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1	What kind of men's style says "it's mating season"? I would recommend something close fitting and thin that shows off the figure. A thin long sleeve Henley is a good choice. Something that shows off the chest can work too, like a V-neck or a partially unbuttoned summer shirt, but don't show off too much chest or it can look kind of skeezy.	/r/seduction	20/12/15 05:59 PM
1	Mid-20's and no experience. Struggling to get started... My advice would be to start building a social group. A great way to do this is join groups and organizations; barriers are way down because people are there to meet people. Just try different ones, you might even find new interests. Not only will having more friends increase your social value, you will have more opportunities to meet women through those friends. Also this is a low pressure way to practice socializing. If making friends is too difficult, dating would likely be even harder. Making…	/r/seduction	18/04/15 02:56 PM
19	Infographic: Where the Singles are What I mean is, let's say NYC is 51% female and 49% male, that's not a big percentage difference, but because NYC is so big, that 2% is several hundred thousand people. Whereas suppose Raleigh NC has 55% female 45% male, that's a 10% difference, but because there are a lot fewer people that only registers as a few thousand people.	/r/seduction	30/01/15 08:07 PM
15	Infographic: Where the Singles are Because it's a pure population map, it tends to skew towards big cities. Anyone know of a similar map that charts male to female ratio?	/r/seduction	30/01/15 05:39 PM
6	Why are Indian males automatically perceived as "beta"? Can confirm that it sucks living in bumfuck nowhere. I don't want to make excuses for myself, but it is definitely harder to find romance as an Asian minority in a non-urban area. NOT saying it can't be done. But the race element seems to play a larger role than in a large diverse city.	/r/seduction	21/08/14 03:33 AM
9	Why are Indian males automatically perceived as "beta"? It seems a lot of the responses are saying the issue is with your beliefs and behavior. I want to point out that though you are responsible for changing these, it is not your fault. It's not like you consciously chose to be "beta". It was a product of the way you were raised, and an internalization of the way people treated you. i.e. you were raised beta, so you behaved beta, people assumed you were beta, which made you even more beta, etc. This process has probably been going on since childhood…	/r/seduction	21/08/14 03:25 AM
1	Approaching two girls and one of them acts rude/ignores you, what do you do? It may help to try to cheer her up. Not only is it a good thing to do, it elevates your status because you show social smarts and empathy.	/r/seduction	06/03/14 03:12 AM
1	20 year old virgin, need advice. Join a club. I'm shocked people don't recommend this more because it's literally the easiest way to meet people. I'm confused how talking to randos in bars and on the street is the main way PUAs function because that is when people's defenses are the highest, investment is lowest, flakes are the highest, and rejection is the highest. Why throw newbies into what's basically the most difficult environment? Join a club, make friends, build a social circle. That is the foundation of a social life, n…	/r/seduction	10/02/14 05:56 PM
1	How can I get the number of a girl I just met? It helps to have a reason to exchange numbers. For example, lets say you find out she likes playing video games. Say, "Hey, I've got Mario Kart over at my place, why don't we race sometime?" If she says yes, you have the perfect reason to exchange numbers; she's gonna need to call you if she can't find your place. If a bunch of people are getting together to have food, just exchange numbers so everyone knows when/where to meet up. If you have another reason to exchange numbers, it makes things m…	/r/seduction	30/01/14 01:36 AM
-3	"You're old" shit-test. How do you respond? "Age is just a number! The judge didn't agree with me though."	/r/seduction	08/01/14 10:34 PM
7	ONEITIS: When Oneitis Is Just A Symptom Well said. If you have abundant friends, a sense of purpose, and an overall rich and fulfilling life, you probably don't get oneitis. And if you do, it's more likely to be the real thing and not an attempt to use a girl to compensate for things you're missing in your life.	/r/seduction	15/12/13 06:50 PM
4	[Serious question] What's the main reason you believe you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend? Just to note; this doesn't discount the challenges you mentioned. Being not good looking and out of shape does make things harder. However, it does NOT mean it's impossible. There's always something you can do to control your world. The path is harder, but it is still there. If you make the commitment to improve yourself, no matter how difficult the path, and become an indomitable will, you will succeed.	/r/seduction	07/12/13 11:17 PM
7	[Serious question] What's the main reason you believe you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend? Good on you for recognizing it though. I'm pretty much in the same boat; tons of self esteem and insecurity issues, discomfort with myself and others, socially unadjusted, etc.	/r/seduction	07/12/13 11:13 PM
2	How to go re-sarge a girl who worked at the mall? Ok, that's good. Just give it enough time that it wouldn't be strange, like as often as someone would normally visit a store. The boss may have been trying to "protect" her from guys, if she's really cute it probably happens a lot to her. If you feel it went well though go for it.	/r/seduction	05/10/13 11:25 PM
2	How to go re-sarge a girl who worked at the mall? Just give it a couple days. Stop by if you like, if she's there great, if not no big deal. Remember you're playing a numbers game; you don't want to get one-itis.	/r/seduction	05/10/13 05:01 PM
78	A Fucked Up Guys Guide You've hit the nail on the head. The community has been very good at helping average guys become better at interacting with women. It hasn't been so good at helping the droves of guys who are several steps behind, whose social skills are below average. Be it deep seated self esteem issues, childhood neglect or abuse, bullying at school, impaired social skills, or what have you, a lot of guys come to this community because they are behind, and the more behind they are, the more likely they are to…	/r/seduction	15/09/13 06:14 PM
2	Experienced Question: I'm running out of girls. I don't want to admit it but on some level you have a point. I just ask that you try not to generalize this notion to all women. Extrapolating and stereotyping these beliefs to all women is what's given PUA a bad name. That being said, let's admit it: very pretty women do have an easier time in life. Men are always paying attention to them regardless, so there's never a strong need to develop am interesting personality or sense of humor. I myself have noticed this phenomenon of very pretty women…	/r/seduction	10/09/13 01:09 PM
1	[I need advice] - Had my first "date" - And an introvert's rant! First off, props to you for taking a first step! After living a your whole life in the same pattern, be proud that you took the initiative to make a change. My recommendation to you is to start small. By which I mean: don't worry about dating yet. Start by making acquaintances. Your social skills will grow. Then, move on to building friendships. Your skills will grow even more. Then you can move on to dating. Why? Seduction, especially for the inexperienced, is hard. Too many rookies get burned …	/r/seduction	19/08/13 12:02 AM
1	Lack of Confidence How is the rest of your social life? If you don't have a strong foundation to build on, I can see how cold approaching would be difficult. If this is the case, I recommend joining some organizations or clubs to just get to know people as friends, both men and women. Just doing that will teach you a ton. Once you have that, use your connections and social proof to branch out to romance.	/r/seduction	15/06/13 04:45 AM