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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1435 | Never build a man up | REMINDER 👑 | the_jaywalker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 02:12 AM |
| 212 | Husband turns into chair to support pregnant wife standing in line | WHOLESOME CONTENT | the_jaywalker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:15 PM |
| 70 | Online dating profile red flags | RED FLAG 🚨 | the_jaywalker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:59 AM |
| 23 | Guys who use too many emojis? | the_jaywalker | /r/askFDS | 22/02/21 12:25 AM | |
| 1 | Temptation Island Season 1: Discuss | DISCUSSION | the_jaywalker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:13 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 96 | What do you all think about this?Yeah coming up next on things that never happened.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 08:48 PM |
| 16 | How to stand up to men?The subject of whoever is staring at becomes the object. To avoid being an object, you stare back. That brings an active component to the interaction that cannot render you an object. Stare. And definitely not with a positive expression on your face. That makes them an "object" too, so to speak. When we look away we give them power. That's one view. Another option is to set a mental boundary with yourself that you are going to embody your sexuality and appearance without thinking of anyone stari… | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 04:02 PM |
| 18 | So it finally happened; a NVM from my past came crawling back.Chances are he’s bored, lonely, and thinks he can get you to settle for him due to whatever shared history you once had. Absolutely. In some other rare cases they're just idealizing you (which is dehumanizing) because they can't stand to be with themselves without a fantasy. Once they have your attention and commitment they'll experience disillusionment because they can't know and experience true intimacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you avoid becoming bitter?I don't think the end result needs to be us becoming jaded and/or bitter, but I have been there. It happens as a natural result of the abuse women suffer at the hands of society. It can wax and wane. However, we need to do things we enjoy and be in spaces of loving growth. Body-positive yoga communities, for example. Personally, I live my life and enjoy my friends and trust in the universe. I cultivate myself and work on having undying compassion for all. I have faith that I will find an equal p… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/21 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Have things entered past the point of mo return?This is absolutely awful. If a man did 5% of these things you're worrying about, I'd be out and never look back. | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Male co worker being a jerk after I rejected himHonestly, I don't have male friends, especially not single ones. I don't text men often. Any man who initiates a "friendship" with me ALWAYS wants something more. In times where I didn't think that was the case, he ended up pulling something later on and taking me off guard. If they don't ask me out, they usually end up wanting me to take on their emotional labor and act as their therapist and I would let them in my pick-me validation-seeking days. No more. You have to add to my life to get my e… | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 05:05 AM |
| 21 | Online dating profile red flagsTo comment on the make-up guy: Think about why and how he decided that was a funny joke. Women wear makeup and men don't so it's funny, right? The more I've unpacked being a female in this society, the more I've realized the subtle abuse we take on a regular basis. Our society is absolutely traumatic for females. (Even more so for WOC). Yes we can enjoy make up, but women feeling unfeminine/wrong/gross without policing and correcting every inch of their body is something that happens to many, if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 09:06 PM |
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