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Focus on being as comfortable as possible with yourself during these interactions. The more comfortable you are, the more comfortable they will be. Trust me... this goes a LONG way. Focusing on comfort before thinking about what to say, verbal game, etc. is going to help you out a lot in the long run.
/r/seduction11/08/17 02:44 AM
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You don't have to advertise your vulnerabilities... owning who you are helps out with that. When someone calls out your insecurities, it helps to be able to amplify that in a fun way by poking fun at yourself. Don't buy completely into what one person tells you. If it pushes your buttons, there's definitely some kind of wound there for you, which is not a bad thing. Can only help your self-awareness. People are quick to spot in others their own shortcomings, so keep that in mind when people call…
/r/seduction11/08/17 02:36 AM
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Thinking about this as an overused, canned, direct line is way overthinking it. If you have to think that hard about it, you're trying too hard.
/r/seduction11/08/17 02:25 AM
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Excuse me, I just noticed you and wanted to say hello... It would have bothered me all day if I didn't come talk to you... hi, I'm ______
/r/seduction10/08/17 11:02 AM
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Sounds like you did well, best thing would be to look like you're having the most fun out of everyone and put your hand out for her to grab and start dancing. Spinning her around is always a fun thing to do at the beginning. Don't go for the grind right away, have some fun and show that you're not looking to get all up in there right away
/r/seduction01/02/16 02:28 AM
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Looking forward to an update. Not sure why so many negative comments here...?
/r/seduction05/01/16 01:11 AM
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My best advice would be to not think about going straight to "large subjects", but rather using smaller subjects to transition into larger ones. For example, say you want to talk about traveling (small subjects) (places you've been, want to go, etc.) From there you can talk about different cultures. From there, you can talk about values of different cultures, and how as a big ol melting pot of an earth, we all want the same things, we just journey towards them in different ways. By the end of th…
/r/seduction22/12/15 10:36 PM
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Thanks, I'm glad you can relate. I hope you found some valuable stuff in there.
/r/seduction12/11/15 01:28 AM
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Dude, super cool to read this man. I'd love to read more of your adventures if you put them online somewhere, like a blog or something. Lots of guys could benefit. Keep it up bro!
/r/seduction30/10/15 04:04 AM
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One of my favorite definitions I heard recently, on the Art of Charm podcast featuring Mark Manson as the guest, was on just this topic. Confidence is the feeling that you have nothing to prove to anyone, including yourself. Blew my mind. Some real gold right there.
/r/seduction26/10/15 02:14 AM
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Focus on feeling comfortable. The more nervous you are, the more nervous they feel. Don't give too much positive body language. Expect nothing and genuinely enjoy yourself. Keep us updated, chief
/r/seduction24/10/15 03:45 PM
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This is awesome. Reminds me of the HIMYM episode where Barney sets Ted up with a "prostitute" who is guaranteed to bang him at the end of the night. Turns out she wasn't a prostitute, Ted just had the confidence that he was already going to sleep with her and that actually gave him the chance to do so. I think he ended up losing out on her somehow, haha, but the principle still stands.
/r/seduction23/10/15 01:02 AM
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good work, dude. She's going to go to sleep tonight thinking about that guy who had huge balls and went to go talk to her. F yeah!
/r/seduction22/10/15 02:13 AM
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You become more attractive by not "trying to get girls to notice you". As soon as that's your mindset, you are already behind. Talk to lots of different people at the party. Learn how to be a source of positive energy, make people laugh, etc. At that point, girls will see that and want to know who you are.
/r/seduction18/10/15 12:58 PM
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Vice Presidential is solid, what kind of club? Any chance you can organize some sort of joint-club get-togethers, events, or parties? Just throwing out some ideas.
/r/seduction15/10/15 01:11 AM
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Instead of cold-approaching girls in the hall (low success rate/easily comes across as needy), have you considered meeting girls through various social groups on campus? Joining COED sports teams is a great way to meet girls. Join a club, ask if a girl wants to study in a mutual class together, talk to girls on the bus, etc. There's tons of other ways to meet gorgeous girls besides just cold approach.
/r/seduction14/10/15 11:46 PM
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For me, I prefer something between a smile and a smirk. A smile is great, and shows that you have some positive energy to offer, but the smirk is the bad-boy, motorcycle-riding, heavily tattooed cousin of the smile. It's sexy, and anyone can do it.
/r/seduction14/10/15 10:40 PM
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A beautiful woman has to do literally NOTHING to get the attention of a guy. From the time she's young, to fully mature and older, she is constantly being treated as the "prize." Over time, this must build some kind of complex that makes her feel like she is the one that is always sought after.
/r/seduction14/10/15 03:03 AM
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I don't know what happened in your situation with all the friends not wanting to talk to you either, but that sounds like a pretty lame group. For girls that you see all the time, "going for it" is always going to have some risk. There is no shame in having interest in one of your female friends or their friends. Maybe try and return the favor a bit, and bring more guy friends (for the girls) with you when you hang out. To get out of your dry spell, spend some time meeting more people, and not f…
/r/seduction13/10/15 09:49 PM
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Totally agree. My favorite way to meet female friends is to go on coed recreational sports teams. You can almost always set up meetups afterwards for drinks, where you can get to know them better.
/r/seduction13/10/15 09:40 PM
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Yes, it's absolutely possible. Let's say you cut her off for a month and work on yourself. You go to a party, and concidentally see her there. The best thing you could do to attract her attention would be to go to the party and work the room. Talk to girls hotter than her, uglier than her, and even the guys. Then if you run into each other, let her "win" you over, as now she realizes how much more social value you have.
/r/seduction13/10/15 09:37 PM
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You don't always have to start the convo. Though it shows a lot of social value, it also shows a lot of neediness. Sometime when you don't want to start the convo, just look at her and smile. If she stares at you, just say "can I help you?" with a smirk on your face. Put some friendly pressure on her to say something. If she's into you.... she will.
/r/seduction13/10/15 02:22 AM
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24 hours with no reply means she might just be busy. Or she doesn't have the energy to text a guy right now. As a last-ditch effort, you can always try a re-engaging text, just for fun. "Hey haven't heard from you in a minute. Just wanted to make sure you didn't get eaten by bears." or something similarly goofy that aligns with your personality.
/r/seduction13/10/15 02:19 AM
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This is a great idea, and great start to the list. Here are a couple additions. Before all, Decide in your head that you have something to offer. Realize that not every interaction will have a great result, and be at peace with that. At the end, I would add Learn how to and become comfortable with escalating physical touch, how to kiss a woman, and be sexually confident. With guys, learn how to build a network of great friends that all support each other and make each other better.
/r/seduction04/10/15 03:30 PM
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This is really cool, David. I felt like you were speaking directly to me. As someone else with a website and brand dedicated to self-improvement, in the areas of attraction, confidence, and social skills, this is awesome. I am currently in a long-term relationship and sometimes question myself as to whether I am "experienced" enough to help people. I'd love to actually see your blog, if you fix up that link you have up top.
/r/seduction04/10/15 03:17 PM
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