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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Pathetic lol. Guy admits to making up a savior fantasy of him getting KO’ed by his GF’s attempted rapist. In reality, he only punched the drunk guy once he started trash talking the BF & had his ass handed to him. What a strange thing to come clean about online to a bunch of strangers.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 03:04 PM
42	A lot of posts by lonely ladies lately. A reminder to keep them standards high! Reminder that your standards don't change if you seize the moment. Just make sure you stay in charge.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 03:02 PM
11	Especially important to remember during a pandemic. Don't be with someone just because you're lonely. So many people do this. The problem is that they go along with it for too long, letting the other think they're serious to avoid being left alone, until they themselves are ready to move on, which is a really low-value move whoever makes it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 02:04 PM
99	This poor woman 😭 RUN Troll. No one can be so aware of the facts, yet not see the obvious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 02:02 PM
0	Caption was “just bc p*rn is normal for boys of our age doesn’t mean its good for you”. I’ve never seen men speak up against this, Im having hope for improvement for the next generation (sorry if the flair is wrong) I don't know if it's really the porn they watch, or the things they see up close from the girls in their classroom on tiktok or something.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 01:04 PM
6	Will this ever end? I know I’m enough, that I would rather be single than with an LVM. But I feel sick w loneliness—I live alone and we’re a communal species. The lockdown is fucking me up. I re-downloaded OLD in a moment of weakness and this was the first guy I matched with. Jfc Never let lack of dating options make you think you don't deserve the very best!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 01:01 PM
86	My parents had a traditional marriage. Everything was in her name. My uncles give their salary to their wives who do the family finances. I feel like most ‘traditional men’ nowadays don’t intent to stay with their SAH wives ‘till death do us part’ considering how they react to such a proposal. Isn't this the default marriage arrangement, by the way? Prenup, being the legal document that stipulates the exceptions to this rule.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 12:57 PM
48	My parents had a traditional marriage. Everything was in her name. My uncles give their salary to their wives who do the family finances. I feel like most ‘traditional men’ nowadays don’t intent to stay with their SAH wives ‘till death do us part’ considering how they react to such a proposal. This is really good advice for any girl to talk to her man about as early as possible. Just say something like how they see family life. If they balk at you expecting to get half their pay to take care of the kids, drop him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 12:56 PM
1	I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it. Assume men are stupid, and continuously challenge them on all their claims until the really prove themselves worthy of the assumption of competence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/20 12:51 PM
11	It's men of every culture and religion. Even fidelity is questionable. My life, my body. If you really love me, you'd understand.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 07:18 AM
6	Love this! This is the perfect breakup. No drama, no endless talking, no tears, no explanation, no nothing. Perfect.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 07:16 AM
73	Imagine.... Absolutely! The first year easily, just move on at the first sign of him not living up to your standards. No fight, no argument, just a decision and move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 02:35 PM
3	How do we get more of these?!?!? This is how relationships should start.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 01:15 PM
2	LVM example I think both were happy with this quick outcome.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 01:11 PM
-9	Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace. Really? There's no way we can distinguish a truly committed man from the ones described here? I'd like to think I know people a bit better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/20 02:58 PM
24	God love Aileen 😅 Yeah, but Aileen was not allowed a chance to be independent.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 03:06 PM
4	Bonus points for the colourful language Thank you for explaining this. I never got this, but also wasn't going to google it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 01:24 PM
6	Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego. I've fallen in this trap too many times. Not caring at first because the sex is good (enough), then waking up one day realizing you want more, only to realize slowly in the weeks to follow that he's still in the place where we both started. On the other hand, I'm happy that the earlier ones didn't want to commit when I wanted either. I think there's something about good sex that makes me think I love him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 08:59 AM
1	When men think your options will dwindle without their golden penis I don't think he meant you'd have trouble finding someone to offer you dick. That's a given.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 02:48 PM
16	Actual r/wholesomememes I guess the creator is not in a book club.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 02:46 PM
7	Remember to never settle for less than you are worth, ladies. A man who values you will go out of his way to make you happy. We should applaud him for disregarding society's norms! What a world that would be if we all felt free to ignore them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 10:01 AM
-5	Remember to never settle for less than you are worth, ladies. A man who values you will go out of his way to make you happy. > Birthdays are fucking important Me and my SO love that we both don't care about dates. It took some convincing on his side before he believed I didn't care either. Previous relationships conditioned him well, I guess.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 09:59 AM
30	Mood For Life When I find myself getting in this mood, I realize that I don't _need_ to expose myself to interactions with others. My phone is optional, my internet can be used for better things. I disconnect.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 09:31 AM
11	Never go back ladies. Why give him a second chance when there’s a guy out there who’ll get it right the first time 🤔 The men that left me, never returned :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 09:27 AM
1	This 55 year old man has aged like fine wine. Notice him choosing an age appropriate partner. One with grey hair and not even botox? > fact Their comments were removed? Or where can I see those responses? Would love to read them, tbh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 09:26 AM
8	Who here can relate? Yes, I run into this a lot. I'm right, and I know I'm right, but it just doesn't arrive. So many times at work when I have to withhold the urge to tell everyone I was right. With people outside of work, I'm less hesitant. One thing I often hear is "It doesn't matter if you're right if you can't convince people!" Hello! I've been working here for 7 years!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 02:05 PM
38	Women aren't "making men feel special" anymore because we're tired of so many men not meeting our standards for even being a basic decent human being. I'd much rather make myself feel special than a man who thinks I owe him anything for existing and wants me to inflate his ego even bigger than it is Also, turns out we can do pretty much anything men have always gotten credit for. Army, mines, factories, entrepreneurial stuff, fixing things around the house, lifting heavy, etc. etc..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 11:44 AM
22	We all know why. Like fucking Madeye Moody!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 10:38 AM
2	We all know why. What are these guys doing at your!!! party? Who invited them?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 10:37 AM
12	Then again, alot of males wouldn’t tolerate their daughter being treated the way they themselves treat women I'd very suspicious of other women being ok to go 50/50 on dates, no matter their excuses of "I can take care of myself" and "Not setting expectations". These women make guys think that there are women out there that are interested in equality dating, and just makes it harder for us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 11:07 AM
2	Stay woke This is true on such a global scale.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 10:57 AM
9	Yep. A bullet was dodged, I see.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 11:39 AM
2	Unfortunately it's true for so many of us This is so true. No one can help but follow in one's parents footsteps, even if they've seen the endresult up close. They never saw their mothers flare up at the first demeaning, the first signs of aggression, and always thought maybe men raising their voice was normal. They know it's wrong and what it leads to, but are helpless nonetheless. Do you know of any good movies or series, that actually show how subtle abuse starts?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 02:15 PM
1	At least the comments were telling him how big of an asshole he is. Seems like an obvious troll to me. Too many weird details in the writing. But anyway, the situation plausible. The problem here is that the guys doesn't seem to have many bows to his string. Taking her out to dinner is his thing, apparently. And by not indulging in the feast like he does himself, he feels she's rejecting his contribution to their relationship, and thereby him personally. That's something to talk about from both ends.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 02:09 PM
2	I thought I was the best girlfriend. I think the threesome proposal is there just in the hopes you'll end it. When that doesn't work out, he can abide another few months.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 10:49 AM

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