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I’ve relapsed into harder depression and despair lately. More anxiety too, especially the last weeks. I’m feeling like I’m loosing myself and not necessarily present all the time. Lost interest in most things, as well as more and more isolated and lonely. I just never can get myself sampled and stitched back together and reclaim some life. I’m just stuck in this mud, again and again.
/r/MenSupportMen30/10/23 04:45 PM
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Everything feels so awful right now. I can’t stop my brain from spinning around with all possible thoughts day or night. It’s either periods of radio silence or noise. It feels like my brain is covered with mud. I can’t get to do anything, not even going out for a short walk. Reading one single article takes the entire day, if I even can finish a sentence. There’s no focus or concentration left, just loads of negative thoughts and traumas haunting me all day long. I just want to have a break fro…
/r/MenSupportMen24/01/23 01:52 PM
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I have a few essential struggles that I just can’t come around and am very anxious, stressed and obsessed about. My brain gets a bit overwhelmed, it comes and goes in flows. I don’t know, I just get these periods where I’m falling towards depression and a lot of hopelessness. It makes it much harder to do anything about my problems again and such it makes everything worse, an everlasting spiral.
/r/MenSupportMen14/01/23 10:26 AM
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I’m having a rather depressive period again. Going from numb and apathetic to utterly hopeless in short time and back. Feeling nothing but despair mostly. Problems doing anything productive during the day and laying awake at night and morning overthinking about my problems. I’m just so tired of my life now. I can’t really remember the last time I felt anything closely to happy.
/r/MenSupportMen13/01/23 09:49 PM
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My birthday is coming up this weekend and I’m getting depressed about it each year, been for many years now. I’m not comfortable becoming older and not having accomplished anything the past year. Just another year gone stuck in the same place with no progress. Each year I’m honestly thinking about ending this quite so miserable life I’m living on my birthday.
/r/MenSupportMen11/11/22 07:53 PM
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It’s a more complex thing of several issues I’ve got through my entire life, but it might still also be pretty simple. I’m struggling with flashbacks from bullying and violence and have a lot of anxiety from it, which makes me not able to pursue anything in life. I don’t have courage to do anything that’s necessary for me to get forward and live. Because of that I’m completely stuck and I’m left behind, the world moves on without me and I’m just wasting my life away. I’m extremely lonely, tired,…
/r/MenSupportMen29/10/22 11:09 AM
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Stress, anxiety, depression and self doubt is eating me alive.
/r/MenSupportMen28/10/22 09:43 PM
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You have to find something fulfilling to do. It can be anything, just as long it’s not draining you, creating more troubled thoughts or being harmful in any way. Any hobby or interest can do, both things you can do alone or something where you meet other people. Reading, painting, learning another language, playing a musical instrument are just a few suggestions. You should also find time for regularly exercise, doesn’t have to be anything drastic, just to get you going. Running has been very go…
/r/MenSupportMen04/01/22 10:56 AM
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It’s just that my life sucks and I’m totally stuck and feel like a loser. I don’t know if I can solve anything about it and I’m way too afraid to do anything about it. I’m just so afraid of being stuck like this forever and losing out on life, I’ve already lost so many years. I just can’t get my shit together, even I know it’s not all my fault.
/r/MenSupportMen03/01/22 09:39 PM
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I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m struggling with some of the same issues. You’ve heard this before, but you should work on yourself before you start hunting for others. Another person can’t make your happiness or life alone, you have to create one for yourself first. Cut stress factors as long as it’s possible, find space for your brain to breath. I doubt you’re too old to find anyone, not in many many decades. People find love at 90+ as well. If you need someone to talk to just send me a message…
/r/MenSupportMen03/01/22 09:36 PM
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My country hasn’t seen the most of restrictions and my life has been mostly the same, pandemic or not.
/r/MenSupportMen03/01/22 08:08 PM
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Another year gone, still on the same spot and just as lonely on New Year’s Eve as always.
/r/MenSupportMen31/12/21 05:33 PM
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The disappointments are that I’ve not managed to get employed after graduating university with a master of laws plus heavy specialisations and speaking many languages fluently. I’ve sent a lot of applications over years and I’m barely getting any answer, it has teared down my motivation and fed my depression and anxiety, making me even more hopeless at it. I’m stuck in my parents house, I don’t have any social life and I just rotten away because I can’t get out there and do anything. My friends …
/r/MenSupportMen19/11/21 12:52 PM
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I’m 30 tomorrow and it feels like my world is falling apart. I’m nowhere near where I hoped I would be at this age and the last 5 years went really fast.
/r/MenSupportMen12/11/21 07:18 PM
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Thanks! I’ve read the first of them before actually
/r/MenSupportMen23/10/21 11:37 AM
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I’ve tried to talk to my doctor about it for years, but he won’t do anything to help me. I tried some therapy years ago, but it didn’t work out much for me and it was very expensive as I had to go private.
/r/MenSupportMen23/10/21 08:46 AM
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Not great. I’ve realised I’m 30 in a few weeks. I’m still jobless, living at home with my parents, having no social life, no possibilities, extremely lonely and still reliant on my parents like a child. I’m just so very depressed, tired, drained and full of despair. I don’t know how much longer I can do this.
/r/MenSupportMen22/10/21 08:58 PM
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