the_mrp_me Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Can I become Alpha without becoming someone I don’t like? Here's the thing about hobbies. Own them with confidence, make it social and be the center of that social circle (I.e. A leader) and it all of a sudden doesn't seem like a beta activity. Confident men who know what they like, lead and motivate others are attractive. Period.	/r/askMRP	26/10/16 05:59 PM
1	For those who married their first sexual partner and later divorced, what was your second experience like? You'd be surprised at what Brad Pitt SMV (or Chris Hemsworth, in my wife's case) does for a woman. Don't underestimate that until you've gotten there or at least gotten somewhat close.	/r/askMRP	21/10/16 09:12 PM
1	Things are nuking but I don't want them to While disrespectful in phrasing her request was completely legitimate. Screaming baby, she's in the middle of something else. Take care of your shit, you are so butthurt by your situation it's preventing you from taking care of things. You missed something, own it and get your shit together next time.	/r/askMRP	20/10/16 06:42 PM
1	Wife doesn't masturbate; High Water Mark You sound a lot like what brought me here. No ultra harpy wife etc but a wife not really into the sex thing and nearly self proclaimed asexuality. You don't mention your physical shape. Are you her Chad with regards to body shape? This was massive for me to get the rock moving. It literally was that I just wasn't attractive enough. This isn't all physical but if you aren't her physical Chad yet you need to get there. I was in great shape for health but not the most attractive shape for women. No…	/r/askMRP	05/10/16 05:48 PM
3	Being transparent about a female admirer starting a new job at your work place: how to handle dread? Dread isn't game. Getting her to "love" you more also isn't the purpose of it as well. I don't think childishness is how I'd call call your approach, just uninformed. Read the sidebar and understand the community (and thus the reason for applying dread). Or don't.	/r/askMRP	23/09/16 11:07 PM
3	Being transparent about a female admirer starting a new job at your work place: how to handle dread? Never thought you were gay the only person calling anyone that is you. You basically got all defensive in your OP and had to explain how you wouldn't cheat on your wife, etc etc. you spent over a paragraph on it. Why did you do that? My point is that you don't have the right mindset. You don't want to read the sidebar. You want to have oneitis. You have a good sex life. Why do you want to dread your wife? What's the point?	/r/askMRP	23/09/16 08:28 PM
2	Being transparent about a female admirer starting a new job at your work place: how to handle dread? All I got from this is that Cindy is hot and therefore you are excited by the prospect of being closer to her and would like to bang her. You won't admit this via paragraphs of mental gymnastics but want to know if you should mention her to your wife? The short answer is no. You can't even admit to having male desires to Internet strangers, no you are not ready to dread anything. Period.	/r/askMRP	23/09/16 07:59 PM
2	When to stop spinning plates and go monogamous with an LTR candidate? Here's the deal, you are missing the point. To be successful in a cohabitation scenario is being able to make decisions and maturity to lead your life on your own. They are hinting at this when they say "when you don't need to ask Internet strangers if I should." If you can lead (yourself at a minimum) you are ready to make the decision. But here's the deal, In my opinion LTR isn't really a big step from a plate at all. I mean don't get her pregnant and if you cohabitate there's that but you can…	/r/askMRP	21/09/16 06:32 PM
6	LTR got mad at me for interrupting her You consider her lack (of normal) sexuality a value... But yet you want her to be sexual (in a normal way) to you (and only ever possibly you). Enough said; you are chasing a unicorn.	/r/askMRP	20/09/16 04:38 PM
1	Changing - Intimacy-Passion-Sex in Sexless Marriage You think talking about yoga and personal trainers is an argument against your laziness. Yet it points out so brazenly that you haven't read (or at least understood) most of this community. Why did you not mention your lifting routine, how is your progress going? Oh someone else is responsible for your progress and workout routines... The trainer, that's right. And action dates, what are those? I mean seriously you can just take the two words and figure it out yourself. All we know is you make e…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/08/16 06:43 PM
1	Do you like your wife? You leave because you aren't happy she cheated on you or you aren't happy because she's boring as fuck and can't stand to be around her. Either way, you are leaving because the situation does not satisfy you. Plain and simple people leave others because they aren't happy with them, whatever the trigger may be. Take a stand what do you want to do? In perspective, I like my wife but she isn't my everything. Sometimes boring sometimes not. But there's enough to like about her for me and she has tak…	/r/askMRP	17/08/16 04:22 PM
3	What If Your Wife Wants To Lift With You?!? I always have to stifle a laugh when I hear a friend's wife/gf say "I don't like muscular guys" or "don't get too big". "I don't like muscular guys" = I don't think I can get a muscular guy so I am going to settle for a dad bod. "Don't get too big" = I don't think you can do it.	/r/askMRP	15/08/16 08:23 PM
3	What If Your Wife Wants To Lift With You?!? you have other things that can be "your thing". If she's signing up to get a front row seat at your noob gains show, no reason to say no to that. My wife lifts and it's been nothing but positive. I just have other activities that are solely mine. Having a fit as hell wife that gets off watching me lift hundreds of pounds is worth finding other activities I do without her.	/r/askMRP	15/08/16 08:19 PM
2	How do you improve your Social life? I thought about replying to give some suggestions but given I'm not in my 20's I doubt you'd even want to talk with me. I might even know what your problem is but since I'm 45+, I obviously nothing worth hearing.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/08/16 07:43 PM
1	In need of some advice. Wife away on business trip. Sounds similar to me a few years back. Honestly what got me past was the dread steps. They not only convinced her that I could get someone else with ease but they also convinced me too.	/r/askMRP	08/08/16 04:21 PM
2	Handling reasonable requests while perceived as low-value You don't babysit. You do things with your kids. Your approach seems wrong. "What can I do to help?" No you aren't helping out. Your are having fun raising your children. Mindset. Your older ones may be more difficult but that 2 year old should be easy. So much fun can be had with them. This is a perfect opportunity to show how awesome you are. Don't let it slip away. Never approach children as "taking care of them" way to passive. You do things with them, show them new experiences. Take them pl…	/r/askMRP	05/08/16 05:09 PM
2	Own your shit! First post from a fed up beta... Asking about logistics is not asking for permission. "Hey hon, you planning on using xyz?" Is different than "Hey hon can I eat xyz?" It's not about being considerate, it's being practical.	/r/askMRP	04/08/16 02:39 PM
1	Update on my journey If you can make it playful and she'll respond well to it, then that is always more fun. Otherwise ignore. Also posting pics doing things on FB is for lonely people and women approaching the wall. Seriously it's like gossip TV for women. Stop. The only time shit should appear about you on FB is when someone else posts it.	/r/askMRP	02/08/16 06:26 PM