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The eyes are the window to the soul. His eyes just showed an empty void inside. No soul, no empathy. Recipe for at least abuse, possibly/probably eventual murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:59 AM
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That red living room Yankee Candle 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:09 PM
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I’ve seen it a fair amount where a woman has had great oral health her whole life, then she starts dating someone, and suddenly she starts developing gum disease and cavities ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:55 PM
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(Dental professional) I have to not think about how I go to perfectionist lengths with my infection control to keep my patients safe from other patients' bacteria, and then my patients go and kiss dirty men's mouths 😭😭🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:01 PM
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It's hilarious because these type of men are the biggest cowards in the dental chair. I've had male patients moan and scream and cry when getting dental work done, ironically they have a ton of tattoos in sensitive places. LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:54 PM
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I'm personally not convinced about oil pulling in terms of cleanliness or whitening results, but many of my patients have reported decreased sensitivity after oil pulling with coconut oil. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:50 PM
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I recommend Cocofloss and a WaterPik to my patients :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:48 PM
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Dental professional here, yes totally agree with you! Fruits and vegetables, and other foods high in fiber, will help scrub your teeth as you chew and eat them, which helps keep them clean! People (but I've seen this mostly in men) who eat primarily meat, breads, cheese, and beer and generally keep a low fiber diet and also don't brush and floss their teeth will develop really stinky, toxic biofilm in their mouths. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:43 PM
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Hold up. "I'm not seeking a fling" and "anyone looking for a fuck buddy please look elsewhere" "You should be disease free and open to regular testing" dOn'T wOrRy, I don't want sex, haha jk, I definitely am going to rape you on camera 🤡 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:50 PM
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Dude admitted to reading her private journal in a different post: "she left her journal at her desk and I might have read through it." Very, very few things excuse reading a person's journal. What a scum clown 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:33 AM
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I could not believe the two women continued to give him money after they saw him going out with Polina! While I have very little sympathy for women who do stupid things for even a faithful man, I have no sympathy for women who do stupid things for a cheater! JFC!! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:13 AM
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I only specified male friend because we were never romantically involved like in OP’s post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:44 AM
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A male friend took me to surgery a few years ago. He thought going to the car dealership to buy a car was more important than driving me home, so he left me there. I told him to get the fuck out of my life forever and he went whining to our mutual friends about how I chewed him out. No fucks given. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:49 AM
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We know men like this exist. I don't think we need this plastered all over the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:19 PM
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Good point. Thanks.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:42 AM
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Perfectly fine with the mods deleting it if not allowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:39 AM
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News article: https://denver.cbslocal.com/2022/02/01/matthew-harris-arrested-boulder-former-ucla-instructor/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:17 AM
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Their masturbation habits are worthy of privacy but women’s photos aren’t? What the hell 🤡🎪🎠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:47 PM
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The frozen TV dinners😂😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 12:46 AM
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Truth. Part of why I don’t want kids, especially boys! 👎🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:35 PM
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🤚🤚🤚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:28 PM
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ha hA gIvE hIm tImE 😂 lOl aWwWw 🤮 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:50 PM
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Sounds like he needs to break up with himself. Any/all interpretations welcome 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:29 PM
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I recently discovered this film as well and love it! I think Boldwood is also pretty HV, especially when he protected Bathsheba by shooting Francis when he was abusing her, even at great personal risk as it landed him in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:24 PM
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Dammit Kevin🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 03:08 AM
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This gave me a much-needed laugh. Bless you💙😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:06 PM
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Lmaoooo dead I can’t 😂😭⚰️🪦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:58 PM
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Right? Literally no one, nobody, cares what you think Derrick 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:56 PM
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I don’t have an award to give you, so you get this one 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🥇🥇🥇🥇 Having dealt with abusive and demoralizing family members, this distinction has been so, so important for me to keep an objective lens on things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:18 PM
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Scheduling sex? Not how things work😂 May as well schedule certain times of day to feel certain emotions lol I’m speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:11 PM
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I didn’t have to read any further than “AITA for not defending my wife…” Automatic yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:47 PM
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Spot on. 😂😂😭🤣⚰️🪦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:14 AM
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Happy cake day!! 🍰🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:58 AM
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It’s harmful because it’s men trying to gaslight women into thinking “wearing lingerie and dancing like a stripper” is inherently in our nature, when it’s not. A way to blame women for their own sick view of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:57 AM
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Having been on the receiving end of this clownery: “Acting like a princess” translation: Family is highly insecure, they see the girl showing a level of self-care and class that they don’t have themselves, and they get jealous and angry at her. It’s an incredibly immature reaction that involves a lot of selfish narrative crafting. These types of low value families will work to bring you down and destroy you instead of learning from you and benefiting from your knowledge. It’s totally backwards. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:10 AM
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Happy Cake Day!!🍰🧁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:53 PM
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Look at all those islands you jumped to get to that conclusion. Yikes girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:29 PM
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I saw this original post! I saved this to my computer just for the satisfaction of dragging it to the trash bin. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:32 PM
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You get the best username award. 🥇👸🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:48 PM
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Dang. I clumsily tripped over rocks twice while walking with a guy recently, and he instinctually put his arm over me to make sure I was okay. There was not even a split second of hesitation. Green flag💚 Things like this are so informative!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:49 PM
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“Women are not aware about what suffering means”?? Show me a man who has gone through childbirth, until then, boy bye LOL.✌️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:48 AM
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That clown is massively narcissist and spiritually ignorant to think that his sexist judgmental thoughts about a stranger's pregnancy test qualify as "prayers." 🤡 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:48 PM
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This is vile. F*** Clearview AI and its male founders/owners to hell. If this ever leads to the abuse or death of one woman, I hope they get killed by their own creation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:41 PM
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Same here. Satan must be making entire runs of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:15 PM
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"Certainly not me, except when I need to use her as a scapegoat!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:21 AM
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cAn wE pLeAsE jUsT TAAAAAALK -my nvm ex, who is some incarnation of this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:14 AM
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This 💯% describes my past male friends! They take and take and take but then bitch and moan about how they nEeD iNdEpEnDeNcE when the woman expects any friendship in return!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:32 PM
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This made me spit out the water I was drinking hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:02 AM
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My NVM ex did something similar. After I broke up with him, he kept begging me with lines like "please, I just want to talk, please" Like, oh, NOW you want to talk? After ignoring me and my thoughts, feelings, and preferences for the entire relationship? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:50 PM
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Username checks out. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:52 PM
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Exactly! Sounds like he never even picks up a book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:48 PM
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Women are "intangible objects." That's some deep philosophy right there. Lmao. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:45 PM
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This ain’t marriage. 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:32 PM
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Oh god. This is 100% my mother, PickMe BoyMom from hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:15 AM
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This perfectly describes a male ex-friend who knew like 9 languages fluently, who broke my heart back in my pickme days because he had no empathy or friendship skills. I adored him because I thought he knew everything. LOL thank god I leveled up from that nonsense. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:27 PM
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Highly recommend 😒 for your side eye emoji needs. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:08 AM
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Just another copypasta. Highly doubtful she wrote that herself. At least here at FDS we can articulate our beliefs in our own words. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:04 AM
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Man ban!! Love it!! 🥰 😂 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:50 AM
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Feeling very down. Struggling with a physical therapist's office run by a bunch of pickme "boss babe" women who have lied to me and cheated me out of therapy that I paid for. These women are silencing and pushing down other women who work there. They 'permanently closed my case' because I called them out on their bs. I'm so sad by what I'm seeing. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:43 AM
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I haven’t had LASIK but I have tried the punctal plugs for dry eye. I do not recommend them. Besides being ineffective for very dry eye (tears evaporate before they can drain into the punctum) they kept falling out. Big $$ every time I had them re-inserted. I just gave up after a while. Warm/hot compresses are the way to go, they’re far more effective!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:54 AM
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Women should extend this into real life. Joined FDS mid-relationship? Boyfriend giving you text essays when you say you don’t wan’t to tolerate porn/Instagram girls/OnlyFans anymore? Dump, block, and delete. Don’t engage with LVM essays at any stage of knowing someone, whether he’s a Reddit stranger or someone you’ve known intimately for years. Text essays are so much more difficult to read, process, and respond to than a phone call or in-person conversation, and guys know this. Text essays are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:40 AM
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That is heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:20 PM
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I work in dentistry. I recently started going back to school, so I transitioned from a full-time position to a very much part-time, work-as-needed basis for a temp agency that allows me to work at tons of different offices. I can't tell you how many women I've run into who I know, so I say something along the lines of, "Oh I know you, did you used to work at XYZ office?!" I have gotten SO many responses along the lines of "Yep. Couldn't stand the toxic/abusive male dentist anymore. Ran away." Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:23 AM
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That's why I said "In MY experience."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:30 PM
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I wholeheartedly disagree about the "men who have sisters and are close with them tend to be more family-oriented and wholesome" part. In my experience, the sisters of my ex bfs always been pickmeishas who react with distrust and hatred toward me, for seemingly ridiculous reasons ("she used TWO bath towels when visiting instead of ONE. She thinks she's such a princess!") They created stupid drama and fights to push me out. They knew they couldn't say that they didn't want another woman to compet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:07 AM
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Thinking about the most recent podcast about Disney princesses... The prince treated that old lady/enchantress, someone who he is most definitely not attracted to, like total garbage. How, in WHAT universe, would the prince treating a woman who he IS attracted to well (and he didn't even do that), be enough to redeem him? The story makes no sense. The curse was supposed to teach him how to perceive inner beauty and somehow the story becomes about Belle's ability to see inner beauty instead? Ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:06 PM
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This right here! Boundaries👏🏼are👏🏼more👏🏼important👏🏼!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:11 PM
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Yep. The word choice is extremely intentional, to make it seem innocent and inconsequential when it's anything but. There is so much harm and trauma possibly involved that it cannot be considered mere "play."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:07 PM
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