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11

Men aren’t worth the investment. We’re investing in ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:54 PM
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Ya this guys “ideal” scenario has oppressing women written all over it. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:06 PM
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Its easier when i have to think about the potential costs involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:02 PM
8

Its a lot easier just to avoid sex. That is putting the power back in my hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:10 PM
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Im single and in a place where abortion limitations are very tight. Im not seeking intimacy, relationships included. The law doesn’t exclude happily married women from these restrictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:47 PM
5

Yes, lots of men and women in committed relationships feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:54 PM
12

Out of everything I just mentioned, you only care about what men are getting casual sex. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:52 PM
23

Having our rights taken away doesn’t exactly put you in the mood for intimacy. Not to mention all the rhetoric online about “women should keep their legs closed” thats all over facebook. Ive heard too many horror stories about IUD insertion to ever consider it. A lot of women tried hormonal birth control, and it didn’t work for them…. The pull out method??? In my experience, men, more often than not, pressure to go condomless. So the real logical conclusion here is to avoid sex and intimacy for …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:34 PM
7

What rights are we proposing to take away so that women will “be nicer” to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:08 AM
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Evidently, but the men in here like to preach that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:27 PM
2

I guess we can scratch off children being loved unconditionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:37 PM
18

Tradwife movement has been the norm in traditional media for decades. Now with the internet and social media, average women around the world can discuss their real lives, not just some narrative pushed by marketing. Turns out, a lot of us are better off focused on careers. It makes logical sense in every which way to do so. You can push the tradwife movement, but we aren’t buying it as reality anymore. Its just a fantasy for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:53 AM
11

Im so over men. All day everyday men in here post how they only want young attractive women. As soon as a woman says it, its “not all men”. What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:39 PM
12

Men say shit like this, then turn around and complain women wont date them. Also, birth rates are plummeting so we don’t have to worry about that really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:03 PM
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Men arent dominant leaders in the home, they just like to say they are. Women take care of everything in the home, they are the true leaders. The 18 year old will still age and change. So what happens when she does? Will she decide your a piece of crap and dump your ass? Or will you decide she is now old and wrinkly and dump her? The excuse then men want to “feel” dominant is absolutely laughable and an EMOTIONAL response, not logical at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:03 AM
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Pro prenup. No one should be signing a marriage contract without at least formally reviewing the finances involved. Its too important to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:48 PM
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emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:38 PM
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We aren’t overvaluing ourselves. Men are a terrible investment for women today. Im better off as a single woman than dating the average man who can barely pay his own bills, let alone mine and a baby. Get over yourselves. You are the ones overestimating your value. How stupid do you have to be to think women only care for looks? Im not dating at all, because men, as a whole, aren’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:45 AM
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The average 50 year old man is not making even close to that number.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:24 PM
12

You guys really underestimate how much hair loss ages men poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:45 PM
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The bar is in hell. You don’t view women as autonomous human beings. Almost all the men in here reduce women to attractiveness and body count. Fuck that, Ill stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:25 PM
77

When my friend lost her virginity, the guy started gossiping around school that she didn’t shave. It was cruel and humiliating for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:52 PM
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Your confusing avoiding a fight vs winning a fight. Temperament is more important than physique there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:25 PM
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Ironic that you attack my personal character here. All of us women “just want attention” or “she was asking for it” Its in our best interest to stay away from people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:39 PM
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Im not living in fear, just reality. Lots of average men don’t take no for an answer well. We see it every day. I do my best to be in a safe place before getting his reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:43 AM
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I used to think this way, not anymore. My safety comes first. First, its fishing for reasons why. Second, they get adamant about the reason not being good enough. Third, they get angry. Hopefully it doesn’t elevate to obsession and threats. Im not interested in getting a brick thrown at my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:37 AM
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Cheating keeps you sexually attractive to your wife. Haven’t heard this one yet. Better make sure that wife never gets suspicious. That’ll get increasingly more difficult the more people Brad cheats with. Not to mention the moral argument here…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:33 AM
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This is posted as a discussion, not a cmv
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:16 PM
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OPs definition of “being a bitch” is a woman being a doormat, sex slave. I choose maximum bitchiness and happily single over these kind of guys every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:48 PM
1

What the heck happened to regular dancing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:54 PM
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It doesn’t work this way. He could make 25k a year but comes from money and lives well. I wish men understood that these fake scenarios aren’t how women think about our options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:55 PM
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What an incredibly humble and noble opinion. This didn’t sound like bragging throughout the entire post at all. Best of luck to you OP on your incredibly difficult journey on becoming less attractive 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:12 AM
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Yes. Countries where women have no power are not good places to live for anyone. Societies that value feminine traits and leadership nurture their population and focus more on wellbeing. At least to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:39 PM
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Thats everyone my guy, everyone is trying to make the best out of their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:14 PM
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You are in luck, because birth rates are going down. More women are choosing not to date or have children at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:07 PM
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I see posts everyday here arguing that women should lower their mating standards, or that women’s standards aren’t high enough. Every single day. So which one is it guys? Also, this sounds like blaming the parent who stayed instead of the one who leaves his child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:19 PM
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Using OPs logic, a story that teaches a lesson to children that men are violent. A disney movie where the lead female character marries a man who is evil and violent. She divorces and finds freedom and happiness away from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:12 PM
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exactly my point and why “truth” is in quotes sweety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:11 PM
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This isn’t truthful, just indoctrination. We are all sold ideas in the media. How about women being taught the “truth” about male nature and violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:29 PM
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There it is, OPs real opinion. You could’ve just posted this comment instead of your justifications in the original post. You can ban me from talking when you rip my tongue out. 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:20 PM
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A slap? Abuse. Pushing her to get out of the way so you can leave would be self defense. If a woman is yelling at you for hours, and you have the physical ability to leave but don’t, you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:13 PM
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Wow. If someone Im dating ever told me this, its an immediate dealbreaker. Sounds like therapy is needed, not “physical self defense”. Correction: If anyone in my life ever told me this, it’d be a dealbreaker for any type of relationship we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:02 PM
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He starts off as an amazing partner and changes. After some time passes, the real abuser comes out. Especially after trapping her with a move, marriage, or pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:43 PM
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Moving in together in 6 months?! Hard pass for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:42 PM
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What a reach. Regardless of your or my opinion, immigration is a federal legal benefit in the USA. Yes, obviously these are investigated to avoid “green card marriages”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:08 PM
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Tons of benefits to being married in America. Medical, inheritance, parental rights, taxes, immigration. Its like rolling a bunch of legal contracts into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:33 PM
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Just trying to be helpful, but the way you speak is off-putting. I didn’t comment about your looks or your preferences on chubby women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:52 PM
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If you hate loud music and nightclubs, popular happy hour spots might be more manageable. I wouldn’t start with the “Wow you’re beautiful” line right off the bat. Your better off complimenting her dress. Always better to engage the whole group, not just single out one girl. You might just hit it off with her friend. Ive asked guys to take pictures of me and my friends to get the conversation started. Even the old “you look familiar have we met before?” has worked on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:51 PM
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Of course most of us can’t tell the difference, the rest of us in the real world make way way less than that. Eat the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:00 PM
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Yellow Flag. As long as it stays in fun hobby territory, no problem. But if Im noticing that it negatively affects other aspects of their life (mood, relationships, work) then its a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:01 AM
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I am on birth control. I am single. It doesn’t affect my sex drive. I take it to avoid pregnancy and regulate my cycle. I would never consider an IUD based on horror stories Ive heard about the pain. I also use condoms during sex for the extra protection and STDs prevention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:44 PM
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Retirement benefits are already being cut with a growing population.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:03 PM
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Check yourself. I never said thats how I want retirement to work. Retirement, at least where I live, is based off of what you pay into it. It is not based on needs. There are billions of people around the world who will never experience retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:40 PM
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Retirement is a luxury. If the problem is that bad, people simply won’t retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:13 PM
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Increasing birthrates is absolute bullshit. We have 8 billion people on the planet and we can’t take care of them already. The elites and government only want more babies because they become consumers and tax payers. Unwanted pregnancy rates and the cost of living is too damn high. Education and birth control for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:54 PM
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Examples of financial abuse would be sabotaging your partners chances of earning money or taking their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:59 AM
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Not apples to apples. Physical abuse is forced. Willingly giving someone money in the hopes of getting sex isnt forced. Now, there are definitely real problems with financial abuse, but I find it odd you didn’t mention any.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:32 AM
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No deal. 7 years is definitely not worth that trade unless im 80 and already sure im going to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:16 AM
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The only logical reasons for sex are money or children. Even children is a stretch. Most of us base sex lives on emotions, not logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:10 PM
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If that time comes, Ill answer to God then. Until then, I don’t believe in your ideology at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:14 AM
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You, as a man, as a human being, need to be a good leader FIRST for people to follow and trust you. People who demand “submission” here are not good leaders and not worthy of that title.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:37 PM
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Its a great filter. College application and acceptance processes are pretty extensive and applicants are throughly investigated. If you applied, attended, and graduated from college then at the very least you have some intelligence and can work with others on some level. Not to mention employment opportunities. That being said, this obviously isn’t true across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:26 PM
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Male concern over promiscuity? Where’s the concern for male birth control and deadbeat dads??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:15 PM
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Ok. So as a woman I have the “moral right” to pursue sugar daddies outside my marriage as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:43 PM
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I have no sympathy for this mindset. Everyone should be picky when choosing romantic partners. It is an extremely vulnerable relationship. When else in life should you be pickier?? It seems like these men are the delusional ones. Lost in a mental health and identity crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:11 PM
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Freedom will always be more important to me. A declining fertility rate is a positive thing anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:15 PM
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Im not that invested if we only met once…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:43 PM
7

Spending 3 weeks getting to know someone and then having sex vs 1 or 2 dates then sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:27 PM
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Because “making someone wait a few weeks” doesn’t actually work. He could still turn around the next day and be out the door and that’s even worse because you’ve invested more in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:19 PM
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Dead on! This is true in my experience as well. Rejection is often met with anger and threats. And Im talking about well educated “good” guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:09 PM
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How is “You are nice but I’m not feeling it” being dishonest?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:05 PM
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No, its not. Birth rates go up when the economy is doing well. Encourage women to stay at home by paying them for their labor. There’s plenty of people who want more children who can’t because of finances. Your solution sacrifices quality of life for the sake of growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:00 PM
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We are conditioned pretty much from birth that finding your “soul mate”, getting married, and having children is the ultimate goal in life and the best form of happiness anyone could ever experience. Its constantly pushed by religion and the media. Your told all the terrible experiences in dating will eventually pay off and will be worth it when you find “the one”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:59 PM
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So much this. All the reasons people list and no one ever mentions the legal aspects of marriage. I’ve never even seen a marriage contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:16 PM
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Nowhere in that post does OP claim that all redpill is a scam. Its pointing out one scammer. Id say that’s still extremely relevant to this sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:26 PM
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Its HRs fault for hiring unqualified employees. Its the employees fault if they can’t pick up the work fast enough. Most new employees need a lot of training in a new job. I don’t blame men as a gender for hiring discrepancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:42 PM
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Terrible example. Isnt it the companies fault for hiring unqualified employees? Ive known plenty of under qualified men who got their position through connections in the “good ole boys” club instead of actual merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:27 PM
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yall say crap like this and then chastise sluts and single moms…get outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:04 PM
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Splitting 50/50 is for roommates. Id absolutely treat a loving partner if I had the means to do it. You don’t sound like you are coming from a positive healthy mindset. You should want the best for yourself and your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:53 PM
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Absolutely everything in my life is artificial or man-made in some capacity. The only “natural” biological function I do on a daily basis is taking a shit. I don’t give a fuck about gender roles, I do what works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:06 AM
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This is not true in my experience growing up around wealth. All the upper class “old money” men I know went for women in their social class and social circles, not models. The women they married were pretty, but not super attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:49 PM
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I read your comment. Don’t be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:19 PM
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Wrong. Im not going to be polite and considerate to complete strangers disrespecting my time and personal space in public. Im not obligated to engage a random person who approaches me on the street. If you think that minding my own business is a an intentional affront, then my original point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:25 PM
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Ignoring someone is not provoking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:27 PM
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If only we lived in such a black and white world. I clearly stated ignore and avoid those people, not act violent and aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:36 PM
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I don’t believe that. I don’t owe strangers my time. And if a woman ignores a man who turns out to murder her, it will always be his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:15 PM
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Are you saying women should be polite to murderous rapists? We should be more polite to those who should harm us? Hard disagree. Im better off ignoring and avoiding those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:11 PM
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its because these men feel entitled to womens time and attention. They expect women to be “nice and polite”. Look at all the men addressing how you are rude first, so a man’s aggression is warranted. They don’t care about our safety, they are about their access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:52 PM
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Yes, you still have male privilege. Sex isnt a privilege if someone is willing to harm me to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:02 PM
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No. Coming from a Sarah who spent the rest of my relationship being compared to an April.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:58 PM
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Already answered above.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:30 PM
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Definitely not, but I think it only gets harder further into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:27 PM
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Still not enough time imo. Plus its with other kids in your age group. Everyone is kind of on the same mental level there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:24 PM
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Too young and its illegal where I am. If you are sleeping with escorts at 19, that means you didn’t give yourself enough time to try and form a healthy mutual sexual relationship with people. Going straight to paying for sex that young? No for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:19 PM
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A 19 year old sleeping with escorts? That would be a major red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:56 PM
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I agree, its all very unsustainable. No wonder less and less of us want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:00 PM
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These type of people should absolutely not have families! No income=no value. So sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:15 PM
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The way you word this, it is clear you don’t value domestic unpaid labor or childcare. So just outsource everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:04 PM
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“redpill men are very attractive” Source: redpill men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:16 PM
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Good luck getting a 2 with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:57 PM
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my general rule of thumb is: setting boundaries is controlling my behavior. being controlling is an attempt to control someone else’s behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:48 PM
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Agreed. Reading posts on this sub and looking into trp was truly eye opening. Im better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:05 AM
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Everything about forcing people to have children is counterproductive. My response was made in satire. Using any stick policies won’t help society improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:21 PM
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Correct. But OP wants stick policies for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:08 PM
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Correct. Im assuming the way OP worded the original question, human rights violations are on the table here as “sticks”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:39 AM
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Based on how society operates today, not really. Yes, we’d lose our reproductive value. Ill gladly give that one away. We wouldn’t lose much social value. Men in this sub have made it very clear that a woman’s social value is based more on appearance. Pregnancy and childbirth aside, you still need someone to actually raise the child. How many men are lining up to be single fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:42 PM
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Ok here’s some stick policies: -Bachelor Taxes -Condoms and vasectomies made illegal -Gay relationships made illegal -Better paying jobs reserved to fathers only -better housing reserved for families only -No mens only spaces -Increased punishment for harming women Short list, but it’ll help your cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:18 PM
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I choose science. Grow your babies in a lab.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:30 AM
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The worlds population is still growing, so this is a non argument. Even so, your forgetting a third longterm option which is scientific and medical advancement. Artificial wombs are being tested. Its just a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:02 AM
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As an antinatalist, childfree, and American woman, this question and how you word it is terrifying. I will rip my uterus out before you try and force me to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:24 AM
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I got my information from redpillers sooo…still your own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:37 PM
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I thought the main point of TRP is hotter/more confident men will get more women. If you are saying that doesn’t work, then that’s your own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:17 PM
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Correct. Which is why I said it’s theoretical and it isnt fullproof.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:04 AM
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Theoretically, there are positive and admirable qualities that are associated with being successful. People skills, technical skills, cognitive skills… all come into play in some regard. I can be reasonably assured the financially successful man in a traditional workplace isnt a dumb, dangerous, crazy person. This obviously isnt fullproof.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:21 AM
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Thats a lot of “ifs” and conditions that most men don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:00 PM
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My safety, independence, and happiness are the most important things in my life. Im happier not dating at all than when I was searching. Best longterm relationships Ive had with men are platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:25 PM
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I cant remember any jokes someone Im attracted to has told me. Its about the demeanor and delivery. You could joke about a terrible restaurant or travel experience. Something funny your pet did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:48 PM
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Funny, positive, laid back, and SLIGHTLY flirty. If you are someone who seems like they are happy and enjoy life, I want a piece of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:33 PM
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Ummm the redpillers in this sub strongly disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:49 AM
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Everyone. Major deduction to your attractive points due to shit personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:47 AM
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That argument could be applied to all women who’s standard of living is raised by a man. I totally agree that redpillers are fooling themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:11 PM
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None of that really matters in redpill ideology. It boils down to money and looks. American men make way more than the world average. So logically, just find someone in a poorer area. OP specifically mentions redpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:59 PM
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Never. All the women I know on bc are on the pill, IUD, or got a tubal. The men I know rely on their female partners for birth control and may or may not use condoms. Even so, protection absolutely needs to be more accessible for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:37 PM
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So because you haven’t seen a female condom, women aren’t doing enough to “step up”? Interesting take there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:02 PM
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What?! How would this even be a question for men in those states.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:39 PM
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Im very similar to the purpose driven example so I pick purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:27 PM
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your aunt sounds amazing, life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:47 PM
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Because they only count instagram models as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:01 PM
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who knew that someone with a social life would meet women in a social environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:58 PM
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Ok then. So i guess your proposed solution is to simply avoid dating or marrying women? Sounds like it to me. Im good with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:48 PM
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20s are a time of self discovery. First time you can more or less live by your own rules, not your parents. You can test and learn your own boundaries in your 20s. Drinking and dating are not just the norm, but expected of you. First time you are meeting other adults as adults, and not children. From my perspective at least…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:30 PM
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If you are not redpill than my argument is irrelevant to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:55 PM
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A middle class woman attracted to a powerful CEO is still a cultural mismatch. By your redpill logic, women don’t care about culture half as much as looks and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:48 PM
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80/20 also implies cultural mismatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:26 PM
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I fail too see how 80/20 is real for the average american man who can easily move down the socioeconomic ladder to find a mate. Cuz thats the real redpill truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:06 PM
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Its never brought up, but shouldn’t red-pill ideology apply to all your relationships? Friends/networking included?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:59 PM
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Being blunt, I can clearly tell your bias towards Jeffrey since you add a lot more supportive context to his story.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:05 AM
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Actual sperm donors don’t pay child support though? Sperm donors have no parental rights where i live.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:01 PM
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Where things are headed in America, you may actually be able to sue the doctor that performed the abortion. Just because you can sue, doesn’t mean you will win your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:39 PM
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Thats tough since most social outings today are heavily focused on drinking, unfortunately. If I wanted to be approached, Id focus on hobbies and events that interest me. I know a couple who met through crossfit, and another who met through a soccer club. Personally, I was good friends with a musician who played at a lot of local city events and met tons of people that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:04 PM
1

so it is about behavior and not the actual number?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:40 AM
1

This still doesnt explain why men in LTRs don’t ask for n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:39 AM
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Fair play. But judging someone on how they act isn’t exactly the same as judging N count, the number of bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:14 AM
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Sure, for a certain group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:05 AM
1

This is a different topic from your original statement I responded to about low body counts being seen as feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:57 AM
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Most guys don’t ask. Not a single guy Ive dated or slept with has asked me. It is how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:41 AM
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I think you are misunderstanding my comment. I do not accept it, so I don’t lie about n count. IF i did accept, I would lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:29 AM
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I don’t accept that statement and no, I don’t have to. However, if I really wanted to play that game, it is super easy to lie about N count. Good-luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:17 AM
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No, he did not come after everyone. Take a look at the titles on his youtube channels. Almost all of them are directed towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:35 PM
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Kevin Samuels was fueled by angry men and delusional women. He was only helping himself. I am somewhat relieved to hear of his passing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:19 PM
1

Has the 80/20 thing been proven?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:12 PM
4

This is so important and so true for many of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:52 PM
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older women see the signs of predatory behavior that younger women do not. They typically don’t have the knowledge or experience. But you do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:03 PM
2

average guy wasnt any of the options presented though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:18 PM
5

my ranking remains the same nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:10 PM
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I’m assuming this is my idea of a high value man. 3 is by far the best option. 1 as a distant second. Im assuming this means single mom. 2 5 4
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:07 PM
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wasn’t a traditional and religious marriage the ultimate symbol for male authority and leadership?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:15 PM
5

is this guy basically arguing women arent slutty enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:58 PM
10

seems like more men are doing the crying around here… go ahead and switch to stay at home dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:43 AM
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but men who rape women dont count as oppressors?? by your own logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:01 AM
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Nope. I believe there are male and female abusers. But not women as a whole class of people. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:51 AM
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Seeing the men in this sub talk like this make me want to stay single and childless forever. Completely delusional that you think women, as a class, “oppress” men. In many societies, women couldn’t wipe their own asses without a male guardian say-so. Women are not the world leaders keeping men “down”. We, just like men, are just trying to figure out our best opportunities to survive in our ever changing world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:02 AM
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Ive seen the videos of ones they “glue” or whatever onto the guys head and the transformations are amazing! Live your best happiest life. If shes upset, she’s immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:43 AM
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Correct. Porn can range from very vanilla to shockingly violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:37 PM
1

My boyfriend dumped me after using his phone to see what i look like with the aging filter. He was no longer attracted to me after he saw what i would look like in 50 years. This is satire of course. Are all women doomed to keep up with plastic surgery, maintain a flawless appearance to get a boyfriend?? satire again….
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:58 PM
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I don’t have a checklist when I date real men in the real world. Im not comparing notes with my other dates. If you are ok in looks and I have an awesome time on our date, that makes you more attractive to me. Muscles or chubby are both fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:47 PM
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Sure, I’m physically attracted/ok with most men in my age range. Im average/pretty. Im no hottie but can attract men when I try. The real challenge is personality. Sure, i’m open to that. I couldn’t go for obese but shortish and dad bod is fine. Physical attraction isn’t the issue for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:01 PM
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The most common ones I see are: online, work, college, bars/clubs, and through mutual connections. My toxic advice (if you are in your 20s) is college freshman girls in the fall… they are desperate to meet people. Or just other women new to your city.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:30 AM
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I don’t think enough about/encounter enough sexual partners with fetishes to have an opinion. However, a big turnoff and usual dealbreaker is when someone is too sexual in the beginning. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:28 PM
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I dont like alpha males.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:22 PM
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Funny. Naw, Im not attracted to “chads”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:15 PM
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Here we go. Im 28F in USA for context. how long term? Id consider at least 1 good year successful, breakup when no longer happy. no bio children (possibly adopt) marriage highly unlikely cohab highly unlikely. hangouts on weekends preferred throughout the week is fine for communication multi dating is fine unless we agree later to be monogamous. threesome would need to be somewhat on my terms. not sure what second chance refers to. 2 hour drive maximum distance he pays/ i pay works for me. I pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:43 PM
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I would help a male friend, no question. Stranger on the internet? Not likely…. Also you desperately need to rephrase the wording…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:00 PM
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That guy has 700k followers…not exactly your average tiktok user.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:52 PM
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Because the rp community made it hostile. From what i’ve seen, rp advice is less about telling men how to behave to get women, more about why women are “overvalued” and putting them in their places. As a woman, i would not feel safe with anyone who even hints at subscribing to redpill ideas. Goodluck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:44 PM
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NUANCES MATTER. Maybe this will help… An actual nice guy: “Hey, it was awesome meeting you last night! I honestly had a blast. You and your friends seem like really cool people. Let me know if you want to go out again soon. First round on me. “nice guy”: “Hey, it was awesome meeting you last night. There were a lot of attractive women there but you were by far the sexiest, so beautiful. You should join me for dinner Ill take you on an amazing date and you will love me, i’m a catch and very succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:50 PM
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“Rules for thee, but not for me”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:15 PM
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commitment can be very valuable and meaningful for both men and women. Some people “need” more commitment than others. I think its all about how you define it for yourself. And if you find a partner that agrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:29 AM
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Well pregnancy and childcare are pretty big reasons. As well as financial security if she gets busy raising kids. STDs. Social pressure of finding “the one” is still very prevalent. Commitment usually comes with nice perks like having a wedding date or travel partner. Commitment means, theoretically, he won’t vanish or ghost tomorrow. Commitment implies she can call him for an emergency/pickup from hospital/ect. The list goes on and on…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:16 AM
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Having boundaries for yourself is good. Trying to control someone else’s behavior is not good. If you don’t like her, it’s on you to leave… “be a man”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:00 AM
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I dont care how hot you are. If theres even a hint that you might be bitter or desperate, im passing. Personality matters way more then rp men think it does… but stay in your echo chamber if you don’t actually want to solve your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:16 PM
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