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Just 100% kept is cool, no fake alpha posturing, able to joke around and act totally indifferent to the outcome
/r/seduction06/06/18 03:02 AM
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He was not actually that famous and both of those women were bigger celebrities than him at the time
/r/seduction06/06/18 03:00 AM
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Yes, he is a somewhat famous musician but he wasn't a huge star, and holy fuck does he have swagger.
/r/seduction05/06/18 05:13 AM
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a lot of the suggestions are way too tentative. If you are already getting interest from a girl through eye contact you should walk to her, say hi, and hold out your hand. When she takes your hand, pull her close and introduce yourself.
/r/seduction10/05/17 07:29 PM
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1) this is really unethical 2) If you actually want to see a girl twice this is a terrible strategy 3) this can ultimately get you banned from places Really this is the equivalent of someone on a wealth building forum saying "what if I just run a ponzi scheme" - yes you can get things you want by being a con artist.
/r/seduction10/05/17 07:26 PM
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When they said that why didn't you respond "good me either"
/r/seduction05/05/17 10:31 PM
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Haha. Pretty sure it wasn't a matter of me being super good looking, just the most appealing option at a half empty bar at 330, and I had been dancing/having a good time.
/r/seduction23/03/17 04:08 PM
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Most successful pickups are actually boring from an outside perspective. I don't even my own openers from successful pulls. That guy's field reports you describe actually sound about right. Search on YouTube for videos of Zack Bauer and Rob Judge. Those are pretty representative of good game
/r/seduction23/03/17 08:33 AM
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I'm not sure if "I am about to have a threesome and I don't want to leave anything to chance" is a valid reason to give to a doctor, but it should be
/r/seduction23/03/17 08:16 AM
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I had a girl literally walk up to me and ask "do you have a girlfriend" and when I said no, she said "do you want to come home with me" so yeah, pretty sure she went to the bar to fuck
/r/seduction23/03/17 08:13 AM
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Why do people still go to shoe stores when you can order online?
/r/seduction23/03/17 08:12 AM
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Girls sometimes go to pull
/r/seduction23/03/17 08:11 AM
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If they were girls I wanted to fuck I wouldn't be asking this question. Also if you're not getting results, don't give advice.
/r/seduction22/03/17 01:44 AM
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Oh don't say that. Say "I work in finance" then change the subject. If you want to convey that you're making a shit load of money, mention finance then be evasive.
/r/seduction22/03/17 01:41 AM
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Yeah, the girls are all just friends.
/r/seduction21/03/17 09:30 PM
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You can basically use a direct opener in almost any situation. Opinion openers are fine for any night game situation. For the time being you just need one opener. When I say it works, I'm setting the bar pretty low - if you open once or twice a night that's good enough to focus on hooking. For hooking do not ask any questions. The goal of booking is to fill all of the conversation until she is interested enough to contribute. Cold reads work, teases, banter, stories
/r/seduction21/03/17 12:44 AM
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Yeah it sounds like you have read too much contradictory stuff, any one of which might work on its own but together is a recipe for confusion. If you want to try canned routines, then go for it, but decide before you go out that this is what you are doing and then go with it. Otherwise don't start thinking about it in the middle of a night out. In fact, what you should do is pick one thing to focus on before you go out, and focus on nothing but that. So for instance, you can have a night where y…
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:18 PM
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eh - the good stuff in there is incorporated elsewhere - it's not that useful. It doesn't build a structure, and cocky comedy is not necessarily useful for everyone. That said, if you really like cocky comedy, might be worth a read. Also, I don't know if it is still true but when I bought DYD i got auto-enrolled in his monthly interview product and it was a total nightmare to unsubscribe.
/r/seduction15/02/17 11:51 PM
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What do you mean by shit results? There's no method that can guarantee you getting any particular girl. If you are getting girls in general than your results are good. You can't let your ego get crushed by just thinking of one.
/r/seduction15/02/17 11:48 PM
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When you approach keep your intro shorter. You don't need to say "I thought you were cute and I wanted to meet you" in a bar or nightclub - because its obvious hwy you are approaching. Be louder in a bar and don't make long speeches - keep the conversation lively with a quick back and forth.
/r/seduction10/02/17 09:43 PM
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"Hey I know this is random but I thought you were cute and I wanted to meet you." That is how you open in a potentially awkward place.
/r/seduction08/02/17 08:48 PM
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You can totally ask a girl out at a Trump protest - I mean as long as you genuinely hate Trump. That will be an expectation.
/r/seduction08/02/17 08:46 PM
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correct answer
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:28 PM
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so your question is how do you find girls where there are no girls and you won't go to where the girls are?
/r/seduction07/02/17 01:39 PM
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don't message a girl for hours. Make plans.
/r/seduction07/02/17 12:01 AM
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No you can totally date if you are a kind of introverted person - just be aware that in the long term, dating someone who is super extroverted might lead to issues.
/r/seduction07/02/17 12:00 AM
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Move to Philly or Pittsburgh
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:54 PM
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they aren't actually interested. Girls will give anyone their phone number.
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:53 PM
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Where do you live? North Dakota?
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:52 PM
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As an attorney I second this. That said if you want drinking buddies they are really easy to find in law school!
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:52 PM
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address them both together. talk to them both for a while. This is the trickiest situation because if there are only two of them the one friend won't want to leave her friend alone. Ideally you win the friend over and she gives you space to do your thing with the girl you actually like.
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:50 PM
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How good is your game? If you already have game then just be subtle and low key about it, if not, then this is not a good place to learn.
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:49 PM
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You will probably make it awkward for customers if you try this.
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:47 PM
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do you live in a super small town or rural area? because if not, what you are saying is probably false. Regardless, try online.
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:47 PM
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Hi.
/r/seduction20/10/15 09:30 PM
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I am 33 now, I started this when I was in my mid-twenties (on and off - I've been in relationships or just lazy and did online dating) and actually it's easier to meet women. You are right to a certain extent that the advice in PUA is geared towards younger guys - but not exactly in the way you were saying. A lot of PUA advice is geared towards guys who do not have a lot of status - sexually inexperienced, not (yet) highly accomplished in their careers, not necessarily in good physical shape - t…
/r/seduction15/10/15 11:00 PM
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Go out and start talking to women. Then you can zero in on what your particular issues are - maybe you can talk to women easily but there's no tension. Maybe women react negatively when you get sexual. Then look for someone who speaks to your experience. In terms of false information - go try something out, and if it works, do it. And accept that occasionally this advice will shoot you in the foot. Happens to everyone
/r/seduction15/10/15 10:41 PM
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The term "club" can refer to a few different types of places. There are hardcore dance clubs where 80% of people are dancing at a given time. These places usually play non-mainstream EDM. This is just dancefloor game. You basically have no other option. Other clubs have dance floors, but also have other stuff going on, and at least 30-40% are not dancing. That's just like bar game on steroids - it's louder, and there are more distractions, so you have to be more high energy to get attention. If …
/r/seduction15/10/15 10:36 PM
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Super weird. This can get you fired.
/r/seduction30/01/15 01:00 AM
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I just have an image of OP on a date: Girl: I don't feel like having Sushi, could we get Italian? OP: I don't need to compromise, ever. Bye.
/r/seduction21/01/15 11:53 PM
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stop reading racist websites. If I spent all of my time reading anti-semitic propaganda I might be depressed too.
/r/seduction20/01/15 11:54 PM
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Juat give it a try. Night game means be louder and flirtier.
/r/seduction31/12/14 01:51 AM
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In my experience people's memory in high school lasts like 10 seconds. Unless you are notorious for a specific thing ("that's the guy who pissed himself in Gym") if you start acting a different way it's all good. In any case the stuff you should be doing now is the stuff that will set yourself up for college. Start working out, get good at talking to people, beign scoial.
/r/seduction30/12/14 08:58 PM
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Rather than make jokes about them being too dirty, make jokes about how you are sexually unatainable. If a girl says "no nudes" respond with "of course not, you gotta pay for that shit" or "not until you buy me dinner at least"
/r/seduction29/12/14 11:33 PM
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But you are trying to, right?
/r/seduction29/12/14 04:53 PM
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This is a big mistake - even if said playfully, a rule of improv that applies in flirting is "never say no" - far better to treat the concept of you doing the thing for them as a joke and exaggerating it.
/r/seduction24/12/14 10:51 PM
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I have a boyfriend isn't a shit test. Either she has a boyfriend or she's definitely not interested
/r/seduction24/12/14 10:49 PM
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The only way to find out is to approach.
/r/seduction23/12/14 10:16 PM
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Always go back to her place.
/r/seduction23/12/14 10:15 PM
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Back when I was into routines I thought Magic Bullets and the Routines Manual by Love Systems were quite solid. Don't used canned openers for daygame, in my opinion. Direct or situational are the only options that don't come off as weird. I think the 4 Elements of Game was the best pick up book for practical advice, and it is quite compatible with Models.
/r/seduction23/12/14 10:13 PM
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In answer to the main question - it's normal for me to get at least a number most nights I go out if I am consistently approaching. In answer to the sidenote - yes. If you are 6'1, good looking, muscular, well dressed, really all you should be doing is approaching, being nice, and casually escalating. That's really all it takes. In general, I think "game techniques" are for when things are going wrong. Start from not gaming at all and use the minimum amount of technique necessary to close.
/r/seduction10/01/13 11:49 PM
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The key to a good cold read is 1) it sounds specific 2) in fact it applies to almost anyone 3) it is positive (more likely to be accepted). one useful technique is called a barnum statement, because it has "something for everybody." The key is to hedge your statement by saying "you're kind of like this, but also kind of like that" Some good barnum statements are "You come off like a very social person, but I bet you have a private, more thoughtful side that you only let a few people really see" …
/r/seduction08/01/13 12:12 AM
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Mark, What should I do when I get into a conversation with a girl, and she's just kind of lukewarm?
/r/seduction29/06/11 02:29 AM
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