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She said “so many men” not all men...why waste time arguing with points somebody isn’t making
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:18 PM
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That’s just a theory, I don’t think it’s the sole reason. And there’s a difference between masculine and very masculine. I’d say most women are fine with masculine rather than very masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:58 PM
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Tons of women are fine with emotional men. Lots of my female friends are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:57 PM
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My gut feeling tells me that you are unable to change your worldview and will dismiss anything that goes against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:31 PM
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So do I
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:06 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:58 PM
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Prediction: You are unable to accept that your negative experiences with women are because you picked out a bad one, or because of your behavior. As a result it’s easier on your ego to paint half the planet as heartless than accept that you’re the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:51 PM
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“Hubris” dude, you’re the one that thinks you’re enough of a genius to predict how half of the population acts. And yes it does? If you’re as predictable as a guinea pig then idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:37 PM
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I don’t need to meet all 3.5 billion to find them. I know a couple. I am one myself. They’re out in the world my guy. You just have to find them. I personally have a theory on this, though. Women that like very masculine men would probably be turned off by it, because they associate emotionally vulnerability with being a woman. I personally don’t mind crying or vulnerability at all, but I wonder if me liking effeminate men has anything to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:36 PM
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Except humans are far more mentally complex than other animal species. How does having a few structures/behaviors in common somehow mean everything is the exact same? You have to give women more credit as human beings. We don’t all want the same thing. We have different personalities. And for my personality type, I value emotional intimacy, vulnerability and being open in how you feel. Some women don’t like that because they see those traits as feminine. I don’t see it as feminine, but I also do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:30 PM
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And what makes you assume that? I bet everything that you’re not here to debate or have your viewpoint changed, since you automatically dismiss everything that challenges it. Stop letting your personal experiences with women delude you into thinking you have half of the planet figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:24 PM
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Have you met all 3.5 billion women on the planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:17 PM
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How am I protecting my self image if it’s so subconscious that I’m not aware of it? So am I deliberately misleading people or not? You’re not l open to debate. Anytime a woman says something about how she feels, you swear you know more about an internet stranger than they know about themselves. You’re either narcissistic or dull if you think you’ve figured out how 3.5 billion members of the population acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:08 PM
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Just because you haven’t met them doesn’t mean they don’t exist. My ex and my current boyfriend opened up to me. My current boyfriend has even cried a couple of times. It didn’t affect my feelings at all. If anything I was happy to know that I could be someone they could go to. And I’m not some special unicorn, other women feel the same too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:00 PM
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Yea 90%? Two years ago, 6/6 of my teachers were male. Last year 4/6 of my classes were male. This year, 3/6 of my teachers are male. I highly doubt 90% is even a real statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:16 PM
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I feel like there’s some confusion here. Usually, women are fearful when rejecting RANDOM men that they do not know. Random men can become hostile, it’s happened to me, it’s happened to my mother, it’s happened to other women. I’m cautious of strangers in general so it’s not even just about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:21 PM
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And there are women that have been called things like “a fucking bitch” for rejecting a guy kindly. Happened to me, all I said was “oh I have a boyfriend” with a smile. It’s happened to my mother many times. This, in my experience usually happens with random men off of the street that are approaching me rather than men I personally know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:19 PM
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Yea and if somebody says “no” and you continue to chase them, you look thirsty and desperate. They’ll take advantage of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:10 PM
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Of course there are. There are women that take crappy pics too. But women in genera are better photographers. I’m not sure about how active you are on Instagram, but girls are the ones that post selfies. Very rarely do I see a guy post one. And when I do see guys post pictures, it’s more likely to be awkward, in poor lighting, or just unflattering. And these are guys i’ve seen irl that are average or above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:03 AM
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I wouldn’t think so. A bad picture is a bad picture. It’s not going to balance itself out. It’ll just make them look worse. The whole better in photos thing is because they know how to take a good picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:45 AM
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Men may have photos up that don’t do them any justice. My boyfriend looks completely different when he takes photos, but I think he’s super hot irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:29 AM
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I think a lot of women are more critical of their looks and are likely to post their best pictures. Whereas a man will just snap a pic and thats it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:28 AM
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It actually is. Beauty standards have made a lot of people judge certain features, like small lips, large noses, skin that’s too “pasty” or skin that’s too dark. Women are affected by beauty standards and constantly critiques for not fitting it. Clearly, some women aren’t because they’re constantly told they aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:23 AM
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She’s one of my celebrity crushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 01:06 AM
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She’s considered brown skin actually, but I would say she’s dark skin just bc most don’t know the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 12:00 AM
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Why Maslow though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:52 PM
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Is Maslow’s hierarchy of needs some verified absolute truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 07:52 PM
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No, and I don’t see how you feel i’m agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:20 PM
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Plenty of women do give a shit about other women. Some of them are definitely back stabbers, but a lot girls are inclined to behave differently just because it’s a fellow girl. For example, i’ve seen a lot of girls hype up random girls in bathrooms. I’ve done it too. It’s nice to just compliment someone and make them feel cute. Girls will often give their last pad/tampon to a random girl even if they’re on their period. I’ve done it, others have done it. The only reason we ever did those things …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 08:14 PM
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You can make the same argument about pretty women. Beauty standards. If one feature is beautiful and the best, then another feature can’t be the best. Another feature may be ugly if the opposite of the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 07:45 PM
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I think the preference goes both ways, but there is a preference for lighter skinned women. Why else would most Black celebs be relatively light? Beyoncé, Nicki Minaj, and Rihanna aren’t dark skinned. I think light skinned or mixed (since the two tend to coincide) women are more palpable to mainstream media and men of other races. I’ve had guys tell me they don’t like Black girls, but pursue me because I’m not Black “enough” to be discounted. I’m mixed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:33 AM
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It reflects what they like though, and it reflects how a lot of Black men feel about dark skinned women. With the subtext of how people are treated irl it’s clear that it’s an actual thing. If you look at other forms of media, with Black couples the woman is usually lighter. Most “Black” female celebrities are mixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:23 AM
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If a girl is ugly without makeup, then she is ugly. Makeup can’t save everything anyway. It can sure change a woman’s looks heavily, but it’s all about tricks. A woman with an enormous bump in her nose can’t downplay that with makeup. A bad facial structure can’t be saved with makeup either - contour only looks good on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:45 AM
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I’ve had dark skin Black men talk shit about dark skin Black women to me, and say they like light skins. A lot of rappers talk about light skin women as well in their music, I can’t say i’ve ever heard a line about dark skin women being the best. I don’t think colorism has really been studied but I can just offer anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:36 AM
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They’ll understand when they’re older. My parents would bring up a divorce in fights when I was a little kid and the idea of it horrified me. Once I got to age 14 I had wished my mom took that route. It’s the best for them and they’ll admire you’re strength :) ty for being the mom I wish I had!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:49 PM
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Are we the same person? I am as well. I ended up pursuing guys that acted a lot like my father because that’s all I ever saw, and felt it was acceptable. My dad was never rude to me really, just completely ignored me. Actually nvm. He would get mad when my mom “made” him spend time with me and would be rude to me bc how dare a daughter want her fathers love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:00 PM
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I hate how common this is. My dad is the same way, and he’s pulled crap like this on holidays. Will men ever change 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:54 PM
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Kids definitely noticed the dad’s crappy attitude, subconsciously or consciously. Poor modeling and also probably brought the mood down. They’re stuck inside because of a pandemic, holidays are far different now and he couldn’t just sit there and act like a normal adult? Not even for his kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:35 PM
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CONGRATS!! Queen energy right here. You certainly made the right choice, those $$$ probably look better than him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:06 AM
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She looks like a literal goddess. Seriously, check out her page. Not that her looks even matter, but it’s funny to watch these crusty dudes try to come for her 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:04 AM
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Once again the sub attacks banana flavored laffy taffy 😭 what did it ever do to you aside from being the best flavor. I believe in banana supremacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:18 AM
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Honestly, no father is better than a shitty father that sets a poor example. My father constantly mistreated my mother and demeaned her which I think affected what I saw as acceptable from a guy. I would’ve been better off not seeing such a toxic relationship modeled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:57 AM
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I love banana. It tastes like delicious lotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:29 PM
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I love FKA Twigs. Her album, Magdalene, has a lot of aspects to to that remind me of some FDS sentiments. In an interview she said “I was told that as a woman, I should be looked after. It’s not whether I choose somebody, but whether somebody chooses me”. The song Magdalene has a couple of amazing lines as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:14 PM
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Some of them were probably worried about one of the gay men daring to have a crush...even though they probably wouldn’t. crusty, unkempt straight men think every gay man wants them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:11 PM
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