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| 2 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itEverybody should pick the best city for them, not just "below average men" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 06:51 PM |
| 0 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenCold approach is highest ROI until you master it. It's the fastest way to fail, gain experience, and make shit happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.The biggest one is that the women easiest to take advantage of, have two things in common: low cognitive ability, and lack of options. Older women with low IQ are the easiest to take advantage of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 11:00 PM |
| 5 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipshe means black men by the context | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itTrue for most highly attractive men, but a lot of men also fall in love hard for ugly women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Most average men should not give girls their numbersSuccess rate means nothing. Guys who are too scared to take a risk and wait for that one unattractive girl to show a million signs of interest have a very high success rate but obviously are not that successful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality.Comparison is the thief of joy. Women (and men) are simply exposed to too many attractive people online. Only the the top 0.1% of people are truly happy with their dating lives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 07:53 PM |
| 2 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenThe difference is, most married men don’t continue self improvement and instead go down with their wives, so they stay within their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | An Assertive dirtbag is much better than a super shy guy.You’re stating a commonly accepted, cliche fact that I’m sure you’ve read a million times on the internet, and you’re proposing a debate? Are you that desperate for an easy win? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 12:06 PM |
| 2 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.people should just not get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 04:19 PM |
| 2 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menWell no, today's normal top tier man will become the average man and will suffer the same problems as the average men of today. It's just accelerated evolution/natural selection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 09:34 PM |
| -1 | RP/BP ppl on PPD say women should choose better, but they really don’t want that.It's the blue pillers that say women should choose the nice guys, not the red pillers. /Thread there's no debate here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 05:40 AM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsRemember for every man that is sleeping with 5 women, there are on average 4 men who aren't getting laid. So most likely you are the one with inflated expectations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thingMarriage is simply a tool for men to convince a woman to stick around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 09:55 PM |
| – | Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not createEvery conqueror ever was a "passport bro" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest.Online dating isn't even analogous to a trap. That implies waiting for the woman to approach. Online, you are setting up marketing (profile), then hunting for the sale. The real difference is that there is more competition online, and a greater dating pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 04:52 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest.Think of it this way, with social media and online dating you need charm (eventually you'll go on a first date anyway), AND an outstanding profile/ social proof. Cold approach just requires the charm part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest.That's a lot easier than building an IG or dating app profile that actually works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 04:32 PM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”Ok yeah got you. "Tattoos" was just used to represent x superficial thing that guys can do but are not necessarily passionate about to get more chances with women. I never said it was a prescription for everyone. Point is doing something as a marketing tool is fine, doesn't have to be something you "want to do". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:14 PM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”If it works, it works. It's that simple. If you don't like that it works, then that's something to bring up with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:03 PM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”Well hobbies aren't even the best way to get in the door with women, women don't really care that much if you like to wall climb or dabble with the guitar etc.. but even if hobbies were that attractive, you don't even need genuine hobbies to connect with a person. That's a huge misconception... Some guys think it's like stacking extracurriculars to get into a good college | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:06 PM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”Here's what most men want to do: they want an opportunity to create a connection with an attractive woman. And if doing something superficial to catch her attention like getting tattoos works, then why not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?Btw the two things are in fact analagous. They are both strategies for an advantage in dating. They both started niche and have become mainstream. Conventionally attractive men realize that using strategies like dating apps and changing location ("passport bro") also is useful for them. Most passport bros can get girls in his own country at the very least by offering a long term relationship or marriage. It's simply more favourable to get more attractive women by changing location. Similarly if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 11:44 AM |
| 5 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?That's what they said about people that use dating apps 10 years ago. Now everyone uses them. So passport bros aren't the same old fat losers that go to Thailand to pay for hookers. The average passport bro has become more attractive than local men (especially in latin america which is what I'm familiar with) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 08:42 AM |
| -4 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?Higher intelligence, more leadership qualities, better perspective of the world, better sense of humour, better sense of genuine friendship, better sexual ability, taller/bigger/better looking, it keeps going... Have you met these third world men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 02:57 AM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.People in the comments saying "everything is transactional 🤓" obviously when someone is talking about transactions in this context, it's not about sexual pleasure in exchange for sexual pleasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.did you just admit to being a r4pist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Did you know that sex can be more enjoyable than beating a raid in World of Warcraft? I think that's the missing insight here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:07 AM |
| 3 | The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statementYou're taking it too literally. When a woman says the bar is on the ground, she really means "I just want Chad who has 10 girlfriends to give me a little bit of special treatment". She's not talking about the average guy, not even the top 20% guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 04:44 PM |
| -1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Nope, your mom already gave me one for making her cum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:50 PM |
| -3 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.You're actually right, good job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:36 PM |
| -1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Add sexually attractive personality and fucking ability. Unless your hobby directly and efficiently improves you in those aspects, it will not help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Your autism is showing. Have a sexually attractive personality and fuck her well. those are the non negotiables and the only things you need | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Korean men are turning to AI to get dates for themMost guys that get any results on dating apps use a pattern-matching repetitive approach anyways... Using AI isn't different at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 06:09 PM |
| – | Here's an interesting thought experimentThis is how it works in the middle east and South Asia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 06:09 PM |
| – | Case study: A top 10% man who has it all. Why aren’t women interested in him?You've only stated tangibles. The most important aspects (and arguably the only mandatory aspects) are intangible (dominance, humour, ability to make a woman feel emotions). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionBoys need to be encouraged to be dominant, and girls need to be encouraged to be nurturing. I was lucky enough to have a middle school gym teacher who did exactly that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 05:17 PM |
| -3 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketSounds to me like an older gentleman who hits the gym and keeps up with the latest music simply is on top of the food chain ;) FYI lots of middle aged men these days know the game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 02:46 AM |
| -3 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketAs a 20-something, it's not that hard to believe that a younger woman wants to be with an experienced, mature man with a developed personality, relationships, and has decades of experience learning how to please a woman. Not to mention the interesting stories he has accumulated in his lifetime and the things he can teach her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 02:29 AM |
| 1 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseThe challenge for women is identifying correctly and securing commitment from an attractive man. Different game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 03:30 PM |
| 4 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?There's good friend personality and sexy chad personality. Duh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?The women posting "icks" aren't doing it as a joke or satire. They are literally expressing real disgust | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her."Multiple men that pursue them" could mean they're just hookup material. You're gonna have to think a bit more about what romantic success means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 03:58 AM |
| 1 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with thatYup there is no such thing as a "morally correct" action in dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 09:59 PM |
| 0 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?Haha they are only allowed to date unattractive older women, which validates future financial security for aging women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?To women against financial abuse: do you think Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates or Jeff Bezos could be abusing their partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Debate : People dont understand that Money and status makes you GENUINELY more sexually attractive as a Man.Not quite.. money and status doesn't get a woman's panties wet but it does get you in the door. A woman would rather go on a date with a billionaire/musician/athlete than a normie but he still has to play his cards right to make her genuinely attracted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 03:01 AM |
| 3 | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.The fact that some people like OP think this is debatable is part of the issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 05:30 PM |
| 15 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsThe truth is actually closer to the converse.. men are struggling because they're NOT old fashioned "misogynists" and listen to women too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.No, women don't -need- to be in a committed relationship. They can work and provide for themselves to survive as opposed to times in the past. Try again, I'll give you another chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.Even if such men with few options reject the only option they have in the name of raising men's collective standard, low tier women would still be perfectly content since they can still bang the top guys. Women have little need to be in a committed relationship these days so they could care less if they are just a perpetual booty call for their ideal man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.?Correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.You're probably not pretty enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.?A pick-me isnt the female equivalent of a simp. Simps do not have attractive masculine qualities to women. Pick-mes have attractive feminine qualities to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.It's ok to be extremely selective but it's not realistic to expect monogamy from those same guys. Mathematically not even possible to achieve that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 09:29 PM |
| 1 | It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention.Yup that's the nature of cutthroat competition get used to it if you want to compete. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?For those shaming men for dating less experienced less mature less intelligent women, are you saying women should seek out men with less experience than them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 05:49 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onMasculine women with a career and can get pregnant in vitro, don't need nor want men true. But feminine women want and even need men in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Our generation's complete and total dependence on emotion based decision making early in the courtship process is killing good potential relationships from forming.It's not a this generation thing. It's a human nature thing. But certain cultures have come up with concepts like arranged marriage and marriage in general to circumvent this, since first date emotions aren't the best way to make long term decisions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:41 PM |
| -1 | Everything In Relationships Ultimately Comes Down To Power For MenLove is not the same as passion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Men increasing their standardsd 63 percent of men aged 18 to 29 are single. The dating all data shows if you aren't in the top 20 percentile you aren't attractive enough to even be spoken to. And it's still slim pickings until you get to the top 5th percentile. Yes you just agreed with what I said in my previous comment. But my previous comment is not equivalent to "men are starved for partners so take what they can get." We're talking about "why don't men raise their standards". The reason is because top men can and will fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Men increasing their standardsNot exactly. The men who are starved for partners get absolutely nothing not even the bottom tier women (unless they pay for it with resources), and the men at the top are in more abundance than ever before due to hyperconnectivity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Men increasing their standardsThis doesn't really tell the whole story. It just comes down to men being more likely to prioritize quantity of sexual partners over quality of sexual partners compared to women. So the average quality of sexual partner women have increases as the number of sexual partners the top men have increases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediaWomen generally get an ick when a guy they perceive to be genetically inferior tries to improve himself in any way. That includes going to the gym and guess what... It includes approaching attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:34 PM |
| 6 | Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced.The issue that people bring up isn't that women should force themselves to lower their standards, it's that the level of man that meets most women's standard these days is virtually unachievable for most guys due to social media/dating apps/hyperconnectivity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:26 PM |
| – | Seriously no differenceTo her it's the same because her pair bonding ability is already permanently broken. She sees herself as just a hole and guys as just generic penises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 03:44 PM |
| 8 | Marriage is a extended time escort service scheme.Not getting married is not equivalent to not working. Wtf are you on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:52 PM |
| 0 | The only men who truly benefit from modern dating culture are the tip top percentile of menSure but physical traits mean very little in the grand scheme. High status high charisma good fashion and grooming are all equally or more important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceYou really showed your chromosomes with this one. You live in an imaginary world where your incel god comes and comforts you saying you're ugly you don't get girls and there's nothing you can do about it and you feel warm and fuzzy inside. There's no more discussion to be had cause I live in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceIt happens and it's possible. You get your foot in the door by actually talking to a girl in actual real life and making her feel emotions, not obsessing over how the hot guys get all the matches on tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceGet off the incel forums and go out a bit more, social status can definitely get his foot in the door | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceAn ugly but confident, funny, socially smart, charismatic guy can certainly be sexually attractive to women and elicit the "hot guy" responses from women. Get outta that incel mindset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 06:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Muscle is cheap, and in 2023 women value genuinely rare immutable traits, such as height and faceMuscles are an accessory- they can either harm or help your appearance depending on proportions, shape, etc.. but aside from that you can change your face by lifting heavy weights and changing bodyfat percentage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 01:16 PM |
| 2 | The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people"This isn't even debatable, it's a fact. You only think it's debatable because you put too much importance into what women say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Do women resent men who are late bloomers?Sure but in general, careful using what women say as evidence to support theories.. if you knew anything about women at all, you'd know what they say rarely reflects reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 10:49 AM |
| 2 | What type of man should a virgin woman choose?It's better to collect the stats than to ask women who they think they should choose.. ask 100 random women if they lost their virginity to a virgin and you'll get your answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex?Pretty trivial question. There are women who will date and have sex with any guy, and mens' standards can adjust according to what they can get. Better question would be "what quality of woman is the average guy able to have sex with?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?It's not about reorienting. Every man with normal testosterone has innate masculine qualities. It's about -not- emphasizing the feminine qualities that society wants you to emphasize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Main point is true but nitpick on your first point: Manosphere is somewhat new, but the truth of how women work has always been around.. it's very possible that a high school kid could figure out some of those important truths with some astute observation and painful experiences. Besides, that's in fact how the manosphere came to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Describe the personalities of men you have previously hooked up with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:05 PM |
| 32 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Women trying to make men docile and feminine is one big shit test. They are trying to see who has a weak enough frame to fall for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”Stop giving away the secrets 🤣 | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Do girls NEVER help with life? Never ever??Spot on. The reality is the responsibility always falls on men, and most guys want the rewards but not the responsibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] Made out with 4 hotties and pulled a fine ass hispanic girlThe advantage of cold approach is you have complete control over the quality of woman that's available to you. But in terms of efficiency no doubt it's very poor | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the red pill could actually help lonely men get laid and get in a relationship?You need to learn how to deduce the truths of how women work, and the red pill is simply an introduction to that. Don't take anyone's word for it, convince yourself through real world experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 05:57 PM |
| – | Is the red pill mostly an American thing more so?Red pill exists everywhere, just that its called "being a man" outside of the English speaking world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" makes you jaded even if it works for dating.Ability to self improve is tied to natural value. So it's more like T = N + I(N) = N + alphaN = (1+alpha)N. So you can only have high SMV with high natural value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Modern men are NOT protectors or providersBoth men and women provide a good personality, babies and sex. Both men and women provide for themselves. Explain the issue to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 02:43 PM |
| 3 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenIt's more like having sex with someone you want to have sex with is just as fine as being friends with someone you want to be friends with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 07:50 PM |
| 2 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenThat's like saying a woman is bad for keeping guys in the friendzone. Your boundaries are your responsibility only | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 06:13 PM |
| -1 | will she eventually leave me for someone "better"?You can't logic your way out of emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 08:33 PM |
| 4 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveThis is obviously true. Side note this sub needs a gender flair so we know whose comments to not take seriously. No point of arguing with women when they don't even know/admit how they work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Are 'outdated' preferences towards men also misandristic, while the same towards women are deemed misogynistic?"Useless question. Of course they will respond to you in a logically correct manner. How they feel which drives their actions is completely different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 03:11 PM |
| -1 | I believe that women have it easier than men in many waysI mean yeah men are the stronger sex so of course life will be harder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in general having high social status allows men to get the highest quantity/quality of woman?Looks, money and status all get you in the door and one can make up for lack of another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 03:09 PM |
| 3 | If men were less horny, what would happen?In a way we are already trending towards that. Men would as a whole do less self improvement and indulge in easy pleasures like video games, junk food, etc. However, men wouldn't need to meet as high a bar to attain female attraction due to hypergamy being at a lower level. Lower society male sex drive = lower competitive drive in all areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What’s the point of marriage when it only benefits women?It's a negotiation tool for men in the dating phase | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:48 PM |
| 0 | CMV A lot of the "toxicity" and "misogyny" are just men no longer making up lies to please womenWomen calling men toxic and misogynistic is just a shit test to filter out the fakes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Blinded by the WhiffThis is just basic don't catch oneitis, spin plates | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence and attractivenessApply your intelligence to become attractive. /Thread | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/23 12:47 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).No, it's because there's less pressure for women to settle down early and be faithful to her first man. Therefore women can exercise their hypergamy and we all know women won't have anything to do with men that aren't her first pick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Being confident, but unattractive, will get a man called creepyMore often than not, creepy guys think they're just confident when in reality they are socially awkward or uncalibrated. An ugly guy who was truly charming and charismatic would not be labeled creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | You get successful by your 40s: would you leave your wife for your dream girl?Get the girl that you're sexually attracted to and keep the wife as a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-ThreadPoint is, most women believe it is a strong sign of commitment therefore marriage works for most men as a negotiation tool. And to an extent it is, with the cost of a ring, wedding, alimony if it applies, divorce costs, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-ThreadClearly they're ok with being impregnated without commitment then. Your friends are the exception | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | A man’s voice, personality, and confidence do matter a lot. Even if to varying degrees based on physical attractiveness.This is the only true signal for attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-ThreadMost women would not have kids with a man without marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-ThreadRead again. "Negotiation tool to help raise his children" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-Threadou women get this notion that men want to live longer? Living a great life trumps living a long life! Yes marriage net benefits women more than men. Marriage has no benefit to men other than as a negotiation tool to raise his children. And since it works as a negotiation tool, of course it benefits women more than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 11:46 PM |
| 5 | If sex is so unimportant, why is monogamy so important?People can justify both casual sex and monogamy if they believe the purpose of monogamy is more than linking sex with love. /thread and you're thinking too hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:34 PM |
| 0 | I’m turning 30 next year and I feel like crying.Gets harder with time, but not impossible. Do a dating app/ social media detox to naturally lower your standards a bit. You'll find someone, guaranteed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.this is an example of people these days getting confused about what masculinity is. if you want to be chased, just get a sex change- that's a woman's game. Men pursue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.Keeping them is a whole different story. This is coming from a guy with sub average looks. It's the contrary. Hook-ups are far more difficult than getting a girlfriend since 1. A girl can be in a relationship for other reasons than sexual attraction and 2. A man can use long-term commitment as a negotiation tool for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.I can think of so many more impressive/difficult skills to learn than getting women to fuck you. That is sad that you hold it in such high esteem Considering every mammal has an instinct to achieve biological success, defined by the quality and quantity of offspring they produce, yes it matters a lot to most people lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-ThreadWhat you said and what I'm saying aren't mutually exclusive so your logic is way off. Marriage gives men negotiating power since it benefits the woman significantly more. That's the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-ThreadLemme be more clear since you're reading too literally: it gives average men a higher chance of being able to reproduce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-ThreadMarriage benefits women, and average to below average men. For women: it derisks having kids and being a housewife. For average men: marriage acts as a way to access reproduction by allowing them to provide value through long term commitment/ financial risk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:13 PM |
| -2 | men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides moneyThat has nothing to do with the OP's cmv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 08:33 PM |
| 4 | men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides moneyYour logic is way off the mark. A man with incredibly high levels of confidence in his personal value (other than money) will also call all women gold diggers if money has been a deal breaker for all women he's dated. The only conclusion you can make out of a man calling all women gold diggers is that it was true from his own experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Why Day Game Is A Good Way To Increase Your Chances Of Getting WomenWhatever strategy that lets you be exposed to women that see you in the top ~1% at minimal cost and time is the best strategy. If your verbal game is better than looks, you're gonna want to do day game. If you appeal to a niche (i.e. Kpop fans), online dating will get you in front of that niche more efficiently. If you are universally hyper attractive, online dating is also more efficient in this case | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | If you could flip a switch and randomise your appearance would you do it?You'd have to be significantly uglier than average to say yes to an average expected appearance and give up the identity you built based on what you currently look like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How many of you men have cheated on a significant other? (All honest answers, I won’t be judging)Cheating is essentially admitting that you can't get multiple women to have sex with you through honest means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialEasier to go from hookup material to boyfriend material than the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrongIf he's not sexually attracted to you, then no he's not trying to get in your pants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menThere isn't really an analogy to be made here. Porn also desensitizes women, but in the form of sex novels, fantasies, films like 50 shades.. And men can also attain sexual partners out of their league. Ever heard of prostitutes and sugar babies? Your CMV should be abstracted out as "instant gratification desensitizes people to long term, deeper rewards". Which is obviously true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | If it doesn’t make sense for a man with a certain amount of income/resources to be in a monogamous relationship, then it doesn’t make sense for a woman with a certain amount of income/resources as wellYou can extend that to the top 5% of 60 year olds if you want. But there's no point of having this argument with you since neither of us has data. However, I'd say that younger women are a lot more likely to date older men than younger men with older women. Besides that, it seems like you're a woman. Report back with all the dick you'll be getting when you're 60 ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | If it doesn’t make sense for a man with a certain amount of income/resources to be in a monogamous relationship, then it doesn’t make sense for a woman with a certain amount of income/resources as wellName me one 60 year old woman that is more desirable to men than Brad Pitt is to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 01:32 AM |
| 0 | If it doesn’t make sense for a man with a certain amount of income/resources to be in a monogamous relationship, then it doesn’t make sense for a woman with a certain amount of income/resources as wellMost women would want to be monogamous. Women's SMV decreases at a higher rate than men's regardless of age (except possibly >65 years old). A woman serially dating would mean her mates are getting less attractive over time relative to the man she otherwise would have been monogamous with. On top of this, there is extra value to be gained in the form of a long term intimate bond that even for men, would cancel out some of the benefits to staying single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 09:26 PM |
| -2 | RedPilled men: What qualities in a woman would it take for you to agree in good faith to an exclusive relationship with a girl.She is one of the most attractive women I can attract. She wants to have sex almost every day. I like to hang out with her after sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Dating is only worth doing if you want to be deceitful and manipulativeYou’re really overestimating the average person’s ability to maintain a lie for any longer than a random ONS hookup (unless that’s your definition of “dating…”). You're underestimating the naivety of the average person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Men who plan to marry in their 40s are ruining the dating marketI don't see how it "ruins the dating market" when this specific phenomenon benefits mens' dating objectives but not womens'. Maybe you mean "Men who plan to marry in their 40s are making it harder for women"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Yup, but we're humans and with our sophisticated brains, sometimes we like to measure things on a deeper level than just external. Check out my other comment on genuine vs immoral game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Yup morals aside, the most successful strategy for most men is to promise multiple women a false fantasy of a faithful long term future. However, this is blatant cheating/lying. If you're cheating the game, you're not playing the game. Therefore you would have no chance of even being considered as successful in the "real" game. Although you'd arguably be playing a different game (on the dark side). It's kind of like trying to compare a natural bodybuilder to one on steroids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:33 PM |
| 5 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Depends on your definition of "doing well with women". If you're talking about creating attraction at all costs, then you can also say that a guy who lies about his social status, finances, personality also does well with women. A more genuine level attraction is a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:20 PM |
| 3 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.And that culture comes from a biological need to "spread the seed". Guys who deceive women by selling a dream don't count as doing well with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Is crying a turnoff for you?Yup, with proper study design and using the scientific method | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Do women really find men like MGK and Pete Davidson attractive?There's boyfriend attractive, and then there's hookup attractive. They're the former | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Is crying a turnoff for you?These types of questions to women are pointless. They don't even know the truth themselves let alone admit it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Women are biologically programed to orbit an alpha. Cold approach is not necessary.They can't tell if you're truly "alpha" until you actually speak to them. Retarded post | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | How to Bench 315 EasyA 315lb bench is high enough that some people are cut off from ever achieving it purely due to bad genetics. This post is an indirect flex, and plain useless | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsIf she's doing things for you as well, I see no problem. If she's not, that's not a friendship, that's a parasite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Playing the numbers game and relaxing your standards actually yields you more total 'stunners' as a guyThe idea is that the more attractive guys have a higher sex drive in general, therefore will have lower standards when it comes to hooking up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 12:07 PM |
| 10 | Would it turn you on if the dude acted kinda indifferent to sex?Yes for women with low sex drives/ are just looking for a long term partner. No for women who have high sex drives/ are sexually attracted/ want to hook up. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Question: Would You Rather Fuck 1 Woman Multiple Times Or Fuck Multiple Women 1 Time Each?You missed the main reasons, which are dropping testosterone and that most men stop taking care of themselves as they age so less options for hookups | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | If she's doing this then you've screwed upWhiteboard thing is fine, but it's way to blatant/showoffy/try hard for the smarter girls. If you've had even a lick of experience with women, you would know that they like subtlety and suggestive signals. There's better ways to do it... One way is to make use of social media/ stories. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Why you shouldn't use dating apps, in a single sentence.How does it boost your confidence when some guys literally swipe right without looking LOL. The delusion is unbelievable | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/21 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Have looks standards for the early 20s and below gone WAY up/thread. Same thing applies to women but for securing relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.In the future, raising kids will be automated by software tools and robotics. You won't need the 20 somethings energy to raise a kid. We're already headed in that direction. Better to use your youth doing other things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?Worth it if you're in the top 1%, not worth it otherwise. More options than ever for the top 1%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe your current personality would be enough to be sexually successful if you were transformed into a genetically unattractive male?I'm gonna go ahead and say if you have a sexually attractive personality, you're mostly likely genetically attractive physically as well since it's just all hand in hand with testosterone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 03:15 AM |
| 5 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyGreat job at putting away all the common misconceptions and distilling this important part of trp. This is the most fundamental principle of trp and all success or lack thereof with women can pretty much be explained this.. it's pretty clear that the optimal strategy is being both alpha and beta. Most blue pill guys that work on beta traits do it for alpha results, and they sometimes get some form of it through the woman faking sexual attraction. Beta traits are good for building a rich emotiona… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 3 | The Pill is not obvious / do not take it for grantedDon't let these people influence you to suppress your happiness. Show your authentic self and if people become jealous to the point of toxicity, cut them off. Easier said than done, but soon enough you'll be able to do this without flinching. If it's at work or somewhere that's hard to leave, build your financial freedom asap. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | A very powerful tool you should add to your lifting arsenalSupersets add volume to the workout in a shorter amount of time so this comment doesn't exactly disagree with OP's claim...Besides, the number of sets to close to failure at sufficient intensity is the determining factor to hypertrophy. Supersets add effective sets to a workout in a time efficient manner, but only if they are using antagonistic groups | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Girl being too friendly with guys at clubBecause she is just living in her frame (i.e. being a flirty friendly person). Either you're ok with that or not. You want her to bend to your frame for ego reasons it seems. Don't be insecure | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Girl being too friendly with guys at clubFirst off her being flirty doesn't imply that she's not LTR material. Many possibilities here... But most likely she's not attracted enough to fall in your frame yet so she's shit testing you by trying to make you jealous/ insecure and it seemed to have worked. My suggestion is to run game as usual and not be fazed. This isn't really a bad reflection on her part | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | My hottest and first lay of 2021 keeps double texting me. IDK what to do. Help.So many humble brags on this sub lately LOL | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Walking away with frame.Would argue that if you are truly walking away it doesn't matter if you maintain frame or not. It's all ego. The fact that he cared about maintaining frame means that he still cared about being with her, which means he's still in her frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 08:32 PM |
| 1 | A Little Reminder: DO NOT talk about "feelings" to WomenThe key is to open up emotionally from a place of strength, not from a place of weakness. Crying out of passion is totally ok | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/18 11:09 PM |
| 1 | My best example of HypergamyShe feels entitles to guys above a 7 because Jay settled for her, a 4. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/17 10:42 PM |
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