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Definitely living my best life. It's been three years since he ran away with his 21 year old affair partner. He has a new victim now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 11:55 PM
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XH and I were driving in the car to go to dinner. I was happily talking about charting my cycle and how my raised temps meant we might finally be successful in conceiving this month. He yelled at me that I was ruining the experience for him by turning it into a science experiment. The next day, I had a positive pregnancy test. From then on, any emotion I expressed about pregnancy or motherhood was met with annoyance and disdain. That was ‘my thing’ and why would I bother him about it? About half…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 11:06 PM
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My ex-husband abandoned me (and our baby) for a girl ten years younger. Who did all the legwork and paid every dollar for the lawyer to divorce us? Me. Who had to chase him for months to sign the divorce papers? Me. Who was the only one that turned up to the divorce hearing? Me. He knew how disgusted I was with the way he acted and how much I wanted to get away from him, so he made it as difficult as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:29 PM
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Oh hey it's literally all the things my cheating ex-husband said as he was leaving me for a girl ten years younger while I was home caring for our baby. Spoiler alert: they broke up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:07 AM
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I can't hold it together when Moana sings to Te Ka at the end for this reason. It's such a beautiful, symbolic, encompassing moment. My nearly four year old son watches this movie often and I literally cry every time. Thankfully, my tears have generated several positive and thoughtful but age-appropriate conversations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:36 PM
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Dana Scully in the earlier seasons of The X-Files. Actually, most of the characters played by Gillian Anderson tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:18 AM
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I always thought it was Dump That Mother Fucking Asshole. Depends how spicy you feel, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:54 AM
42

Petition to make 'thats herassment' a post flair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:51 AM
179

Not because he loved her, though, only because she propped him up, made him respectable, and contributed to his entire persona. He loved what she did for him and how she made him look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:55 AM
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It's not choking. It's strangulation. One is internal, one is external.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:05 AM
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https://www.chumplady.com/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:15 AM
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Oh, men definitely do leave. However she's now gotta live with the fact that she won a man who's proven he'll dump and run when a better option comes along. Couldn't live with that anxiety. Could not be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:41 AM
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At least $10k spent on the divorce that he initiated (but refused to participate in or pay for) by running off with another woman. $65k to buy him out of our shared property. $10k to refurnish the house with things he took and upgrade things he destroyed. $25k to tear down and rebuild dodgy outdoor construction he organised. It all came out in the wash, I have a six figure job and half a mil mortgage and I'm doing fine. But I consider all of that money stolen from our three year old son's future…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:13 AM
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I remember once telling my XH that I felt like I craved his company but didn't get the same feeling from him in return. He just shrugged. Then I asked why he loved me. He couldn't think of anything except "you cook for me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:20 AM
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I'm sure there are exceptions, but I no longer believe that men respect women they have sex with. And love can't exist without respect. It's sad, but it's that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:17 AM
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My XH started an affair sometime between me getting pregnant and our baby turning one, when he left to be with the other woman. He blamed me, saying we hadn't had good sex in two years. The same period of time it took me to gestate and birth an infant, recover physically and mentally, before even taking a moment to breathe. Three days after giving birth, I sat in the baby's room rocking him to sleep with tears rolling down uncontrollably my face. XH walked in, handed me a list of chores, and sai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:18 AM
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XH left me and our baby nearly two years ago. Today actually would have been our fifth wedding anniversary. It means nothing and I feel nothing except peace and contentment and gratitude. I'm grateful that it happened and I'm grateful that it's over. It sucks sharing a young child with an NPD individual, but in every other way life is unimaginably better divorced. I had to organise it all, pay for it all, and in the end take him to court because he refused to sign the paperwork, but it was all w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:50 AM
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Yep, and he took out all that pent up misogynistic rage on the woman who portrayed her in real life. That's some real pathological shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:27 AM
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Idk if 'ploy' was a typo but it's incredibly apt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:47 PM
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Honestly the worst part of this is being twenty minutes late because you stopped to get a fucking iced coffee. Respect for other people: nah Fuck everyone else as long as you're happy: hell ye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:26 AM
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The Wife Drought by Annabel Crabb is a good book on this topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:36 AM
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Proudly divorced at 32 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:05 AM
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My first boyfriend/sexual partner told me he didn't want to go down on me because I had 'an infection'. I freaked out. Took suppositories, used hygiene wipes, went on a candida diet for years, all because this 20-year old small-dicked spoon-chested uni-dropout was 'grossed out' by vaginal discharge. Spoiler: my vagina was completely normal and I married him anyway. Don't be like me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:39 AM
21

It's short for Chester 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:10 AM
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Trapportunity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:47 AM
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I'm not trauma-bonded to my lying, cheating, abusive manchild XH two years out, thanks to a tonne of proactive therapy, but I'll take the chance to excoriate him nonetheless. Had surface relationships with everyone in his life (including me after eight years together). He was nobody's best friend despite having lots of them. Wouldn't return his mother's phone calls. Was a total blowhard who inserted himself into any conversation as a know-it-all when he knew nothing. Judged with scorn anyone he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:10 PM
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Your last point... My XH said this when he punched a wall after losing a video game 🥴 "Anger is just how I express my emotions. It's the same as you crying." "Me crying doesn't scare you though." "So now you're gonna make me feel bad about it?" "I just don't want to deal with it, so I'm taking the baby to my parents' house." "Wow, you're really going to make them think that I'm a bad guy?" "I just don't want me or our son around that type of behaviour." "There are two people in this relationship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:27 AM
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May I please have a code?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:57 PM
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My ex was physically incapable of growing chest hair and could only manage mild goatee and cheek patches. But below the waist he was fucking Sasquatch. Worst of both worlds 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:28 PM
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Yes, the physical issues! I had chronic sinusitis for years, starting from the year I got with my XH. What a coinkidink! Been single for two years and have had maybe one or two mild infections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:04 AM
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Reminds me of our son’s first birthday when both me and XH came down with gastro. He was crying on the bathroom floor begging me to take him to the hospital because he was literally dying. Meanwhile I was lying in bed, employing the same techniques I used to get through labour, gritting my teeth and coaching him through his pain while trying not to vomit and shit myself simultaneously. WE HAD THE EXACT SAME ILLNESS. Men are weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:07 AM
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He also wants kids someday 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:51 AM
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Is he 12?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:21 AM
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Oh yes, the divorced single dad who wore a turtleneck under his suit jacket. What a winner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:01 PM
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Yeah, this was my ex-husband to a tee. He got angry at me for reminding him things would change after the baby was born. He did end up leaving me (for another woman) shortly after our baby's first birthday. Said he missed his easy life of video games and motorbikes and freedom. Also said I should applaud him for having the courage to leave. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:29 AM
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First sentence had me belly laughing, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:00 AM
14

...okbye 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:03 AM
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Amiruuuuuudh lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:19 AM
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My son's father makes $90k a year and pays $720 a month. They calculate it based on share of care here and he has zero, so he pays the maximum. Tried to get out of paying it, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:11 AM
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Like all abuse, rape is about entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:49 AM
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sex work is monogamy/marriage without all the positive perks Hot take: monogamy/marriage is sex work without the income
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:28 AM
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Hot take: Amy did nothing wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:45 AM
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If memory serves correctly, he was charged with assault in 2015 for participating in a violent hazing incident at a college fraternity where a man was dragged around by the genitals with a hammer and lit on fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:42 AM
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Unfortunately, Jon Hamm is trash IRL as well. It is a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:35 AM
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Disgusting. Men tend to be opportunists who are only as loyal as their best option. The silver lining in all this is how the scales have fallen from my eyes and I'm raising my son to be better in his father's absence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:49 AM
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This was my XH too, except he did leave me and our one year old baby for her, saying I wasn't the wife he deserved. Just over a year later, I saw him on Tinder. Heh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:24 AM
82

You forgot Don Draper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:16 AM
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Unless they dip for a different woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:53 AM
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Any time a Man is required to reflect upon his actions and evaluate his actions effects in others with out having a woman coddle and hold his hand through this task they lose their fucking minds. Yes, this. Why is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:17 AM
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Oh Jesus, the flashbacks. Thank Christ for divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:13 AM
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Wait! What if there's an explanation for this shit? (What? She tripped? Fell? Landed on his dick?) Eminem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:38 AM
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Spoon-chested, I'm wheezing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:24 AM
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Single mother in her 30s here with 4,280 likes on Tinder alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:29 AM
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Three months AFTER my XH left me, but before he officially decided he wanted a divorce, I gave him a $300 custom framed professional print of him and his motorbike for his birthday. Unbeknownst to me, dude was fucking his 21 year old coworker while I worked full-time, cared for our 1 year old baby on my own, and tried to cope with the fact my husband had left me out of the blue. Please erase this memory from my mind 🤡 ETA years ago we discussed getting engaged and he hinted that he'd do it befor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:53 AM
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Queen of the Clowns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:56 AM
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My ex-husband did this. Took me four months to figure it out. Ugh, I was so stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:38 PM
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Alternate reality Jessa Duggar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:26 PM
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Can I grab a copy please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:42 AM
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I burst out laughing. The italics make this chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:26 AM
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