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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | NVM old FWB sends his friends on witch hunt via tinder: build a bridge and get over it, I didn’t intentionally match your friends.I can literally tell by their locations on tinder that NVM and friends #1 & #2 were together 🤣💀 by the way, I’ve never hung out with either of his friends FYI: they were also unaware of my existence even though NVM and I knew each other for three years. So 🤷🏻♀️ I don’t owe him loyalty, and they’re acting like I dated the guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?lmfao burn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Met this 32 yr old’s female roommate at a party. She said he was “weird” and into “really young HS age girls” - this is the type of shit that makes me so mad!Update: his reply “ there would always be younger people” ..... 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 26 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?Apparently that’s a f-boy tactic they use to subtly devalue you and lower your self-esteem. I was in an undefined FWB for three years and the guy never once complimented my appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:12 PM |
| 3 | WHY FUCKBOYS & PLAYERS WILL NEVER MAKE YOU THEIR GFIn my experience, these are all true! They only thing is fuck boys won’t commit regardless which is where they get their name from. I was seeing a dude for two months ( even mentioned him in a comment on here 🤡) - he was respectful, kind, punctual, and even bought me a few small gifts. I waited two months to see if he was the real deal, he never brought up 🚩🚩🚩exclusivity, so I decided it would be best to be straight up and ask: “ just out of curiosity since we never talked about this.. are you s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:07 PM |
| 81 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?1) “I looked at your old Facebook pics and I have question to ask, .... how’d you gain all that weight?” ( I was 15 in the photos and was 20 at the time LOL) 2) “ Do you think you’re fat?” .... me: “ no” .... him “ oh yeah you’re healthy fat” ( in person, didn’t ask buddy) 3) “Cute double chin, do you have a muffin top to match it?” ( literally in person after this douche picked me up to hangout) 4) “You have a pretty face, but you need to lose a couple pounds” ( guy from tinder who gave his tot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 5 | TRP & FDS dating strategies only work a specific demographic of individuals.Not sure how old you are but generally speaking id say older people are more confident and less insecure because of life experience. In your early 20’s you’re just getting used to dating people and all of the BS that comes along with it. Due to social media and OLD it’s harder for both sexes to sustain a meaningful connection. I think it goes without saying that both men and women should have a life outside of their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/20 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic groupTruth bomb damn 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:08 AM |
| 1 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?sagittarius 💀💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:29 AM |
| 3 | People who had a "Glow Up", how did your life change, in general ?I have a totally different perception of myself now My ~glow up~ resulted from the actual process in and of itself. When I stopped making excuses for myself, and actually put in the necessary work to accomplish what I had initially set out to do, my life changed. Generally, this is how my life changed: 1) because I worked hard and achieved something I never thought I would, I am now confident in my abilities 2) because I’m confident in my abilities I don’t view myself as incompetent anymore 3) b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 02:45 AM |
| 14 | Never explain or negotiate your sexual boundaries- It's all LVM manipulationThis was so long ago, before I realized I was actin a fool. But this guy and I met for a drink 🤡 in the evening 🤡 he asked if I wanted to chat for awhile longer at his place.... just down the block....🤡 Anyways, I get there and he immediately goes for the kill. I said woah, I thought we were just enjoying each other’s company? He no lie, looks me dead in the face and says “since we met off tinder, I thought everyone knew what that meant” In my head I was like ...? two adult STRANGERS of the oppo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:03 AM |
| 8 | Girl drives from California to North Carolina for a guy she met off Bumble. He ghosts her as soon as she gets home.Okay I mean in theory that sounds solid, but in most people’s circumstances those requirements are unrealistic and in all honesty superficial. I agree, us woman should only entertain HVM alike! However none of those requirements mention other important attributes such as being kind, honest, generous, loyal, etc. I’ve gone on dates with professional men who would clear that amount of $$$, and while they may have met those requirements, they were still unkind, noncommittal, and had a massive ego. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 03:05 AM |
| 12 | Let’s discuss the difference between a slow moving relationship and one where he’s just not that into you ?I’ve been seeing this guy for a little over a month now, and there hasn’t been any obvious “red flags” except for the inevitable..hmmmm where is this going thought- Usually for me, the process of getting to know a guy during the first couple of weeks is awkward and cringe. BUT, with this guy it hasn’t felt like that at ALL. I know it doesn’t feel weird to me, because I needed this time to actually get to know him, and vet him. Every-time we see each other I feel like he opens up to me a little m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 31 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic groupThis! 👆🏻for some reason I’m not attracted to Caucasian men! No weird stuff going on here, just have a preference maybe? IDK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:57 AM |
| 2 | He might as well put up his resume. Someone loves himself a little too much...Yes *** that’s what I mean thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 42 | He might as well put up his resume. Someone loves himself a little too much...As a nurse I gotta say the MAJORITY of young physicians are jerks with an enormous ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:07 AM |
| 9 | Cut off “friend with benefits” of three years five months ago and he contacted me again - what’s his motive?Please don’t roast me too hard 🤣 I’m looking for advice or thoughts on the situation and/or if I should see him again- obviously I wouldn’t put up with any crap again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:21 PM |
| 19 | Feel like this dude is messing with me and trying to get me to ask HIM out?Had a dude do this too. Would ask me to hangout and then never make plans/ come up with excuses. He probably just wants attention- my advice would be to ignore him and stop wasting your energy on this LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 08:38 PM |
| 8 | Have you ever ended a relationship because you realized his Dreamgirl wasn’t you—it was an ex or one of his friends?Yep- four years later and my self-esteem is still recovering! Was 17 at the time and this guy was 21- we hung out every other day over the course of 4 months. I thought he was PEFECT for me!! He commented a lot on his ex-gf, how they were “meant to be” but the distance between them meant it would never work. He even told me they chatted on the phone etc. Anyways, three months in we hook-up for the first time and THIS MAN STARTS TO CRY!! After that horribly awkward event he asked me to meet up so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 15 | In the words of Amy Schumer “ I’m a 160 pounds and can catch a D whenever I want” Seriously though- it’s ok to have preferences but men can be so shallowJust meant that you can be over a UK size 8 and still be attractive to men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:49 PM |
| 28 | In the words of Amy Schumer “ I’m a 160 pounds and can catch a D whenever I want” Seriously though- it’s ok to have preferences but men can be so shallowTotally agree with you! I feel the same way! Like you said- a person can have standards without being a jerk about it. Most of the dudes that commented on my weight were from tinder! I had non-catfish full body pics and everything! You just can’t win with some of em . Kind of makes you wonder if they intentionally put down women to make themselves feel better and feed their ego 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:05 PM |
| 84 | In the words of Amy Schumer “ I’m a 160 pounds and can catch a D whenever I want” Seriously though- it’s ok to have preferences but men can be so shallowI’m 5’6 and size 10 and attract high caliber men that I find attractive. In general, I’ve never had a problem getting a date. However, I’ve noticed a pattern- any dudes who made comments about my weight were insecure LVM who had complexes. One guy even said “cute double chin, do u have a spare tire to match it” Like BRUH? Tell me your worst story below! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:48 PM |
| 7 | If you make the first move he will settle for you even if he thinks less of you🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 couldn’t have said it better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:42 AM |
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