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Yes I definitely hold my tongue a lot, and this is actually really hard for me, as I’m one of those people who (like a man) - if someone comes to me with a problem - offer a solution. If you want to rant, go somewhere else. But I also know a lot of people want to be told that they are doing the right thing regardless of whether it’s true or not, so I hold my tongue, nod and agree. Since becoming familiar with RPW I definitely find it easier to identify where issues are in other people’s relation…
/r/RedPillWives11/10/18 09:14 PM
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Mastering the art of French cooking! I feel like everyone should have this. I also love ‘Persiana’ and ‘the meat cookbook’ and Gordon Ramsay’s Sunday Lunch. Also, if you’re looking for something tasty but simple - Jamie Oliver has a cookbook called ‘5 ingredient cookbook’ which I thought would suck but is actually amazing (and you can expand on the recipes such as make your own puff pastry/vinegarette glaze etc instead of getting shop bought as the recipes for some things can suggest)
/r/RedPillWives18/09/18 08:52 PM
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CONGRATULATIONS!!! <3 and so cute how he went about finding something you can wear!
/r/RedPillWives07/09/18 02:53 PM
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The daily connoisseur, by any chance?
/r/RedPillWives21/08/18 08:52 PM
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My SO is a doctor so he knows everything, and nothing grosses him out ever. I use BC so he knows when I’m on my period anyway, and in terms of other concerns I always tell him before I even book an appointment, as it can be a quick fix that doesn’t require seeing a professional. It depends on your husband’s threshold to be fair! I don’t think there is any RPWi specific protocol, as long as you’re considerate of how he reacts to it and don’t bring it up if he doesn’t like or want to talk about it…
/r/RedPillWives21/08/18 08:50 PM
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Not necessarily. RP is not about who works and who doesn’t, but about a relationship dynamic. Yes, than can lead to a woman choosing to be a SAHW/M, but then there are plenty of women who stay at home who are far from having an RP relationship dynamic. Also, places that currently still uphold traditional family dynamics (like countries in Eastern Europe) are not dominated by upper or middle classes.
/r/RedPillWives29/07/18 09:04 PM
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I’m not entirely sure the point of trying to save her current relationship. She is clearly not attracted to her boyfriend and there is nothing anyone can do to make her attracted to him. It seems to me like they’re staying in this relationship out of habit. I could be wrong though. Also if he is putting up with her not putting out and with her nagging and mothering him in public - he is probably not as much of a catch as it seems in your eyes. This seems like quite a handful of a situation to ad…
/r/RedPillWives26/06/18 05:13 PM
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OMG I love cooking but we have recently minimised what we use. Everything felt so cluttered! Firstly, we have given up paper towel, and are trying to give up plastic as much as possible. (I promise, not hippies, just environmentally conscious lol, you will see this is a trend...). We have one hand towel which lasts about a week, and dishcloths that I change out daily or every other day depending on usage, spills etc. They get washed once a week with the rest of our towels in 90 degrees. We have …
/r/RedPillWives15/06/18 12:58 PM
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Or couscous takes 5 mins and you can just rinse the pan with water
/r/RedPillWives11/04/18 11:33 AM
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Omg can’t believe someone actually sat down and wrote that crap. Firstly, the article brings up extremes (such as the woman living in a cockroach infested hotel room), which is fine, but she is probably not a member of the target audience for the ‘home cooked meal’ campaigns, and also an outliar. Secondly, we all know cooking at home is cheaper than eating out or ordering take out. £60-£70 (don’t know what the equivalent would be in dollars) covers mine and my boyfriends shop for a week and that…
/r/RedPillWives10/04/18 10:33 PM
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I read both and her post definitely gave me something to giggle at. I do agree with his post mostly, and especially women not really knowing what makes a man attractive to them. I know what makes my man attractive to me, but if I had to tell him to be/do those things, then he would no longer be attractive. Plus, as the blog post states, if a woman is not already attracted to a man and doesn't want to have sex with him, then no amount of compliments, doing dishes, listening to her feelings and as…
/r/RedPillWives08/04/18 08:34 AM
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I feel you. UK has one season. Candles in Autumn/Winter are the thing. Flowers for Spring and indoor/balcony plants for Summer!
/r/RedPillWives06/04/18 12:34 PM
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Haha same, my kids will definitely inherit a lot of my childhood rituals that I don't do now, but will definitely start again if I have babies! And I agree, I think traditions are more of a cultural and collective thing, while rituals are personal to you, or just your close family! Things that actually put you in the mood and make it feel like Christmas/Summer/Easter etc.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/18 10:34 AM
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They're mostly definitely habits that developed to hold more importance, though there are a few small ones that were probably more conscious or passed down from family, such as the following one, which will also answer your tradition question. u/jack_hammarred gave a great answer as to what traditions are vs rituals. I would add tradition to me is something that is widely cultural, while ritual is personal (rituals can feed into traditions on a personal level). For example, it is traditional to …
/r/RedPillWives06/04/18 10:32 AM
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Omg I love rituals the same way I love traditions! Whenever me and N are off on a Sunday morning together, we walk up to the corner of our road to get Sunday papers (shops here are closed until 1pm, so a little newspaper stand opens on a Sunday), then we make coffee and a light breakfast and sit on our sofa (with the balcony windows open if it's warm enough) reading for an hour or so, passing the other pages they would be interested in and discussing our favourite articles. This is my favourite …
/r/RedPillWives05/04/18 09:41 AM
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That looks delicious, thank you so much! Can't wait to make this.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/18 09:15 AM
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Yes please, that would be amazing, I know she loves goats cheese :)
/r/RedPillWives03/04/18 12:11 PM
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I have a friend with coeliac disease visiting for 2 nights in a couple of weeks - does anyone have any tried and tested gluten free recipes for breakfast and lunch (we will probably eat out for supper)? I know not all gluten free recipes are great, and I don't want to make something rubbish! Also, is there anywhere unusual gluten can hide that I might not think of? I try to remember to always check the label. I'm gonna clear out our appliances just before she comes, as she can have a reaction ev…
/r/RedPillWives03/04/18 10:11 AM
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Just about to do some now, I will post pictures after! :) they won’t be that imprsssive lol. Where I’m originally from, religious tradition is to paint eggs and put them in a dressed basket with other things (a sugar lamb, a piece of sausage, slice of bread, salt and pepper and a traditional Easter cake) and take it to church for blessing. I’m not religious myself and where I live now there isn’t a tradition like that even though the religion is the same! The way I used to do it as a child is dy…
/r/RedPillWives31/03/18 07:24 PM
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Read the title, and I don’t even have to read the article to agree ;D
/r/RedPillWives27/03/18 09:58 PM
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I’m not a wife, but me and my SO live together. We both work, so we also both look after our home. There aren’t any ‘manly’ tasks to be done around our flat regularly, so my SO contributes to cooking and cleaning, and whichever one of us has more time any given week will probably end up doing more around the house. We don’t have children and we are quite tidy, so it’s never very messy in our place. We clean the whole house once a week and maybe vacuum once more and that’s it for big chores reall…
/r/RedPillWives13/03/18 07:42 PM
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Not OP, but try Khan Academy (it’s an app). You can literally learn about anything on that. Also Duolingo is good if you have 10-20 minutes a day you want to fill with learning a new language.
/r/RedPillWives08/03/18 09:42 PM
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I loved all of the fun activities tbh! Carrying on with some fun through this and next week. Singing is great cause we are both awful at it so we end up laughing half of the song. What concert did you go to/what music are you and M into? I'd love to hire someone though it's not as common here as in the US, and most cleaners are hired for regular jobs rather than one offs. Also N is not too keen on strangers in the house sadly and we are working towards a savings goal so I think he would see it a…
/r/RedPillWives12/02/18 09:51 AM
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I really enjoyed doing fun week, and I think my SO really did too! The last couple of days were a bit harder to think of stuff to do as he’s on nights and I don’t see him. Last week we went to a trampoline park and to a local pub for an open mic night, and we also dug out our jenga (the loser had to give the other a full body rub when requested haha). Those were the more intentional, planned fun activities, but on top of that I also made sure he had everything he wanted to watch the super bowl (…
/r/RedPillWives08/02/18 09:35 PM
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Current relationship focus is to bring back more fun. The weather here is rubbish and we don’t have any friends where we currently live, and we also have hectic schedules so we find ourselves napping on the couch a lot and doing not a whole lot. The February challenge will definitely help with that, but I want to carry on the fun week for longer and not let us get back into a rut. I want him to see me as a fun person again not a couch potato lol. In terms of my SO, I’m trying to understand and s…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/18 02:10 PM
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Oh this will be good! Especially the first week, we have been in a fun rut (especially more time consuming fun) for a little while as we are often on different schedules and it is hard to plan something. This month actually starts with my birthday! We are doing board game night tonight (also considering a Friends pub quiz but we would have to walk and it’s currently chucking it down) as we still have to work tomorrow, but we’re going to a trampoline park and then out for drinks on Saturday and t…
/r/RedPillWives01/02/18 05:20 PM
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Good to hear M has recovered and that you got great care. Enjoy your evening out at the restaurant :)
/r/RedPillWives20/01/18 09:41 PM
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Well done on knowing exactly when to step up and be not just a soft place to land, but also a steady and supportive woman for your SO. Sounds like it is tough, but also a great experience for you to learn how what he does differs. Please remember to put away a few minutes for yourself though and get some rest too, especially make sure you eat and rest to not catch something yourself. Best wishes to you and M (just read your comment responses) and I hope he is on good road to recovery. My SO is a…
/r/RedPillWives13/01/18 04:44 PM
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I prefer little goals, they are far more achievable for me :) I'm working on the fine dining. I'm currently looking for a good butcher and a good local produce market near us so I can attempt the recipes with the best possible ingredients. You should definitely try it, I found a lot of good fine dining recipes on Pinterest that are advanced however also easy to follow. There is an app I used last year to track how much time I spent using my phone (it did lots of things like told you how many tim…
/r/RedPillWives12/01/18 02:19 PM
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I have so many, but some of them are small and specific or are part of a larger resolution haha! (Also haven't been on reddit aside from on my phone for a while so only just posting these now!) Personal: Travel to 2 foreign destinations with my SO (one of them has to be a place neither of us has been). We actually already have one trip planned since I made this resolution. Fill a sketchbook by the end of the year. Try one advanced/fine dining recipe a month. Read minimum 24 books by the end of 2…
/r/RedPillWives11/01/18 11:20 PM
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Yes, I used to do that a lot (I went through a period of focusing on sink faucets), but honestly if it’s not one thing, there will always be something else, no matter how much you clean. This is regardless of whether I had people over or not as well. As long as I know my house is clean, I don’t mind that there’s a bit of dust on the skirting boards or a small stain on the floor. I used to have to clean it up the moment I saw it, but now I just deal with it whenever I’m already cleaning.
/r/RedPillWives18/12/17 05:22 PM
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Firstly, I’m sorry you are going through a hard time with your husband. This sounds like a really tough situation. Secondly... Consider asking him to see a therapist or even a psychiatrist. There seems to be a pattern in his behaviour and if it has been going on for 6 months, I would consider that long enough for a professional to get involved. There could be stress going on that he isn’t telling you about, or things that even he can’t identify himself. A qualified outsider might be able to put …
/r/RedPillWives15/12/17 12:09 AM
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I have to agree, I’ve never come across someone making up abuse, male or female. I’ve also never come across what some users here are describing - other people trying to convince them that they were being abused when they weren’t? The only place I have ever encountered warnings against this was on male RP forums, but I take very little of what men there write seriously... I live in a western, feminist country and I can’t see it being as widespread as the author says it is.
/r/RedPillWives14/12/17 10:06 PM
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This is so true! We follow mostly my traditions (we’re from completely different countries) when it comes to Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, and as my SO isn’t that into all the prep that goes into Christmas, he’s fine with that, but he really likes to get the tree quite early (between the 6th and 12th sometime) while according to my traditions mine would be up really late (23rd/24th), as well as majority of decorations, so we do that so he preserves at least some of his traditions (at least th…
/r/RedPillWives11/12/17 08:36 PM
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Haha oh well the Tesco near my house had some of their Christmas food range in stock at the end of August lol. But I don’t think start of December is late at all, I’ve not even started planning for anything other than presents!
/r/RedPillWives02/12/17 11:46 PM
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I know America gets their decorations up early because thanksgiving starts the xmas season, and the UK is overly consumerist so xmas here also starts way too early, but where I’m from no shop decorations (or any home decorations) went up until after 6th December and majority of people don’t put their tree up until Christmas Eve. Although I now live in the uk we probably won’t have anything up to the 20th or so, except the fairy lights that we have up all year anyway in our living space. You migh…
/r/RedPillWives02/12/17 04:52 PM
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Congrats! I loved living by myself for a while! Cleaning depends on whether you work or not. I’ve always been a very thorough cleaner, and when I moved out by myself the first time (no roommates or family) and had no one to split chores with, while having a more than full time job, I struggled. Looking back though, I was a bit ocd and my standards were ridiculous (for example I would scrub the bath every week even though I never really used it, I only used the shower, but I used to do that at ho…
/r/RedPillWives25/11/17 08:24 PM
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Interestingly, certain sports block puberty in children. Female gymnasts peak at a young age (a lot of them 16-18) and at that point they have little in the way of breasts, a lot of them don’t have periods yet and they are all rather short. This is because of the intense training regimes from very early on in life and building a lot more muscle than most young girls would. A serious injury that would put them out of training for longer than a couple of weeks can be career ending for a female gym…
/r/RedPillWives22/11/17 08:57 AM
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Yes I suppose our healthcare system is different in that it would just be the GP peadiatrician and counsellor, but not the endocrinologist, because our access to specialist doctors is different than in the US. Wow. That’s good that you all knew and expected it - it’s probably a lot worse for both parties when the family doesn’t see (or pretends not to) what is going on. I watched a programme on kids who want to be a different sex and gender recently, but I think it is still so rare. Do you think…
/r/RedPillWives22/11/17 12:58 AM
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Functioning healthcare system haha. In some ways. It’s free and keeps the diabetics, smokers etc alive by any means, but fails a lot of younger people. Waiting lists to see any specialist (we have to go through our GP and get referred, I know in America if you pay you can just go see a dermatogologist/neurologist etc without going through a GP, I don’t know what it’s like in Aus?) are outrageous. I’m on a 2 year waiting list to see an ortho for an issue that currently could be easily solved with…
/r/RedPillWives22/11/17 12:49 AM
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Same here in the UK, plus kids have to regularly see a counsellor who will talk to them about their ideas about gender, assess how genuine they’re being etc. There have been cases of doctors prescribing under 16s (or 18s? I can’t remember what age is allowed for hormone therapy) for hormone treatment, which is against the law and they were prosecuted by the medical council as far as I’m aware.
/r/RedPillWives21/11/17 11:26 PM
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I’ve read your responses to other comments under this thread and to me it sounds like you’re holding onto this marriage because of the security it offers you, not because you want to be in it. But you don’t want to say something ‘final’ to him because there would be no going back from it, and you want to keep him as a secure option. You need to have a hard think about what you really want. And then actually act on it and make a final decision, and not go back and forth anymore. Ideally you would…
/r/RedPillWives21/11/17 11:01 PM
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RP principles are finding a good man, but also that you cannot negotiate attraction. If you were never attracted to your husband (I mean like crazy for him, not just thinking he's a little good looking), you never will be. Sure, companionship and 'getting on' is important, but I'd far rather be with someone I have a fight with weekly if it also means I want to drag him into the bedroom, than with someone who is nice and a 'good man' who I felt no desire for. It is up to you what you do about thi…
/r/RedPillWives21/11/17 09:24 AM
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I replied to your other response, but this elaboration makes even more sense, thank you! You're probably right that my SO probably masks a lot of his negative emotions normally, because thinking about it, when he is sicks or really tired and isn't paying as much attention, I notice that he definitely seems to be angry/upset/worried/afraid more visibly, and those are times when his guard is down more than it would normally be.
/r/RedPillWives20/11/17 10:46 PM
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Hi, sorry, I wasn't being rude ignoring your replies, I just didn't want to reply from my phone cause I despise doing the formatting on it. I do agree with you actually, and I understand that each person is responsible for handling their feelings. Maybe I am being solipsistic, or maybe I don't need it - I don't really know if I'm able to judge that myself, but asking my SO 'do you think I'm good at knowing what to share with you and when, or am I awful at it?' would feel so silly to me, so I'll …
/r/RedPillWives20/11/17 10:42 PM
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Haha yes my SO definitely doesn’t chat about minor crap that happened and inconvenienced him, but I don’t think he goes as far as changing his body language consciously. But then I don’t mind, even if it’s something small and I can tell that something happened without him having to discuss it, I can try to at least make his day better from there.
/r/RedPillWives17/11/17 03:46 PM
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I will do, I feel like I can definitely improve here. Can’t wait to read all the links on my next day off (which isn’t for 10 days, gulp). And I think maybe I didn’t explain myself as clearly as I thought haha. I didn’t mean that small annoyances should be talked about, I meant more that if I’ve had a bad day, even if it doesn’t need addressing, I don’t think I would want to consciously change my body language to one reflecting me being happy and positive to conceal my actual mood, unless the si…
/r/RedPillWives17/11/17 03:40 PM
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Wow, thank you for this post Camille! I haven’t had time to get through the links, but just your summary is so helpful. This is definitely something I need to work on - I feel like sometimes even when I’m trying to do something the RP way but not committing to it, although my words won’t give me away, my body language certainly will. This has definitely given me lots to think about and to be more mindful of when I’m interacting with my SO, especially in conflict situations. There is one thing I’…
/r/RedPillWives17/11/17 01:12 PM
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Omg thank you so much this is so useful! Ordering fabric for the napkins as I type! haha.
/r/RedPillWives08/11/17 05:21 PM
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Just the google calendar! We created a household email account for our bills etc, so we also use the account for a shared calendar for reminders of birthdays, regular chores, events, outings and meal planning sometimes too! You can turn on reminders when you put in a new entry or edit it later, and you can make it repeat. You can also link it to your phones calendar on an iPhone (I don’t know about android), but we don’t as that’s where our own calendars are and it means we can keep them separat…
/r/RedPillWives27/10/17 09:39 PM
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I agree with your point about feminism using it to complain about men. Also wish I enjoyed all emotional labour like you, I truly enjoy some of it (like holiday planning, buying and sending presents etc), but I wish I liked chore related stuff more.
/r/RedPillWives27/10/17 08:29 PM
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I dunno, I do it because my my SO doesn’t (if he did I would totally hand it over) and I would say he is rather grown up. He’s just not inclined to keep track of small details like that. His interests just don’t lie in housework. His job demands more planning than anything we have to keep track of at home and he’s perfectly capable of doing it because e cares about it a lot. But I don’t use the fact that I have to do a lot of it as a bargaining chip or anything, I just get on with it!
/r/RedPillWives27/10/17 08:26 PM
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Haha I might get some stick for this here but yeah I guess emotional labour as a concept is a thing, but its significance is blown way out of proportion by majority of people who talk about it. So my SO is of the belief that we should contribute fairly equally to the relationship, we both contribute the same financially although we have different incomes, so he tries to contribute the same in terms of chores, cooking etc! I do most of What would be considered emotional labour - like planning tra…
/r/RedPillWives27/10/17 07:37 PM
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Making good progress on the xmas illustrations. I’ve got more than I thought, but I have inspiration photos and sketches for all of them now, I will start painting them in on Sunday. I’ve started planning out things I need to do for the festive season in advance, as I’ll have a busy December in work and want to be prepared, since I do things like a Polish Christmas cake and the batter has to sit for 3 weeks and then the cake has to mature for another 2... gosh. Lots of planning. We just bought a…
/r/RedPillWives27/10/17 08:38 AM
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I came back to read this post again and there are so many comments! My gosh. I read all the points you and u/Never_Evil made and have some general thoughts that I've had brewing but I hate typing long posts on my phone. The ones that relate to your comments might not be in order of those comments, so I apologise! Homosexuality has always been there, and I'm not sure the number of homosexuals as a percentage of population has increased but it is much more visible now than ever in the past due to …
/r/RedPillWives16/10/17 03:34 PM
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Sure, I only did some sketches the weekend just past and I'm on holiday next weekend, but I will share in a future post when I have a couple done!
/r/RedPillWives16/10/17 02:29 PM
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I’m on my phone and had a brief read of this, and I will need to find a link, but I remember my boyfriend telling me that in ancient times (Rome etc.) families where there were gay family members with partners had greater chance of survival. The male gay family members and their partners focused their energy on protecting the rest of the family including their siblings children and other members of the next generation, as they didn’t have to focus that energy on their own children. A ‘protective…
/r/RedPillWives13/10/17 10:30 PM
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How long would it take you to bind one? Maybe make little ones and spread your work out between now and Christmas? That’s why I’m starting now, so that it’s not too daunting!
/r/RedPillWives13/10/17 07:05 AM
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I'm doing this quite far in advance, in case it doesn't come out as I'd hoped, but as my background is art, all of my family will (hopefully) get a framed watercolour illustration from me for Christmas. I managed to get some great frames at an auction recently, and I have some pro high quality watercolour paper and paints that were gifted to me years ago, so I'm getting started this weekend. I will probably do one every two weeks or so, so that I don't get bored or discouraged. I'm not 100% abou…
/r/RedPillWives11/10/17 11:20 PM
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Did it for nearly 6 months but it didn’t suit me (I’m extremely active), i ended up losing weight and my exercise progress either stalled or went backwards. I do know it works for a lot of people though, all depends on your lifestyle, activity levels, and how well you can handle permanent dietary restrictions. Edit: there is a keto subreddit which was really helpful when I did it!
/r/RedPillWives05/10/17 06:54 PM
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I read a couple of years back also that some coffee shops will do 'suspended' coffees or snacks - you can ask to pay the price of a coffee/panini or whatever extra, and ask them to 'suspend' it and they will give it to someone in need who comes in. This was in a city in England I used to live in in the autumn/winter season, when people from poorer backgrounds would really struggle to make ends meet, but I think the idea came from the US!
/r/RedPillWives29/09/17 01:18 PM
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I think she means the salads you put in a jar as separate ingredients starting with dressing and wet ingredients at bottom, and ‘dry’ ingredients at the top (like lettuce spinach or croutons) which would go soggy within 10 mins if they got dressing on it. Never made one myself but seen a lot on Pinterest.
/r/RedPillWives28/09/17 03:45 PM
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I guess this is kind of crafty? I hope you're all gonna get your knit on now :)
/r/RedPillWives14/09/17 10:27 PM
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I'm in the UK too but I'm NI. I once heard of something called 'Ladies Circle', but I'm not sure how RP it actually is. There are supposed to be lots of them in the UK and the one near me seemed prettt RP, but I live in a conservative area right now, so I can't speak for the rest of them...
/r/RedPillWives12/09/17 08:17 PM
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Something perhaps a little different, but his recent admitting to a mistake! My SO has been preparing for a rather expensive exam that he in hindsight kind of jumped on, but he decided to postpone it. He admitted that he signed up for it in the heat of the moment and has since been studying how to pass it. While doing a practice exam last week, he realised that the whole point of that specific exam is that you need to study to actually really know the stuff, not just to pass it. This is also why…
/r/RedPillWives30/08/17 08:36 PM
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Omg haven't even read the post, but stay safe! It's looking scary on the news from across the ocean.
/r/RedPillWives26/08/17 10:28 AM
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Yes I suppose you're right, I didn't think of it that way! It just seems to me the system is basically aimed at making sure men don't get cuckolded and men and women who want to reproduce do so freely, but men put their resources only where they please, rather than everywhere they put their piece xD I could've got the gist of the article wrong though! To me there is no space in that system for people with reproductive issues or who don't want kids, as the whole idea is about the most effective w…
/r/RedPillWives08/08/17 12:20 PM
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Yay :D Sorry for the late response I'm moving house. It's chaos. I have no internet outside of work for like a month.
/r/RedPillWives08/08/17 12:17 PM
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Sorry, was away for a few days so only just getting to respond! I understand the general aversion to having kids these is not the best, however I'm not sure that without kids you can't have commitment. Once you're married, I don't think it's as easy to leave as you'd think. People in their early to mid 20s right now actually really depend on each other financially, so if they get married and let's say get a place together, they're not likely to be able to afford a split. There are financial ties…
/r/RedPillWives08/08/17 12:15 PM
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Oh wow that's cool, I love farm animals! When I visit a city I would go to the local farm twice a year for my fix. When I was little my grandma used to take me to watch goats give birth, and then a couple of weeks later to see the little ones again! So cute. I don't know very much about farming at all, but a friend of mine is a farmer and sometimes I help her out! It's fun. I feel like I should learn a little more, so that if ever as a species we have to go into survival mode, I will know how to…
/r/RedPillWives04/08/17 10:38 AM
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There is probably a day for everything nowadays, and if there isn't you can make it a thing! Are you from a farming background? Where I live now the biggest industry is farming. I grew up in the countryside, but I never knew this much about farming before ;D
/r/RedPillWives04/08/17 10:09 AM
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I'm on my phone, so I will respond properly much later, but a thought just popped into my head while reading this that I'm scared I'll forget later. Correct me if I'm wrong, but the article is really centred around procreation, maintaining genes through further generations and such. I found it interesting, because if you take procreation out of the equation, does the proposed model work? Would it work for people who have no desire for children? How does it reflect the people who don't want to ha…
/r/RedPillWives04/08/17 09:59 AM
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I die.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/17 09:48 AM
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Oh coaching sounds like it will be fun! What would you like to coach the most? All these ideas are amazing, and I guess once your boys are in school you'll have more time in the daytime and can really focus on something you enjoy! :) It seems a few ladies here are particularly interested in history related volunteering.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/17 09:22 AM
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Oh wow that's so cool. Did you learn a lot of gardening skills while you were at it, or was it something you were already interested in? And I bet getting to interact with the older ladies is also very informative. Have you learnt anything from them that you found useful? And I definitely agree, I think being helpful and nurturing to your local or wider community, looking after people, plants and animals are such inherently feminine traits! I think it does a lot for one's character :)
/r/RedPillWives03/08/17 07:54 AM
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That's such a fun way of helping out, I bet you have a blast, and getting to spend more time with your kiddos while they're still young is probably so beneficial for your relationship with them too!
/r/RedPillWives03/08/17 07:50 AM
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Oh that's such a good way of getting some 'adult time' as well as helping out the community! I love caring for people too and there are so many ways to do it. I think working with the elderly is fantastic, it's so refreshing to have a conversation with someone from a completely different generation, and they love the company and help of younger people!
/r/RedPillWives03/08/17 07:49 AM
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However, I would argue that the leftovers are not always crazy, but often are the women who refuse to subscribe to the Disney, faux happy ending, and who therefore lead more interesting and strange lives. Nice attempt at an excuse for riding the CC, I ain't buying it xD
/r/RedPillWives02/08/17 02:26 PM
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Oh wow, the DAR, that's very cool! I remember researching it when I first watched Gilmore Girls. Those sound like very worthy causes. I love that you're getting involved in education! I work in education now, and I think it's so important, and people have so much knowledge to share!
/r/RedPillWives02/08/17 12:32 PM
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As someone who was encouraged to help others and contribute from a very young age, I started volunteering in like primary school! My first experience was with a charity attached to the church (although I don't consider myself religious) which had a very broad outreach and did many different things. The charity had a big venue near where I lived where they helped a lot of children and young adults with learning difficulties and some more severe disabilities, and as a young volunteer I went there …
/r/RedPillWives02/08/17 11:27 AM
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Yay! Looking forward to participating more!
/r/RedPillWives02/08/17 08:12 AM
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I just realised it is also Yorkshire day today! I encourage you to celebrate by having some Yorkshire puds and gravy. :) or a whole roast dinner if you want to impress your man ;)
/r/RedPillWives01/08/17 04:11 PM
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I don't think this is a bad idea for a national day at all. After all, it is important to recognise the value of good female friends / role models too! Thank you to all the regular contributors (ESPECIALLY THE MODS <3) of this sub and the FNF sub. I've been a lurker of the RP community since like 2012(or so?), I lurked completely accountless for a long long time on RPWomen before the switch and then here, and I am consistently impressed with the quality of everything you post. So impressed in fa…
/r/RedPillWives01/08/17 03:50 PM
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In terms of my own personal experience of myself - no. I am 100% into science, and even though I was brought up in a very religious country, I questioned the existence of any higher being at like 7 years old - before anybody had much of a chance to put doubt about it in my mind. By the time I went to Communion, I no longer believed in God. As far as I can remember I never believed in anything supernatural or magical, never looked into ancient roots for anything other than interest in how things …
/r/RedPillWives01/08/17 03:12 PM
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Congratulations :) All the best to you, husband and the baby!
/r/RedPillWives27/07/17 08:00 AM
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Yes, I think it would be very interesting to see what would happen if women were offered that option. At the moment in the uk it's frowned upon to take longer than a year off, but it's also frowned upon to not prioritise your kids... what's a girl to do? I'm interested to see what will happen where my dad lives in a few years. They rolled out a programme called 500+ where for the second child and each one after that a family gets 500 of the local currency to help with costs up until the kid reac…
/r/RedPillWives20/07/17 07:15 PM
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I don't know if I want a super high powered career, but I'm 25 next year and I don't think I could have kids anytime soon... I love the article and I do think the idea of focusing on children earlier on and on a career later is a bit of a win-win, I'm just not sure how it applies to the real world. Let me paint you a story... My step mother is rather young (33) and she had a career break from 24 until 32, but she didn't actually want to take it for quite that long. She wanted to spend 4, max 5 y…
/r/RedPillWives20/07/17 03:04 PM
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Omg I listened to a bit of this ages ago and then forgot all about it because I never subscribed, so thank you for posting this so I could discover it again!
/r/RedPillWives20/07/17 02:43 PM
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I'm a bit late to this party but: I'm grateful for how much my man has grown since I first met him. We're about to move and had to find a place last minute, and while previously I don't think I would have trusted him to select places for viewings and arrange everything (we were young when we first met and at that time I was much more organised than he was), he did a fantastic job and we landed somewhere beautiful to move to the next day. I was so impressed with all of the places we viewed and ho…
/r/RedPillWives20/07/17 02:42 PM
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