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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Separation		theblair8	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/26 02:35 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Separation Amen. agree with all of this. I’ve learned and grown so much. Sometimes people grow apart, and that’s okay. I think i’ll be able to accept that one day	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/26 02:25 AM
2	Separation Oh absolutely. I’ve only just started therapy and honestly probably going to switch to a different one because i’m just not sure i’m a great fit with this one. I want someone more engaged and picking my brain. I’m giving it a few more sessions but I do like having them. It’s nice to talk about, everything. Luckily we have no kids, no property and only one very small shared account. I have constantly conformed to whatever it is my partner wanted to do. Silenced my true feelings. They are a very o…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/26 04:06 PM
1	Separation You’re right, it definitely wasn’t just that. This entire relationship was just a speed run of how to do everything the wrong way. I could write a book on what not to do in a relationship. Ultimately, I didn’t listen to my own advice. I tried to fit a round peg in a square hole. I constantly put my needs to the side and silenced my own opinion or feelings. I didn’t speak up. Even when I could, I chose not too. I dug my own grave in a lot of ways, but I know it wasn’t just me. I can’t pinpoint on…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/26 12:46 AM
1	Separation definitely need to do these things. Thank you for your response!	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/26 11:22 PM
2	Separation last part is really well said and i’ll need to read it a few times over for it to fully click. It’s easy to put so much blame on your self.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/26 11:21 PM

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