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Oh I know. But it needed to be said.
/r/seduction01/06/18 03:35 AM
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If you want to think of it in those terms than that's fine. I personally believe that the best "inner game" a man can have is where he doesn't think of it as game. His mind is clear of all these useless terms and techniques and he is able to just be genuine.
/r/seduction27/05/18 04:50 AM
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Look up "you don't exist alan watts"
/r/seduction27/05/18 03:23 AM
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I studied Buddhism, Hinduism, and Taoism. It you're interested just look into alan watts and listen to his lectures.
/r/seduction27/05/18 03:06 AM
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Learning how to navigate social situations and have positive outcomes is something that can be easily learned through real world experience. No need to watch videos about the topic or read articles about it ( or to call it "game"). Looking at social situations as a way of improving oneself will only lead to causing unnecessary anxiety within oneself and others. Just talk to people and don't think about it so much' And furthermore if I should be ignored than why aren't you ignoring me?
/r/seduction26/05/18 10:00 PM
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And they would have more success in getting laid if they realized that getting laid isn't that big of a deal and certainty won't make you any happier than you already are.
/r/seduction26/05/18 09:24 PM
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And you'll probably have more success in game because you're coming from a more genuine place most guys.
/r/seduction26/05/18 09:20 PM
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If you're doing it for the fun of it than that's wonderful. However I feel like the vast majority are simply doing it in order to feel better about themselves.
/r/seduction26/05/18 09:14 PM
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I don't know....it's more about the feeling you get when you look in someone's eyes than it is about the technical aspect.
/r/seduction16/02/18 10:08 PM
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Yes, I would stop trying to "game" for a while. In fact I would also invite you to stop reading advice on"game" or watching any videos on the subject. Start by just trusting yourself to do everything you need to do.
/r/seduction14/02/18 06:31 PM
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Very very true
/r/seduction14/02/18 02:12 AM
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Absolutely. Like I said you need to check out what Alan Watts or Ram Dass and hear what they have to say about meditation. If you use meditation properly. It will be the most life changing thing you've ever done
/r/seduction12/02/18 07:04 PM
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I would start with mediation. Be with your loneliness. Stop calling it shitty and stop trying to run away from it. Just watch it and be with it. I know exactly how this feels. I have been in the same situation before and I know that it is a horrible feeling. But I learned that it is just a feeling. It doesn't mean you're going to be alone forever. That is just your mind fucking with you. I would start listening to lectures by Alan Watts and Ram Dass. They have very insightful ideas into human na…
/r/seduction12/02/18 06:00 PM
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You have to introspect to get to the bottom of this. There could be so many things that are happening within you that it's impossible for a reader to guess which one is fucking you up. I would ask this. Why do you want to fix this? Why do you want to talk more freely with people and girls? Is it because you want something from them? These are just a few examples of questions you have to ask yourself so you can get to the bottom of this.
/r/seduction12/02/18 05:48 PM
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Stop trying to "game". In fact I would delete that word from your vocabulary. Stop thinking that you have to go over to a girl and try to make her like you. A girl already knows if she likes you before you open your mouth so game is basically irrelevant. Just have conversations with people and be present with them while enjoying their company
/r/seduction12/02/18 04:50 PM
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Of course this is possible! Because you still view talking to girls as "gaming". You still view going up and starting a conversation as "an approach". This kind of attitude towards girls will always keep you from become naturally attractive. When you're naturally attractive there is no such thing as "game" or "approaches" there is just you talking to people (including girls). The reason why you feel this anxiety is because you put so much pressure on yourself when talking to a girl. You think "I…
/r/seduction12/02/18 03:05 AM
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But you did care. The reason why it was weird was because you acted like you didn't
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:23 PM
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The only reason she thought it was weird is because you weren't okay with it. This is something that will take some time and a lot of introspection
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:19 PM
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It's obvious from your post that you have a deep need for sex, intimacy and love. This is fine, however you don't seem to think that you are worthy of any type of approval from yourself or women because you think you're a loser for not getting the attention and sex you want from women. You've got to realize that this hate you have toward yourself for not getting laid is the exact reason why you aren't getting laid. Learn how to be okay with your inexperience. It's not unattractive. This is huge,…
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:06 PM
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The answer is to appreciate the beauty right in front of you. Don't worry about her reactions. Just appreciate how gorgeous the girl is. You don't have to worry about being direct or indirect just appreciate what you see and go say hi. If you want to be more natural then you have to LET yourself be natural.
/r/seduction04/02/18 08:57 PM
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You're clearly a very smart guy. I can tell from your post that you've started to see past the traditional dating coach bullshit and that you're starting to think for yourself and ask the right questions. The answer to your question is basically that you already are attractive. A lot of guys hear about all this PUA stuff and start to doubt themselves and their natural attractiveness. These PUA people are not something to be emulated. Their lifestyles are not satisfying or exciting. They are real…
/r/seduction03/02/18 11:39 PM
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Why is being boyish unattractive? I am 20 years old and I see myself as a boy and Women of all ages think I am attractive. There are no specific attributes that separate boys from men. Trying to copy the attributes that you think will make you manly will only make you look and feel more childish. I am a boy and I always will be! I think that's just wonderful! I never want to be considered "a man" girls have always considered me "a cute boy" and they fucking love me and are very attracted to me. …
/r/seduction03/02/18 11:16 PM
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First of all I would say to delete the word "game" from your vocab forever. If you do this it will be infinitely easier to have more fun. Instead of just trying to go out for "game sessions" just try going out to talk to people. And I mean ALL people. Try starting small conversations with cashiers, or employees of different shops. Talk to guys, talk to old people, don't judge someone based off their sexual value to you. When you just start talking to people without any agenda other than just try…
/r/seduction03/02/18 10:51 PM
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The Alabaster Girl
/r/seduction05/11/17 05:27 PM
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If only more guys thought like this their lives would change
/r/seduction02/11/17 01:07 AM
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Give up control over the situation. A girl decides whether or not she comes home with you. All you can do is have fun when your talking to her and leave the rest up to her. If a girl likes you, you will have to do very little.
/r/seduction30/10/17 07:10 PM
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If a girl likes you she will never put you in the friend zone. Even if you are friends with a girl at first you can still get with her later on if she likes you. "Man to woman" is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard of. Focus on being human to human. A girl decides whether she likes you or not. You don't have much control over it. So just be yourself and have fun. Give up control over the situation and forget about trying to get girls to like you because at the end of the day you can't c…
/r/seduction28/10/17 09:00 PM
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Just ask! She's either going to say yes because she likes you or no because she doesn't. You really don't have much control over what her response is. Maybe she will say no now and then a month down the road you will land a date with her randomly. Maybe it never will work out. Maybe it will work out perfectly. You just don't know and strategizing will do absolutely nothing for you because like I said it's out of your control. Just ask her out and see what happens!
/r/seduction28/10/17 02:26 PM
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Hahahaha. This is what happens when guys read to much content and try to implant it in their lives without having any real world social skills. That's the danger of the pickup community. Naive guys blindly follow advice and take things like "negging" out of context. Very sad and very scary.
/r/seduction28/10/17 02:20 PM
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Experience is the greatest teacher. Naturals aren't naturals because of how many books they read. Men who are good with women are the most experienced in the real world
/r/seduction28/10/17 02:15 PM
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I can tell from your question that you are trying really hard. That is why girls are unreceptive towards you're approaches. You want something from them and they can sense that. If you would just try to enjoy your life and stop trying to "approach girls" like the PUA community tells you your life would change and girls would come to you naturally because you don't need them.
/r/seduction27/10/17 09:16 PM
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Wonderful, keep doing that. Don't stress to much about pickup and girls. As long as you are stressing about girls they will never come to you. Just try to enjoy your life.
/r/seduction27/10/17 09:04 PM
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If you want to continue active trying than keep doing it. But eventually you will come to the realization that the more you relax and don't try the better you do.
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:58 PM
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Only if you're thinking about it does it become robotic
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:56 PM
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This is wonderful. You've tapped into life and the present moment. This type of state is always waiting for you and can only be accessed when you aren't trying and not thinking about how to get there. This type of day happens when you don't try, you just are
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:05 PM
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Don't stress too much about it. The best thing any guy can possibly do is get involved in things that they enjoy. If you become fascinated with the world, the world will become fascinated with you. If you are being a kind person and giving value and love to the world in your daily life signs of attraction will be there for you everywhere you go and you will know it when a girl likes you, no need to think about it
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:00 PM
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You can see it in her eyes. Signs of attraction are always there but most guys are to up in there heads to recognize them. Get into the present moment and pay attention to the feelings in your body and try to tap into what other people are feeling. This takes practice but over time your senses will grow and so will girls attraction towards you
/r/seduction27/10/17 05:18 PM
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Very true. Sometimes it is necessary to rebel and be an asshole. Every man should be able to express himself freely without fear, however there is a fine line one must walk which is the line of just being an asshole to be an asshole or being an asshole because it is necessary. You've got some really great ideas here.
/r/seduction27/10/17 04:59 PM
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Hey Hector, interesting post. I think the most interesting part of this post is that you are implying that one has to be an asshole in order to get girls in college. I am one of the nicest and kind people I know. I adore girls and never in a million years would I purposely become an asshole in the hopes that they would give me attention. I am also one of the best ladies men I've ever met. I can walk into any room and know for a fact that I can find a girl who likes me and that the chances are hi…
/r/seduction27/10/17 03:44 PM
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