things. 1)It is a horrible thing t…
/r/seduction11/04/10 01:00 AM
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ok no time for deep game here. 3 simple rules then to start ==Tao of Steve== be desireless - you don't need her be excellent - if you are Jimi Hendrix bust your fucking moves be gone - act as if you are leaving And for the love of God don't take the first and last literally. OR ==MM < 05== Find, meet, attract, close Sounds like first 2 are taken care of. You need to attract her then. So ==MM > 05== Attraction,Comfort,Seduction Skip the first of these, you've already done this. Comfort. She is a …
/r/seduction11/04/10 12:28 AM
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Ha. TUD's approach is more what I'd call after party (and that isn't really the problem here) I'm just looking for the backstage pass :) Edit: Fuck, we have a dateRape subreddit? :(
/r/seduction10/04/10 11:48 PM
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Ding ding ding. We have a winner! I think that the guys here forget that they themselves are often the only guys in a bar who will try to break the ice with a cute chick (so the cute chicks that they see get at least one approach :) )
/r/seduction10/04/10 10:39 PM
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Content is extremely explicit in places. No pics. Also fast seduction can have some dodgy ads at times.
/r/seduction07/04/10 09:39 PM
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Be careful about that kind of thing. It is really not worth it. If in doubt, grab a look at their DL or find out a bit more about them.
/r/seduction06/04/10 11:41 PM
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Facial hair if you can pull it off and actually want to look a bit older. Otherwise just wait for mother nature to play her cruel, cruel hand and wither those once boyish good looks. Actually screw that, go get yourself some teenage tail.
/r/seduction06/04/10 01:47 AM
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Time and again you have been given advice on this site, and time and again you disregard it. I don't think what you did there can be regarded as "solid game". That said, who is to say that in this case it won't work? Fingers crossed mate.
/r/seduction04/04/10 05:44 PM
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Thundercat :)
/r/seduction02/04/10 01:12 PM
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Which crew? RSD?
/r/seduction01/04/10 03:46 PM
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Her> [Just as your about to get in] How many have you slept with? You> Oh, a few. You? Her> Not many / you don't want to know / whatever You>Wow, you must really dig chicks then :) (If she says [you don't want to know] extra careful with the armor). ===or=== That's more of a second date / (N+1th date) question :) + *
/r/seduction30/03/10 09:38 PM
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One perspective of the Dark Triad is that it consists of three related yet independent constructs, that the three traits share variance with one another, and that the three traits sometimes share variance with other traits like the Big Five personality traits. I have been speaking English for all my life, but fucked if I understand what that means.
/r/seduction30/03/10 05:10 PM
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This x 10. Go out in big social groups with hot girls and guys who get laid.
/r/seduction28/03/10 11:41 PM
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Yes of course. After a bit of teasing...
/r/seduction28/03/10 11:31 PM
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http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/surveillance/basic.htm#hivaidsexposure Please read that. In 34 states with confidential name-based HIV infection reporting, there were 100 cases of non-high risk infection occuring for a year.
/r/seduction26/03/10 03:18 AM
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really not programmed to have relationships that last longer than a few years. Even if there's awesome chemistry and rapport, the magic will die out within the space of a year or so. While your point is fundamentally sound, I would have thought that the period of attraction would be longer. Personally I would put it at 5 years, 3 months 2 days and oh, about 11 minutes.
/r/seduction26/03/10 02:53 AM
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The way you'll act when you're in a solid relationship with someone and is being honest and transparent is in many ways extremely similar to game. Exacto-mundo. In essence what we are trying to instill in our casual interactions is the same mindset that we have when we are in a committed, bi-lateral, monogomous relationship with a girl. The social dominance that you have over her, the in-jokes and all that - making that appear in a new seven hour long interaction is the name of the game.
/r/seduction26/03/10 02:49 AM
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Have you really done your expectation managing, or do either/both think you are exclusive? From the sounds of it, you are golden, just be honest with yourself. If you have, meet them both and pawn them to go home with some other hottie. That way neither feels left out.
/r/seduction24/03/10 04:18 AM
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Right. She struck me as someone who got it, but had a bad experience.
/r/seduction24/03/10 03:59 AM
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Reread it. Where does it say that that was the cause of her disillusionment? Sounds like her de-facto boss went off on a strop, started harassing her and she had that moment of clarity we sometimes have - fuck this for a bag of spuds. It happens to the best of us.
/r/seduction24/03/10 03:58 AM
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Never read Magic Bullets so far, read MM a while back. Why is it worth my while getting a copy?
/r/seduction24/03/10 03:52 AM
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The odds on you (or anyone you have ever met, or will ever meet) being killed by some sad AFC are probably quite long...
/r/seduction22/03/10 02:59 AM
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About one in a hundred of us (being generous) can pull off a Brad Pitt pout, but everyone of us remembers what it was like when our team won the local hockey league or whatever... Fuck all smug grins that night, shit loads of wide ass smiles and high fives I bet. Everyone wants to be on the winning team.
/r/seduction20/03/10 05:00 AM
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Why. What do you owe them? If they are your friends, have a frank conversation with them. If they are not, who cares. One's monkeysphere only has a certain diameter.
/r/seduction20/03/10 04:56 AM
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Top advice.
/r/seduction20/03/10 04:54 AM
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Ok, advice time: full steam ahead. I obviously fucked up by DLV which has probably killed attraction from a positive situation. Stop overthinking. Seriously. She likes you, she got drunk, she said something mean, deal with it. Next time you see her, before you even fucking say hi to her, finger on the bottom of the chin, raising her face to you, kiss her deeply and make sure that she knows the you are going to have her. Don't get as drunk that night and have fun
/r/seduction20/03/10 04:53 AM
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She went to bed fully clothed so I abided and removed those items for her and proceeded to pleasure her up to the point of orgasm. She then rolled over and announced she was going to sleep and it was my own fault. This is not a mistake. Jump her in the morning :)
/r/seduction20/03/10 04:49 AM
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"Say hello, buy a girl a drink, and you'll meet people." Excellent advice. And if you have infinite resources, and just want to practice making conversation, a fantastic approach. I mean this with absolute sincerity. However, turn the tables, ask the girl to remember the last time that she made a deep connection with a guy (point at yourself / stroke your chin whatever) and point out with her that there was no way that a classy girl like her made that connection just because some random guy boug…
/r/seduction20/03/10 04:46 AM
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Wear a wedding ring, and point at that the next time someone says it. (Even better, just slip it on as she says it,) and say "you may not have noticed..." / "I know someone who would be very upset to here you say that" (thank you Mitch!) waggle waggle
/r/seduction20/03/10 04:41 AM
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Strong disagree here. Christsake there is a show on VH1 about it. Feigning ignorance is unnnescessary. Mention you saw it, point out that all those spas were going round wearing ten foot high hats and reading palms (assuming you weren't) and continue to game her (mirror, kino, yes ladder, whatever) (assuming you were). If not, fuck it, point out to her that what these guys are trying to do is so obvious to you that you have no interest, how the things that they have to make an effort to do are t…
/r/seduction20/03/10 04:37 AM
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Ok play with her then next time she does it (n.b. not just after she has actually shot down a guy). Spend two minutes phase shifting into "advice from an older devil mode", serious voice, slow pace all that shit. Tell her that her story is not unique. Not by a long shot. In fact, she is really like this friend of yours Carmela that you used to know, a pretty girl, just like she is, who had a similar attitude to guys, and who you always thought was secretly frustrated. Cause whenever you guys use…
/r/seduction11/03/10 05:05 AM
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Ah fuck it, even if it is a flake he can go buy himself an icepop while he's out. What's the worst that can happen :/
/r/seduction11/03/10 04:04 AM
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I'm accused of being a player. Do you really give a fuck what label someone puts on you? Fuck it. Canned responses: "I get that a lot - people seem to be very intuitive about me (Big Arrogant Smile)" / "Aw, that's the nicest thing anyone's ever said to me (puppy dog eyes + laughter)"
/r/seduction10/03/10 02:44 AM
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What I'm curious for is whether people think she's interested. She is coming to your apartment. You have to presume she is into you. Kino from the go - kiss on the cheek and a brush of the hair when she comes in. Make sure the food is still cooking when she comes in, and get her to help. Help her into an apron, whatever. Get her to open the wine. Lay off over dinner, just vibe. Get the movie ready and get comfy with her on the couch. Kiss her and escalate. Enjoy.
/r/seduction09/03/10 03:02 AM
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Money. But seriously, what kind of age ranges are you talking?
/r/seduction05/03/10 05:17 AM
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