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Yeah that can be true, but its not dangerous. Not compared to the catastrophic consquences of getting pregnant to a womans life if thats not something she wants. Especially if your in the US. Women are literally dying because they won't even abort non viable ectopic pregnancies. Insane.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/23 10:09 AM
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No neither of those things are true. Conservatives are spreading false info. Birth control is one of the safest drugs out there. Used by hundreds of millions of women for decades. The pair bonding thing is also complete bullshit. Taken from some random study on birds ffs.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 10:35 PM
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Yep i agree. The difference between dating men and women is immense. I don't think hetero relationships are ever equal. I would never date a man again. I don't have the patience to deal with any of that nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/23 01:22 PM
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I think thats a much better way, how it used to be. It is its own kind of vetting system in a way.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/23 10:19 PM
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Totally. I know for my single friends they all kind of realised that OLD had caused them all kinds of anxiety, self doubt and trauma..while really adding very little if any benefit to their lives.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/23 09:29 PM
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Same. I know 8-9 bi woman who have completely stopped dating men. Porn, the red pill and manosphere has been extremely damaging to entire generations of men. Why risk been stealthed or strangled?
/r/ExRedPill12/10/23 08:45 PM
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I think covid lockdowns were a real turning point. A lot of woman realised they were happier and more peaceful not dating. They had support from friends and family. That low quality "relationships" were adding nothing to their lives.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/23 08:40 PM
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Exactly. It is quite literally emotional abuse that they are teaching.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 09:54 PM
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Yeah its an absolute tragedy. Young men are getting swept into virulent misogyny via the algorhythims and nothing seems to be done about it. I see this huge tide of women just moving away from men entirely for our own peace and safety.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 09:38 PM
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Yep. Men are spending a huge amount of time and energy teaching other men how to be abusers. Rather than looking inward and learning how to be better partners. The shift away from women literally needing a man to survive has been a brutal adjustment for many of them.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 09:24 PM
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It shows up for women in how guys are talking to women on dating apps and irl on dates.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 09:49 AM
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Yeah i would just focus on building a good support system of friends, family, coworkers, maybe a therapist? Women really want guys who are working on themselves. We usually have a growth mindset. Try lots of different hobbies where you interact with women irl. Doing a sport is also good. Joining a running or cycling group etc. OLD the odds are so against you its almost not worth doing. Have to go old school.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 03:24 AM
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I don't date men at all. These are the trends i see though. Red pill and the manosphere have been out there for nearly 20 years poisoning the well. The "good ones" did nothing about it, so now they are reaping whats been sown. Online men are showing their true colours and spewing out the most vile hatred towards women. Every single comment section is an absolute shitshow of women bad/stupid/whores etc.. can't say i blame women from walking away. Its on men to sort it out now.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 01:45 AM
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Id just have a conversation about it. Ask her about her experiences and if shes come across any of these types.. and make it clear your not one.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 01:29 AM
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I’d say that… put it in your profile..
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 12:50 AM
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Until the silent “good ones” actually start speaking up and policing the bad ones it’s going to continue. Women on the whole are getting the ick because of them.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 12:45 AM
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I think men don’t realise that a huge percentage of single women left OLD in droves, only 1-9 is female on there. Your going to see a way higher percentage of those women being sex workers looking for business and it’s given them a very skewed perspective. Pew research recently found that 62% of single women they polled had stopped dating entirely and had no plans to resume. I think that may even be higher now. All the bi women I know stopped dating men years ago and say they will never go back.…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 12:18 AM
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Umm women alive in the past 20 years...
/r/ExRedPill01/10/23 10:44 PM
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I once saw a trans man discuss the more surprising things he discovered upon transitioning. He said that a very large part of cis male identity seems to be based on being 'better than women' also so many of you apparently don't wash your hands after using the bathroom. Gross.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/23 02:00 AM
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Tate and his brother literally set up and online course to teach these boys how to pimp out and abuse a women and take her earnings. They are all irredeemable.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 11:56 PM
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You leave. Your values no longer align. Why stay with someone who views you and your entire gender as inferior. Please have some self respect. He may even learn from it.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 12:14 PM
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Vunerable narcissism and a deep sense of entitlement makes incels. Just being a virgin or single does not.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/23 11:05 PM
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Correct they are abusers teaching abuse tactics. Nothing is based in reality. It’s cold comfort for guys who are having a hard time adjusting to the fact that women now have choices. Men need to be likeable and many just aren’t.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 10:57 AM
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Hobo sexuals are definitely a thing. But you generally need to be attractive and great in bed to pull that off. Most men aren’t, hence the reason why women initiate the vast majority of divorces.. which is typically over them not doing their share around the house and with the kids. Idk why men don’t want to that it really is that simple.
/r/BlackPillScience01/07/23 10:48 PM
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Not "understanding" is one of the favorite defense mechanisms of narcissists. Makes it way harder to argue with them. Its a form of weaponised incompetence.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 06:35 AM
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A recent study found the biggest killer of sexual desire in women was when they started to view as a dependant they need to take care off. I think there is a difference though between being open and vunerable and being dependant. Too often i think men overly rely on their partner to be their everything. Which can feel like too much. Whereas women typically have a wider support system and are much more likely to see a therapist etc.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 12:07 AM
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Got to love how men made it all but impossible for women to participate in higher education or the workforce in all but the most menial of jobs, they couldn't file a patent, publish a paper or have their own bank accounts. But we are suppose to be grateful for all the stuff they got to do while they were also doing that? Yeah fuck all the way off.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 03:50 AM
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Lol.. ok kid.
/r/BlackPillScience28/04/23 12:25 AM
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This idea that women didn't work is totally ahistoric. Unless you were comfortably middle class or above its more than likely women were doing paid work inside and outside the home. Taking in washing, ironing, nannying, midwives, all the women working in service in upper class households. Go look at old census from the UK, Ireland, Scotland etc. They are full of children and young women who weren't related to the family but lived there.
/r/BlackPillScience25/04/23 10:38 PM
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No, its that women don't find manchildren sexy. Nothing hot about someone you need to constantly 'parent'
/r/BlackPillScience19/04/23 04:44 AM
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No, be an equal partner. Pull your weight and don't expect her to mother you.
/r/BlackPillScience18/04/23 08:37 AM
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Women lose sexual desire for you once they start viewing you as a dependant. https://link.springer.com/epdf/10.1007/s10508-022-02397-2?sharing_token=XYOcVKfTG9XnRa399O868Pe4RwlQNchNByi7wbcMAY5uEDmVlBoDmsATYQP3ol0WI-Iy7JTeZAMQs7__NrwIn6ny7sUuNsoRWDykXQoo6yj5j3jHH3lNuuxj4CA8zi6Tjljy-0xbEis7YxmHShRje1iQD-0pO2_M8r_Bs7aAIVg=
/r/BlackPillScience17/04/23 11:11 PM
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Yes but not in mens favor. Pew Research recently found 62% of single women have stopped dating and had no plans to resume.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 11:24 AM
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I was referring to the comment, not the study.
/r/BlackPillScience09/04/23 11:50 PM
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Got to love how this assumes a women couldn't possibly support herself at any stage in life without help.
/r/BlackPillScience09/04/23 11:27 PM
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So reintroduce domestic slavery for women then?
/r/MensRights09/04/23 11:22 PM
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And you seriously think women if given equal opportunities could not do the same? STEM is notoriously hostile towards women. In fact any industry that is male dominated usually is. As i've already told you, girls outscore boys in literally every subject and have done almost the second we were given the opportuntity at higher education. Its amusing and also astounding to see how badly that doesn't compute with men. I love how men are so blatently failing and mens solution is never to look at that…
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 10:27 PM
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You should watch a few clips of dads being asked basic questions about their kids on youtube. It was a Jimmy Kimmel thing. The shit they don't know is astounding. Ages, birthdays, their friends names, their teachers name etc.. and these are the ones with their kids.. it was truly disgraceful.
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 12:23 PM
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"Having their children cared for an educated".. 1 in 4 men in the 2016 Australian census of 23 million admitted to doing zero childcare or household chores.. ZERO. Also how exactly are men educating children? By and large women are the sahp and most teachers and daycare workers are female.. so its a very odd claim.
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 11:54 AM
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Should those afghan girls be ever so grateful to now be vanquished to breeding stock for more fighters, to an awesome life of being married off for sexual and domestic slavery? For the distinct possibilty of dying in childbirth as they wont allow drs to intervene or treat women. Sounds fun hey
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 11:44 AM
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That wasn't your claim and it wasn't the question at hand. As ive said, men made it all but impossible for women to work outside of the home or in any but the most menial jobs.. You aren't able to connect those dots? How about some current examples. Take the Taliban forcing women out of education, they are gassing girls schools.. are you going to be scratching your heads at why there arent more female doctors or leaders in afghanistan in the next 20 years?
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 11:42 AM
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This has the same energy as those slave owners who were shocked as shit when their slaves didn't choose to stay.
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 11:38 AM
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Dude.. some women do enjoy having sex with men. The problem is men on the whole aren't very good at getting women off. She has about 5% chance of an orgasm during a hookup and about 60% at best in a commited relationship. It is called the orgasm gap and there is decades of research on it. A more recent study by Pew Research found 62% of all single women they surveyed had stopped dating men entirely and no plans to resume. On average only 1 in 9 are women on dating apps. A substantial chunk of th…
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 11:31 AM
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Quick question, what year did women finally get the vote? It wasnt really all that long ago. I have an aunty who is 100yrs old.. and it happened in her life time.
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 10:44 AM
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Yes please do provide sources for men sharing power happily throughout the ages with women equally.
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 10:42 AM
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There is a big difference between actually liking women and liking having sex with female genitalia and liking all the utility that comes from having a women. They like having their meals cooked, the house cleaned, sex on demand, having their children birthed and raised. You touched on that yourself..
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 10:04 AM
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Oh thats it? Thats all your going to respond to? How many women have you protected from animals, men, war or natural disasters? How much of your life represented by a percentage have you spent producing energy sources from the earth. This shits hilarious.
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 10:00 AM
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You truly know the nature of someone when they are given power over you and complete freedom. Could not agree more. Wny don't we take a quick look at how men behave towards women during wars. Comfort women ring a bell? And dont think its a thing of the past. Mass rapes in rwanda, serbia, croatia.. its literally going right now in ukraine. Just read a post about how all the russian female medics are being trafficked to officers.. not to mention all the mass rapes and executions being uncovered in…
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 09:30 AM
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You know many women had to legally fight to be able to join the military right? Next question. What is a really big problem for women in the military? If you guessed extremely wide spread sexual assault by men, you win a prize!!
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 09:24 AM
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Throughout history men had power and werent selfish to share it.. yeah.. gonna need hella sources on that one. Lol
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 09:22 AM
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Geniune question, do you believe men who cheat on their wives should also be held accountable by law? What about those that leave their terminally ill spouse? Men are 7x more likely to leave than the other way around.
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 09:20 AM
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Once they asked men just gave it to them.. lol.. astoundingly ahistoric. Bravo. The suffragettes literally had to resort to bombing shit.
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 09:17 AM
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Hetero men don't even like women..there is a viral challenge where girls are asking their partners why do you like me, and its fixing to end a lot of relationships. 90% of them just list all the things the girl does for them with the remaining 10% being wise enough to give a non commital answer of "i love you for you."
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 09:15 AM
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Next question, who exactly are men protecting us from? Men right, am i right? Who starts wars? Also men. God i could write a thesis on how much shit you have wrong. Lol
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 09:10 AM
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What part of women being able to support themselves means now men aren't able to trap a women any more by virtue of just having a job says greed to you? Make it make sense..
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 09:07 AM
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Mothers tend to dote on boys and do far more for them in general. As a consquence, men expect that their partner take on that role. Where as they teach girls life skill and independance. It would be an interesting study and one i don't think has ever been done.
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 06:54 AM
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Its so funny how the little tater tots try to claim women should be grateful to men who "created everything" as though men didn't make it totally impossible for women to have access to higher education and gatekept women out of almost all industries. Lol. Less than 100 yrs ago, women couldn't file a patent, get a book or a paper published in their own name. Women weren't even able to get a bank account or a mortgage on their own until the 1970s. Are you genuinely this ignorant of history? Do you…
/r/BlackPillScience02/04/23 04:42 AM
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Well that isn't news. The consequences are far less for them. Attractiveness and facial symmerty are indicators of having good genes. Thats why we as a species have evolved to prefer it. Source
/r/BlackPillScience30/03/23 10:44 PM
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I wonder if men also prefer to be attracted to their partners? And if their mothers would pick the most subserviant girl rather than the more attractive one?
/r/BlackPillScience30/03/23 12:40 PM
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Just to clarify, her crime was calling him "sweet and nice" how is that a bad thing?
/r/ExRedPill29/03/23 01:50 PM
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No wonder single women are doing the irish exit away from men.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 06:06 AM
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Recent study found women lose sexual desire when they see you as dependant and child like. I think there is a difference between that and "showing emotions" https://www.vice.com/en/article/88q3qk/man-child-scientific-term-new-research
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 05:22 AM
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Countless studies have since shown that exposure to pornography desensitises men to violence against women, often shaping their sexuality in such a way that they become unable to experience arousal without some element of dominance or violence. The evidence has been so damning that, at times, universities have refused to allow further research on the topic. When a study shows detrimental effects that cannot be reversed, ethics boards will often refuse similar studies to go on. This has happened …
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 11:41 PM
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I feel like porn is largely to blame for this. Most men are consuming vast amounts per week. Most of the girls they are watching are younger, endless streams of them. A study has also found that sexist men do see women as literal objects on their MRIs. With the area for 'tool use' lighting up. So thats also a factor id say.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 05:47 AM
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I've only watched a short clip of that idiot and it became very clear that she has zero life or relationship experience. Just a whole lot of internalized misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 06:01 AM
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100%. Abuse and control only ever escalates. Once you see any sign of it, nope on out asap. Focus on healthy relationship green flags and only take a step forward when they are displaying those behaviours. Take step back when they aren't. The only ones who care about you having your own boundaries are the ones who want to violate them.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/23 10:08 PM
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Congratulations on avoiding what was undoubtedly going to be an abusive relationship. My theory on the red pill is that it was created by abusive misogynistic men who were kicked to the curb and its all just a combination of 'cope' as in, they couldn't possibly be the problem in their minds and teaching the same abusive tactics to other men. Some of those things do work on vulnerable and inexperienced women who don't know better.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/23 08:18 AM
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Did you not see the article attached. Men are 7x more likely to leave their wives when they get sick. The article mentioned cancer but it holds true for any serious illness. Right now I know 2 elderly ladies who have been abandoned by their life long husbands as soon as they started showing signs of dementia. The nursing home staff mentioned that being extremely common. The 2016 Australia census of 23 million found 1 in 4 men do zero housework or childcare and multiple studies over decades have …
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 11:53 PM
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You are right about some of that. However, you should take anything from the manosphere with a massive grain of salt. The tinder 80/20 study that gets bandied about was only 37 self selected men. Ridiculously small sample size and self selected means its useless. The OK cupid much larger study and not self selected found women were messaging and going on dates with the majority of men not just the top 20%, whereas it found men were mostly going after the top 10% of women. So an awful lot of that…
/r/BlackPillScience11/02/23 02:21 AM
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No one is asking you to solve human nature ffs. Legal reforms and much of what the manosphere complains about its entirely possible to solve. I think its a very steep learning curve for a lot of men now that women in the 1st world at least, have financial independence and are no longer forced into survival marriages. I suspect we are about to see the birth rate drop to incredible levels. It's probably going to take a generation or two for men to adjust and do better. Most the porn addled and ent…
/r/BlackPillScience10/02/23 09:34 PM
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https://bigthink.com/technology-innovation/ovulating-lap-dancers-make-more-money/#:~:text=The%20results%20are%20actually%20quite,lap%20dancers%20taking%20the%20pill.
/r/BlackPillScience06/01/23 12:29 AM
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I don't know actually. These experiments revealed that during ovulation in the menstrual cycle, women preferred the odors of men who were more symmetrical. The investigators say that past research has shown that facial and body symmetry are linked with better health, large bodies and sexual characteristics. They add that facial and body symmetry could be a sign of genetic quality. Source
/r/BlackPillScience06/01/23 12:27 AM
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Great thanks
/r/BlackPillScience29/12/22 11:11 PM
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Its estimated that 1 in 25 are sociopaths. So its extremely common. Many do extremely well in business it doesn't necessarily mean you will become a criminal. Women also prefer men with softer features and more beta characteristics the majority of the time when they are not ovulating and prefer them for relationships.
/r/BlackPillScience29/12/22 11:11 PM
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Oh really can you share the study? Have you seen the UK stripper one which found they all did much better $ when they were ovulating? So works both ways. We are just mammals after all. Id say the anti social traits are because sociopaths often do extremely well in life. Easy to get ahead when you don't care about fucking people over. So those traits have been passed down, they were excellent for survival. Its hard wired.
/r/BlackPillScience29/12/22 03:10 AM
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Giving up all your hopes, dreams, ambitions and freedom seems like a fair exchange doesn't it? s/ Hopefully your husband is a benevolent dictator and doesn't sexually or physically abuse you ( because it wasn't even considered a crime ) or use $ to control you and separate you from your family and friends. I work in DV and rape crisis. I've had several clients this year unable to buy menstrual products because their husbands deemed them unnecessary. But that's cool right?
/r/BlackPillScience21/12/22 05:03 AM
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If women were told from birth to be nice to boys...hows that a traversty? By being nice, I mean date. Can you show me some examples of other men encouraging men to date women they don't find attractive because of their personality?
/r/BlackPillScience19/12/22 11:12 PM
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Or they are horny during ovulation and not actually thinking about making babies at all with her concious brain. Ofc we are mammals and are programed to mate with the healthiest specimens. I don't know why this is shocking?
/r/BlackPillScience19/12/22 11:08 PM
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I am not saying women are being forced to, its just something society and men heavily pressure girls into, give him a chance, he's a great guy etc. There is literally a whole subreddit r/niceguys because that kind of thinking is so prevalent. Its only now we are calling it out. Men i don't think are ever expected by other men to date women they don't find attractive.
/r/BlackPillScience19/12/22 06:52 AM
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Can you share some examples of women and the courts seeing men as womens property?
/r/BlackPillScience19/12/22 06:48 AM
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Women were seen as a man's property. They literally couldn't be convicted or even charged with rape if they were married. It had nothing to do with the penalty. Which is reasonable tbh. My only issue with life in prison or the death penalty is that it makes the rapist more likely to murder the victim.
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 11:14 PM
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Only 1 in 9 are women on dating apps. Large chunk of those are sex workers looking for marks to join their OFs. But that's totally irrelevant. Women are told from childhood to be nice to boys, to give the good guy a chance. To look at his potential, his personality. Ive never heard men encouraging each other to do the same. Sure she's ugly but what a great personality. Men are all over reddit and particularly this sub crying over the science showing women also want to be attracted to their partn…
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 11:09 PM
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Haven't you heard of incels darling? Plenty of men are reeeeeeeing at women's rejection of them. 62% of single women have stopped dating all together with no plans to resume because men got so gross and porn addled. That's evidence that the majority of women could care less.
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 11:00 PM
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What is your source on that? Men have always been shit at getting women off. You are only just hearing about it now because of generational differences and the internet. Any boomer women will tell you the same. They were just expected to put up with it. They didn't expect to have an orgasm. Prior to that Victorian women were told to "lie there and think of England." Ones who enjoyed sex were considered dirty and shut shamed Divorced women were shamed by society and and had no other option but to…
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 10:55 PM
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Men aren't great at getting women off in the 1st place. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_gap
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 05:35 AM
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Women now get bored of sex with the same guy lol. As if that hasn't always been the case or that the same thing doesn't apply to men. The difference now is women can support themselves financially and that makes it possible for them to leave shitty relationships. That's a good thing. Men spending more time with kids is a good thing but its hardly thing to brag about considering how abysmally low the bar is in the 1st place. Men doing more over time isnt surprising. Women are the default parent e…
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 05:32 AM
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Previous generations of women weren't working outside the home and were financially and socially trapped into survival marriages. Marital rape and domestic violence weren't considered crimes either. That's why women weren't complaining about men doing their share of the housework. They didn't expect them too. Times have changed and men haven't accepted the new reality. We haven't raised boys to be good partners. Why should women put up with that if we don't have to?
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 05:21 AM
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Where is your source on women having so much sex outside of relationships? A recent Pew Research study found 62% of single women have stopped dating entirely and have no plans to resume. A lot of women found out during covid they were much happier alone. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/nearly-half-of-u-s-adults-say-dating-has-gotten-harder-for-most-people-in-the-last-10-years/
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 04:58 AM
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Another factor is women are routinely shamed and told to go for nice guys who they don't actually find attractive in the 1st place. So once the honeymoon phase ends sex will drop off.
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 04:55 AM
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Its because women are STILL doing 80% of all the household chores and childcare even when both parties work full time. 1 in 4 men admitted to doing zero of either in a recent Australian census of over 30 million people. Women don't have a Madonna Whore complex at all. Women dgaf how many partners a man has had unless she is wildly religious. Yes there is a difference between who a women would choose to have sex with if she was interested in casual sex - ( most women aren't btw as the chance of a…
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 04:54 AM
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Dependent' man-children are killing women's sex drives, according to science Women are being turned off en masse by men not pulling their weight around the house, with many couples falling into sexless marriages thanks to men's laziness, researchers found. Source
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 03:36 AM
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Most men would be unfaithful if they were attractive and had that option.
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 03:31 AM
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Thats because its designed to con vulnerable young men out of money and to keep them coming back.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 10:15 PM
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Misogyny is as old as time. When did men ever treat us as equals throughout history? Its baked into ever major religion its so utterly fundamental to men's way of thinking. Misogyny is the root cause of violence against women, rape, murder, stalking, sexual harassment, mass shootings etc. Misandry by and large is just women talking amoung themselves about those things. Not a single female mass shooter in the past year, 614 case I believe. Even phrases such as kill all men aren't all that common …
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/22 07:35 AM
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The Y chromosome is the most gene-deficient chromosome in the human genome. Source
/r/BlackPillScience04/12/22 08:43 AM
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How do you mean the x chromosome is less evolved? The Y chromosome is one-third the size of the X chromosome and contains about 55 genes while the X chromosome has about 900 genes. Edit - The degenerative nature of the Y chromosome has led some researchers to suggest it may lose all functional genes and become extinct in as little as 5 million years
/r/BlackPillScience04/12/22 08:00 AM
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Guys like that aren't meant to breed. It's really as simple as that, just evolution at work.
/r/BlackPillScience04/12/22 07:50 AM
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Yours is pretty great too. Thanks for fighting the good fight. Lots of great info i am saving for future reference.
/r/BlackPillScience04/12/22 07:47 AM
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Its also way harder for us to orgasm. The chances of us getting off with a complete stranger are quite low. There is also the pregnancy, std, violence thing we need to worry about. Sex is way better with a guy who knows us and actually cares whether we get off or not.
/r/BlackPillScience03/12/22 11:52 PM
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Nothing on this sub ever is.
/r/BlackPillScience03/12/22 10:22 AM
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I dislike the term high value man, I think we should be focusing on healthy vs unhealthy relationships. We have done a great job educating girls and encouraging them to pursue careers etc and we didn't give any thought to what that would mean for boys/men and failed to raise them to be good and truly equal partners. Way too many men think they are owed a 1950s housewife just because they have a job.
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/22 11:35 PM
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There is decades of research on happiness. For women It decreases after marriage and again after having children. A 2nd child has quite a marked detrimental effect on her mental health. For men it increases after marriage and decreases after children.
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/22 11:30 PM
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That may not be a bad thing when it seems to be bad for women by every metric. Decreases our overall happiness. Bad for our careers and finances, it has a negative effect on our physical and mental health. It literally shortens our lives too. Women are still doing 80% of all of the household chores and childcare even when both parties work full time. I can't say I blame them for not wanting to take on an unpaid second shift.
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/22 09:38 PM
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Higher standards and are no longer forced to endure survival or abusive marriages you mean. I don't see how that's a bad thing?
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/22 09:22 PM
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13% of women were just being nice or more likely, they are dreaming about guys who aren't conventionally attractive. Such as Adrian Brody etc. Personality does matter more to us. Which is why swipe apps don't work well for men.
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/22 08:18 PM
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Most women left OLD years ago due to verbal abuse and just being overwhelmed by 500 Hey messages. Men swipe on anyone so 'matches' aren't really a thing. Only 1 in 9 are women, of those id say half are sex workers looking to move you onto another platform. Swipe apps greatly changed the game when they made it all about looks. In the 90s, early 00s there was much more emphasis on profiles and common interests. So much so, it allowed a lot of autistic and neurodivergent people to get together and …
/r/BlackPillScience24/11/22 03:13 AM
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I assume you are referring to a swipe app study, which isn't indicative of real life. Go outside and people watch. I would not describe most guys in couples as being top 20%.
/r/BlackPillScience23/11/22 09:07 PM
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Swipe apps definitely changed dating. While the 80/20 rule may be true on those style of apps i don't believe the same is true of women irl. Lots of guys profiles are truly terrible. Serial killer dead eyes, no info and usually holding a dead fish. Lots of guys aren't great at text / flirting either. Unless your smoking hot, women do need to get to know you in order to like you and become attracted to you. Swipe apps basically make that almost impossible. The odds are stacked against you to begi…
/r/ExRedPill04/11/22 06:29 AM
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I don't need to. There is 1 women per 9 men on most dating apps. Most of those women are going to be bots, sex workers trying to get guys to sign up to their only fans and sheer desperados. Most real women have left OLD in droves because men verbally abuse them or its just overwhelming to get 500+ low effort 'Hey' messages. Men don't bother to read profiles and the majority swipe on literally every women.. so matches are worthless. Your just straight up lazy if your only doing dating apps. The o…
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 02:49 AM
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No I don't think it means that. One of the prevailing theories about rape fantasies is that women can experience or enjoy pleasure with out feeling guilty. Let's not forget the majority of the world slut shames women for their sexuality. A religious upbringing can really mess you up as well.
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 02:44 AM
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If the studies are American then its not ok to claim all women are vastly overweight when that's clearly not the case. Besides, why aren't the ugly men chasing them? Is it because they don't find them attractive? Shocked pikachu face! You mean to tell me people like being attracted to their partners? No.. say it isn't so..
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 02:42 AM
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Why are you guys shocked and offended that women aren't having fantasies about unattractive men? The level of entitlement is really glaring.
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 02:38 AM
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There are literally multiple studies that prove men do in fact lose weight faster and easier than women.
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 02:36 AM
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I have to assume your American to think that. Its not the case in most other places.
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 02:33 AM
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Your only focusing on one thing. Most women pay great attention to their appearance. Its part of our daily routines, skin care, hair care, diet, fashion, nails. Have regular beauty treatments such as facials, laser hair removal etc. Most women i know have had some form of cosmetic procedure from cosmetic tattooing of their eyebrows to full on implants. Men just roll out of bed for the most part.
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 02:29 AM
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That isn't what I said though is it. Men lose weight more easily than women, which would explain why men tend to be somewhat less overweight than women. I also think women as they get into child rearing have far less time for self care etc.
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 01:31 AM
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So your saying men don't have more lean muscle than women? When did I ask men to eat 800 calories a day?
/r/BlackPillScience02/11/22 01:28 AM
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That has more to do with the fact men have more lean muscle and lose weight faster and easier than women do. https://www.livescience.com/63324-men-women-weight-loss-difference.html
/r/BlackPillScience01/11/22 11:10 PM
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The many billion dollar industries based around fashion, skin and hair care, health and make-up say otherwise.
/r/BlackPillScience01/11/22 11:07 PM
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The majority of men make zero effort on their appearance whereas the majority of women do.
/r/BlackPillScience01/11/22 10:10 PM
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Do you have fantasies about unattractive women? The real surprise is that 13% of women said yes to that.
/r/BlackPillScience01/11/22 01:11 PM
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Stop watching porn and get a therapist. It sounds like you aren't well enough mentally to be in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/22 09:57 PM
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However they want.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 10:30 PM
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Its bigly.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 12:55 AM
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Why not ask black people if they would prefer to be slaves...or? Jesus.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 08:56 AM
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I bet. Its really hard out there for both sides. Women find most guys are just looking for a hookup and often end up getting treated like shit. I know so many women who have completely sworn off dating now. My advice is getting hobbies/sport were you are meeting women in real life and actually getting to know people. Apps are terrible.. the odds of a real women interested in a relationship is abysmal.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 08:56 AM
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Women have a sense about whether a guy is going to be a good lay and he probably is, just from sheer experience. That does not mean he will ever be anything more than that to them.. and they know it usually.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 08:48 AM
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Its just a desperate cope for incels. That's why.
/r/BlackPillScience09/10/22 07:31 AM
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Really, how come women initiate the vast majority of divorces then? You would think it would be the other way around.
/r/BlackPillScience09/10/22 07:31 AM
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Men have not adjusted to the new reality that you need to raise your game if you want to be in and stay in a relationship. Some light reading for you https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men?amp Why women leave - https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/divorce-busting/200803/the-walkaway-wife-syndrome%3famp
/r/BlackPillScience09/10/22 06:37 AM
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Women initiate the vast majority of divorces though. The rate increases the more educated and financially stable they are.
/r/BlackPillScience08/10/22 11:50 AM
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There is a multitude of reasons women become single mothers. Healthy relationship standards have increased and they are no longer putting up with abuse or cheating.https://www.shethepeople.tv/top-stories/opinion/healthy-relationship-standards/amp/ 60% have experienced domestic violence for example. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-07-07/60-per-cent-single-mothers-experience-domestic-violence/101214208
/r/BlackPillScience08/10/22 08:06 AM
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Gosh, its almost like being a single mother is hard or something. They are 5x more likely to live below the poverty line too.
/r/BlackPillScience07/10/22 08:50 PM
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No its absolute nonsense that unfortunately is being taught in red states sex ed abstinence based programs. Which seems to be ground zero for a lot of this sexist trash.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 02:03 AM
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It’s difficult to hear the statistic that 90% of relationships started before the age of 30 do in fact end. Article
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 12:37 PM
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Don't forget i am a psychopath-narcissist-sociopath-deviant according to you.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 03:40 AM
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Lol.. where did you get your degree from? Deviance? Not kowtowing to some random internet male you mean.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 02:50 AM
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2.3% is the actual verifiable stat. But sure WaHMan aRe juSt aS Bad. MOrE ViolENT EVen! Cherry picking and misrepresenting data is just what the manosphere does boo. Have a good one. Definitely get some therapy. Maybe its not too late for you to have a healthy relationship one day.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 02:47 AM
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Its just par for the course when dealing with manosphere types. You ask them why they aren't fixing their own issues and you always get some bullshit excuse about feminists stopping them or that feminism is about equality therefore feminists should also be working on male issues.. the irony escapes them.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 02:42 AM
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What exactly do you do to help your fellow downtrodden men? Apart from whinging on the internet and expecting feminists to fix your problems for you?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 02:16 AM
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The various extrapolations you have made from this one study don't actually translate irl, in police reports, crime statistics, hospital or shelter admissions. So you do have to wonder about its veracity.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 02:14 AM
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Having worked in DV and rape crisis for over 20 years I can tell you that isn't even remotely the case. But go off I guess.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 02:02 AM
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Lol.. yes total lack of empathy for pointing out a history of DV is super common among single mothers. Why anyone would feel the need to comment, let alone argue with that is telling. You miss the days when men could beat and rape their wives with impunity don't you? Why else would you be upset about that?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 01:49 AM
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You seem to be having an argument with yourself boo. I suggest you seek therapy. You clearly have a lot of anger.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 01:04 AM
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Unhealthy relationships are unhealthy. Why shit on single moms for leaving? Men aren't entitled to a house slave for life.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 12:14 AM
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Source?
/r/ExRedPill24/09/22 11:46 PM
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Red flags and green flags are pretty universal. Also look up healthy and unhealthy relationships. There is a tonne of info out there. Women have been doing an amazing job of educating each other. I agree we need to start teaching these to everyone, the younger the better.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 08:05 AM
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My ex is a midwife. That and religion are the most common reasons given. Luckily circumcising boys is not that common in Australia.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 06:55 AM
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The Norwegian researcher of the peer reviewed study MALE btw. But, but.. a women wrote the article! He cried.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 07:58 AM
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So funny, there has also been a study on how men are never really taught to question their own thoughts and beliefs, so therefore they have a strong tendency to believe if they think something, that is then 'logical' and 'correct.' Here is an article pertaining to not one but two scientific studies on men mistaking conversations as flirting. Enjoy. Article
/r/MensRights30/08/22 07:52 AM
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From a Norwegian study by a male psychologist btw..replicated an older American study ( both about how men commonly mistake normal friendly behaviour or conversation as flirting ) 88 percent of women reported having experienced at least one incident in which their friendliness was misinterpreted as sexual interest by a man, and on average it had occurred about 3.5 times in the last year alone. Men also reported experiencing sexual misperception, but the rate — 70.6 percent — was far lower.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 07:48 AM
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So no sources then? Colour me not shocked.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 07:36 AM
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Still waiting on that source boo. After all I'm an angry feminist who hangs out in feminist spaces and has yet to hear this complaint. It's almost like you guys latch onto the most random fake bullshit because you have so little else. As far as cosmetic surgery, of course pretty privilege is a thing and women use it to their advantage all the time. Nothing wrong with that at all. Do we want random guys, especially ones we aren't interested in or attracted to, speaking to us? God no.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 03:18 AM
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Let's see some sources on that complaint then. Of course it's not all men, but far too many of them. Ask any ok looking women in a service job. Its a routine occupational hazard. Sorry but male attention/validation means less than nothing. I know you have been socialised to think your attention or approval means something to us. It doesn't.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 02:55 AM
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This post is trying to make out that women are just complaining about having to smile at work. They aren't. So I put it into context. Let's see some sources on that complaint. Its a non issue, apart from women having to deal with men getting the wrong idea about a normal friendly workplace interaction. Which happens all the time and yes it's far more likely to happen to women/girls who are more attractive. I've even provided a source to a study that found reasons why that is. Its also extremely …
/r/MensRights30/08/22 02:50 AM
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If you are an even remotely attractive female in a service job, its all day, every day. That is what women are talking about. That or being told to smile by random guys.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 01:31 AM
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https://www.bustle.com/articles/106964-why-do-men-always-think-women-are-flirting-with-them-heres-the-science-behind-it
/r/MensRights29/08/22 09:40 PM
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I think your missing the actual issue here. That is very often men react to her normal friendly service as, she totally wants me bro. No one is complaining about just having to be 'work' friendly.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 04:04 AM
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Its like they have a checklist of what not to do. Is the Red Pill a straight up con to ensure these guys keep coming back to it or just emotionally abusive men sharing their tactics that only work on certain more vulnerable women?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 05:06 AM
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https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-07-07/60-per-cent-single-mothers-experience-domestic-violence/101214208
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 06:31 AM
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I think a huge percentage of guys in the manosphere are bitter divorced dudes who can't work out why they were dumped. Hence this whole narrative about women choosing to be single mothers. Also not so fun fact a recent study found 60% of single mothers had experienced DV.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 04:51 AM
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Yeah not true at all. Men are 8 times more likely to leave their wives when they get cancer. I think men in general still get more benefits than women out of a marriage even if they don't like her anymore they will stick around longer till they find someone else. Meals made, laundry done, personal secretary making apts etc for them, childcare, house cleaned. Easier access to sex. Women are still doing 80% of the all the housework and childcare even when both work.. so there is that. Article
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 06:24 AM
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That's good news. But that horse left the barn a long time ago.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 02:09 AM
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Yeah the human trafficker that only get banned today. Red pill and PUAs have been teaching men to emotionally abuse and manipulate women for 20+ years. No sign of them banning that. The patriarchy in general is the issue. This has been going on since the dawn of time. Every major religion teaches men that women are inferior and just there to serve them.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 01:17 AM
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Unfortunately that kind of thinking and misogyny in general has become increasingly widespread. Boys in high school are obsessed with Andrew Tate for example. The red pill in general etc. All wildly misogynistic.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 09:28 PM
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Then why do so many men feel put out by not getting a 50s style housewife? Incels are renowned for wanting to legalise rape and repealing voting rights for women. Sure most are basement dwellers and haven't actually done anything irl.. but that does not mean they don't think that way. Where exactly do you think that thought process comes from? Its aggrieved entitlement.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 06:59 AM
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Life doesn't seem to tell women they are owed stuff, they way it does for men. When they don't get it, that feels like a greater loss. Here is a good article about male grievance culture. Article
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 03:37 AM
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Have you ever noticed how women aren't shooting up schools etc or becoming incels because life has somehow taught them to expect they are 'owed' a husband?
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 10:54 PM
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Its so funny to me that they find women wanting to be attracted to and actually like / have something in common with their partner to be so offensive and shocking. Entitled much?
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 08:49 AM
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Sex is a learned skill. Women have different standards for a hook up as opposed to a relationship, where more beta quantities are much more beneficial.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 07:55 AM
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You need to look up what radical feminism actually means.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 02:34 AM
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Replied to the wrong person
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 01:19 PM
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Women have way less chance of having an orgasm during sex than a man.. and even less chance if its some random hookup with a guy who dgaf if she does or not. Plus the whole pregnancy, stds, getting raped or murdered thing. Women have way less motivation to cheat than men.. we also don't get the same validation from it. Men will fuck anything.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 08:56 AM
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Google the orgasm gap. Its long been established by many studies over a great deal of time. You really think its as easy for a women to cum as a man??
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 08:54 AM
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Right? Also the chances of having an orgasm for a women are way less when she is not in a relationship. High risk, low reward.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:27 PM
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A study of non deviant males AKA normal males found some truly alarming results. 52% showed an arousal response to little girls aged 4-10 and 83% showed an erectile response to girls aged 10-16. Freund, K., & Costell, R. (1970). The structure of erotic preference in the nondeviant male. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 8(1), 15–20. doi:10.1016/0005-7967(70)90029-x
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 10:51 PM
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Goes to show that most people, know that men can be victims of abuse too.
/r/MensRights04/06/22 10:32 AM
1

Are they only cancelling student debts for women?
/r/MensRights04/06/22 06:44 AM
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Spoken like someone who has no argument. Please explain why its harder for men to escape abuse. I'll wait.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 08:42 PM
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The number of men and women in the world is roughly equal, though men hold a slight lead with 102 men for 100 women (in 2020). More precisely, out of 1,000 people, 504 are men (50.4%) and 496 are women (49.6%).
/r/MensRights01/06/22 10:35 AM
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Massive assumption that women are only voting on issues effecting their gender. Shockingly sexist and no basis in fact. Also the current population of the US is 329.5 million. If men actually organised or cared they could easily cover the 10 million gap in voter registration.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 04:06 AM
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No doubt the reason you can't vote once you have a conviction in the US is to reduce the number of black voters. Its pretty blatant. Speaking of which black men are far more likely to be convicted and sentenced to longer prison terms than white males.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 10:43 PM
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Yeah it's not. Most places you can't vote while your actually in prison but you can once your out. Do you really think the entire system is set up to disadvantage men for 10 million voters? Ridiculous.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 10:41 PM
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So you saying men are physically smaller and weaker. Men get pregnant and society expects them to do the majority of child rearing while moms can just walk away easily.. and become a deadbeat mom with little to no consequences .. maybe pay a pittance in child support. Men also routinely give up work when they have a baby and face sexism when looking for a new job because their employer worries they will be unreliable due to their child care responsibilities.. so much so that we had to make laws …
/r/MensRights31/05/22 09:52 PM
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That stat only holds true in the US. 10 million more women are registered to vote. That isn't a massive gap considering their population. Plenty more men could vote but don't make the effort. That is on them. Most countries have mandatory voting. Nor are you disqualified from voting for a criminal conviction. That is just systemic racism. Benevolent sexism would be why women tend to get less jail time.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 09:46 PM
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It wasn't an argument it was a question. What is stopping men from voting? What about the rest of the world where mandatory voting is the norm? In the US its barely 10 million more women voters. That is not a massive gap considering the population.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 09:41 PM
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No one is stopping men from voting? That stat would only barely hold true for the US. Lots of places have mandatory voting.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 09:38 PM
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Can you explain the frame work setup by women? Men vastly outnumber women in positions of authority / government etc. I don't get it.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 09:14 AM
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Natural selection. Which is it should be. Attractiveness and symmetry are a sign of good genes.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 08:33 AM
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True, but its still far easier for a guy to get away from an abuser in general. Once she is pregnant / has kids she's usually given up work and financial independence. Also will get left holding the kid bag for the rest of her life. Which is going to make any kind of career pretty difficult.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 05:12 AM
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Bad investment aka thought he was entitled to a bangmaid for life for doing her the 'favor' of marrying her?
/r/MensRights31/05/22 05:10 AM
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https://wamu.org/story/19/08/13/many-mass-shooters-share-a-common-bond-male-grievance-culture/
/r/MensRights30/05/22 03:33 AM
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And yet we see very few African American school shooters. The vast majority are cis white males.
/r/MensRights30/05/22 03:04 AM
1

The ones I know who have done the donor thing have been very mindful of having positive male influences in their child’s life. Some guy who randomly got your pregnant is not always going to be the best influence and may not give a shit about you at all. It’s funny how men love to crap on the parent that stayed and never seem to have a bad word for all the deadbeat fathers who are out there in epidemic levels. Why are men failing at marriage and parenthood on such a broad level?
/r/MensRights30/05/22 02:34 AM
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Your reading comprehension is very poor. I said Incels are WOULD BE abusers that CAN’T TRICK a girl into being with them. Fb mom? Yeah must be why I’m child free and have years old posts in that sub along with a great many relating to DV over several years. Your aggressive ignorance and lack of empathy might be clues as to why your hanging out in an angry man echo chamber. Literally read any information on abusive relationships to verify the standard trajectory of an abusive marriage. Don’t have…
/r/MensRights30/05/22 02:22 AM
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As someone who works in DV and spends a great deal of time in and around the court system. It’s actually very difficult to get sole custody in this country without proof of a history of abuse / mental illness / addiction etc. Even with arrests for DV you will usually be given supervised visitations. As someone has pointed out, most men opt out of 50/50 due to their work commitments and lack of childcare / support on their days.
/r/MensRights30/05/22 02:13 AM
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Here we have court orders which are legally binding. If you don’t drop off your kid you can be arrested.
/r/MensRights30/05/22 02:10 AM
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Have a look at the reasons why women initiate more divorces. Women who work full time are still doing 80% of all the housework and childcare. 1 in 4 men admit to doing zero. If your only contribution to the household is expenses then your just another child for her to care for and not any kind of partner to her. You are not entitled to a house slave for life.
/r/MensRights30/05/22 02:02 AM
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I didn’t say it was? I even used an example of a women expecting him to pay for everything.
/r/MensRights30/05/22 01:52 AM
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Does this incoherent word salad have a point?
/r/MensRights29/05/22 02:37 PM
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I agree there needs to apparently be some law reform in the US in order for it to align with most 1st world countries. But its largely men who have decided that their biggest and often only contribution to family life is financial. Check out any relationship sub, its full of women who are utterly exhausted and begging for help only to be ignored. I suggest you google 'walk away wife syndrome', to see why women initiate divorce more often than men. You guys act like they are out here wanting to b…
/r/MensRights29/05/22 02:35 PM
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No what I said was women deliberately choosing to be single mothers from the get go was about 1%.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 02:19 PM
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Interesting take. Ive worked in domestic violence and rape crisis for over 20 years. It is a story I hear on a daily basis. I personally think men should be dumped at the very 1st sign of a red flag, cause where there is one there is going to be 100 more.. but its the old frog in a pot of warm water scenario. Luckily women are doing a better job at educating each other via social media. A lot of the bitter af Incel types are just would be abusers that can't trick a girl into being with them.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 02:10 PM
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Not always but very often. We aren't raising boys to be good partners and fathers. Women who work full time are still doing 80% of the housework and childcare. 1 in 4 men in a census in 2016 of over 30 million people admitted they do zero housework and childcare. Nowadays most parents have to both work to make ends meet but for some reason guys think that all they have to do is bring home their paycheck, and that is somehow enough.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 02:06 PM
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Marriage is also very often the beginnings of abuse. Same reason they feel safe enough to let the mask slip. Also people often have these really entrenched ideas about what marriage means. It could be that she expects him to pay for everything or he suddenly expects her to do 100% of all the cooking and cleaning or give up her career. One of my closest friends dated this guy for 4 years.. all the while perfect bf.. he changed dramatically on the honeymoon to an abusive monster. Because in his mi…
/r/MensRights29/05/22 01:56 PM
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I know a few who have not met anyone they wanted to marry / have babies with and in their mid 30s decided to go the donor route. Id say they represent less than 1% of single mothers. They are usually well educated and have resources. Most single mothers are women who have been cheated on or left abusive or just crappy guys who were not pulling their weight so they were better off leaving. Go have a look at just no so or breaking mom subs for examples of the kinds of guys who need to be kicked to…
/r/MensRights29/05/22 01:37 PM
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Ive heard an interesting take from a guy, as to the reason so many women end up with deadbeat men. "Men lie, men lie until they feel a women trusts them through love. Then they slowly start to turn off all the parts of themselves that were a lie, so get themselves back to their state when they were single. Which is a lot of times lazy and selfish. And because the system we live in conditions women to be insecure, a women blames herself for this reduction in love and works harder to get the mans …
/r/MensRights29/05/22 01:30 PM
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Australia. You need to prove abuse or the person is unfit, drug dependant etc. Fun fact most custody cases are never disputed and when they are men win slightly more often. Most of the time custody is worked out between the parents. Men typically work full time and are the main bread winners so therefore opt out of 50/50. Personally I think it should be forced upon them so that all the costs / responsibilities / work is shared equally.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 01:19 PM
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To be fair, the standard MO of abusers is to push the relationship into very serious territory as quickly as possible by love bombing their victim and pretending to be their perfect man. Most abuse starts during pregnancy.. for good reason. They feel safe enough to let the mask slip once they are thoroughly trapped. No one is having babies with a guy who punched them on a 1st date ffs. When they do decide to leave they are shit on for being single mothers..
/r/MensRights29/05/22 05:52 AM
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Default 50/50 is the standard in most 1st world countries.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 05:47 AM
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Understand that women have been socialised to fear being alone, hitting the wall etc and therefore are out seeking partners. At the same time men have been socialising each other with red pill ideas about spinning plates and otherwise manipulating women in order to pump and dump. My guess is a great many of the average girls ‘number’ were for the most part, attempts at finding an actual partner.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 09:08 AM
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This is….hilarious. Yes sir, Norway is totally known for its school shootings. Lol. Why not break it down into shooters who were left handed?
/r/AntiFeminists20/03/22 09:40 AM
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And all those mass shootings to go along with it. Sounds fun!
/r/AntiFeminists20/03/22 05:49 AM
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You sound like someone who doesn't have health care. Or a passport. Sad.
/r/AntiFeminists20/03/22 05:35 AM
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I love it when Americans forget the rest of the world exists.
/r/AntiFeminists19/03/22 11:52 PM
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Ikr.. the longer you watch this sub, the clearer it becomes that they have no idea what feminism or the patriarchy actually is.
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/22 07:12 AM
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Ah yeah it 100% is. Just because a women is enforcing it, it doesn't mean anything. How did 'feminism cause' this? Other than a young women having the freedom to wear what she wants. Are you saying that is bad? I seriously don't get it.
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/22 05:33 AM
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"Its more common for a women to receive that support than a man" What's your source on that? I personally know several failure to launch guys and it seems to be a massive phenomena amoung young men currently tbh. It could be women are finding boyfriends / husbands to support them. Having said that, guys mooching off their girlfriends seems super common too. "Failure to launch is common in young adults, especially young men between 18-30." Article
/r/AntiFeminists17/03/22 10:10 AM
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I never said men were useless? Also why be mad at feminists, who fought endlessly to eradicate traditional gender roles.. while men are still fighting to maintain them. Like you are doing right now.. Guess what? One of men's traditional gender roles is fighting and dying in wars.
/r/AntiFeminists16/03/22 10:33 PM
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Plenty of female cops, I am married to one. My point is, women are no longer forced into shitty relationships for survival. Lots of men can't cope with that reality and do nothing to improve themselves.
/r/AntiFeminists16/03/22 09:38 PM
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I was being sarcastic. I agree, its just bitterness over being lied to. The backlash that we are seeing now is because women finally have a collective voice online and men aren't liking what we have to say. Previously women were strongly socialised to be agreeable and put up with shit.. and accept boys will be boys.
/r/AntiFeminists16/03/22 09:05 PM
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The police? What a weird argument.
/r/AntiFeminists16/03/22 09:00 PM
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To be fair, its common courtesy to discuss stuff like hair cuts, dr apts etc with your ex. My partners ex does stuff like that to provoke shit all the time. Its not a men's rights issue. Seems like they have shared custody and its a stock standard tiff divorced parents have. Prior to feminism, men had ownership of the children and still do in many countries. So is that fair? Fact check - 50/50 custody is the norm in most 1st world countries. The majority of custody cases are undisputed and when …
/r/AntiFeminists15/03/22 11:44 PM
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Or useless to her because she works and can pay her own bills. Unfortunately splitting expenses is the only thing many men offer. If he ends up creating more work for her, doesn't help with cooking and household chores and isn't getting her off.. then what is the point?
/r/AntiFeminists15/03/22 11:40 PM
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Women aren't allowed to be angry or not center men in their lives tho.
/r/AntiFeminists15/03/22 11:37 PM
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The difference is that they aren't calling for men to have their rights removed, rape to be legalised etc. Where mgtow always decended into hatred. That women's one is extremely mild and not all that focused on men.
/r/AntiFeminists15/03/22 11:36 PM
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What does this have to do with feminism though? Edit - They obviously have shared custody. Or is it just that prior to feminism women weren't allowed/able to leave a shitty marriage so therefore feminism bad?
/r/AntiFeminists15/03/22 11:36 AM
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Same. Men seem to forget that rhe chances of a women having an orgasm are slim to none with some random. Also, women can always get sex, even a relationship if she lowers her standards. But there is no benefit in doing that.
/r/AntiFeminists15/03/22 10:20 AM
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You think her parents are still supporting her at 34?
/r/AntiFeminists15/03/22 10:18 AM
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How is this misandry though? Men don't care about men's day. Nor are they as likely to post about it on insta.
/r/AntiFeminists14/03/22 10:56 PM
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Nice word salad.
/r/AntiFeminists13/03/22 04:57 PM
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Who says we don't? None of that has anything to do with feminism? How about acknowledging that men have oppressed women since the dawn of time? You can't work out that is the reason men are predominantly responsible for that stuff? How about acknowledging that men in those industries are still wildly hostile towards females who attempt careers in heavily male dominated fields.
/r/AntiFeminists07/03/22 01:04 AM
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You realise that most women are against the draft in general right?
/r/AntiFeminists12/02/22 08:05 AM
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Dont know about that. Id say more and more gen z women are waking up to liberal feminism and are shifting towards radical feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists12/02/22 07:36 AM
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I really don't think women wanting a partner who earns at least as much as they do makes them a gold digger. Being able to afford to have a house and children is the bare minimum really. If she is the main earner that becomes a serious problem when she has to give up work or put them in daycare straight away.. which is also very expensive. Its a ticket to poverty and stress otherwise. It sucks that the cost of living has increased so much that both parents have to work. Many many studies have sh…
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 10:10 AM
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Housing prices have gone up +50% since 2020 is more the issue in Sweden.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 07:55 AM
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No probably not. Women typically want someone equal or better when it comes to earning capacity. If she ever wants to start a family its particularly important. I think guys have to accept they need to raise their game if they want partners. Chasing higher education, promotions etc. Doing whatever they can to improve their physical appearance. Work out, good hair cut and grooming. Better clothes and having some interesting hobbies beyond video games. Also accepting that if you both work then you…
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 12:05 AM
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Hmm not sure it has anything to do with being single tbh. Women can always find a man if she lowers her standards enough. But like, why? There is little to no benefit in doing that. Also women have always attempted suicide and suffer from depression at higher rates than men. Men tend to use more lethal methods
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 08:24 AM
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Women have way more options though. More educated women earn plenty and can easily support themselves and chose sperm donor babies or have modern families with gay guys. There is also foster care, which pays you and in many cases pays for their college education. Seems easier than fighting over child support. Women already do 80% of the work when it comes to kids and the household, so it's not really all that much harder. Most of the single moms I know actually say their lives got easier when th…
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 08:20 AM
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Some more light reading for you Tik tok user asks women what sex feels like for them & hilarious comments prove they are unsatisfied.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 07:12 AM
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[Australian 2016 census found 1 in 4 men do ZERO household chores or childcare. 30 million people surveyed.] (https://womensagenda.com.au/latest/eds-blog/one-in-four-australian-men-do-no-housework/)[Men often have very bad personal hygiene] (https://www.tyla.com/life/sex-and-relationships-women-dating-men-bad-hygiene-simply-oloni-twitter-story-20210429) [Stress of marriage shortens a women's lifespan] (https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/…
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 06:08 AM
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Having a pay check and a pulse is no longer enough to make you a 'prize'. We have those too.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 05:30 AM
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Hilarious. The entire manosphere claims its been debunked. Nice back pedalling.Female doctors earn 2 million less over a 40 year career
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 05:26 AM
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So in other words you proved it exists. Well done.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 01:38 AM
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Lol sure. How about IT graduates, doctors, lawyers and basically any other salaried position?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 07:39 AM
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As long as it's same degrees and salaried positions. Because ofc women lose $ when they leave the workforce and its illegal to pay women less per hour. Honestly you would not believe how many earnest little incels send that like its some sort of gotcha. Lol.Graduate pay gap
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:48 AM
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Crime statistics aren't feminist. They are completely objective.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 05:12 AM
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Wrong article then. This was female graduates compared to their male classmates earn less, same degree. 10% less in the 1st few years on average.article
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 04:59 AM
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Its not a narrative. Both of those things are provable by crime statistics. If men aren't reporting those rapes then nothing will change. No one is saying men don't or can't get raped.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 04:58 AM
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Again that is more of a law reform issue over specific wording. I don't think you find many feminists who would find any issue with it being defined a rape if that is what it was. Fyi in my country we no longer use the term rape in law. Only sexual assault, under which this would be covered. Are people complaining about it? Of course not.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 04:43 AM
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Because its nowhere near 40%. That 'made to penetrate' survey was deeply flawed and included all kinds of stuff that the participants themselves didn't consider rape at all. As I said these guys are not turning up in shelters, hospitals or police, like at all. So that data is not considered reliable. You can create a survey or study to prove any point you like. Unless it's verifiable its useless. 4% id believe.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 04:31 AM
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There are plenty of services for men in Australia, the UK and Canada that i am aware of. Not sure why the US can't get its shit together. There are 12 alone in the mid size city i live in. They have government funding and do fund raising and awareness campaigns which.. shockingly, no one has a fucking issue with. This oh feminists are blocking shit is a bullshit excuse.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 04:13 AM
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Yeah you say that like all feminists believe in that. Lol.. Its one organisation. I've been in feminists spaces for over 30 years and I've never seen it mentioned even once. Its got nothing to do with feminism at large. Most places have no alimony but do have a division of property and 50/50 custody is the norm outside the us. I think they are working within the rickety framework they have to ensure women and children aren't left destitute. Or rape laws aren't watered down even more.. would be m…
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 04:09 AM
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Yeah that is unfortunate. Id say the reason there aren't programs is the level of demand just isn't there. Much like male DV shelters. Not saying it doesn't happen, it does, but no where near the level the other way around. In other countries you would have been able to get primary custody in your situation. Its not easy to over ride 50/50 but well documented mental illness, abuse, substance issues will do it. Especially with affidavits from professionals. The US can definitely use a lot of law …
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 04:00 AM
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Such as? Gender neutrality is very much the zeitgeist
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:48 AM
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Because it has always been women who have been the primary victims of abuse and are seeking shelter. I've literally never had a guy rock up with his kids needing support. But he would be giving the same priority status because of the kids. The US is a total shit show and it would vary state to state and probably county to county. No idea what goes on there. They don't properly fund schools or healthcare either.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:44 AM
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There are very few large studies on LGBT violence the lesbian thing was found by one small study of less than 300 participants. So it is not considered reliable. I have had a few though in the past 20 years. Maybe accounts for 3% of the abusers. I've had a few women too, all of whom had quite severe mental illness such as bipolar, borderline or schizophrenia. The vast majority though are male. Easily +90%.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:39 AM
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Having laws rewritten to be gender neutral isn't helping men? How so? Liberal feminism is all about catering to males.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:31 AM
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Also women with any aged or gender children are given priority when finding housing.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:29 AM
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Well gender neutrality is something that is very much pushed by liberal feminists so that will undoubtedly end up helping men.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:27 AM
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You don't consider the US the west?? Abortion has been pretty much outlawed in heaps of states with many more on the way. The heartbeat bill makes it almost impossible to meet there standards as the day a women finds out she is pregnant it is counted at 4 weeks. There are also plans in the works to ban certain forms of birth control such as IUDS. I also find it very hard to believe you would just be fired without proof. That would open them up to being sued. Yes the wage gap exists. Why do femal…
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:23 AM
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Outside of the battered women defence you mean. Has nothing to do with feminism. Much like the majority of the stuff you have posted. Not saying men don't have some legitimate issues but that is for them to deal with. You make out like feminists want boys who have been raped to pay child support. That is an incredibly odd ruling and I can't see how it would hold up in a high court challenge. It has nothing to do with feminists or feminism. The courts are male dominated by a huge margin. So, why …
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:03 AM
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Love how a women defending herself is now termed 'mutually abusive' ofc he is going to try to minimise his fault by stating she started it. I had a 6'4 biker claim his 4'5 mail order bride 'started it' when he fractured her skull. She had been sleeping at the time. We have long known women who fight back are more likely to suffer more severe injuries or death.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 01:49 AM
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As I've stated actually no they don't. Its not the objective reality. Emotional abuse is terrible yes, but its not the same thing as being raped a week after giving birth and then having your jaw broken when you dare to complain.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 01:19 AM
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That's because there has been an ongoing online campaign against it for years. The manosphere loves to cherry pick the most extreme and obscure shit in order to make it seem that way. Vast majority of us just want access to abortion, birth control, equal pay and to not have to put up with sexist bullshit in the workplace.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 12:46 AM
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I have never heard anyone claim they are easily reversible, quite the opposite. A quick google search would show that isn't the case. I've also been on the childfree sub for years and it's not nearly as common for men to get hassled for it unless they are very young. But the US is a pretty backwards conservative shithole. So who knows? They seem to be going backwards at an alarming rate.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 12:42 AM
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Its unfortunate but the reality is DV is almost always males abusing women and children. That's true throughout history and all around the world. Police need far better training in the US. Also inexplicably messed up in that country. Those officers should have had that info before they even arrived. I had cops turn up for a break in and they knew the history of my address going back at least 10 years.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 12:38 AM
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Really how so? Overwhelmingly it IS males introducing and supporting anti abortion laws. Also have a look at who is standing outside abortion clinics.. Overwhelmingly men. Its so odd. To me and many other women its about controlling and punishing women for being sexually active. They sure as hell dgaf about the baby or the mother the second its born.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 12:33 AM
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Yeah the US is uniquely fucked when it comes to health coverage. I can't see how that would withstand a legal challenge? I know it was way harder for me to convince my doctor to do a bisalp, it literally took years. Where as my ex got a vasectomy referal in one apt. Usually no push back on that for men at all unless your really young. But women are routinely asked what if your husband wants children? even if they aren't married etc. R/childfree can verify that.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 11:30 PM
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I have work now but I will read this later. What I can say is that in the past when sources have been sent to me claiming that men are equally the victims of DV is that they have been based off 2 things. One surveys that include emotional abuse as violence and the deaths from domestic homicides.. which are almost equal. However when you factor in who was the perpetrator of the murder-suicide and their male child victims. Men are less than 4% of the victims of a female offender. My other point is…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 11:16 PM
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What do you mean feminism isn't needed in the west? Have you seen the insane attacks on women's rights going on in the US? It's one step away from the handmaids tale. The 'heart beat' laws are a cute way of banning abortion without actually banning abortion. Most women aren't even aware they are pregnant at that stage. You don't think being forced to give birth is an issue? How about attempts to now block birth control? Its being lead by white supremacists because they are freaking out about not…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:25 PM
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It wouldn't matter if they changed the name, because that would quickly get shit on as well. Its fueled by misogyny and misinformation. When I and most women hear the term anti feminist what we hear is you don't believe women are equal or should have equal rights.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:19 PM
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Do you have sources for all that? Sounds like they are all US based issues. I work in rape and dv. No one here is manipulating figures ( literally impossible) or blocking access to service to males. Rape laws here are gender neutral. There is no alimony at all, that also seems to be largely a US thing. 50/50 is the default custody arrangement in most 1st world countries. I have no idea what 'any parent convicted for the act of conception' means.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:08 PM
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Lol.. I could say the same.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:53 PM
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Same could be said for you blaming 'feminists' for literally everything when its clear the majority of users on this sub have a very skewed idea of it.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:53 PM
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Its just so bizarre to me that men expect feminists to work on their issues. Why are men seemingly incapable of doing that themselves when they are the ones in positions of power?
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:40 PM
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But do they though? Or is that just your perception after hanging out in spaces like this?
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:37 PM
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Do men's rights activists work on women's issues?
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 11:46 AM
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Neither of these sources state that. This article is about how they re jigged the sat exams because they know some sections and questions favour one gender or another. Obviously they can't favour one or another and they don't.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 11:34 PM
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According to my partner half the time they will admit to it, either in the interview or in text or calls to the victim. Somehow men still don't 'understand' consent.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 11:25 PM
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Oh please. Lol that's also not really as much of an issue as the manosphere would have you believe. Source, I work in rape crisis and my partner works in sex crimes. They have had one clear cut case of that in the past 5 years. Just because most rapists don't end up getting charged or convicted does not equal a false rape allegation. The vast majority never even get reported.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 08:30 AM
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Yeah this doesn't say that at all. It says there was basically very little gender differences but that women tended to do better in clinicals over all. I assume that is because they tend to have better people skills in general. Which is a very important thing for a doctor to have. If as you say school was designed for them.. ( which is odd as women were largely excluded from higher education until fairly recent times.. For example RGB had a hell of a shit time at Harvard in the 50s.) Why then ar…
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 03:35 AM
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Of course there is. Manosphere likes to act stupid and claim it doesn't exist because women leave the workforce to have kids etc.. or 'women just chose lower paying jobs' lol. When that is all accounted for..Female graduates earn less
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 03:25 AM
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Avoiding women/refusing to mentor them in the workplace is discrimination as well. This nonsense is the backlash against me too. If you aren't doing anything wrong there really isn't anything to be concerned about. How hard is it to just be professional ffs?
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 03:20 AM
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Yes in Russia doctors are typically female. They are paid less than fast food workers. Its very much a thing. Also works in reverse. Industries that were female dominated and become male dominated suddenly get a pay increase. Such as computer programming. Moscow times article
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 11:52 PM
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Its funny how you don't realise your proving my point. Stem guy hanging out in an antifeminist sub. Convinced all the women he went to school with were vastly inferior. I am sure that bias won't come into effect at all when your in a position of power.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 11:48 PM
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No one is saying that. But the reality is women were held back drastically until fairly recent times. Now they are catching up in some areas and it just doesn't compute for a lot of men.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 11:31 PM
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Got to love the mental gymnastics men go through to always find a way to blame women. Its not the rampant sexism and harassment in stem that's the issue, no no its the women's fault for not suing! Perhaps your personality and your baseline assumption that your better than everyone else was more the issue?
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 11:11 PM
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From NYT article on why men aren't going into teaching A change in the gender imbalance could sway the way teaching is regarded. Jobs dominated by women pay less on average than those with higher proportions of men, and studies have shown that these careers tend to enjoy less prestige as well. Although teaching was once a career for men, by the time women began entering the work force in large numbers in the 1960s, teaching, along with nursing, was one of very few careers open to them. But despi…
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 10:32 PM
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As they should be. Girls have been outscoring boys academically for 100 years.Girls have been getting better grades than boys for 100 years. STEM gender imbalances in the workplace. Pew research
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 10:19 PM
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Not according to research. Pew research center
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 09:36 PM
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Your welcome. You have to be careful not to fall too far down the rabbit hole. Keep in mind that a lot of the guys who are pushing this stuff are pretty bitter divorced dudes with some very outdated ideas. Life has changed very rapidly and some men are having a really hard time adjusting. They long for this largely imagined past. Where they all got a 1950s housewife. Just having a pulse and a paycheck is no longer enough to guarantee a wife. Girls have to actually like you now. You need to be a …
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 01:51 PM
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Your assuming that the dad never sees his kid. Most 1st world countries have 50/50 custody as the standard agreement and you have to prove the other party unfit parent due to substance abuse , violence etc and its a pretty difficult process. Most custody arrangements are worked out between the parties and are never contested, something like 95% of the time. Fact is most men don't actually want or can't manage 50% custody on their own. Edit if there is a no contact order it means there was probab…
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 01:43 PM
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Men don't bare all of the responsibility when I child is born. Women have the vast majority of it. Child support is generally a pittance compared to the actual cost of raising a child. Child support is there to protect the welfare of the child. That's why it exists and will probably always exist. Pregnancy is the risk you take when you have sex. If your not prepared for that then you probably shouldn't be having sex tbh. As to the other point. 23% of kids being raised by single mothers.. doesn't…
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 01:29 PM
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It has absolutely nothing to do with feminism or feminists. Its parents who aren't keen on male teachers due to so many pedophile teachers in the past. Pedophiles often get themselves jobs where they have power and authority over children. Priests, teachers, scout leaders, coaches etc. Its actually men who are chosing to not go into teaching. There is no actual barrier to them becoming teachers at all.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 12:02 PM
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Only because they would think you were shit stirring and they would end up getting brigaded. The post kind of implies a few things. Such as: Women shouldn't be allowed bodily autonomy ie being able to have abortions. That men shouldn't have to support their own children. ( Condoms and vasectomies exist. You have some control over your own reproduction. If you have sex that is a potential outcome.) It also implies that women shouldn't have a right to leave bad marriages. Do you seriously think th…
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 10:41 AM
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I think there is a pretty big push to get more women into Stem. Stem can be a pretty hostile work environment for women.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 07:09 AM
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The issue with male teachers is unfortunately due to pedophila. Men don't want to be perceived as that and thus don't go into teaching and parents fear it and prefer female teachers. There isn't really any barrier to males teaching other than that and its pretty well acknowledged that more male teachers would be a good thing for students. Particularly for boys. EDIT nope seems its more a pay and prestige issue with men. Why don't more men go into teaching NYT article
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 07:04 AM
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I think the issue is that most of these types of subs very quickly devolve into highly misogynistic ones.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 06:59 AM
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You realise that the majority of women who left the workforce was due to childcare arrangements right? Daycares and schools here closed. The majority of home-schooling kids fell to women. Typically the women had a lower paying job... so who do you think was going to have to give up their job?
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 06:54 AM
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Sounds like you expect feminists to do the work for you. Of course they advocate for women's issues. Men can and should do the same for their own issues. No one is silencing you.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 06:39 AM
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As i said I have no issue with mandatory testing at birth and also before any child support payments start. Just as long as women have affordable and unrestricted access to birth control and abortions. Testing along with men's repeated and ongoing attempts to ban abortion and limit birth control is far more about controlling and punishing women for being sexually active than anything else. Testing would encourage those women to be far more careful about getting pregnant. Cheaters are going to ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:18 PM
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Then she is an idiot. Its a pretty unlikely scenario. Why would she risk it? Do you know how many doctor apts are involved? Unless she knows all her lovers blood types and assuming they are all the same race. She could easily be found out without any DNA test involved. Not saying it doesn't happen ever. But men are far more likely to feel entitled to cheat when their partner is pregnant or just had a baby. Ancestory dna has revealed all kinds of things. Including plenty of men who father whole o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:21 AM
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Uh no, not saying that at all? Do you not understand how birth control works? Lol. I think the whole thing is pretty ridiculous and a non issue tbh. Just something the manosphere likes to use as rage fuel. I am saying women need access to birth control and abortion. Makes perfect sense that this would be less of an issue all round.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:40 AM
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Because it will make any issues far less likely to occur in the 1st place. Same with a proper sex education program.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:40 AM
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Zero problems with it as long as those same women have access to affordable birth control and abortions till at least 12 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:45 PM
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As a general rule, people like people who are like themselves.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 11:46 AM
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Yeah I don't know anyone here who would really look down on them. Especially if your looking to start a family. There is a lot to be said for a guy who is home by 3pm and makes as much as a white collar guy.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/21 05:35 AM
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Tradesman or blue collar guys are seen as fairly desirable in Australia. Not only do they earn decent money but they tend to have a better work / life balance.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/21 09:26 PM
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Disagree. Women's friendships are often deep, like relationships without the sex.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:56 PM
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National Geographic study Recent study showed sexist men literally do see women in bikinis as objects. With the area for 'tool use' in the brain lighting up on MRIs.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/21 09:02 AM
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Women have been so conditioned to go against their own interests that its literally shocking and offensive to men when they don't. How is it toxic to have standards and boundaries or avoid abusive shitty behaviours?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 09:35 PM
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Yep I am not a fan of that either but it would be a good strategy to weed out fuckboys. Only someone really interested would bother with that. I also don't have an issue with women having standards for how much their partners earn. Especially if she is wanting to have children. She is going to sacrifice her earning capacity greatly in that process. Can't blame a women for not wanting to get involved with someone who that isn't going to be possible with.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 09:53 AM
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Not really. I see the HVM and them paying for dates thing as largely a vetting strategy. The end goals of each are different. FDS seems to be finding a decent guy, whom your attracted to, who values you, meets your standards and respects your boundaries. In other words a healthy relationship. If he doesn't meet your requirements, move on. Where as the red pill seems designed to seek out the most emotionally vulnerable and easily manipulated women using very dark tactics that abusers have long us…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 06:53 AM
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FDS is the response to the red pill. Men have been teaching each other how to manipulate and emotionally abuse women they date for years. Its poisoned the dating pool. Its only natural that women would be effected by it and learn / teach others to avoid those men.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 12:53 AM
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Solution to what? Women having the freedom to choose a partner?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 09:09 AM
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Sexist men literally do see women as objects that degrade over time. That and deep insecurity. They want someone inexperienced and easier to manipulate. Women with their own income, who have standards and boundaries are hugely off putting to men who have nothing to offer.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 12:53 PM
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People judge themselves by their intentions and others by their output. You should never date someone for their potential.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 06:19 AM
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I think they are 2 sides of the same coin. I think the ladies are doing a better job though at educating women to avoid/leave abusive men. I am not sure about the MRAs in that regard.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 10:30 PM
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Yes and no. I hate the whole HVM LVM thing. I wish they would focus on healthy relationships rather than unhealthy. The focus on material stuff is ick too, but I get it. I don't think wanting to have a baby or own a house one day makes you a gold digger. Your partners earning capacity will make a difference. What they do a great job of is getting women to recognise red flags and encourage women to have strong boundaries and focus on their own health and goals. So many women are raised to set the…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 10:25 PM
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I realised the other day that r/femaledatingstrategy is the direct result of women having to deal with all these red pill shitbags.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 03:46 AM
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Yep. Financial abuse is straight out of the abusive guy playbook. ( just like every thing else in the red pill ) Its a mate retention strategy.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 07:59 AM
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False equivalence. Apart from physically demanding jobs. Girls have actually been outscoring boys academically for over a 100 years and graduate college at higher rates, with better grades, world wide. So ever since they were allowed to seek out education in larger numbers, girls have outperformed men. You're also overlooking the fact that women have been historically oppressed since the dawn of time because of religion, their own biology and the lack of reliable birth control and reproductive c…
/r/BlackPillScience29/03/21 09:19 PM
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Yes he is. It becomes a compounding issue. The vast majority of women can get laid now as easy as ordering a pizza thanks to the swipe apps men made that valued looks over everything else. Backfired pretty hard I'd say.
/r/BlackPillScience27/03/21 11:45 PM
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Which is why so many women are no longer bothering with online dating or casual hook ups. See my original comment. You think they are going to bother with that guy again? Or see the one who actually got her off? Same reason why girls prefer to bang their ex, you know their stuff is good. At the end of the day, sex is a learned skill. Women have a pretty decent sense of who is likely going to be a good lay and who isn’t. Psychology studies have found men see women orgasming as a masculine achieve…
/r/BlackPillScience27/03/21 11:22 PM
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Imagine thinking America represents the rest of the world. Lol Safety is more than just using a condom. Even then, stealthing is very much a thing. Here is a quote from the Pew Research Center about levels of harassment women receive. 30 percent of women felt overwhelmed by the volume of suitors flooding their inbox. Perhaps some of that fatigue comes from the fact that women on dating apps were also much more likely than men to report experiencing harassment on the app, including 46 percent of …
/r/BlackPillScience24/03/21 01:07 PM
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Pretty slow aren't you? If less and less women are bothering with casual sex or online dating because it's not satisfying. ( They are sick of the unsolicited dick pics, convos that go nowhere, at best some guy using you as a human fleshlight and the all too regular occurance of verbal abuse.) Does it not follow that it would make it way harder for men to get laid? Try an experiment. Make a profile as a girl. Most of the guys on there don't make any effort at all. They have pics that look like le…
/r/BlackPillScience23/03/21 11:13 PM
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And your point is? Dick is abundant and therefore low value. Both sexes choose mates heavily relying on looks. Turns out they are a pretty good indication of good genes! Who knew? Evolution, apparently. Women also risk far more when it comes to choosing a mate. So of course our standards are going to be way higher. Seriously, how is this news? Better question is why you feel entitled to sex or a women?
/r/BlackPillScience23/03/21 08:35 AM
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Well it makes sense that a trans man would know how to better please a women doesn't it? But that wasn't my point at all. Just because women can have casual sex at a far greater rate than men, doesn't mean we want to. Many find it's seriously underwhelming. Also we risk our safety, pregnancy, disease and it's still pretty frowned upon in society. Hence 80% of available women are not on dating sites, where as most available men are. Women less likely to orgasm from casual sex .
/r/BlackPillScience23/03/21 08:20 AM
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Could be, someone who likes control is more likely to want a partner who is easier to impress and manipulate. I think that relationship is more likely to be seen as a cougar, sugar mama sex thing. So creepy either way.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 10:48 AM
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That and a big age gap is now widely known amoung women to be a red flag. As abusive men, emotional and other wise tend to target younger women. So she is likely going to be getting concern / pressure from her friends and family about it.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 08:01 AM
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Survival of the fittest is the rule for every species. Why should it be any different for man?
/r/BlackPillScience21/03/21 06:29 AM
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It's absolutely is a defect in skill in most cases. Or a lack of real interest in getting the girl off when it comes to casual hookups. It's very unlikely to progress to sex if she isn't attracted to him at all. If a guy is crap at foreplay or doesn't bother with it at all.. then jackhammers her for 2 mins before cumming.. how exactly is she meant to get off? How is his lackluster performance her fault?
/r/BlackPillScience18/03/21 01:06 AM
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Lol facial symmetry = orgasm. But It does follow that its easier to get off if your actually attracted to the person. Not sure why that is so shocking or upsetting to men? It's not like men are seeking out unattractive or overweight women so why should we?
/r/BlackPillScience17/03/21 10:57 PM
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As I've said and sourced. Female university graduates earn less than males with the same degrees. Sure there are plenty of 'studies' that choose to cherry pick and state the fucking obvious.. like women choose different careers, or women leave the work force to have children.. no shit! Really?? Ffs. Or my favourite.. It's iLLeGAL tO pAY them different hourly rates.. again. Not talking about any of that. When employers have a chance, ie salaries.. women are found to earn less for the same experie…
/r/MensRights11/03/21 10:59 PM
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There are just as many studys proving that it does. The feminization of education is also a myth. There's an idea in academia that women can be "book smart" in the sense of getting good grades, but unlike men they're not original/creative thinkers. One of Sacha Baron Cohen's best ever interviews was getting a Cambridge professor to say this explicitly on TV. This attitude has also been demonstrated in studies where the same essays are much more likely to be described using words like "original" …
/r/MensRights11/03/21 12:17 PM
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IT, Medicine, Business and Law are worthless degrees? Female surgeons earn less than males, female lawyers make less than males, female managers make less than males...female IT grads make far less than their male colleagues. They did a study following there careers after graduation. Female graduates earn approx 8k US less per year
/r/MensRights11/03/21 11:56 AM
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Female university graduates earn less than male ones
/r/MensRights10/03/21 12:08 AM
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Girls outscore boys worldwide
/r/MensRights09/03/21 11:48 PM
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Just facts bro. Biggest financial risk a woman can take is a relationship
/r/MensRights09/03/21 11:31 PM
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Bravo, what a compelling well thought out argument, backed up with ample sources to support your claims. Your not intelligent enough to argue with.
/r/MensRights08/03/21 01:40 PM
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The level of your ignorance is astounding. American I assume? You realise women had very limited access to higher education until fairly recently? And yet despite this girls now outperform boys academically in literally every subject world wide. The gender pay gap is very much a thing. What I was looking for is the reasoning behind it. You cannot have it both ways. If it doesn't exist as such it's because women lose so much money and damage their career by having kids usually. Why do women retir…
/r/MensRights07/03/21 01:44 PM
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Lol.. hey just for fun. Explain why the gender pay gap exists. Girls have actually been outscoring boys academically for over 100 years. In other words, ever since they were allowed to seek out education in larger numbers. So how exactly is that stacking the deck in our favour? It's more like since boys have had actual competition.. you haven't been doing as well. Funny huh?Girls have been outscoring boys for 100 years
/r/MensRights07/03/21 03:35 AM
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It's fun to stir the pot every now and again. You tend to see the same tired tropes in the manosphere that never really get challenged. Most of their facts are from small cherry picked studies and misinterpreted bits of pseudoscience. Heaps of their 'evidence' actually loops back around to other MRA stuff. It's a just an echo chamber most of the time.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 10:34 PM
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Oh bless your heart, you think lesbians can't have babies? Oh dear. Lol. Did you know women can actually reproduce now with cells from bone marrow? So technically men aren't even required for the absolutely minimal role they play in reproduction. Having said that most of our friends have the most beautiful, high achieving children. You know why? They selected their donors from a catalogue of very attractice ivy league dudes over 6ft. We are very happy being childfree and saving for early retirem…
/r/MensRights04/03/21 10:19 PM
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Yes the ones who can actually make them cum. Chads and fuckboys I think you call them. It's hilarious how men can't work that bit out.
/r/BlackPillScience04/03/21 10:03 PM
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Way to ignore my questions.. It’s 100% accurate, If a woman marries a loser and drops everything to have babies with him.. she has permanently damaged her prospects. Usually thrown away her education, done irreparable career damage, made it almost impossible to save $ or do basically anything else in life for a very, very long time. Let’s be real, she is the one who gets stuck holding the kid bag 95% of the time..It not like other men are lining up to date single mothers either.. so also fucked …
/r/MensRights04/03/21 03:23 PM
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That would be because sexuality is not a choice. I truly feel sad and dismayed about all the shit straight women feel the need to put up with. I get women tell me all the time that they wish they were gay. Have a look at any of the relationship, sex, parenting, mothers groups.. it’s a total shit show. Which brings us back to my original point, If a woman doesn’t have high standards for dating she is pretty much bound to end up ruining her life. Especially if she has the misfortune of having a ba…
/r/MensRights04/03/21 03:08 PM
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I believe it was one focus group found that. So the evidence for that is pretty thin on the ground as there have been very few larger studies on LGBT violence. But that’s never stopped MRAs. I have worked in domestic violence and rape crisis for over 20 years. 97% of the cases we see are male perpetrators and the majority of victims are female. Which, shockingly lines up with crime stats and hospital admissions.. How strange right? It’s almost like male violence is an exponentially larger proble…
/r/MensRights04/03/21 02:52 PM
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You really don’t understand how lesbian sex works do you? So we’re angry over here, having multiple orgasms 97% of the time...and some how an unsatisfactory 2 minute jackhammering with your sad little peen and no orgasm is better? CaUSe tHaTs ReAL SeX.. bruh I can’t even. Btw, in my experience women are WAY better with ‘dicks’ than men are.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 02:37 PM
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Not unless he is a millionaire or something. Alimony is not really a thing outside of the US. 50/50 custody is also the default ruling in most 1st world countries. Not sure why the US can’t seem to get its shit together, but that’s another conversation. Yes men need to support there own kids.. do you think that shouldn’t be the case? Women almost always permanently fuck up their prospects by marrying a loser and getting stuck with his brats. How exactly is she meant to work full time with young …
/r/MensRights04/03/21 02:21 PM
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There are dozens of studies in the orgasm gap over decades, the results are pretty consistent.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 02:06 PM
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Haha! Dude you actually think penises or piv is essential to a woman having an orgasm? Oof, I feel sorry for your non existent girlfriends. A few minutes of clumsily scratching at their labia and a few sad pumps are the best they’re ever gonna get. Lesbians have the MOST orgasms study
/r/MensRights04/03/21 01:42 PM
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Men cum 95% of the time. I think they’re good. Lol
/r/MensRights04/03/21 01:27 PM
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You’ve had 65 girlfriends by 40 yet you “CAN NEVER meet their standards” How does that work?
/r/MensRights04/03/21 12:56 PM
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R/lefttheburneron ?
/r/MensRights04/03/21 12:41 PM
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And yet lesbians have absolutely no problem in that department.. It's a real mystery isn't it? I suspect the general feeling of entitlement to sex and overall lack of empathy may have something to do with it.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 12:13 PM
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Never said i was a gold star lesbian. Of the guys i've had sex with, only one of them was even remotely decent in bed. But not really basing that off my own experience for obvious reasons. Plenty of women are very open about it. ( Social media has been disastrous for men, in that its allowed women to share our experiences with each other... and you wonder why we're mad? Lol ) More and more studies are showing that casual hook ups in particular aren't remotely worth it for women. Less than 20% ac…
/r/MensRights04/03/21 11:58 AM
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Some light reading for you.. personally I think women are being overly generous at 60%. When I ask my straight girlfriends about how often they cum, most of them say never.. not with their partner at least. It's not like it's the equipment that is the problem either, seeing how lesbians have the most orgasms. It's that men literally don't understand or even care to work out female anatomy or sexuality. R/badwomensanatomy is a gold mine if you want proof The Orgasm Gap
/r/MensRights04/03/21 11:37 AM
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Lesbian thank God, so no bad sex for me. But speaking of FDS, unless a guy is a mythical high value man there is honestly no real benefit for women in being in a relationship with a man anymore. Happiness studies consistently show that a women's happiness decreases after marriage and again after kids, drastically reduces to an alarming degree after kid #2.. where as men's happiness increases after marriage and decreases after kids. Hetro marriage and having children literally takes years off wom…
/r/MensRights04/03/21 11:22 AM
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Women absolutely need to have way higher standards than men. The stakes are way higher. If you were going to effectively destroy all your hopes, dreams, career, finacial stability, and hobble your life time earnings by having children, you would too. It's not like men do 80% of the cooking, cleaning and childcare even when both work full time. They aren't even that good at sexually satisfying women.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 10:48 AM
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Agreed. Like attracts like and toxic attracts toxic. But at the same time, people can and should have standards. Women are always being sold this myth that they should go for less attractive guys as they will somehow be nicer.. and It's just not true. Everyone deserves to be with someone they find attractive.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 10:17 AM
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Lots of women have worked out that cis men are pretty crap at sex. Even more so when they aren't really motivated to please a girl. Women have less than 20% chance of having an orgasm during a casual hookup. Why risk an std or pregnancy for that?
/r/BlackPillScience04/03/21 08:18 AM
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Red pill is designed by emotionally abusive men and uses tactics that work best on women who have low self esteem and are the most easily manipulated and abused. That is their end goal. To find a compliant victim.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 09:33 PM
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95% of straight men always orgasm during sex, compared with 89% of gay men and 86% of lesbian women. Get to the amount of straight women having orgasms during sex, though, and that number drops sharply. Only 65% of straight women always have an orgasm during sex, and that number goes even lower when looking at the statistics of casual hookups – on a first time hookup, the gap is 80% of men to only 40% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 05:59 AM
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Sex based oppression is real. It's not gender that effects the distribution of power in society, it's sex. Millions of female fetuses are aborted due to their sex every year. Millions of women and girls are sex trafficked. 98% of women in Somalia have undergone female genital mutilation due to their sex not their gender identity.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/20 03:57 AM
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I never said anything about inequality of unborn fetuses. I was discussing sex based oppression. Of which that is an example. Female genital mutilation, forced marriages, sex trafficking, domestic violence being others. The fact that women are still doing the vast majority of the child care and housework in 1st world countries when both parents work just goes to show how slow and possibly incapable men are to change.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/20 10:19 PM
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I haven't changed the subject at all. Your statement was that men have it far worse because you have to lift heavy boxes.. that it takes 2 women to lift. Like dude, if that is all you have to complain about. Get a life. I discussed various issues women face. Do you realise most studies are a few hundred to few thousand people? So a very recent survey of 25 million in a 1st world english speaking country, is extremely relevant. You also mentioned the higher rates of homelessness and suicide in me…
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/20 11:36 AM
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Based on absolutely nothing.. you can't even present an argument.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/20 08:46 AM
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Your point was what exactly? That men have it harder than women. I showed you data and spoke about a range of topics effecting women. To which you had no answer.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/20 08:13 AM
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What a well thought out, supported argument.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/20 04:22 AM
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Your point seemed to be that men have it harder than women. Of course they are physically stronger than women so they can't lift as much. As to the higher rates of suicide and homelessness.. much of which is caused by alcoholism, drug addiction and mental illness. Are men in your country prevented from therapy? No? It's men's own attitudes toward it that prevents them from seeking help. Most women beg their partner to go with they are having issues and they flat out refuse to. Seeing it was weak…
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/20 09:32 PM
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Oh we are cherry picking now? Lol. What proof can you actually provide of that apart from your own misogyny? Men like you claim to be superior based on being physically stronger but then complain when women aren't as physically strong? Why is it the same men are desperate for women to adhere to their traditional gender role but they deeply resent their own.. provider.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/20 08:57 PM
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Oh that's right I forgot about all the millions of baby boys who are aborted in China and India because their culture views them as worthless. The little boys who are then kidnapped, gang raped and murdered on their way to school in India weekly..cause woman have needs! What else were they suppose to do? I mean why else would reddit be full of porn subs of men being raped and degraded by women? What about all the young nepalese teen boys who are kidnapped or sold into 'marriages' in China. Becau…
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/20 08:28 PM
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Your using your singular personal experience to discount data found in a recent 25 million person census.. and several international studies.. so yeah. Ironic.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/20 05:14 AM
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Oh man, the irony.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/20 03:28 AM
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So a recent survey of over 20 million households is invalidated because your dad does housework. Lol. K.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/20 12:29 AM
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The Australian census in 2016 found 1 in 4 men did no housework at all. Australian census data find
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/20 09:50 PM
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There are multiple studies in several countries that have all found similar results. Study
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/20 09:48 PM
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Women still do 80% of all the household work and childcare even when both parents work. 1 in 4 men admit they do zero of either.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/20 09:32 PM
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"The Los Angeles District Attorney's office declined to comment when approached about the video by The Sun, but emails shared with The Sun confirm they are reviewing the footage." So you don't believe the Los Angeles DA then either?
/r/MensRights23/07/20 09:09 AM
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https://www.the-sun.com/news/1040788/video-showing-ron-jeremy-sex-woman-87-investigated/
/r/MensRights23/07/20 08:58 AM
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You sick fuck. As far as I know it was reported to the FBI and taken down several years ago. There has been concerns about him for some time.
/r/MensRights23/07/20 08:47 AM
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There is literally a video of him having very rough sex with a women who is in her 80s who seems to have dementia and clearly didn't consent.
/r/MensRights23/07/20 08:24 AM
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Don't men have far higher levels of suicide and homelessness? Which is often a result of untreated mental health and addiction problems.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 10:19 AM
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Those magazines are also very aware the majority of their customers are 10-13 Year old girls.. to make it even more disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 10:21 AM
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Also how dare she not be trying to be attractive to as many men as possible? They really hate it when women are not actively pandering to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:51 AM
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So much to unpack, I agree the equality part is now very misleading. I think at the time it was written women were so far behind that it was about helping women rise up to the same level as men. That's my take on it anyway. I think part 2 of the classical definition is far more accurate : organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests I don't think men can expect them to advocate on their behalf though, because it will never happen. They would see that as doing mens emotional labor…
/r/MensRights01/08/19 11:14 AM
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Does advocating for men's rights make one automatically sexist?
/r/MensRights01/08/19 06:46 AM
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I don't know about that. The classical definition was 'equality TO men' wanting the vote, equal pay, being able to get a credit card or mortgage in our own names etc. It only seems to be men who are confused about that and it comes across as how dare they not include us and focus on our issues too.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 09:44 PM
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I should say people's understanding of the word feminism has changed in the past few years. I doubt Maisie was aligning herself with any of the above. Who all seem to be the outliers and not representative of the movement as a whole. Much like men who want to legalize rape don't represent the majority of men's rights activists. You can always cherry pick the extremists.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 09:17 PM
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I do find it an odd argument that men get upset that feminism is only about women's rights. It's on the tin. It's not like they were trying to keep it a secret? Are men's rights activists fighting for womens rights and causes as well? I literally don't get it.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 12:48 PM
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I don't know that i would agree with that. I think if you asked the average person on the street to define feminism now you would get a very negative answer. Man hating and all that. Where as even 15 years ago I don't think that was the case, at least not to the extreme it is now. Most people would have said women fighting for equal rights etc.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 11:53 AM
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I am not going to argue the finer details. I think that the issue lies in that people define feminism very differently now. There are been quite a substantial pushback in recent years to the effect that it's really changed people's understanding of that term.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 11:06 AM
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Yes it's very interesting that the definition has really changed drastically in the past couple of years. I think that is where the confusion and conflict lies.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 11:02 AM
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I'd say she is referring to the actual definition of feminism. As in "the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men," Which most people are in agreement with.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 09:59 AM
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Isn't it referring to salaried positions though? IT, managers, actresses getting paid far less than actors for example.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 09:51 AM
1

What is your theory on why it is not reflected in the crime statistics? The other issue we have now is that crimes by transgender women are being counted as women's crimes. And they really should not be. Call me a terf or whatever, but I think it's a fairly reasonable thing to ask for them to be noted as a sub category.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 08:37 PM
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I have said neither. Just another example of MRA straw man bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:12 AM
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Hilarious. Check my post history dickhead. You do realise it's up to the dept of prosecutions and not individual officers right? Unlike you they are not allowed to make up their own evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:36 PM
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Ole Linda is trying to dig herself out of a hole.. to lessen her aggregous actions. It's very obviously self serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:18 PM
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Men are more likely to be raped than be falsely accused of it. https://www.channel4.com/news/factcheck/factcheck-men-are-more-likely-to-be-raped-than-be-falsely-accused-of-rape
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:12 PM
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I am not saying that it doesn't happen but the number of real rape victims far exceeds the false allegations. My husband said he has only known of 2 cases of false allegations.. He is a 20 year veteran. I do believe they may be more common now however with the dramatic rise in narcissism. But to say they are the majority is way off. I think a lot of people conflate the lack of eventual prosecution or conviction with a false allegation. Which is not the case the majority of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:02 PM
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It does not negate anything. Worldwide men are overwhelmingly the perpetrators of violence against both men and women. To a staggering degree. Sure you can always come up with examples of women committing some violent crimes. I am not denying that all. No one is, apart from straw men in MRA forums. The stats are the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:28 AM
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I am actually married to a police officer who works in the child abuse unit and he has previously worked sex crimes. They have had a cases where young non verbal children were diagnosed with gonerrea of the throat.. and the prosecution did not go ahead. Many rape victims decide they do not want to go ahead with their court cases as they are hugely traumatic and they do not want to be retraumatised. There is little chance of a conviction anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:21 AM
1

Dude, you may as well be a holocaust denier as far as I'm concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 02:16 AM
1

Oh please. Your opinion is not "sufficient evidence" of anything. Prosecutors do not want to go to court unless they can win. Most are male.. Which doesn't help. There are myriad of reasons why a case does not end in a conviction. This does not = a false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:57 PM
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Umm what does that even mean? I believe the proven false allegation stats from the FBI of around 8%. It's not feminists disregarding all the actual data available. It men.. making wild unproven claims that it's way higher... But then can't produce anything to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:07 PM
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The overwhelming response from men to #metoo was to squeal #notallmen. Not helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:45 AM
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No I agree, males are far more violent and male violence is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:39 AM
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A big part of the reason cases get dropped is the CSI effect. Prosecutors do not want to go ahead with cases unless there is DNA and a bloody video of it. That's pretty much what is takes to get a conviction now. There was a case here a years ago where a bunch of football players gangraped a girl in a hotel pool.. people saw it and phone the police.. when they turned up they found the women naked and bloody stumbling down the street. She had all the skin ripped off her back and buttocks.. it loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 07:27 AM
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Two guys who saw him raping a clearly unconscious women behind a dumpster... I would like to think most people would have done the same thing. A single women alone would have been unwise to have confronted him in the act though for her own safety. I am damn sure she would have rung the police though.. so not really a great example. Let's not forget the judge only sentenced him to 6 months.. a guy who was literally caught in the act by multiple witnesses and the poor girl had pine needle particle…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 07:15 AM
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You got to be kidding right? This thread is full of the most amazing misogyny and mental gymnastics of guys trying to prove that somehow most rape allegations are false despite all evidence to the contrary. As I said it's like trying to argue with flat earthers. It's weak arguments and straw man bullshit. As far as male feminists.. I've seen very few online or irl.. the ones I have are usually fake pua types trying a new angle. It's actually very rare to see a man display any empathy towards wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:34 AM
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Where are all the men being vocal about all the men who rape? Absolute silence and denial.. this entire thread is based on the fact men feel so uncomfortable with that undeniable fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:53 AM
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I don't doubt that the rate of female sex offenders is higher than reported. I take issue with the way the media portray female abusers. But to say that nearly half of all rapes are committed by women is way out there. Is there some sort of vast worldwide conspiracy keeping that a secret? Also why do you expect women to be vocal about male issues? I see this again and again. It's like men are expecting women to fix stuff for them. I just don't get it. Why don't men do more to help each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:22 AM
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Women like referrals. The fact that he is in an existing relationship implies a couple of things. Someone else can stand him...he has the skills and willingness to be in a relationship. He is probably not terrible at sex if his partner has stuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:38 AM
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That is largely a legal definition thing as it should not matter whether it's a penis, finger or object nor which orifice it enters. Still a rape in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:52 PM
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Called a time zone difference love. Notice he did not provide any actual evidence to back up his claims and OP has denied all the reputable stats that disprove his theory. It's like talking to the equivalent of a flat earther.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:44 PM
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Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:40 PM
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1 in 3 women is sexually assaulted by the age of 18. Do you know anyone who has been falsely assured of rape? Because i don't. But literally every women I know well has been either sexually assaulted, molested or harassed in some way. It's just a fact of life for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:39 PM
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High rates of vulnerable narcissism on display for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:20 PM
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https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2019/04/29/new-york-school-bus-driver-no-jail-time-rape/3622221002/ https://www.foxnews.com/us/virginia-judge-who-let-rapist-walk-free-sentences-man-in-sex-assault-case-to-no-jail-time https://wzakcleveland.com/3606580/admitted-child-rapist-gets-no-jail-time-because-he-wont-fare-well/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:14 PM
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We can’t even get convictions when the guy admits to it. https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/tasneemnashrulla/new-jersey-judge-teen-accused-rape-good-family
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:03 PM
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The number of women who are raped far outnumber the few false accusations. It's almost impossible to get a conviction. So the concern about it is seriously overblown in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:47 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-us-canada-45565684 8% According to the FBI
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:28 PM
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Thought you would be more interested in the US stats as it is a much larger population.. but here you go. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/terrifying-truth-about-rape-convictions-it-shatters-your-belief-that-the-world-is-a-safe-place/news-story/9fc4a65689f180b3534d79f4fd019b8e
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:26 PM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwiTx--sk5vjAhXEUn0KHacfB4IQzPwBegQIARAC&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Fbusiness%2F2018%2F10%2F06%2Fless-than-percent-rapes-lead-felony-convictions-least-percent-victims-face-emotional-physical-consequences%2F&psig=AOvVaw10BWOz3Tr-gh8_EzWF2sN1&ust=1562325818764114
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 11:25 AM
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Erections are involuntary aren't they? Guys who have been paralysed still manage to have kids..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 10:07 AM
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I get really shitty with how the media seems to always portray female teachers who sexually abuse male students as some kind of fun and harmless seductress. It's always 'school sex romps' etc. The language and tone of the articles is very different to male abusers. They are both equally bad. I make a point to comment as such on every article I see doing that. It's part of the problem and a big reason why male victims aren't seen as real victims. I can only imagine how terrible that must make oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 10:06 AM
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I feel like swipe apps were a real turning point. When it became all about looks and very little else. Before then most dating profiles seemed to have far more info and men had more of a chance to win someone over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:58 AM
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The conviction rate for men charged with rape is extremely low. In Australia it is less than 3%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:30 AM
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Mgtow is considered a hate group because the majority of the posts are drenched in misogyny. Hating on women is no different than hating on a particular race or group.. and yet somehow it is seen as more acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:37 PM
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I actually watched Lorena’s trial at the time. He admitted to his workmates he preferred forced sex and would deliberately slam her head into the headboard of the bed during sex. He was a real piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:15 PM
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No, when dating we took turns paying.. if he bought movie tickets, I got the snacks etc. Even now, we take turns paying. Always have. But you would not know a healthy relationship if it hit you in the face. So it’s a very good thing your ‘opting out’
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:10 PM
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You clearly have very little actual life experience if you think that. I run a very successful business, which I had been doing for years before I met him. He is a cop. He has not ever financed me. We have paid everything 50/50 for over 20 years. Both our previous relationships were the same. You must know some very scummy people if you think that’s not the reality for a lot of people. If we were to divorce he would get 1/2 of all martial assets..and that would be entirely fair..as we have contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:05 PM
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Who exactly is subsiding the 1st 25 years of their lives? Their parents presumably. Are you saying they aren’t also doing exactly the same with their sons? Of course they are. Do you think women dont have to pay rent or bills and their groceries are free? How exactly can they bail out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:58 PM
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I have never mentioned anything like that at all.. check my posts. No one actually gives a shit about these guys tbh. Which was my initial response.. they are invisible to women by and large. Who said anything about getting money? That’s really just another sexist trope you like t bang on about. I can only speak for myself and the women I know directly. Expenses are split 50/50.. that is the norm in most relationships and has been for decades. I also earn far more than my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:52 PM
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You think men don’t like seeing women get hurt? Watched any porn lately? Men literally get off on it. I do think your right I don’t think a male host would have gotten away with it. It was undoubtedly shitty. However I think it’s of note because of just how rare something like that is. 99.7% of all violent crimes are by men according to the FBI stats. Lorena Bobbit was also a victim of countless marital rapes ( which he admitted to ) and serious domestic violence. It’s like cheering for the bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:45 PM
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Most women these days work. More women get into and graduate college than men. Girls also outperform boys in every subject, worldwide.. finally being able to compete with men in the workplace isn’t a privilege. But I am sure it is a shock to some. ironically because of the privilege men grew accustomed to.. so this idea that women are somehow not capable of functioning without men is laughable. Most modern relationships bills are split 50/50 unless there is a child to care for. Then obviously so…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:39 PM
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Again, the anti Mgtow sentiment is in direct response to all the misogyny and has nothing to do with men who actually want to go their own way. I think it’s a real shame those subs have such a negative focus and such an overwhelming need to focus on hating women. When it could be a really positive and supportive sub. Also a way of lobbying for legal changes that would benefit them. But they really don’t seem to be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:30 PM
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That literally makes no sense. I’ve asked you actually back up your previous statements and you can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:25 PM
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Sharon Osbourne is one women.. well known for being a cunt and saying outrageous things. Look at the clip. You can see the other women looking visibly uncomfortable. You really think all women sit around discussing killing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:17 PM
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I am assuming your in the U S? Most countries do not have alimony. Martial assets are divided depending on the circumstances. Who had what to begin with, each partners earnings and contributions. We also have automatic 50/50 custody. Mgtow could actually effect some positive legal changes if they got their act together. But they seem to prefer bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:15 PM
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You seem to be arguing with yourself mate. You said in response to my earlier post that Mgtow being negative towards women was “lies and propaganda” but you can’t actually prove your point.. and waffle on about other unrelated crap I never mentioned. Seems to be your m.o
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:10 PM
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What I mean is, women are generally supportive of Mgtow, apart from the nasty shit they post. The original post implies that is not the case.. like we are upset about it or something? That’s what I’ve not seen, and would love to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:05 PM
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I think women are doing a pretty good job of educating other women and girls about the red flags to look for. It’s a big part of the reason these men don’t do well with woman. They are not usually self aware enough to realise it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:02 PM
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These are the exceptions and not the rule. You see far more hateful comments towards women. I do think the vast majority men in those subs get worked up over their own straw man arguments in regards to feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:00 PM
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Some examples of Mgtow posts that are positive towards women? I’ve only had a quick look, but they seem to all be very negative towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:50 AM
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Again, can you show me some examples of women complaining about Mgtow that isn’t just about the hateful stuff they post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:47 AM
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Not really. It’s well known that misogyny is the root cause of violence towards women. Women rightfully avoid these men for their own safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:44 AM
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Can you share some examples of this, because I have literally never seen it. But I have seen plenty of men getting all worked up about it in their little echo chambers. In reality those women are few and far between.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:42 AM
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There are several psychological studies on happiness that have consistently shown single childfree women to be the happiest. Also shows that a women's happiness decreases after marriage and a man's increases. I personally think men gain far more from a marriage than a women does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:01 AM
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I don't really see any feminists who only talk about men.. and I have never ever seen any women get remotely upset about men going their own way.. apart from the fact that the majority seem to hate women. I would love to see some examples if you have any. Most women realise It's far better these men take themselves out of the game. Chances are they are the types to become abusive. Why would any women want to be with a man who hates women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:46 AM
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Reply to the wrong person? Did not say anything like that. I don't fear them at all. I pity them for the most part. The only reason some people know they exist is the hateful garbage they spew about women online. For men who are allegedly going their own way, they are utterly obsessed with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:34 AM
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Exactly. These guys are pretty much invisible to most women. I think they get hate because they tend to post extremely misogynistic memes etc. If they didn't do that no one would notice or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:54 AM
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You can't out train a terrible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 01:08 AM
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I don't get why alimony is a thing in the US. Child support is one thing alimony is another. Men need to lobby for law changes. Many countries have automatic 50/50 shared custody in cases of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 11:35 AM
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Many Asian women eat one meal a day as there is insane social pressure on them to be slim. Any woman over 54kg is considered worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 11:17 AM
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I think porn has help increase that nervousness greatly and given them unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 10:25 PM
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There seems to be a lot of ED in very young men now where previously I don't think that was much of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 10:22 AM
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No kidding. There is no cardiovascular system to speak of. It's just an electrical pulsing of a group of cells. However, fair is fair. If they are going to hold women to this ridiculous standard they should do the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:57 AM
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Sure. But only if it's before the "fetal heartbeat" is detected. Seems fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:03 AM
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Not really. Politician's voting records are there for all to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 06:58 AM
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That is almost to ridiculous to answer. Most places school is a legal requirement. As it should be. Schools and day cares ring you incessantly to collect your child if they are sick. Children also have many more needs than just being fed. They literally don't grow and develop language if they aren't cared for adequately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 06:27 AM
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Not true at all. I know many grandparents who would be highly resentful. They have raised their kids and this is their time to enjoy retirement.. That is if they have the luxury of a retirement at all. Many boomers for example are choosing or are forced to continue working. That trend will continue. I am also very aware that vasectomy is not always reversible. If you feel strongly about it. Why not do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 06:15 AM
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You clearly have no idea how much work taking care of an infant is. That is laughable. Once they are in school you get a couple of hours between drop off and pick up. But kids are also constantly sick. Meaning she is having to take off work. No everyone has family members who are willing, able or suitable to take care of a small child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 06:12 AM
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Mate, it's just a fact. 22 white men made that happen. Overwhelmingly the lawmakers who attempt to restrict women's reproductive rights are male. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 06:09 AM
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You say that as though men aren't constantly trying to prevent women from being able to access abortions. Alabama ring a bell? It's not women voting shit like that in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 10:39 PM
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Not everyone has that option though. Why shouldn't men have any consequences for their own actions? Why should the grandparents pay for your mistakes? If you dont want a kid, Don't have sex, use condoms or get a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 10:36 PM
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Having a child makes it extremely difficult for her to work. Daycare is also very expensive. How does she support herself when lumbered with an infant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 08:32 AM
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That sounds more like an attachment disorder tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:16 AM
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Swipe apps made a big difference. I don't think people even read profiles now do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:30 AM
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http://theconversation.com/sexist-barriers-block-womens-choice-to-be-sterilized-99754
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:50 AM
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How are rights and responsibilities meant to be symbiotic exactly? Between mother and child or man and woman? Why do you think mens rights should supersede everyone else's?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:39 AM
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Who is forcing men to Bareback women at gunpoint? How do you not get that men do have control over their own fertility. They've called condoms dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:55 AM
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"Diaphragms are cheap and can be bought anywhere. Sterilisation is free and easy to access. *Hence, abortion shouldn't be allowed.Take some responsibility and don't get pregnant in the 1st place."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:51 AM
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Even though they are equally responsible for getting pregnant in the 1st place. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:45 AM
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So you advocate for forced abortions then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:46 AM
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Why are you so against men taking responsibility for their own reproduction? Its actually not that hard to not get someone pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:03 AM
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I don't live in the US. I do live in another 1st world country. You really think a completely elective non life threatening surgery is going to be totally free in most places? Lol. You have also stated that abortion should not be allowed. How exactly am I against equality??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 12:31 AM
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You do realize abortions cost up to $1000 and are not easily available in many places even where they are legal. A woman usually has to battle through a throng of protesters as well. Yeah that seems way better than day surgery to get her tubes tied. What if she is anti abortion herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:54 PM
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Haha umm no they aren't. You clearly don't know anything about them or their use if you think that. I've had my tubes tied years ago.. after battling with doctors for 6 years to be allowed to do so. While my husband got a referral for a vasectomy at 25 in one visit. It also cost me $4500.. while he paid $900. Make up your mind kid, is it "abortion should be legal for both sexes" or " abortion shouldn't be allowed" not to mention women don't need to be sterilized because "they can just get an abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:50 PM
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Condoms are cheap and can be bought anywhere. Vasectomies are way cheaper and easier to get than getting your tubes tied. Take some responsibility and don't get someone pregnant in the 1st place. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 02:16 AM
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How can you be hysterical about women forcing men to have children against their will and also think abortion should be illegal? Why can't men take some responsibility over their own reproduction? You know, like women are suppose to do? It's far easier and cheaper for them to access it after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 11:34 PM
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No they don't at all. Men usually have no resistance to asking to be sterilized. Women on the other hand have to ask multiple times and have to doctor shop to find someone willing to do it. It's almost impossible when you are under 30 and have no existing children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 11:24 PM
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It's also shockingly easy and fairly inexpensive for a man, no matter his age to get a vasectomy. Where as it usually takes years of battling with doctors for a woman to be sterilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 10:27 PM
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You have heard of condoms I am assuming? They have been around since antiquity.. the rubber ones since the 1850s. The venn diagram of men who whine and pressure girls to have sex without a condom and guys who bitch about child support is a circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 10:12 PM
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Ive work with babies and little kids for over 20 years. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 09:45 PM
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Yeah imma take 2000 women and every mother I know, over your sisters experience viewed through your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 09:05 AM
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Hilarious. Do you seriously think little kids sleep 12-14 hours a day??? Most wake several times during the night and then get up at dawn. Who do you think gets up to deal with that the dad? Not a chance. Do you really think everyone is fortunate enough to just be able to call a grandparent to watch their kid at a moments notice? My mother is 1200kms away. My MIL is dead. I give thanks every day we chose to be child free. You are seriously deluded kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 09:04 AM
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https://www.healthymummy.com/hours-mums-work/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:22 AM
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The average mother parents 96 hours a week. No days off. No sick days. Ever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 01:06 PM
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Alimony seems to be mostly an American thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 01:03 PM
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Some young girls do have a good deal of sexual agency but a lot don't. Really depends on their age and upbringing. I am just saying it's a common dynamic in abusive relationships. An older guy will latch on to a younger more vulnerable girl as she is easier to isolate and control than an older one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 11:27 PM
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Haha yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 11:23 PM
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Sure. I think a big part of that attraction is evolutionary. There is a strong drive to mate with healthy fertile females. The same way women have a strong drive to mate with healthy successful males. They want their offspring to be healthy and have the most advantages possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 11:21 PM
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Absolutely some young women who have a great deal of sexual agency do exactly this and most women don't care at all about that. It's the vulnerable ones who attract the creepy controlling abusive dudes who we are concerned about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 10:50 PM
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Of course she can. Id say there are plenty of the girls dating older guys have a great deal of sexual agency. They know exactly what they are doing.. 'dating' an older man for money, experiences and travel that they could not afford on their own. These women are fully aware that they are being used for their beauty and youth and the status that brings the man. Most of these women have a bf on the side their own age and once their college debt is paid off they will waive the poor old sucker good …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 10:26 PM
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Were you referring to creepy older dudes going after young girls as fake news? Came across that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:12 PM
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Umm maybe Google #metoo for literally 1000s of corroborating stories
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 11:57 AM
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THIS^ 1000x this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 11:55 AM
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Id say its because its a very common dynamic for abusive men to want a younger girl they can more easily control. One who doesn't really know who she is yet and will just accept any thing he says as correct. Where as a women in her later 20s and up is less likely to. Women also prefer partners who are a similar age to themselves and most just don't get why men don't do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 11:53 AM
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No you absolutely did the right thing. That reeks of deep seated misogyny and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 11:45 AM
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Total myth. I love that my husband a cop, is willing and able to discuss his emotions after a terrible shift. I don't think our marriage would work if he didn't. His emotional IQ was one of the things that attracted me to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 07:53 AM
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It's usually because the guys who are taken have attributes that make them attractive to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 01:07 AM
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I think it's a perfectly normal instinctive behavior and not something they should be shamed for. I think it diminishes men by implying they only do it for a chance a sex. In my experience men like being helpful and will usually jump at the chance to do so.. and I'm married in my 40s.. I had a guy today help me move a big chair I was struggling with.. he just ran over and took it off me then waived off my thanks as he went on his merry way. He did that because he was a decent human and not becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:50 PM
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I don't think I've ever considered 'what I can get from it' or even thought about what a guy earns..I out earn my partner substantially ) I've had several guys I dated have an issue with that though. Which I always found strange and disheartening. I've been told straight up by one he found it emasculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:40 PM
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