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I agree with what you said in the first part. But is this the only reason that a relationship lasts long? Or asked differently, is every relationship that lasts long automatically a good one?
/r/ExRedPill15/02/26 02:20 PM
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Maybe one thing to ask yourself is how to rate relationships? Is a long relationship always automatically a sign that it's a better/more successful relationship? What is the purpose of a relationship? What makes a relationship good?
/r/ExRedPill15/02/26 01:11 PM
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Oh. Thanks for pointing this possibility out, didn't cross my mind!
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 02:05 PM
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Why does it matter?
/r/ExRedPill07/10/25 03:38 PM
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Care to elaborate a bit more about the situation?
/r/ExRedPill09/09/25 06:44 PM
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How old are you? Were all your relationships negative experiences where you got played etc? How long did those last? What kind of women did you date? How did you choose them? What and how did that woman laugh at you? Have you tried therapy? Do you have female friends or generally women you are close to (sister, mother, aunt, cousin, neighbors...)?
/r/ExRedPill07/09/25 02:56 PM
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We all fall into that trap. Usually over and over again. Also, a lot of places in the internet are designed to elicit fear or other strong emotions in people, because that's what keeps them engaged and clicking on new content. Just try to keep that in mind and you cognitive distortions in check.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/25 08:13 PM
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Do you have any reason to believe your current partner is repulsed by you? Based on her actions, not based on statistics and studies.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/25 06:47 PM
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I couldn't read the whole thing cause I don't have access, so can't comment on everything, but: that women like men with high dark triad traits. Not women as a whole, but the 128(!) women who participated in the study. Not 'like' but rate them as more attractive. Not sure what that means exactly, attractive for what? Sex? Relationship? Finding someone attractive doesn't always mean that you like them, that you want to have sex with them and if you do engage with them sexually that it will be a g…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/25 06:45 PM
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I can't speak to those numbers but when talking about the topic of "are sex and relationships harder for men than women" it's absolutely vital to keep in mind that somebody having sex sooner or more than somebody else doesn't say ANYTHING about the quality and circumstances of sex. Same goes for relationships but in this comment I will only focus on sex. I do believe it is easier for women to get random, meaningless sex. But good sex? Sex with a safe person? I don't think so. As many have pointe…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/25 03:07 PM
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To answer your question, yes it is very possible to manage relationships with OCD. It's definitely harder than when none of the people in the relationships have mental health conditions but it's not impossible. So you've tried CBT and it didn't work. I would recommend looking into so-called bottom-up or body-based approaches like EMDR, somatic therapy and such. What was your childhood like? Any baggage from that time that you're still carrying with you?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 05:37 PM
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I have a friend, male, with a kind and slightly goofy face (I wouldn't call it conventionally very attractive but it was not unattractive) but a body height of around 5'5. When he was single in his late twenties he was extremely successful using apps and hitting on girls irl, despite his height (he used to live in an European country where he was shorter than quite a lot of women). He was very charismatic, confident, ambitious, funny and didn't take himself too seriously. His height didn't seem …
/r/ExRedPill28/04/25 10:38 AM
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I tried applying some ideas suggested in red pill content—specifically the ones I considered healthy and reasonable. And women actually responded in the way those ideas predicted. I did the same with the blue pill mindset, and it didn’t work the same way. Could you give us some concrete examples for both?
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 10:31 AM
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What kind of investigation do you mean? I’m kinda happy(?) to see Sadia Khan’s name mentioned in this sub. I watch a lot of mental health and relationship focused videos so her content was suggested to me multiple times so I watched a few videos. Was intrigued at first cause she seems sophisticated and very sure of what she’s saying, but then very quickly got the ick. Didn’t think about her much after, just ignored her content whenever the algorithm suggested her until she vanished from my feed.…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/25 08:04 PM
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they do have it easier What do you mean by that? Easier regarding what? Getting laid? Getting a relationship? Not being alone?
/r/ExRedPill26/03/25 07:24 PM
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