the_gato_says Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	People dating need to be realistic with their expectations Australia is only slightly better than the US from the stats I saw (2/3rds overweight, almost 1/3 obese). Usually the overweight/obese numbers vary a bit by location, socioeconomic status, etc., so maybe you live in a very active and/or rich area.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 12:10 PM
2	That Materialist Dating Ideology Extremes May Point to Class Warfare in America Interesting. Can you elaborate on this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 08:42 AM
3	CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards. For dating, sure. Generally people marry people of the same economic status though according to studies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 05:50 AM
8	Nobody is judging you for having standards. We're judging you for being a dick about it. No, nothing you said is disrespectful. If you had used derogatory terms for the women just because they weren’t virgins, I’d consider that disrespectful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 07:06 PM
10	Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculous And now random people they know who see them on the app will think they are cheaters. I don’t see any benefit in doing this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 03:47 PM
2	It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine. Not who you asked, but definitely not. Having the women character be an amazing spouse, an attentive mother to multiple children, and a close friend to many, while also being gorgeous and well-dressed, keeping a perfect home, and achieving success with some side hustle, probably isn’t ideal either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/22 11:33 AM
11	I loathe who I am without make-up and elegant clothes. Start dressing how you want to dress and see what happens. Your husband may have something nasty to say, or he may realize you’re a human being with evolving tastes.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/06/22 11:52 PM
1	Being happy with yourself more important than shiny attributes when finding a partner? Lol to sexy name. I would not have thought of that, but makes sense (or at least not having a non-sexy name makes sense).	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 06:37 PM
1	Plenty of women cannot believe average men cannot get laid because of what they see Lol. Very true. Trial by fire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 10:04 PM
2	Plenty of women cannot believe average men cannot get laid because of what they see Sure, but brushing up on human interaction before dating would be good for someone with poor social skills. If you show up to a date without being able to hold a conversation, it probably won’t go very well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 09:34 PM
2	Plenty of women cannot believe average men cannot get laid because of what they see It’s probably not a popular idea on this sub, but social skills can be developed and improved. Similar to working out, it takes time, effort, and discomfort. Many of us could probably use a refresher in social skills after being shut away for a time during covid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 07:22 PM
1	What are the professions of the men on this sub? Thanks for the reply!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 12:09 PM
-1	What are the professions of the men on this sub? I’m a woman lawyer and find this so interesting. What kind of law do you practice? Are you mostly concerned about female staff, female attorneys, or both equally?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 02:02 AM
9	Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised. I don’t know if the right term for this is female competition, but I definitely dress up for other women. My girlfriends will notice a new outfit or haircut or lipstick, but my husband won’t. He appreciates and compliments my putting extra effort into my appearance, but the rest is lost on him haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 03:33 PM
2	The 80/20 doesn’t mean only 20% of men are having sex and relationships…it means 20% are having the interactions and relationships THEY WANT with women Interesting. What age range? The only divorced people in my social circles (except one couple) don’t have kids. Most are in their mid-30s like me though so maybe age is a factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 12:55 AM
2	Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men? Does he think women in general are unhappy in life or that the women seeking marriage counseling/seeking divorce are unhappy in life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 09:08 PM
13	Would you date a widower or widow with children? Would you date someone with children if you yourself had children? What about the fathers who abandon their children with a single mother? Takes two to tango, so to speak, and I don’t see why the one who sticks around to raise their children should get the scorn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 08:11 PM
11	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive So true. My boss is always convinced I’m sick when I don’t wear makeup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 12:56 AM
1	What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle? That was more the case when I was in my 20s. I don’t live in a HCOL city, though there are pricier areas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 08:03 PM
2	What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle? The single people without kids that I know are generally doing okay career-wise. It’s the families relying on one income who are struggling. I’m mid-30s though. ETA: Agree with all your other points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 07:49 PM
3	Fundamentally believing grown women biologically think like teenagers is sexist Puberty and aging = biological. The changes to your brain and body as you become an adult aren’t just sociological.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 06:09 PM
6	Fundamentally believing grown women biologically think like teenagers is sexist Isn’t it both?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 05:58 PM
3	Most men don’t actually find most women attractive, we just have a lower standard for casual sex partners than women do. Truth. As a lady who wears make up, I’m definitely jealous of my husband’s morning routine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 06:07 PM
4	As a man it's better to be a "husband material" than having random short term encounters Would it be superficial for a man to be more attracted to a woman who had her life together than to an unstable woman who couldn’t hold down a job, had terrible finances, etc.?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 05:49 AM
4	As a man it's better to be a "husband material" than having random short term encounters Sure, if the financial benefits of a man’s stability are the only things attracting a woman, there are issues. However, there are more than material benefits to a stable life, and from what I’ve seen, stable attracts stable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 12:55 AM
3	When a Tall/Rich/Highly Educated Woman says: "Men don't like to date us" that means, Men who are: "taller than them, richer than them, more educationally qualified than them". They don't see Men who are lesser qualified than them anywhere near. Ah makes sense. Thanks!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 07:36 PM
8	When a Tall/Rich/Highly Educated Woman says: "Men don't like to date us" that means, Men who are: "taller than them, richer than them, more educationally qualified than them". They don't see Men who are lesser qualified than them anywhere near. What do MC+ and UMC+ mean? Tried to Google but just got a lot of Methodist church results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 07:30 PM
6	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? You make a good point about women themselves wanting to date (slightly) older men. I’d say my friends married guys around three years older than them on average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 03:04 PM
5	We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other. True, but I bet fixing mental health issues will also improve looks in a lot of cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 03:56 PM
1	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? Or the nurse is actually flirting bc she wants to be written into the will. (I saw this at a pro bono legal clinic at a veteran’s hospital.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 08:20 PM
0	Men dont respect women I hadn’t thought it all the way through, but I can’t agree with your reasoning about respect and platonic friendship. All of my close friends are women, and most of my male friends are my friends’ SOs or my husband’s friends. Doesn’t mean I don’t respect men. Just tend to have more in common with women. Same goes for my husband. He respects women and thinks they’re great. All his close friends are guys though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 03:23 PM
1	Men dont respect women Oh man I was ready to disagree with you, but these comments are not helping my case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 02:59 PM
–	Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard. I think people overestimate the “hotness” component of attraction when in reality it’s based on a lot of factors. Dating apps are going to skew towards the hottest because judgments are based a picture. It doesn’t always play out like that in real life though. Plus, call it love goggles or whatever, but when my husband and I are in our 80s and a 0.01/10 on the hotness scale, we will still be thinking the other is a 10.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 04:24 PM
5	Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractive Truth. The only friend’s SO I don’t like mooches off of her and doesn’t help at all with their kids. Why would I care if a friend’s man was attractive? Makes no sense to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/21 04:03 PM
4	“The Wall” hits BOTH genders, and just means the age at which your lifestyle is accurately reflected on your face and body It’s not too late! My parents’ friends are 10+ years ahead of you, and plenty of them have had a second chance at love in their 60s and beyond. Here’s my unsolicited advice if you care to read it. Prioritize your health and speak to a doctor about your treatment options (hormonal and otherwise). Work on your self-confidence. It’s time to start looking men in the eye. You are a person worthy of eye contact. Also, comparison is thief of joy, so try to limit social media. The perfect stuff is mostl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/21 01:42 AM
2	Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get Older Lol sure, but I probably wouldn’t be attracted to that. I’m all for it though if someone else wants it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 01:25 PM
2	Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get Older I do see your point about really liking someone counting for a lot. Still, doing nothing would be a dealbreaker for me. If you don’t work but you’re looking for a job, going to school, getting medical treatment, raising kids, etc., it’s not a dealbreaker in my book though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 06:43 PM
4	Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get Older To me, having a job and income means they care about themselves. Similar to making an effort with their appearance and health. Being rich or poor may be good or bad depending on the reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 06:18 PM