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RANTthealamo369/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:18 AM
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Recently I’ve had a lot going on career wise and I’ve been super busy preparing for what I’m going to do after I graduate. I have been working so hard the past few days and absolutely loving it. Today I thought to myself “damn I’m glad I’m single” because there’s no way I’d have this much time and freedom to focus on my career and get so much enjoyment out of it. I used to constantly want to be in a relationship so feeling this way today was super dope and I’m excited to see what the future hold…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:00 AM
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I did the same exact thing after breaking up with my ex. Love all this unbothered bad ass bitch queen energy👑👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:07 PM
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I’m so sorry this all happened to you. You are right, you do need to leave him and I know it’s scary but you will be so thankful in the long run. I left my boyfriend a couple months ago right before I was supposed to move into his place. I’m talking days before. I had to scramble to find a place to live and it was super stressful at the time but I am so much happier now. The sooner you get out of that situation, the better. Life is too short and too precious to keep yourself in such a miserable …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:50 AM
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I think it depends as well. You may be giving off more confident vibes from your glow up so you may be more approachable now. I don’t think it’s a bad idea to give him a chance if you’re interested, but as always just make sure you vet hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:44 AM
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Blocking has become my best friend lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:15 AM
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Proud of you girl!! You deserve so much better. I know the waves of sadness suck but it’s a part of healing and I promise things will get better. Just focus on yourself and loving yourself right now. Mr Right will come along at the exact right moment. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:14 AM
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I feel your frustration sooooo much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:15 AM
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You didn’t do anything wrong at all. He’s the one who messed up. You have to forgive yourself and stop trying to figure out how you could have made it work. If he’s incapable of love he probably has some deep shit going on inside of him that you’ll never understand no matter how much you think about it. You just gotta focus on yourself and healing right now. I know it sucks right now but it will get better. The right one for you will come along, I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:17 AM
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I would just bring it up and say it bothered you. You shouldn’t have to threaten to leave for him to stop doing something that you don’t like. If he doesn’t fix it, then just take note and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:01 AM
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Lmao trying to cover all the bases
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:33 PM
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Lol let’s make a thread of all the shit LVM/NVM say to not feel bad about being trash. “Sorry, I know I suck”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:06 PM
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Omg this is gold. Part of me hopes I can do this to a fuckboy and part is like I really hope I never have to deal with a fuckboy again. I guess it’s I win-win now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:29 PM
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My NVM ex boyfriend asked if we could still be friends after we broke up because I was the best friendship he ever had before we started dating. This dickhead really though he could treat me like shit and then keep me around as a friend lol. I said sure, we can still be friends and then blocked him on everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:09 PM
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Blocked my ex on everything but still friends with his mom. She texted me after we broke up saying I was such a positive in his life and he has a lot he needs to work on. She sees me living my best life without him on facebook and likes my posts. Gotta love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:13 AM
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I love to fucking see it. Keep this energy rolling, you’re a QUEEN!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:10 AM
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Yes yes yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:01 AM
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Love this!! You’re a queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:00 AM
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Just keep reminding yourself how great you are and that you weren’t the problem. The negative thoughts and feelings will go away. Try to put a lot of energy into loving and improving yourself and magical things will happen😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:58 AM
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Lmao yeah, time to say boy byeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:37 AM
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Fuck that guy, he seems very superficial. Not worth your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 02:00 AM
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Sending good vibes and energy**
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:33 PM
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Not embarrassing for you at all, sis!! Why should you be embarrassed for having a good heart and taking relationships seriously?¿ He’s the embarrassment! I’m good vibes and energy your way because I know you’re a queen! Once the right man comes along you won’t think twice about that clown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:26 PM
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And that’s the mother fucking tea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:06 PM
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I literally scrolled down to the comments to see if this didn’t feel quite right to anyone else lmao. I am fairly confident my ex jumped right back on tinder and started DMing women on insta the moment we broke up to avoid any type of feelings he had. This was also after his mom texted me saying I was such a positive in his life and that he has a lot he needs to work on. I am very happy to no longer have to be an amateur full time psychologist for free!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:05 PM
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This makes me want to vomit. I swear some women just put up with terrible relationships because they want to be a mom. Like girl just get a sperm donor and live your best life🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:44 PM
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I really fucking love to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:22 PM
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This gives me hope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:21 PM
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I think this post is hilariously disgusting as well, but please don’t use the r-word to describe things you don’t agree with. I hate to be that person, but I am that person lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:58 AM
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It’s a good day when you see this stuff and can laugh about how fucked up your ex was instead of getting pissed off. Really dodged a bullet on that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:50 AM
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Will we be able to create a new username for this website or will it automatically be the same username as whatever verification source we use?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:52 AM
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That sounds awesome, I’d love to know how it goes and I’m sure a lot of other people would like to hear about your experience as well because I think people often forget about speed dating or are intimidated by it. Best of luck with it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:39 AM
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You have some really awesome qualities about you! I can tell you’re very thoughtful and the way you challenge yourself shows that you’re brave, which is so cool! People definitely like these qualities so I have no idea why you think you aren’t appealing. I would say ditch the apps altogether, but I’m pretty anti-OLD to begin with so take my opinion with a grain of salt. I just really don’t like how it seems like using the apps make you feel bad about yourself and like you aren’t good enough, bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:37 AM
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That’s really great advice! I’m honestly not looking for a relationship or dating right now, trying to focus on self-improvement for a little while, but I’ll definitely keep this in mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:30 AM
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I want to hear more about you! Can you tell me some of your favorite qualities about yourself? You’re very concerned with not fitting in to the mold you think people are looking for but everyone wants different things. You should own what makes you different instead of thinking it makes you less attractive. You are who you are and there is no one else like you and that’s what makes you awesome! Just be confident in who you are! I know it may feel impossible right now but it’ll get better if you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:28 PM
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I’m the same way. Every time I’ve tried OLD I’ve deleted the app in a matter of days. It just feels so fake! I feel like so many people on there are just getting numb to the swiping and having so many options they don’t know who or how to invest in a relationship. I need an organic connection. Idk if it’s because I’m an extrovert or because I’m actually looking for something real. I just really hope there are other more people out there like us because dating has become so superficial because of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:12 PM
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Girl, delete the apps and focus on you! It sounds like you’re pretty insecure and I know it would be nice to have a man right now but in the famous words of RuPaul “if you can’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else?” Dating apps will always leave you feeling disappointed and sad if you don’t already feel great about yourself. I know you’re awesome and you need to know that too, my queen! Focus on you right now. I know it’s probably the last thing you want to do but it will be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:03 PM
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I really needed this today. Broke up with my ex recently because he wasn’t giving the slightest effort. When we broke up he said he wanted to “figure things out” with himself and then get back together because he now knows what it’s like to truly be loved and wanted to show that he could truly love me. I was like lol you think I’m going to sit and wait for your dumb ass to come back and treat me like shit again!? I told him I never wanted to speak to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 07:26 PM
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I really love this and want to have this energy but I’m not sure how to cultivate it. My mindset right now is never settle for a LVM and what not but I put so much hope in “there is someone perfect out there for me”. It’s like I’m fine and happy on my own but still waiting and hoping there’s more. How did you all get to the energy level of not even worrying about finding someone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:17 PM
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I am so much stronger than I was before. I broke up with my ex almost a week ago. The classic LVM and I tried everything to get him to put some effort in and he never would. I finally asked him why he wouldn’t try and he said he was too selfish to put my happiness over his and clearly I was done after that. The next day I told him to never reach out to me again. We haven’t talked since and he’s been texting a mutual friend trying to figure out what happened, even though if he just though about h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:43 AM
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Don’t beat yourself up over being a good person. Your ex is the one in the wrong. You’ve learned from it and now you know what you really deserve and what you’re not going to put up with. Continue with your self love journey, great things will come to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:20 AM
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Hell yes! You are a queen and deserve nothing but the absolute best! Very proud of you for cutting out LVM once and for all. You’re going to be blessed with the best in due time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:36 PM
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