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Fundamentals theadoringfan216/r/seduction20/12/25 12:29 PM
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All of that is meaningless, you can be a homeless bum and pick up hot chicks like my man who was homeless in NYC who used to sleep in the houses of the girls he picked up on the street. Spend it on a good dating coach who will see your sets
/r/seduction16/02/26 12:11 PM
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Cold approach. Social media has ruined men, if you think cold approaching in a pub or coffee shop looks 'desperate' you will never get any women
/r/seduction11/02/26 01:41 AM
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It feels like friendzone, you need to give true directness my opener is ALWAYS the same, opening should be easy and more body language 'Hey I saw you there and thought you looked good and wanted to meet you' just a variation of that
/r/seduction03/02/26 02:55 AM
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No the true way is swiping on your phone looking down in a hunchback position, in a system that is wedged against you the only way to make dating consistently work is to pay these companies more and more money
/r/seduction03/02/26 02:02 AM
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Game is MUCH more important than looks I would say its 70-30. An average guy with smooth game will do MUCH better than a awkward model
/r/seduction30/01/26 11:53 AM
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Not a beginner but my 2026 goals is make $5k/month the baseline and achieve abundance. I am regularlly approaching so thats good, just need to increase volume.
/r/seduction26/01/26 03:08 AM
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Depends on what you mean by success
/r/seduction23/01/26 03:26 AM
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For sure. I opened a girl who was a bit distant, one word stern responses now my bottleneck is my mid game not my opener or approach anxiety. Now I can focus on cold reads instead of approaching because that is becoming easier
/r/seduction22/01/26 11:42 AM
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I think my current 1-2 a day is the best for consistency. You CAN do more and its better to do more but 1 or 2 a day on girls you have GENUINE desire for I don't go for less than 6.5/10 I feel it is the best approach for most guys
/r/seduction22/01/26 03:34 AM
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Nothing is more important than shooting your shot
/r/seduction22/01/26 02:29 AM
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Come on bro, easy steps. I feel for more advanced guys, the most important thing is at LEAST one cold approach a day. It keeps the pressure off, and makes every approach easier and easier and habbitual
/r/seduction20/01/26 09:51 AM
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I'm just doing one approach a day, minimum I can afford to be selective and pass on girls I would match and go on a shit date with, as she isn't attractive enough. Approaching will set you free, if you approach 3 women a day only speaking to them for 5 minutes, you're investing 15 minutes a day into a MUCH better more fulfilling dating life than 99% of men
/r/seduction20/01/26 02:53 AM
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I would just talk if your going the same way
/r/seduction15/01/26 01:33 PM
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Always stop a girl don't walk with her
/r/seduction15/01/26 07:08 AM
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Eye contact
/r/seduction07/01/26 09:59 AM
2

2 set is objectively the hardest set for a man. Let's say there are 3 girls, if you go for 1 the other 2 have each other but in a 2 set even if the girl is feeling you if her frend is uncomfortable it is very difficult
/r/seduction02/01/26 05:11 AM
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A day, sorry
/r/seduction29/12/25 04:47 AM
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I come from the school of what James Tusk and James Marshall, around 20-30 is ideal a week but 1-2 is sufficient to have a good dating life over time
/r/seduction29/12/25 04:39 AM
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This is not true 50-150 is riduclous that is 7-21 a day? I feel 2-3 approaches a day is good volume thats 14-21 girls a week. If your good that is enough for a MUCH better than average datign life. OP is just doing things wrong
/r/seduction29/12/25 02:55 AM
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Does that make a difference?
/r/seduction24/12/25 01:51 PM
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Your risk of getting killed for this is MUCH higher than normal women you know
/r/seduction24/12/25 01:19 AM
4

Look like you want to fuck them
/r/seduction23/12/25 08:58 AM
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Difficult to say, you won't connect with everyone. Perhaps a lack of sexual tension? Who knows
/r/seduction22/12/25 05:00 AM
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You have probably been doing it shit for 12 years no offence. And why would ANY women want to date you or sleep with you if you feel like this 'I feel like I've gone to the advanced stage where I feel like I have figured out "female nature" in that women are basically just low IQ selfish brainless individuals. Going out trying to convince a woman to go out with you feels like trying to convince a dog how to play sports.... It's a draining task.' I feel you need some therapy, and go to a bootcamp
/r/seduction21/12/25 04:47 AM
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Its not that complicated, for me London day game is what works. You do a text book approach, I always say 'I just saw you I thought you looked (compliment) and I wanted to meet you) Then you charm her, it isn't rocket science.
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:39 AM
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Physical touch, like holding her hand, brushing her arm, etc
/r/seduction20/12/25 01:08 PM
3

That is a different game, you have to work on your vibe slight kino and turning it sexual with eye contact and presence
/r/seduction20/12/25 12:55 PM
1

Okay, lets look at mediation. Instead of doing a huge session of 30 minutes, it is much easier, and more beneficial to do 5-10 minutes daily than two big sessions on the weekend. The idea is if you keep to those 5-10 minute sessions, you can gradually work up to it. I'm an introvert I like talking to women but 10+ is super training, after the first full day of the bootcamp I wasn't even bothered to do anotehr session
/r/seduction20/12/25 12:16 PM
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IMO 10 is bad advice, sure if you want optimal volume its good but IMO you need to make this a habit, a lifestyle. I have done bootcamps before where I approached more in a few hours than I did in my entire life, but it fizzled out after I finished. This is a easy gradual, consistent approach to approaching, like gong to the gym slowly. 1 girl a day is still 28-31 girls a month, 2 would be 56-62 a month. I already have very good fundamentals of getting them to stop, getting leads but I want it t…
/r/seduction20/12/25 09:54 AM
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Build yourself up to it, I've went on one bootcamp and approached around 200-300s girls but haven't approached in a while. Now i've done 4 in a row my aim is 7 in a row then I will boost it to 2 girls a day. I feel I have the best game I've ever had all those past approaches weren't for nothing, you don't lose the skill you lose the ability to fire the trigger.
/r/seduction19/12/25 12:09 PM
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I think I will get a Kazakh wife, baddest girls on Earth IMO still with traditional values
/r/seduction17/12/25 01:40 PM
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Cold approach, bro, I just started again 2 days ago, and today I am likely having a smoothie with a stacked 7/10 Uzbek girl. I am aiming for one approach a day for 7 days, then I will double it to 2 You already know it's a waste, it doesn't mean get rid of it but use it to supplement your main pillar the cold approach.
/r/seduction17/12/25 12:44 PM
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It's not negative; it's making her emotional. Making her laugh, teasing her, saying she's super hot with seductive eye contact all these things cause her to FEEL things. Women need to FEEL things to like you. If you don't make her feel things, she won't like you. Look at Sterling copper on YouTube for more info
/r/seduction17/12/25 12:33 AM
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100% facts that, if you don't take shots you have 0 chance
/r/seduction14/12/25 10:48 AM
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I feel like this is not true, but it is somewhat true. I would aim for around 5-7 minutes I feel that is ths sweetspot, but an instant date if you can bang it is good
/r/seduction08/12/25 12:42 PM
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I tell you every single bad reaction I've had (not many) it was nothing compared to making the approach
/r/seduction07/12/25 12:41 AM
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This is if you're good. I can't remember the exact number but I know it was for every 30 approaches you should get one lay.
/r/seduction06/12/25 10:06 AM
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Like with the gym or most things you need to warm up. The warmup I was taught was ask 2 people for directions, doesn;t have to be women, compliment 2 people like 'I like your shirt' then you're warmed up. Or you could just lock eyes with pretty girls and say hello, or just ask a pretty girl with places to eat near you etc
/r/seduction02/12/25 05:34 AM
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I used to cold approach a lot and had success, but I regressed and am trying to get back into it. My advice is to never stop; you are learning social skills that will be useful to you forever. I am getting back into it
/r/seduction30/11/25 01:16 PM
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Go get a coach to teach you how to do cold approach, then get someone to shoot or use AI to get good photos for dating apps.
/r/seduction23/11/25 04:21 AM
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It is incredibly stupid as getting good with women is a skill, if you don't shoot you can't score Take one fat guy ugly guy with game who constantly approaches, he will get MUCH more women than a objectively good looking guy who is timid and doesn't work on game or approaches
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:42 AM
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Don't listen to what you read on the internet
/r/seduction07/11/25 05:23 AM
1

Its easier to blame there internal failiures on what is external which they cannot change
/r/seduction25/10/25 11:24 AM
9

Its the same as sales
/r/seduction22/10/25 03:35 AM
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Makes you sound deperate and jealous
/r/seduction21/10/25 03:08 AM
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I think it's because they are not very important to the guys. The less crucial she is to your life the more she wants to be in it.
/r/seduction18/10/25 08:14 AM
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I feel that good advice is that you always want the girl to like you or think she likes you more than you like her.
/r/seduction14/10/25 08:29 AM
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The number 1 thing that will destroy you even if you tick every box is neediness. Nothing is worse to women than neediness.
/r/seduction11/10/25 02:10 AM
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I can tell you in 3 words. You are Needy. No matter WHO you are, WHAT you look like if you are needy it will turn every women attraction for you into a camel in the desert
/r/seduction07/10/25 08:39 AM
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Not your problem G
/r/seduction07/10/25 04:07 AM
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The biggest advice I can give is that women are important, but only a part of the pie of life. Smashing a lot of girls will NOT make you happy
/r/seduction05/10/25 12:11 PM
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Its pretty obvious. If you make plans and she says I'm busy without offering an alternative, she doesn't want to see you.
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:24 AM
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Nothing is more beneficial than shooting your shot, and geninely not giving a fuck about the outcome
/r/seduction08/09/25 01:33 PM
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No offence, but ask yourself why on Earth would a woman want to be with you with saying statements like this 'I am suicidal. I see no hope at this point. There's not even the tunnel. I just want to kill myself. I can't stand it anymore. I can't stand being such a shit trash thrown out to trash bin like nothing I did ever even mattered one bi' You have to fix yourself first, try psychodelic therapy.
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:34 AM
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If she gives you a quick glance that is a IOU (indicator of interest) they have better peripheral vision than men
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:07 AM
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Its been said a million times but it begs repeats, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
/r/seduction16/06/25 10:32 AM
1

Best bet is your phone slyly recording or ideal the meta glasses
/r/seduction05/06/25 08:58 AM
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Say something like 'I've enjoyed talking to you, but I got something to do let me see your number and I'll text you to hand out' or create plans then
/r/seduction02/06/25 07:55 PM
3

Just do the beach, street, and shopping centres.
/r/seduction01/06/25 04:14 PM
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My advice is keep at, at times I've been very good at approaching especially after a boot camp but if your an extrovert you have to work HARD to not go back into your shell. But there's no feeling like it
/r/seduction23/05/25 09:36 AM
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What kind of question is this? Obviously it happens all the time lol
/r/seduction23/05/25 08:26 AM
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