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Thanks man. I just checked it out, and I absolutely dig the mindset. My head's a bit more clear now.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:32 PM
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I'm sorry that lessons like this have to be learnt (or relearnt) the hard way. I'm already working at getting over the emotions, but we'll see how long it takes. Thanks for sharing mate.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:52 AM
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I needed that. Sometimes I feel like this sub is needlessly harsh to people looking for help or reassurance, but this was warranted. The thing is I knew everything before going in, but I couldn't stop myself, which is somehow worse. My head was in such a bad place and I let emotions dictate my actions. Thanks for your help mate. Not gonna do this again.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:14 AM
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Yeah man, I really get that now. Atleast she gave it to me straight, yeah? But knowing it still kinda messes with me, like thinking about her treating me like an accessory till I've reached my level of usefulness and then casually discarding. It's really fucked me up. I was lonely during that phase, and honestly I still am. The feelings are still fresh, and I hate that I'm not in control right now.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:09 AM
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Thank you. I appreciate you, and while time does heal, it just felt bad enough at the moment that I wanted to vent. Meeting girls in real life is tough since we're on lockdown right now here. I'd try online but I don't really feel like a repeat of last time. Any pointers?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:50 AM
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Mods removed it, maybe because it turned out to be a stupid question. Anyway meeting her more often sounds like the way to go. It seems so obvious in the end, but I guess it just doesn't seem that straightforward beforehand.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:14 PM
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I agree with what you're saying. She lives about forty five minutes away on the other side of the city, so it's not as far off as other LDRs but we meet each other maybe a few times a month. Most of time it's because of me, since I'm too busy. But that's the only reason I classify it as long distance.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:05 PM
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Aside from texting, what could you realistically do to keep in touch between dates? Do you call instead?
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:36 AM
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Thanks for the heads up. I'd been planning to watch a movie too so this works nicely.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:58 PM
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I gotta admit I've been slacking with the game. Mostly due more important commitments like loans and my business. Yeah I got some neat pointers so far. I'm looking to maybe add a bit of dread to the mix as well.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:51 AM
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I feel I especially needed this. Asked a question yesterday on asktrp, which I genuinely thought I didn't know the answer to. A couple helpful responses trickled in, and it seemed so obvious. I was punching myself as to why I didn't get it sooner. Maybe I already knew, but the emotions at that time basically gave me tunnel vision. Either way great post. Also I highly recommend reading the VCR Questions article completely. It was a great read.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 07:45 AM
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I did it, but I feel I didn't amplify enough. "He sounds super matured" "I'm happy for him" Yeah thanks for the heads up mate. Thought I was doing AA, but seems like I was only doing the agreeing ffs.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:00 PM
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Would probably be best course of action. I feel talking to her about it only gives her ammunition to use, but I could be wrong.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:23 PM
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I understand why you'd say that. I mean it when I say I'm outcome independent, since I've got more stuff on my plate to worry about (loans, things at work). I'm by no means perfect. I could use some guidance in this situation though, since I don't want her to misinterpret my disinterest as insecurity.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:15 PM
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Edited it. Wasn't done when I posted by accident
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:07 PM
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I consider myself in that camp too. Looks like I've got some behaviour checking to do. Thanks for the heads up
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 09:40 AM
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I agree with this. But at the same time others here have said not to set boundaries and that we should rather just withdraw attention, since the former only sows resentment. What do you think is the right thing to do and for what situation does it fit you think?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 04:43 AM
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From a TRP standpoint, it's completely logical. It made her perceive me as a valuable commodity. But from a normal perspective, it baffles me how women think. If we as men get love, we dish it back. It's completely inverted with them, which seems illogical.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 02:32 AM
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Back then we used to be big on texting, since we work at different places. She'd reply hours later, or at night when I'd have sent one in the morning. All the while she'd be posting on Snapchat and Instagram (I know. I used to obsessively check both when I didn't get a reply. I'm off both now). Even then her replies would be curt. She'd never make any plans. The lunch I mentioned was my idea of "talking things out" and "making her feel comfortable" since it was obviously my fault that she's acti…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 04:46 AM
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I can attest to a similar deal. Around 6 months into the relationship my LTR wasn't reciprocating, and I made it worse by thinking I should be doing more. I visited her at work and took her for lunch to talk things out. It makes me cringe when I think about it right now. That's around when I found TRP. Stopped giving a fuck, ghosted her whenever I could and, like OP said, it got better than it was before. It's completely illogical and it shouldn't have to be this way. But it works.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 01:11 PM
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That helped man. Thank you
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:45 PM
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I hear you. I shrugged off all her attempts at finding out what happened to cause the lack of attention. Gonna meet her in 30 so we'll see
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:26 AM
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Thanks mate!
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:26 AM
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So from what I understand, don't confront. Just withdraw affection and she'll understand. Hope she's smart enough. Thanks mate Edit: she sometimes asks me why I'm being distant and to tell her if she fucked up, coz she doesn't know what she did.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:25 AM
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IX. Connect with her emotions Didn't completely understand this one. Shouldn't we have a measure of emotional detachment?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:18 AM
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Yup I didn't tell her about it. Tbh we've spoken about this before in my beta days so that's no use. What should I do next? If not confronting her, what else
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:05 PM
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Completely agree with this. Once you judge them by their actions, it's much easier to not have expectations, i.e., not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 04:03 AM
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Found TRP three days back and have been internalising the sidebar and top posts. It's a tough pill to swallow, but I see the logic in it and it works. Currently in a LTR with a girl I love. Things had been going a bit sour of late, which led me to finding the TRP community. She's been giving less respect, making it more about her. But I've come to see that that's just my BP conditioning screwing things up. I've tried implementing some of the things I've read. Having a lower emotional investment …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 02:55 AM
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