~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Peculiar problem, need helpDefinitely starts with attraction. If you don't/can't build enough when you #-close it makes the rest that much harder. Can you give some examples of recent flakes? We might be able to tell based on specifics of what's going on (I.e she never responds, or she confirms date and bails, etc.) and give you some guidance there. Also, persistence is key. I usually give girls a 3 strike rule--sometimes people are just busy, sometimes nervous or scared, sometimes just are shitty people. Persistence when… | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Coworker boundaries - how do/did you get past the line?You get a new job. | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Women almost completely ignore meಠ_ಠ I am most likely wasting my time here--but why the hell not. Get it out of your system. Party and be wild, enjoy it. The rambunctious side of things will eventually give way to a more calm cool and collective side that will ultimately be far more successful at gamin. As the saying goes, "I remember my first beer..!" In response to your situation I would probably try a couple of different approaches depending on the situation. There is no one size fits all. You could: -Simply greet her by nam… | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Women almost completely ignore meI get the impression that you and I are VERY different in terms of personality and PUA style. I am more than willing to give you a couple of responses, but I first want to challenge you. What would drunk you do in that situation? (Extra credit: get really really drunk and answer the question haha!) | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Women almost completely ignore meYour answer is the problem. It starts in your head. If you say you can't you never will. I didn't offer my advice because it seemed practical, I said it because it is tried and true. Get into state. You don't need booze to feel good and have a good time. I am not saying don't ever drink, but I am saying you will cripple your future success if that is the only way you can pick up. And I call BS on not being able to politely call someone out. Be creative and be subtle. You can't go in begging for … | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Women almost completely ignore meHow about you make sober you more interesting and attractive??? Seriously, drunk you is just acting without anxiety, inhibitions, and self doubt. Drunk you will work for a bit, but then you get into he real world and drunk you can't always be there to help out. Pick up some new hobbies and interests. Be bold. Be spontaneous. Be the life of he party even without being drunk. Most of all be confident. These things will make 7-8 girls want to ask you to dance. Sounds to me like sober you is bold en… | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Issues with initiating texting after grabbing number"Hey (insert name), it was a real twist meeting you. Hope to see you around!" "Hey! So glad you got to meet me!" "(Joke or situation from the night that stands out followed by reaction; I.e that was crazy, or still laughing!)" "I asked for your number so I can text you raunchy things" (follow with "Raunchy things") if she is the type that digs this I will follow up with "...and I am spent--see ya around" I am not a fan of your response to the no reply. Sounds too needy to me. I follow a no respo… | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 07:01 AM |
| 1 | What do i do now?Tell her you will make it up to her. Set up a cool day 2 and the wheels keep on spinning. She gave you the invite to text her, you should have done that before posting here. Without knowing you, can't give much advice on what to do for the day 2 but I can tell you be creative, make it something that she will be thinking about at the dance and stay in her head. | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 06:48 AM |
| 2 | You've got multiple women competing for your attention, how do you handle it?I agree and disagree. Yes sex is not the end all either. But neither is a relationship. We are here to have fun and that is determined by us individually. Most of us on here are not seeking serious relationships but rather experiences with different woman. I may be wrong but the point I am gathering is that if a girl is wasting your time or keeping you from what you find fun, move to the next. Take the low hanging fruit and close the more involved stuff later. | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 06:44 AM |
| 3 | Are Emoticons Killing My Text Game?Not all bitches love smileys! I would hazard a guess and say that your negs may be killing things and the smileys are just an extra nail in the coffin. Look at how she texts...does she use them frequently? If not, then don't! If she uses them in everything use them sparingly. Text game does work if done appropriately. But you need to lay a decent ground work ahead of time. Don't use text to create attraction, use it to build the attraction you already built. If you can construct a text in such a… | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 06:38 AM |
| 5 | Why do we never talk about sex, Seddit?Or you could fuck her, recover and shortly after fuck her again (which usually lasts FOREVER). I find that this works much better and definitely makes you stand out! | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 06:27 AM |
| 4 | Why do we never talk about sex, Seddit?Sex is a race to an orgasm and I always finish first. On a more serious side, I never understood the hype. I mean it's one of those things that you get better at with time and practice. If you psyche yourself out you are gonna have a bad time. When in bed I temper my objectivity and make sure I am having fun. Lead as a strong and confident man, but follow her queues. You will know what she likes, based on her responses. Be passionate if she digs it, bend her over a barrel and show her he 50 stat… | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel like some of the better known PUAs are a little bit full of shit?Agreed! It's not about mimicking them, it's about adaptation. You need to leverage your strengths and craft your style based on those. I get away with outlandish shit because of the way my personality sets the tone. I am a cocky, cheeky, smart ass who doesn't usually give a fuck. If I say something ridiculous and don't get the response I want, I react, adapt, and recover. The trick for me is to stay fluid, leave hedge phrases that can be interpreted in different ways. This leaves me outs in stic… | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 06:14 AM |
| 3 | What are some of the most unbelievable closes you've ever pulled off?Rucker here too. Why girls were ever dumb enough to even enter the rugby house was beyond me! | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 01:38 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the most unbelievable closes you've ever pulled off?Nah, he and I were already Eskimo brothers so I don't see much in lying about that. He claims nothing happened. | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 01:02 PM |
| 7 | What are some of the most unbelievable closes you've ever pulled off?Downtown with 3 friends around closing time, my drunk friend gets in a fight. We got separated. He runs to a side-street to hide. Calls me, "Hey TGC, I am on such and such get a cab and pick me up!" I find a cab and explain the situation to an awesome cab driver. We are driving up the strip to pick up the 2 other friends. They hop in the back, I sit up front. We grab the final friend on such and such side-street. He hops in and we drive home. On the way home one friend says hey "TGC, who is your… | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Just discovered seddit, and could use some help with a friend I've known for a whileWhen it starts to die out, find something to occupy your time and close he convo. (I.e. I need to eat dinner, meet my friend, go workout) | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Ok, not sure where to ask, but I need help.This is not Exactly seddit worthy, but I would say there is no harm in the social aspects of PUA, as this is what gives you the ability to attract people and make new friends. In my opinion, it sounds like you build the initial attraction but you do not allow things to progress naturally. You want a relationship so bad that you forget (or stop) having fun and enjoying the time you are spending with these potential prospects. My advice would be to slow down. Live more in the moment and focus on e… | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 01:13 AM |
| 2 | What comebacks work best when an older woman asks ”How old are you, darling?” -obviously wanting to test/trash you..As a 24m, I get this ALL THE TIME. My initial response is a canned (said ice cold) "huh, why do you ask?" This puts them on the spot and opens the door for them to provide more detail as to why it matters. I find that I can then tailor my response better and avoid validating altogether. If you want specifics PM me. Also, I am posting a (FR) from yesterday that will have an example in it. | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Ok, not sure where to ask, but I need help."Love is like a fart...if you have to force it most usually is shit" I daresay your problem doesn't seem to be seduction related. Your rant does not lead me to believe it is about abundance, but more about relationships. Nothing wrong with this but you are taking advice on how to develop FWBs and one night stands--sure relationships can develop from these but that is lead by a whole other game. The transition from PUA to BF takes a different approach and mentality. There are posts in here that e… | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 12:32 AM |
| 1 | I need to learn how to be confident and how to not let the negitive things get to me so muchNot only will confidence come as you drop weight, but taking the time to exercise will help boost your mood and give you personal time to reflect. As you look into yourself you can map out your goals and other improvements you wish to take. Additionally I would say pick up a hobby that you used to love. I know parenting takes an enormous amount of time, but if you make it a point to include these things in your life you will find time. This may even improve things with your relationship with you… | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 05:04 AM |
| 3 | How to get over someone/oneitisGetting over a long term relationship (a real one--not a couple months) is usually a lot like grieving. You go through phases (e.g. Kubler-Ross) Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance It is natural for people to experience this at their own paces and some spend longer in different phases. I have found that understanding this has helped me speed up the process. Look back (or within) and you will often notices instances of each as you move on. The key is to understand yourself because he ac… | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 07:37 PM |
| 2 | After a kiss-closeIt is a response drawn in the moment. If you are serious about setting the date the next day, set it while you are there. Don't leave it open ended as this breeds flakiness. People generally will illogical in emotional situations. She liked you enough to k-close so she is somewhat interested, but the emotional part disappears when she wakes up the next morning. The trick is to be unforgettable. Make her wake up thinking about that mysterious guy she was with. How do you do this? Well, you said y… | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Logistics Question: How to F-Close when visiting home town from college and staying at parents' house?Edit: autocorrect fail You are 22 and I would say staying with your parents is totally expected. Embrace the fact that your family loves you and you don't need a hotel when in town. Hotels are expensive for most 22 year olds if you are just staying to f-close. Seize the circumstance and make your quest for privacy an adventure. Plus the fact that you could get caught usually heightens the momentum and turns the sex to quick and nasty! If she judges you for not being in a hotel then there she is … | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 02:42 AM |
| 11 | [FR] "If i didn't have a boyfriend i would have sex with you right here on the dancefloor"Only one drink. One apology. This is key! I see guys struggle with this all the time. Most guys panic and keep apologizing or try to validate themselves. All you are doing is adding fuel to the fire if you cannot move on. Nice job OP. | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 01:36 AM |
| 3 | (FR) NYE day two f-closeJealousy is a high form of flattery. I love seeing the queen bee of a set get flustered because she is not getting the attention she feels she deserves. | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 12:26 AM |
| 0 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedThat sounds hot. Thanks for your contribution. | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 12:22 AM |
| 3 | (FR) NYE day two f-closeIn hindsight, the TL;DR maybe better than my full answer Okay, since I planned a date that involved a bar(s). I am going to drink, it would seem off-putting maybe even creepy not to drink unless that is a lifestyle choice (i.e people who never drink). When I do this sort of thing I go with the intention of enjoying a drink like you would a nice meal. Let's say you go to a fancy steakhouse, you order a nice steak and enjoy the shit out of it. But as much as you loved it you don't order 6 more ste… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 09:13 PM |
| 3 | (FR) NYE day two f-closeBullshit baffles brains!! | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 07:50 PM |
| 5 | (FR) NYE day two f-closeThank you sir. We are all only as good as the sarge next to us. Although I am new to Seddit, I can tell we all can learn a great deal from each other. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 07:46 PM |
| 9 | (FR) NYE day two f-closeFirst background for it: Had oneitis over this HB9 Cougar who was unforgettable in bed. As things started to look like they may turn serious, I tried to make my intentions known. She pulled this number on me and I recall being so twisted up but strangely attracted to her. How I approached it: First I deduced that she had not met anyone she was interested on by the way she was coming on so strong about wanting a relationship. Second I probed a little about what she does for fun. She rattled off a… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 07:45 PM |
| 8 | (FR) NYE day two f-closeBelieve it or not stole it from family guy. I love that line. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 05:16 PM |
| -4 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedAnd you must: 1) Live in a bubble. The world is full far worse things. Grow up. 2) Be entirely against dark comedy, as this is essentially the basis for it 3) Be more sensitive than her clit because if she was able to laugh at it but you can't there is something wrong with you. As for the terrible person bit, if this is what it takes to get you to not like me, I am doing pretty well. Grow up. Relax. And stop overreacting. If you wanted cute and fluffy go browse /r/awe. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 05:10 PM |
| -3 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedYou really do have common sense! | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 05:11 AM |
| -3 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedNo. I had found out about him on the way there to the party. I would not do that to someone I am acquainted with. I am not saying that if something happened while I was there I wouldn't help him. It's not about getting money or anything, but I got to say the AFC boyfriend falls pretty low on my list of concerns. I don't even know the dudes real name. I left the party and she met me at another bar while I was talking to an HB9. I invited her, but I was not going to stop gaming. There are tons of … | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 10:35 PM |
| -3 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedHow do I find the boyfriend? I met him for all of 10 minutes. You assume that I got pleasure out of hurting him. I don't take pleasure in his misfortune. Fact is I am completely neutral. He is not my concern, and it would not take 2 minutes to fix this. If anyone needs to come forward it is her. She owes him that much. There is nothing beta or scarcity minded about hopping on my flight and letting people live their lives. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 10:12 PM |
| -1 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedWear your armor loud and proud. I have a sold set of values, but I take care of family and friends and myself. Her boyfriend will have to take care of himself. She is an adult and capable of making her own choices. I am not some wizard that put a spell on her. I am just a guy that happened to be in the right place right time. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 10:01 PM |
| -1 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedHow deep of a sleep are talking about here? I have a strong set of moral bearings but this is not something that I spend time worrying about. I sarge with 3 principles. 1) Be honest and upfront 2) Never take advantage of someone's inebriation to influence decisions (if she is too drunk/high I am out) 3) Never force anything. Lead but let her make her own decisions | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:56 PM |
| 0 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedApparently I am the only person in the world that she would have cheated with. You really are overreacting. If she is a cheater, she has an abundance of men and women to cheat with. Why is it my responsibility to protect her AFC boyfriend? Are you that guy/girl that click locks your friends over stupid shit like this? Feelings and emotions are great tools and powerful things. But they also can make people stupid. I am sorry you got burned. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:55 PM |
| -2 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedI love that you get down voted for saying clean up your mess and be honest. I will leave her relationship alone though I am not the relationship police. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:43 PM |
| 0 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedI had a feeling it would take a controversial turn. I imagine there are some good bits in there that can be used in other situations. I appreciate the compliment. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:37 PM |
| -1 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedHere take my upvote. She totally didn't enjoy round 2 and I begged and pleaded to go get lube because if i didn't finish it would be the end of me. Grow up. I apologized about the ring, we laughed it off. Once she recovered she could not get wet again. So I said rather than stopping lets go buy some lube. She started the car right away. The rest is history. The humor is not in the pain it was the fact that were fucking so hard a stainless steel ring broke into pieces. If she was alright with eve… | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:36 PM |
| -1 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedI am normally alright with it but this was out of control. I was half expecting max from "where the wild things are" to come crawling out. The bit about trying again another day was well received. It was clear that she did not feel sexy, and that never ends well in bed. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:30 PM |
| 0 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedI didn't think we came here to be nice guys. I didn't force her to do anything. She was glad I bought the lube, she enjoyed herself the second time through. I am an asshole, but I am upfront about that. I don't let people sit on the fence, they either love me or hate me. Either way I have no problem warning a girl right off the bat. Many will take the advice and walk away others don't buy they know what to expect. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:24 PM |
| -2 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedBecause she made the decision on her own free will. It's not terribly far from you pulling a girl from an AFC that is interested in her. She is a 30 year old woman. She has a mind of her own. I left her at the first spot and she drove herself to the second spot. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:17 PM |
| 5 | First (FR) she brought her boyfriend still f-closedIt never fails to amaze me how hypocritical reddit can be. We are in a subreddit dedicated to manipulating or "picking up people" to have sex with. We all have our moral compasses and boundaries. Am I am asshole-yes. Does this work for me-yes. Am I honest-yes. I told her flat out that I was going to be trouble for her. I may be the dick that fucks "taken" girls but these girls know what they are doing. I sarge with 3 principles. 1) Be honest and upfront 2) Never take advantage of someone's inebr… | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:10 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle if someone wants to fight you while with a girl?Square up from a distance and then drop your pants. It will shock the hell out of the other guy! Or you can do what I do. Either you or your wing go to the opposing group and confidently and calmly explain that this will not end well for either side as neither of you want to spend the night in the think tank over something stupid. Most guys don't actually want to fight so if you give the other side a reason to walk away while saving face they are normally going to take that opportunity. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 11:46 PM |
| 32 | Let's take a break from theory! What's the funniest thing that has happened to you while out sarging?Shattered her clit ring...she screamed like a dolphin. Took one of the pieces as a souvenir. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Went on two great dates, but now I'm stuck.. Need your advice on this one fellas.Dude this is textbook oneitis. Break the cycle. Fuck closure--she already gave it to you. Sorry had to get that off my chest. Since you sound like you are not willing to take that option. I would instead send a final message inviting her to something that you arranged with other people. "Hey me and "my friends" are going to be at this spot. Meet us here at such and such time" if she comes spend a couple minutes (like 5) with her in the beginning and then focus on other shit and make her chase yo… | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 01:00 PM |
| 2 | What to do about friends that are better looking than you are?Dude. It's less about looks and more about being alpha. It's now about being good looking its about being the dominant one in the group. My best friend is a model, but I never let him take head of the pack. Work on your inner game, temporarily find a new wing til you get it straight and then next time you two are out you steal the show. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Guidelines for Day TwosI often do dive bars...sounds stupid but if you have a solid list of chill places (preferably ones where you know the bartenders) you can drift from place to place and avoid the bs of the typical AFC bars also when they treat you like royalty you build social rapport too. The key is to keep it somewhat mysterious and spontaneous always being in control is the key to the successful day two. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 12:41 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter