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Where do you know her from? What are the inter-perosnal dynamics between you two? Are you in a position of power or mentorship with her? How mature is she? Why does she want fwb but not a relationship? Is this her first time? Is this her rebelling? What about her family? Is she hot crazy (never stick your dick in crazy) type? Age is one very important element of this scenario, but there is way more you need to look at.
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:41 PM
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Because game isn't about what you say, but how you say it. You can say "hi" like a loser or like a winner. You subconsciously signal your sexual status. 50 percent of communication is verbal, the rest is non-verbal: intonation, body language, expression, tone, etc. Your body language is almost always more honest about your feelings then what you may be saying. If you say something confident in a nervous manner, she will know you are nervous. This is why inner game is so important for men. How I …
/r/seduction18/11/16 02:15 PM
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If this clerk has been exceptional, you can take her out for coffee as a thank you. Socializing over coffee gives you a better opportunity to gauge her interest.
/r/seduction20/08/16 01:27 PM
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Take her to a park and do some photography. Protip - you can get a girl in the mood by taking sexy pictures. You want to go do exciting fun stuff that she will also enjoy doing. Go explore the city, etc.
/r/seduction11/01/16 03:53 PM
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He also had a hell of a run.
/r/seduction22/11/15 03:49 AM
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Nice class analysis at the end there too. Edit: More up votes for more class analysis. Often times class is ignored as a category of analysis missing out on an important element of social analysis so I appreciate every little bit I run across. Especially when it comes to linguistic and literary study.
/r/seduction10/10/15 01:57 PM
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There is a saying, "a stranger is a friend you haven't met", so go introduce yourself if you haven't already. Wait sometime and chat with her, see if you have any friends in common or where she goes/went to school or work etc.
/r/seduction13/08/15 12:23 PM
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This? I actually have a couple of deaf/mute friends who were just fearless about approaching women at the mall/clubs. They would use these to chat with girls before there were smartphones everywhere; they even taught me how to approach girls. It's all about attitude. If you want to start meeting guys start getting involved in school and social activities like school clubs and youth groups where you will find like minded people. Do you have hobbies? Do you have things you are good at doing and li…
/r/seduction25/07/15 01:42 PM
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Ummm, your parents and older family members are technically your elders....
/r/seduction28/05/15 10:34 PM
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Must be nice being gullible. ???
/r/seduction28/05/15 10:27 PM
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Not much, brah, I just move on. If girl doesn't want you to 'know' she wont say anything in the first place.
/r/seduction13/05/15 12:32 AM
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Time to expand or move from your social circle. In high school the nerdy guys i was primarily friends with would much rather play video games all day then go out and do stuff, this started to change in our last year, but by that time I had branched out to hang out with other people much earlier. One of the simplest things is to dress like the folks that have girls in their groups, pick up some interests that interest more then guys, etc.
/r/seduction13/05/15 12:31 AM
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Not sure if you should aggressively go at it or not or play it by ear. What I would do is take it off Facebook as fast as possible and go to texting/snapchat/etc. I am curious to see what others are saying on this.
/r/seduction23/02/15 12:30 PM
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OP was obviously uncomfortable in taking up the offer for sex. My concern was this a part of a pattern of denying oneself from getting laid or was there a good reason for it. OP just came out of a breakup and wasn't emotionally up to it and OP obviously doesn't have a problem getting girls so why rag on him. Frankly I partake of the idea that there are plenty of women and that it isn't really that hard so I can be picky about my entanglements, and one of those is that I don't fuck with girls in …
/r/seduction30/12/14 04:00 PM
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Maybe you got a different set of values. Maybe not everyone is or needs to be turned on by the idea of screwing someone else's cheating girlfriend.
/r/seduction29/12/14 02:43 AM
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A lot of people said she would have fucked someone else, and that might be what she does in the end, but all you're accountable for is your decisions and actions, and you did the honorable thing. I respect a man who can get sex and still has principles enough to say no when it isn't right. You'll be offered sex again, and you'll have sex again. You sir are not a desperate man. Puff out your chest and enjoy it, you're probably going to get more sex because of this.
/r/seduction27/12/14 10:52 PM
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I would be interested in hearing about this scenario and how it went for you? 2 observations: 1) A girl saying she just came out of a breakup on OkCupid signals that she wants to have 'fun', so I would generally plan to have some fun 2) The different types thing really matters how you play it off. Are you a dark-exotic stranger type or are you channeling raj koothrapali
/r/seduction21/12/14 02:52 AM
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No. I agree with what you said about TRP, that it ignores a lot of the nobler qualities and often degenerates into this whiny childishness.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 05:17 PM
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This right here. You summarized it for me "TRP is a [good] in many ways, but it undervalues sacrifice, suffering, and acceptance, which are all ingredients in the glory of manhood", and in that way is simply some more of the childish whining that is already so prevalent in members of this society.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 04:14 PM
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Mostly yes, unless you're Osama Bin Laden.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 04:05 PM
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I can pay two chicks to fuck me.
/r/seduction22/11/14 12:36 AM
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Well you can just ask her whats up and have your bullshit detector set on high!
/r/seduction07/11/14 04:37 PM
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Glad to hear this. Building 'inner-game' is definitely a good general practice, as well as learning to map social mores and interactions and managing your behavior appropriately. At a certain level of 'inner game', friendships shouldn't be gamed, but if you're at this level building up and learning that's cool. I would need to give some thoughts on this, to be honest, because there are lots of things I do instinctively that I haven't listed out to myself.
/r/seduction28/10/14 02:26 PM
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You are using the wrong 'strategy' here. It sounds like you're trying to 'manipulate' your friends into liking you, at which point you're doing friendship all wrong. You cannot use PUA strategies with friends. If they are you're friend they should naturally be invested in stories about you. If what you are asking is 'How do I tell my stories in a way that is interesting?', than just study and imitate the best story teller in your group.
/r/seduction25/10/14 11:26 PM
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The single most important thing in these situations among friends is to listen, and not just be trying to think of a response or what you are going to say. Often times listening to friends brings clarity to our situation and thoughts. If there is something you really want to share with your friends and are not sure how to say it best or what you are trying to describe, some time spent in introspection might help you clear up what you want to say.
/r/seduction24/10/14 03:04 PM
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The trick I've found is knowing how many drinks to get buzzed/relaxed versus drunk/sloppy for you individually.
/r/seduction24/10/14 01:49 PM
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Also keep escalating.
/r/seduction21/10/14 01:52 PM
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Don't let it be a crutch that prevents you from developing your 'social skills'. May be a good way to build physical confidence for the uninitiated.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 01:24 AM
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Actually I know a short, fat, ugly and was balding(!!!) fellow who was getting pussy quite a bit more than some whiners I know. Wouldn't have believed it if I hadn't seen it with my own eyes, he was a cousin who stayed with me for a couple of weeks. He was definitely doing Redpill before redpill. He was ruthless and the girls weren't the best, but hey you play the cards you're dealt or you stack the deck and he did both.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:58 PM
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For people who seem to have 'cracked the code' there is generally a lot of 'whining' rather than actual 'winning' around here. Great observation.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:26 PM
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People are now more sensitive towards unwanted touching or sexual advances, which is good. There is also some undefined grey area between sexual assault, which can mean a wide range of unwanted sexual touching, and rape which is traditionally defined as forced sexual penetration. Add in the complete lack of actual communication skills and knowledge around sex and you have a fucked up social milieu.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:49 PM
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Problem might be where you are approaching women. If you are not comfortable with making small chat in a club, then you should be trying to meet women in other places that having discussions about philosophy, psych, etc. is more effective. In a club it matters very little in what you say but how you say it - if you display confidence and a sense of fun is whats important. Clubs are really meat markets where people's first impressions are all about appearance and presentation, that's why all that…
/r/seduction19/09/14 05:29 PM
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If she is a therapist or counselor, this is probably a no go because of professional liability. No fraternization with clients. If it's more like consulting work, after the task is done invite for a coffee/lunch for a catch up and thanks so you can better analyze her interest and signs. TL:DR - You just want to try and meet her in a non-work casual environment. But be very careful.
/r/seduction19/09/14 03:16 PM
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From the way your post comes off this looks like its going to bail because (1) you're coming off as passive aggressive which often times comes off as a weakness; (2) comes off as extremely boring and unexciting.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 04:20 PM
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