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I don't have any statistics to share other than my personal experience I'm a doctor In inpatient male wings, every family member, caregiver, etc, tending to the sick man, is female In inpatient female wings, every family member, caregiver, etc, is also female. Same with pediatric wings. I had this patient of Mine (elderly woman) who had a stroke. It left her paralysed and she would need special care. When I told her son he broke down crying and I comforted him, because he was obviously worried a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:53 PM
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Wait until they hear about dykes and women haven communities
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:29 PM
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If men cared about that, there would be no prostitution or rape. As long as men get to ejaculate inside a moist hole, they don't really care what it takes. What the woman thinks about his appearence is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:33 PM
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I pity my fellow women that married Men. It must suck. It's better to spend a night with some pretty guy every now and then and not commit. I'm Very glad I'm homo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:32 PM
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Oof, poor guy... This hole goes deep
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:51 PM
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Men are pedophilic by nature. If there was no law, they would be fucking literal children (well, it actually Does happen in some countries). I was 10 the first time an adult male was sexually inapropriate towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:43 AM
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Funny thing. I work in a complex, highly competitive field and while I do interact with some male colleagues, most of the professionals I associate with are female. I actually find it quite hard not to admire my female colleagues: their skills, wits, knowledge and scientifical accomplishments. I just don't see what you see. Women, to me, are sexy, and besides that they are inteligent, emotionally mature, hard working, interesting... Men, on the other hand, usually present to me as shallow, unint…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:32 PM
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I don't understand your question, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:54 AM
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OP is absolutely right. Men are sexually attracted to women, but dislike them otherwise: men's love, friendship, respect and admiration are all male-centered. Im a firm believer that men are unable to love women other than their mothers. If a woman won't give them sex, why stick around? And honestly... As a lesbian, I love it. I get to have little to no contact with males in my daily routine, which is great to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:16 PM
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That's what so magical about it. Don't you just love this hypocrisy? I sure do. Ask any guy about this double standards and you'll get "no, it's just different".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:32 AM
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You'd have to ask a man, if that's your point. As I said in another comment, I don't think it goes both ways for them: men historically don't tolerate being cheated on, and often react with violence (as seen in "honor killings"). If you're curious about me, specifically, I'm female and homosexual and no, I would never be cool with it. I'm fully monogamous and I expect my wife to be as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:30 AM
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It's also very important to note that men don't tolerate being cheated on. Never really heard an explanation other than "I don't know, it's different". And, well, the very concept of honor killing exists to prove this. I agree with you, totally. I'm female. But I think that anyone willing to date males should be expecting this kind of behavior. I don't believe men are capable of monogamy, and it's not because they're evil, bad or anything negative: it's just their nature. Just look at gay men: i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:51 AM
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I get your point and share your feelings, but I honestly don't believe that men see this as something bad. (At least in my experience, talking to IRL males about this subject( At least in my experience, men see it as a "small white lie" so that their beloved partner won't feel sad. To men, lusting after other females is as natural as it is to pee. It will happen, and they just have to be discreet enough not to bother you. And if you don't find out, you won't be hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:32 AM
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About cheating? Not really. Men can fully dissociate affection/love and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:57 AM
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I'm a firm believer that men just aren't capable of monogamy. It's stronger than them: they aren't wired for it. The only men who don't cheat are the ones without opportunity to do so. I don't believe there is a man who would turn down sex with a hot a woman if he thought there would be no consequences (for example, his partner wouldn't find out). The thing is: it's unlikely that a man in a relationship would be offered easy sex from an attractive woman. If someone is willing to date men, they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:55 AM
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Curiously, as someone whose social circle is mainly other lesbians, I honestly don't even remember the last time men were a conversation topic. Although I don't relate to this experience of yours, I'm sorry you feel hurt by it. However I don't entirely disagree: males Are statistically a threat to females (obligatory: yes, not all of them). That's why some of us chose to distance ourselves: it's not worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:06 PM
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I'm an homosexual female. I don't hate men, this is a very strong word. But I don't particularly like them and I'm very happy living my life with minimal to no contact with males. While I do know that not are males are violent, majority of violent people are men. Every woman I know, myself included, have been assaulted on some level by men. There simply isn't any benefit in associating with males for me. Since I don't need them romantically or sexually, I'm pretty much free. I'm fine with polite…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:43 PM
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This thread is a pretty good demonstrative of why the statistics of men cheating and leaving when their wives become pregnant, sick or disabled are so damn high If a woman can't provide sex she's pretty much useless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:47 PM
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As a lesbian I actually enjoy this very much When you, as a female, make yourself unattractive and unavailable to men, life is actually pretty great, they don't have to fake being interested in you, so you can surround yourself with meaningful relationships (usually other females) Also, yeah, men did that... But you're not proud about achievements that aren't yours, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:48 PM
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Yeah, most men I know are heterosexual, but profoundly homo-everything else. Their love, friendship, respect, admiration... All directed at other men. Also, the greatest example of this is some gay men. Do you know how mysoginistic they can get? It's a lot. Many man simply put up with women in exchange of sex, and don't really enjoy them or their company.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:27 AM
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I understand how that sounds, but it's just how it is in my opinion. I personally don't know any regular, straight men who actually admires women other than their mothers. You know, professionally, or ethically, or anything like it. Men don't usually look up to women, or seek women for advice, or try to learn from women. And definitely don't respect women (hence why they apologize to the boyfriend when they unknowingly hit on a taken girl). However, I agree with you. Gay men are very happy (if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:12 PM
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Honestly, most men are just simply heterosexual and that's it. Their affection, friendship, admiration, companionship, love... It's all for other men. See how a man treats an "unfuckable" woman and there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:55 AM
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Men: *rape, kill, violate and brutalize for centuries 21th century women: I guess men make me uncomfortable Men: why are women so MEAN????
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:59 PM
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Honestly? House parties. Be friends with fun and sociable people. Get invited to their events (birthdays, get togethers, etc). There you will meet more people, and some of them will be women. It's the safest, uncreepiest and best way to approach and get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:50 AM
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I don't think these are the same women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:49 AM
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I'm not talking about taking care of kids specifically, I'm talking about caretaking in general. Such as, taking care of a diseased parent or spouses. My personal experience (I'm a physician): in male inpatient wards, every male patient has female family caretaker (usually wife, but sometimes mother or daughter). And every female patient has a female family caretaker. It's VERY, VERY rare for the husband, father or son to be there. I had this patient some years ago, and elderly woman who unfortu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:11 PM
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That's okay, you're not obligated to be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:04 PM
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This. Men are HORRIBLE caretakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:03 PM
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Of course, that's what marriage is. Also, I chose my career in order to never worry about this. I work with the mindset that I have to support us both. If my partner decided they don't want to work anymore, that's a-okay. I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:02 PM
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I chose to get married after I got into an ugly car accident and came out whole. I've been with my now wife for over 10 years and I always thought marriage was some silly paper burocratic thing. However the idea of being badly hurt, intubated in a hospital bad, and my partner in life NOT being able to come and go and not being able to decide for me if I go comatose of something like that... Formal marriage makes the government and every institution understand that she is my family. We care for e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:14 AM
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I'm female and I had a relationship when I was younger. I was fucking 14 years old and the guy was 22 years old. 8 isn't that big of a difference, right? And in my country it was within the legal age of consent. At the time I thought it was normal, and all my friends also did. I felt special because this older guy thought I was different and smart for my age. It lasted for about a year and (thankfully) never evolved to anything physical because I never allowed, although he did pressure me. Now I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:48 PM
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After the 30s, honestly, age gaps don't mean anything. Before that, however... What does a 30 year old man has in common with a fresh out of highschool 18 year old girl, aside from wanting to bang her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:20 AM
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"hurrrr men direct and simple, women mysterious and deep" It's like you guys never interacted with men Most men I know are: gossipy, passive agressive, way too emotional and terrible communicators (the kind that says "I'm fine" when clearly there's something wrong) Also, what's even the point of dating if you have to act all different with the person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:07 AM
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In which world do you live? Brazil, for example, has more than 320 thousand kids with no paternal registry at birth. The dudes don't even show up at birth to sign the docs. This or the rape cases. Men can opt out of parenthood any time they want, it's very hard for you to see someone mistreat or judge a man doesn't participate in his kid's life. How many friends of yours have no mothers/never knew their moms? How many friends of yours had no fathers? In my group of closest friends, out of 8, onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:28 AM
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Then again, don't you think you're pushing the blame into the wrong party? Men don't come with neon warnings exposing that they're crappy. People can be deceiving and present themselves as good and caring at first, and then reveal themselves to be bad. Why are we angrier at the person who trusted and got deceived than the person who did the deceiving and ran from responsability? Don't you think that a man who bails on his own child and the child's mother is a piece of shit? Why doesn't he stay a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:21 PM
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They're wrong to disagree, then. No one owes romantic/sexual validation to anyone, nor relationships. What I Do agree with is that it's bad that some men berate single mothers for "being wh*res", "used goods" and stuff like that, when we don't see the same judgement for me who chose to leave their child's mothers single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:44 PM
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Except... They don't? Men don't "have to" handle anyone's kids. If we're being honest, it's not unusual that they chose not to handle their own, lol. It's not wrong to refuse to date single parents. Guys who don't want to date single mothers are not wrong or evil or whatever: it's a choice like any other. Just don't put it like it seems that the world is pressuring men into accepting kids that aren't theirs... If there's one thing society's good at, it's accepting males not taking responsibility…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:34 AM
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Zero. But that's probably because I'm homosexual lol Women, though... I see extremely attractive women daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:40 AM
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I don't know if this is a straight thing... But I'm a lesbian and I can't even BEGIN to understand what pleasure exists in having sex with someone who doesn't absolutely wants to bone you with all their might I mean, if I sense that my wife isn't 1000% down (which, thankfully, is pretty often), I don't want it. I don't want someone to "push through it and take one for the team" to give me sexual gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:33 AM
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I don't mind porn as in I don't mind my partner seeking sexual gratification in watching other (unknown) people having sex. This is totally fine, I don't see the issue But I do mind porn in the same way I mind sex work: I'm against it. And yeah, don't give me the freedom bullcrap: of course they're (at least most, I hope) adults and are doing it by choice. But if this "choice" was so dope, more educated, rich women would be doing it. It's male on female abuse made for profit. This is my stance a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:09 AM
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I can be as horny as I am, I'm NOT going to a dark room to rub myself on strangers. It's not about libido. It's about what kind of thing men and women find appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:38 PM
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Good thing a single person's opinion doesn't represent truth or majority of cases
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:26 PM
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I see your point, but I wouldn't say milder. I'm a lesbian and god, if what I feel about women is mild, god forbid it ever gets stronger Just like straight men, I feel a rush, excitement and horniness when I interact with a woman I find attractive I think the difference about being predatory and aggressive, which is a testosterone trait, and about men being way more responsive to visual stimulus (hence why you see women liking erotica novels more than porn) But don't call it mild, it makes it se…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:11 PM
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I'm a lesbian. Yes, it's very, VERY different. Of course, I love tits, ass and all things female as much as the next lezzie around. But... Think of gay men: there's a reason why you have gay saunas and gay dark rooms, but you don't have... Lesbian saunas. Ever heard about lesbian orgy? Lesbians taking PrEP (preventive HIV medicine) just so they can fuck strangers bareback? Or like straight men do, do you see lesbians seeking prostitutes? No. That's a man thing. Men's sexuality is like that. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:05 PM
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I don't know if I classify as an anti natalist, but by definition, I guess so 1) You're kinda right, since my ideal society includes medium-high taxes and good, complete public services. I like the idea of Not having to pay privately for healthcare, medicine, schooling and such. And while I thing is inhumane to let someone die because they can't afford insulin (god, the USA is so messed up)... Yeah, it's the country's social contract and the person should have prepared better. 2) I fully support…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:44 PM
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I unironically think it's imoral to bring children into this world People have children for selfish reasons. A child cannot consent into being pushed to a life of suffering as a wage slave struggling to make ends meet. We are all miserable. It's a horrible thing to bring another miserable being to this life in a attempt to make ourselves feel a little less miserable. This world is dying and our resources are finite. I love my unborn child so much that I don't want them to live a life in this wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:37 AM
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The fact that people have to literally practice and master the science of picking up girls, or that they have to deal with basal sex differences (men are polygamous, women are hypergamous) seems pretty complicated to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:43 PM
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I'm a woman with a high N-count and this doesn't bother me. But that may be because I never want to get married and I don't want any LTR. The only thing I want from men is ocasional sex: I don't even like their friendship However I understand how it may cause some jealousy if you have feelings for the person, specially if they are much more experienced than you are If you both share the same amount of experience it just doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:41 PM
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Exactly the same way they treat other men. I HATE it when men treat me differently or "nicer" because I'm a woman. But I'm lesbian, so I may be biased about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:07 PM
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I'm a female physician/medical doctor and this is pretty true. Most of my male doctor friends date women with less intellect-demanding jobs, but they're all very pretty. Some of them are trophy wives. As a lesbian, I think straights are really weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:20 PM
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There's a difference between being aware and being bitterly traumatized
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 11:29 PM
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Me too
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 11:28 PM
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But man, do you really feel ruled by woman? How?
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 11:28 PM
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You may be right
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 11:10 PM
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But that's the thing. Men talking among themselves, in my world, means football, food, movies, books, science, and sometimes women. And, well, most of us are straight, so we kinda... Like them. This subreddit seems incredibly traumatized
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 11:09 PM
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I mean, all I see are prints of really stupid and obnoxious women. Which I get, they exist. Shitty people are everywhere. But is it really the core of our existence? To be persistently pissy about shitty women?
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 11:05 PM
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This Life is very pleasant this way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:07 AM
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But how about... Men start supporting each other emotionally, like women do to each other?
/r/MGTOW09/05/20 11:45 PM
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