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theautumnalequinox/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 08:21 PM
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All my male friends who are deeply loved by their partners fit a parallel profile. This is all about your relationship with yourself. I’m really not kidding.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/22 05:02 AM
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Good news, the only problem in this entire post is the fact that you say you don’t have confidence! Women love the type of guy you are. Lean into it, instead of any gross ideas from the red pill and you’ll likely attract someone who has also done great work on themselves.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 11:32 AM
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I realized way after the fact he’d call me “cat” all the time because it was a Manosphere term. I thought it was a term of endearment. Now I know he was just making fun of me.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 04:25 PM
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Oh…he tried and succeeded…5 times. 😂 This time I blocked him on everything, which I’ve learned is best to do.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 03:49 PM
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Well most domestic abuse cases are based in misogyny not pathology. Research demonstrates there are high percentages of physical violence associated with the men’s rights movement. That can’t be overlooked. For citation—Lundy Bancroft (the lead researcher in the DV field) talks about this. If you read his book “Why Does He Do That” there’s a smattering of red pill ideas woven throughout it. I think this movement will have significant negative ramifications in the long run. And look—I’m pretty mo…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 04:24 PM
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He never declared it outright “I’m red pill,” but he’d espouse the ideas: women’s roles at home, hypergamy, all women cheat, women prefer men with money, men prefer women who have high fertility markers, he was a gym rat…like completely obsessed (not that this is RP, but it’s like part of the territory), he oddly was liberal. I think that’s weird because it seems most of these dudes are proud boys. He was not having the fact that I made decent money. He’d talk about dating younger a lot. He also…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 04:18 PM
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Thank you! Yeah, I am always super careful with diagnosing people. I feel like that’s how women bring shit on themselves. But this person actually was abusive. I’ve kept a low profile with it, no one knows except my two closest friends.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 04:13 PM
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Well—I learned what stealthing was because of this person. I still have trouble considering that assault, just being honest. It’s hard to tell when someone is caught up in the moment or is disrespecting your wishes. I don’t want to aggressively go after men who are just people. But I don’t want to make excuses for this behavior. In my situation he knew condoms were preferred but had trouble staying up in them—he said. Then any time he couldn’t he’d say “I’ve never had this problem before. I thin…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 04:12 PM
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To be honest in the beginning he was a 10. So many men in the dating culture are not intentional. He picked me up for every date despite us living 45 minutes apart, was never pushy about sex (in the beginning) and was the most charismatic human ever. We had…everything in common. But slowly things started changing. He didn’t start off slamming doors and yelling. He started off spending like $300 on a cheese plate with wine.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 01:14 AM
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I mean he claimed a lot of the ideologies and was obsessed with red pill influencers like Tate. I think it’s super related.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 12:30 AM
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He truly is something 😂
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 11:28 PM
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Haha I have no clue what this means. I thought he’d just left a typo. 😂
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 11:27 PM
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He was. And he refused to wear condoms. Which, as a full grown adult, I should have been more adamant about my boundaries. But he said if we used them it wouldn’t mean as much to him. Honestly it’s surreal to untangle. I’ve always been such a smart, independent person. But this whole thing just got me in a blind spot. Lots of shame about that.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 08:47 PM
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I think the opposite is true, sadly. I think they are desperate for morals and they cling so heavily to the wrong ones that they lose their empathy. It's terrifying. Most of these guys get into RP young, while their brains are still maturing. I think they are absolutely desperate for anyone to listen. Guys like Andrew Tate capitalize on the fact that men aren't heard, and take advantage of them (with some small small small grains of truth that appeal to broken people). It's no different than oth…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 03:28 PM
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It makes me sad that you're so young and you've been marked so heavily by this ideology. Gentle correction: "I don't have a lot of bodies" makes RP men sound like serial killers. It doesn't matter how many people you've slept with--and it doesn't matter how many people they've slept with. Sexual partners does not equate to a person's value on or off the dating market. ​ You'll have better luck by not calling women "hoes" ever--and working on the part of yourself that feels threatened by the fact…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 03:21 PM
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Wild but these all are under the umbrella of domestic abuser red flags. Not surprising because the work of Lundy Bancroft states DV perps are steeped in misogyny and it’s less about a psychological disorder (and all about world view). We are what we consume. This stuff is so toxic and from what I’ve read it kind of has an addictive element. Binging RP YouTube content for hours on end is not without consequence. It’s just jarring to realize there are so many men who will go on to abuse, if not ph…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 10:15 AM
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Finding old posts like this restores my soul and sanity. I'm a 31-year-old woman who started studying the red pill for a dating podcast. I had no idea what it was--and I'm a bit of a sensitive soul. Fast forward to four months, going hard on the content of Andrew Tate and Rollo, and even Peterson--my mental health was in the toilet. I started believing the narrative of it, and what it meant about my worth as a woman. I stumbled across this because I find Aba and Preach entertaining, but was very…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 02:29 AM
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