| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Considering joining the Air Force but I’m nervous about how it’ll impact my dating life | ADVICE | thebeepiestboop | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/23 01:20 PM |
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| 5 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.so sassy 🙄 not wanting to fuck strangers and give it up to anyone who asks even if birth control exists is not being “deathly afraid” of sex and intimacy. i don’t want to share drinks with randoms either that doesn’t mean im deathly afraid of straws. go be a slut if that’s what you’re into but other people don’t have to be and that doesn’t mean they’re suddenly not interested or attracted to someone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 06:30 PM |
| 8 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.or maybe sex is an intimate and risky thing to do with someone and not everyone wants partake in such intimacy and risk with every hot person they meet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 06:21 PM |
| 11 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.because you can still like someone and be interested in a romantic/sexual relationship and not want to have sex with them right then in that very moment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?You said there’s never been a female school shooter, I corrected you, you’re doing the definition of moving the goalpost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 03:51 PM |
| 4 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?Are you saying you’re too lazy to type someone’s name into google? Here’s the wikipedia since your fingers don’t work https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cleveland_Elementary_School_shooting_(San_Diego) Just another fun fact, she was the first modern school shooter to attack an elementary school The three that came before her in 1966 and the two in 1976 happened at universities and a computer learning center | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 03:27 PM |
| 4 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?Just look up her name? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?There have indeed been female shooters, one of the first school shooters as we think of them today was Brenda Spencer who shot up an elementary school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 12:30 PM |
| 2 | "What could X age possibly have in common in Y age" is a ridiculous argumentwhy does it have to be framed as “not wanting” to do it with someone your own age, why can’t someone just meet a person who’s older/younger and just decide to pursue them because they like them in spite of what annoying people on the internet say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 02:57 PM |
| 0 | I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning.I understand that part, but this idea that bisexual men are just so mythically different than heterosexual men and just have this insatiable need to have sex with men that they can cheat while still “loving” their partner because its just so impossible for them to ignore that impulse, not to be harsh but it’s an insanely childish perspective to hold and logic i’d expect from a teenager | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:40 PM |
| 2 | I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning.I know hetero guy can cheat too but then he doesn’t love you. But bi guy can cheat and still love you because that’s not about love it’s just so different and as a woman I can never give it to him. So he might do it even if he loves you and your relationship is good just because he needs that other experience. girl what 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:31 PM |
| 7 | I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning.>They think a bi man is more likely to cheat which is actually statistically true source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:26 PM |
| 9 | I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning.Do you not see the difference between not dating someone because they literally can’t be attracted to you and choosing not to date someone who you find attractive and who finds you attractive just because they are also interested in dating the same gender as themselves? They didn’t answer your question because it’s stupid and not worth answering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Sexual fidelity to your partner and sexual satisfaction from your partner should be considered a zero sum system.I find it perfectly acceptable that if one person isn’t holding up their end of the deal (providing intimacy) that you as well can also not hold up your end of the deal (providing fidelity) So you think cheating is okay, that is simply a moral issue we aren’t going to see eye to eye on. I expect people who feel this way to steer clear of monogamy or at least clearly state the second their partner stops putting out they’re thinking about getting their dick wet somewhere else. Do you think it’s fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Sexual fidelity to your partner and sexual satisfaction from your partner should be considered a zero sum system.If that’s a part of that relationships deal yes, but the reaction to someone not holding up their end of the deal isn’t whoring yourself out it’s leaving and finding someone who knows how to operate in a relationship or just sleeping around which is probably the better option for someone who’s solution to issues within a relationship is to cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Sexual fidelity to your partner and sexual satisfaction from your partner should be considered a zero sum system.If there’s an understanding in your monogamous relationship that you should not be doing xyz with other people and you have agreed to that then you owe it to your partner to hold up your end of the deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Sexual fidelity to your partner and sexual satisfaction from your partner should be considered a zero sum system.So then separate, they already said that, marriage isn’t actually a life long contract you can leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:04 PM |
| 2 | How do women maintain mental consistency dating men while believing in "the bear pill"?The words that were used in this comment chain were “dangerous” and “threat” nothing about killing. Also that is still about 50/50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 12:04 AM |
| 6 | How do women maintain mental consistency dating men while believing in "the bear pill"?Not really it’s close to 50/50 but women still statistically abuse children more https://www.statista.com/statistics/418470/number-of-perpetrators-in-child-abuse-cases-in-the-us-by-sex/ https://aspe.hhs.gov/male-perpetrators-child-maltreatment-findings-ncands-research-summary Of the 192,321 unique perpetrators in the data set, 89,028 (46%) were male and 103,293 (54%) were female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 02:12 PM |
| – | Study finds feminists don't hate menMost feminists dislike terfs because of transphobia not because of their views of cis men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Why its important for men to have female friendsThank you for being an example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 12:47 PM |
| 5 | Do most men want kids enough to do 50/50 childrearing?So don’t have kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 10:48 PM |
| 8 | Do most men want kids enough to do 50/50 childrearing?There’s this thing called split custody or, you know, not having kids which sounds like the best path for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 10:32 PM |
| 10 | Do most men want kids enough to do 50/50 childrearing?Because you should want to raise your children and be a part of their life as much as the other parent is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 10:27 PM |
| 4 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?Then why do men want to have sex with women who don't want to have sex with them? Because they like them, you’ve never had a crush before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:44 PM |
| 3 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?Then why do men want to have sex with women who don't want to have sex with them? Because they like them, you’ve never had a crush before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:44 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionDo you legit spend hours tweezing shaving makeup outfits just to sit alone and watch TV? As a homebody who does all those things, minus tweezing, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 03:26 PM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingDon’t worry if I was trying to get laid I’d wear jeans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 02:16 PM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingI don’t need to say anything to make myself feel better cause I already feel great this convo was amazing <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 02:12 PM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingWearing my favorite mini skirt to my doctors appointment in honor of you 🙏🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:52 PM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingYep just posting on Reddit about how not dressing like Mormon 24/7 means you wannna fuck your brothers, normal guy activity right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:50 PM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingJust remove the notion of sex from your life in just a single day and go enjoy innocent family day Right back at you brother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:30 PM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingDon’t care, the clothes are cute. I go to family functions in mini skirts and platforms because that’s my sense of style and the clothes that I find fashionable, not because I think I’m sex on a stick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you leave a man you love if he refused to marry you?Because social norms exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 12:55 AM |
| 6 | Why do men leave their sick wives?You can have physical intimacy with someone you’re not having sex with, you can have a sexual relationship with someone you’re not having penetrative sex with. If you’re horny jerk off like you did for years before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 05:24 PM |
| 6 | Why do men leave their sick wives?Are you suggesting that a man who is devoting himself to supporting his wife but doesn’t have his physical and sexual needs met is just a “horny man” and booho and he can’t get his dick wt? Yes How much more pathetic, selfish, cruel and hateful can you get? I’ll call you when I cheat on my partner, then you’ll have your answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 05:22 PM |
| 12 | Why do men leave their sick wives?Personally I’d rather be left than have a liar smiling in my face every night pretending to love and respect me, my empathy is with person experiencing that, not with someone who suddenly forgot how to jerk off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 05:15 PM |
| 14 | Why do men leave their sick wives?You have no empathy Empathy is probably better served towards cancer patients rather than horny men who convinced themselves they’ll die if they don’t get their dick wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 05:10 PM |
| 9 | Why do men leave their sick wives?Previous comment by u/mrs_seng Do you think a person battling cancer who can't eat for days, went through surgery has any need met? Geez that person doesn't even have the "need to be alive" met. But poor man, he has his balls full. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 05:04 PM |
| 19 | Why do men leave their sick wives?If you loved your wife you’d have enough respect for her not to cheat, so yes it’s related to love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 04:54 PM |
| 5 | RedPillers: if women are basically children, why do you not look after them like they’re children?Keep in mind that he has anti social personality disorder (sociopathy) while having this conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 10:10 AM |
| 1 | What icks/turn offs do you have for womenSo the end goal of feminism is for women to be subservient to whatever feminism wants/tells them to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 01:22 PM |
| 9 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.I think it’s just a societal thing, I feel like women even those who don’t often wear makeup are expected to wear it to important or classy events. Ive seen women (myself included) be talked about or scolded to their face about not wearing makeup to certain events, the same way you shouldn’t wear jeans to a classy dinner a woman shouldn’t go bare faced I guess. But that’s just an observation of mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:01 PM |
| 7 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.I guess it depends on how you define “actually feminine” because the women listed certainly aren’t tomboyish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 12:25 AM |
| 8 | Would you date a man who has slept with 100 women?There’s nothing wrong with wanting to date someone you see eye to eye with, views on sex is a part of that. What is so offensive about someone not being into casual sex that made you write three paragraphs, other than “people I don’t like have this opinion, therefore it’s inherently bad.” Also unironic use of “puriteen” get off Twitter for awhile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 04:59 PM |
| 14 | Keke Palmer and the warning signs of an abuserWhat does that have to do with posting about it all over Twitter instead of actually talking to his partner about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 05:21 PM |
| 9 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Do you dead ass think people walk around with domestic abuser written across their forehead? What’s anyone’s excuse for being the victim of any crime? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 08:41 PM |
| 9 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Still feel like it’s like 95% on the violent criminal for being a violent criminal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 08:29 PM |
| 10 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Abusers are also responsible for being violent criminals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 08:17 PM |
| 10 | Are average men really desperate for sex?A strawman is putting words in someone’s mouth and misrepresenting their argument in order to make it easier to fight against their claim. Hence the idea of knocking down a strawman. Replying to “get on a dating app” with “I don’t use dating apps/the men I want aren’t on dating apps” isn’t doing either of the things mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:44 AM |
| 8 | Are average men really desperate for sex?That’s not really a strawman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:30 AM |
| 0 | Describe your perfect partnerDark and long Don’t care Taller than me or as tall as me For a guy muscular but not a body builder For a girl slender but a little curvy Equal or more than Equal or higher Max 10 Min 1 Same as 7 Christian or Jewish but I don’t really care as long as they’re respectful of other religions For a guy straight or bi for a girl bi or lesbian but bi is preferred For a girl same age for a guy a few years older Leftist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 10:13 PM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Men getting unnecessarily angry when they’re told no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:30 PM |
| 3 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?You can’t sleep with someone too fast but you also can’t wait either. So what are non virgin woman supposed to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 12:26 AM |
| 9 | ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone?How is surfing with men while being a surf instructor cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Women just want an excuse to lecture men about sexismHe’s allowed to have standards, but keep in mind he’s the one that started dating the bikini wearing Instagram posting surfer in the first place. Maybe he should’ve thought about his “boundaries” before deciding to date her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Jonah hill controversyWeird for him to start dating her in the first place, since they literally started dating because of the bikini pics she was posting online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Women: "sexual history doesn't matter". Also women: "your opinion is invalid because you're an inc-l virgin who's never had sex"Everyone knows raising kids is hard, a better comparison would be a childless person on how to raise kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift "The Man" summarized how women see "male privilege"Is buying 3% stake in the record company she was signed to considered buying her into the industry? Genuine question, don’t really get how business stuff works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.So within your world view either no one should drink ever and we should bring back prohibition or committing crimes against drunk people is just fair game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 10:57 AM |
| 5 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.More like driving a car when you know people drive drunk and then being surprised a drunk driver hit you. You could’ve avoided that. Your analogy paints the person who got raped as the person who committed the crime instead of the person who the crime happened to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 10:55 AM |
| 17 | Let Men Own You.This was super entertaining, thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/23 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Considering joining the Air Force but I’m nervous about how it’ll impact my dating lifeThis is also a worry of mine but my rationale is that my likelihood of being raped/assaulted is already pretty high as a civilian so it’s not too much of a difference | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/23 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Considering joining the Air Force but I’m nervous about how it’ll impact my dating lifeI don’t really want to but it doesn’t sound horrible, basic training is the only thing I’m really worried about but that’s only 8 weeks, in the long run I don’t see it being something I’d regret. Being an Air Force wife does not sound desirable at all, if I did meet someone I’d want to marry while serving I’d like them to retire before we had kids. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/23 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Considering joining the Air Force but I’m nervous about how it’ll impact my dating lifeMy extended family really wants me to anyway since most of them have served and it’s a family thing at this point. I already live in LCOL area and paying for rent/utilities/bills/groceries all by myself still would be pretty hard with a job I’d be able to get straight out of high school. I could get a job now and start saving but my mom doesn’t want me to work during the week or have too many hours so I would only be able to work on the weekends for a few hours so people aren’t too eager to hire… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/23 02:29 PM |
| 3 | One more reason to keep marriages intactThere’s a very obvious difference between mass shootings as most people talk/think about them (adults and children being slaughtered for no rhyme or reason) and organized crime. I don’t understand what you’re trying to say with this comment and how this with perpetrators of varying shades of brown has any relevance | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/22 09:08 PM |
| 2 | One more reason to keep marriages intactOh okay, I just remembered reading an interview his dad did and got it mixed up with another case I’d read, thanks for the correction. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/22 01:15 PM |
| 24 | One more reason to keep marriages intactIf a lack of a father was such a big factor in mass shootings why would they only use Ramos as an example? Both the columbine shooters lived with and had very good relationships with their fathers (I’d say better than most kids their age) and the sandy hook shooter had a present father who he only stopped living with after childhood and they still communicated. I feel this is a big claim/big shift in the conversation just cause one shooter didn’t have active parents since he didn’t live with his… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/22 11:05 AM |
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