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DISCUSSIONthe_wave5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:32 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTthe_wave5/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 01:07 AM
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Thanks for your input on all this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 01:03 AM
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The only reason I hesitate to full on block his # is because we have a bunch of mutual friends including my cousin! Genuinely asking.. should that not make a difference?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:51 PM
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Still haven't responded. He sent another text (youtube link) and I didn't reply to that either. I feel kinda bad, but if he calls I'll be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:11 PM
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Not only the pandemic, but the holidays in the middle of that month. Thanks for chiming in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:01 PM
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THANK YOU for this, QUEEN SHIT RIGHT HERE. Your response is worth its weight in gold, take a reward, and thank you for showing me the light and the way forward. You are 100% right and I am going to follow this to a T. I don't know you but I love ya! This is exactly what I needed to remind myself and read. Be well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:59 PM
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I agree with what you are saying here. I like texting sometimes, but I get really sick of having my phone in hand. I really don't even like making plans over text, I'd rather a quick call for efficiency. I prefer one on one in person conversations. I have already said to him several times "we text too much", including when I last saw him, and he agreed! But ever since then, we have not gotten together, we've only texted. If I'm being honest, there are some other red flags with him. Just the fact…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:08 PM
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Thank you! Do you suggest saying anything to him about it? As mentioned in the op, he texted me last night and I did not respond. He actually just texted again saying something like "yay tomorrow is your massage" (meaning me - I had told him i was getting one this week). That kind of message doesn't require a response. But do I just ghost? I am not a huge fan of ghosting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:59 PM
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Thank you!! The funny thing is, it's not all mindless. He will go deep in the texts. It's like we're skipping the getting to know each other in person part, in favor of getting to know each other via text. He has told me SO MUCH about himself. I've held back a ton.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:52 PM
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I want a relationship, whether with him or someone else. I was very happy with my ex until I wasn't. But it gave me a taste of the future I seek. This new guy seems like a catch that I don't necessarily want to walk away from. I'm 35 and hoping to marry and have children someday. I am not 100% ready but I am also not willing to sit around and wait. I am specifically asking for thoughts about the constant texting. I think my gut is telling me it's a red flag. Edited to add - regarding strengtheni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:50 PM
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If you kiss your cat you'll kiss anyone?? Uh.. WHAT!?! What a fuckin leap. What an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:12 PM
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I'm sorry you had to go through that and it's a great idea to practice self defense. I'm still triggered by the assault and it's been 5 years. Really proud of you for taking steps to heal, it took me a few years to get back on track but I'm getting there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:42 AM
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Good work!!! If he doesn't want better for himself then he can't be helped..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:44 PM
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Disgusting and disturbing. What a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:34 AM
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It was shocking. I couldn't sleep after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:57 PM
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That movie fucked me up. It's a must-see and agree that a person's reaction to it will be telling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:54 PM
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Wow, what trash!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:19 PM
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I will never forget the disgusting LVM I briefly talked to and went on a couple dates with. A grown adult who decided he was coming over one work night, forced the issue until I caved, whined "kiss me" when I didn't do it as soon as I saw him, tried to **make me kiss him**, and then couldn't understand why I got pissed and literally kicked him out. I had to tell him that a kiss is not fucking guaranteed, a kiss should be given freely, don't demand it for god's sake. I'm getting heated just remem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:00 PM
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It's a way to make people spend more time on the app. Before, you could scroll through the activity feed and see the pics someone liked. Now you have to look at who they follow, click on each account individually, check out every pic and scroll through to see if the person in question liked it. Aka spending hours on the damn app. So glad I stopped with this waste of time. Screw insta, especially after FB bought it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:55 PM
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"Men would fuck a McChicken" Hahaha thank you for this laugh =)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:50 PM
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Haven't read through the comments yet but strongly feel that as HVW we do not show them what we've got until they've earned it. You will not find partially nude or any kind of provocative pictures of me anywhere online for free public consumption. That said, if you got it, and want to flaunt it, do you. No judgment, I just don't follow or like those images. I know I look good naked. I work to maintain myself FOR ME, and my HVM man benefits from and appreciates what is for our eyes only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:46 PM
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I'd include women who sleep with their friend's boyfriends. This happened to a friend - our mutual friend fucked her man while they were still together. Who could trust her again? Even though the dude in this situation was totally a LVM I still will always think that was trashy as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:34 AM
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Fantastic post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:15 PM
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In no particular order, a list: Smoker Daily habit of going to the bar after work Didn't cook, only ate take-out Sold weed Mr. Popular Mama's boy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:58 AM
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Proud of you sis, I've been there and know how hard it is. You did good!!! Now make sure you stick to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:23 PM
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Amen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:33 PM
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