the_single_life Archive

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1	Guys who couldn't get women, what changed? i've been on plenty of dates. Most good, but some awful. Never kissed a girl or even physically touched got close to a girl. This was me a couple of weeks ago. I was a very shy guy, afraid of making the first move. what changed for me was listening to a female friend's tips on how to treat a woman. She told me to slowly build that physical intimacy by touching her shoulder or arm, but in a very subtle way. Also, to look her in the eyes when talking to her. after listening to her, i managed to ki…	/r/seduction	05/10/19 01:33 AM
4	How to be more assertive? this post is so confusing. So she's super into you and you already fingered her. But she wants you to lose it with someone else... that's not a great way to start a relationship. If you're a virgin like me, she should be guiding you. You should be exploring each other all over first. And i've learned that it's easy to be assertive. Try to touch all her erogenous zones, like kissing her neck, sensually biting her ear, kissing the back of her neck, caressing her cheek. Grabbing her thighs and ass.…	/r/seduction	01/10/19 08:28 PM
1	See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think. Well. I'll be seeing her this summer, once I get back home 😄. She's happy to see me too. I even talked about it with my mother about the age Gap. I didn't mention said girl. She's said it's no big deal. Mostly because some of her students (she's an English teacher) are 17 and are dating guys way older than them (22-25. Pretty old). I met the girl's parents too. Fine folks. Very chill. But, of course, you're talking about their daughter. Not every father is as laid back as my dad, when it comes t…	/r/seduction	01/06/19 10:11 PM
1	See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think. Thank you so much Hisoku 👌	/r/seduction	01/06/19 06:15 PM
1	See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think. You are totally right. In fact, that same day, I ditched her. Didn't even want her number. I just felt so betrayed. For the first time, I felt the pain someone might feel when their life partner lies in their face. I was just so shocked on how she lied about her age, university status etc. I'd never date a liar. Ever. Just like you said, she's probably capable of even more, if she's some comfortable to lying to strangers. Age of consent where I live is 17. But still. It felt pretty weird. Too mu…	/r/seduction	01/06/19 06:03 PM
1	See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think. I really like how you closed it. It's always good to never go too far with the conversation at first. It's always best to leave the girl some space. Thank you for the tip	/r/seduction	01/06/19 05:56 PM
1	See a girl you like, JUST APPROACH HER! Easier than you think. Don't worry man. Same situation happened to me. If she's cute and the two of you vibe, wait till she turns 18. Then it'll be fine. I also cold approached this girl who told me she was 19. But later, through talking, I kinda figured out she was 17 instead. She was kinda cute, but a big fat liar. That wasn't cool at all. It was flattering the fact that she was into me. But imagine dating a pathological liar. And she didn't just lie about her age...university too. It messes with your mind. Do you t…	/r/seduction	01/06/19 05:18 PM
0	Becoming impatient with women and no longer putting up with their shit has improved my game a lot Just because one cannot drink or gamble, doesn't make them emotionally immature. Maybe it's just me. I left home when I was 19. By leaving, I mean I'm in another country right now. So I had to grow up a bit, in order to adapt to my surroundings. She still lives at home with her parents. So it's definitely different. In a way, I agree with what you said	/r/seduction	14/05/19 03:18 PM
2	Becoming impatient with women and no longer putting up with their shit has improved my game a lot ...yeah. when I was 19 I was already out of high school. Signing up for college. Going on a few dates here and there. If I didn't like someone, I didn't just block them, I was honest with them. Like I said in the edit. I don't feel entitled to anything. But I do appreciate when someone is honest with me. Even just a "I'm sorry, but we are not compatable" would've been okay. Ghosting or flaking without a reason, is not too cool in my book. I've never done it before. And hopefully never will. If I…	/r/seduction	14/05/19 03:14 PM
5	Becoming impatient with women and no longer putting up with their shit has improved my game a lot Yes, exactly what you said. Dating has become such a minefield for me. If you don't care enough, she does end up forgetting about you. But if you put in too much effort, she gets creeped out by the commitment. I see you're also afraid of coming off as a niceguy. Understandable. Imo, if you're honest and polite with the girl who rejects you, it's impossible for you to come off as one. With the girl who flaked me, never once did I have the desire to insult her. Yes. I was pretty hurt by her action…	/r/seduction	14/05/19 02:35 PM
20	Becoming impatient with women and no longer putting up with their shit has improved my game a lot I do get some of these points myself. Every girl I've met so far, have all done something similar to these points you mentioned above. And it's sad, because I spent 2 months thinking that I was going to finally go on a date with this one girl I met on tinder. I always kept her archived while meeting other women. May comes around and she gets scared and doesn't want to meet In person anymore. Blocks me from Instagram and just ends it all in an instant. She was 19 btw, but still mature enough that…	/r/seduction	14/05/19 12:30 PM
2	why did she stop replying? She doesn't sound like such an interesting person. Perhaps, she's just not that invested in you. I usually act this way if I find that there is no chemistry with the other person I'm talking to. Be it a new friend or girl	/r/seduction	11/05/19 03:58 PM